FabSwingers.com forum: How far do you search ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does your 20 mile range seem quiet or lame sometimes ?

How far do you go in your search ?

Do ladies search and say the first hello too ?

Or ladies have more then enough in inbox to deal with ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

76.2 miles

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"76.2 miles"

Oh wow ….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

76.4 miles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"76.4 miles. "
damn you to heck

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We don’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't lie, I've changed the search country to Canada once or twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does your 20 mile range seem quiet or lame sometimes ?

How far do you go in your search ?

Do ladies search and say the first hello too ?

Or ladies have more then enough in inbox to deal with ? "

Within 5 miles and I don’t say hello first because I don’t fancy anyones profile who are within 5 miles hahaha maybe I should extend the search but I don’t drive and CBA. Not even sure why I’m here. I ignore meaaages, don’t send messages

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not very far. Or sometimes. Depends who.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't lie, I've changed the search country to Canada once or twice

I’ve been in Canada and done a search… the nearest swinger was 552 mikes away…

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I only meet people that live on the same street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep it within 10 miles....and then move about the country myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"76.2 miles"

Love what you did there

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

The mountain comes to Mohammed and not the other way round

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

I pretty much stick to 20miles but have been tempted to go a bit further as the West Mids seems a good area to try my luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't lie, I've changed the search country to Canada once or twice

I’ve been in Canada and done a search… the nearest swinger was 552 mikes away… "

Popular name in Canada I guess

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I drove 3 hours yesterday and done a 140 mile round trip to meet a woman at a pub of her choice.

Arrived bang on time. Messaged her to say I arrived. She read the message, didn't reply and I left after 20 minutes.

That my friends is why you should never MUG yourselves off and drive too far for some pussy. Stick to the local areas.

To say I was pissed off is an understatement (Angry Emoji)

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

I travel around for work anyway so I'm happy to hunt

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"I travel around for work anyway so I'm happy to hunt

Please do say hello, if you come down my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't lie, I've changed the search country to Canada once or twice

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& Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"76.2 miles

Love what you did there

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could you let me in on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as Manchester

Any further and it’s got to be something special

Ie a couple or a woman that a really wanted to meet

But Manchester is only a 3 hour train ride away

And Newcastle is only 1 hour and hafe away on the train

And be down and back the next day in time for Sunday dinner with parents not a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't lie, I've changed the search country to Canada once or twice

& Wales

It was a connecting flight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"76.2 miles

Love what you did there

could you let me in on it

Oh - ah - a coincidence and not a reference to the size of a man stopper then

My bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"76.2 miles

Love what you did there

could you let me in on it

Oh - ah - a coincidence and not a reference to the size of a man stopper then

My bad

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whats a man stopper

i must have missed that lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I won't lie, I've changed the search country to Canada once or twice

I done that years ago on POF ended chatting Brazilians ^^ was I would say … inspiring …

I believe , u never know , your other half may be in the other side … like in stranger things

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"76.4 miles. "

As well 70+ wow

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Generally stick to the 10miles range myself, chatted to a few people. who knows they might become meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does your 20 mile range seem quiet or lame sometimes ?

How far do you go in your search ?

Do ladies search and say the first hello too ?

Or ladies have more then enough in inbox to deal with ?

Awww bless , my 5 miles is very quiet .

But I’m a single male . I love the other side of the game …

Yeah , do it , open the range .

I am happy to pick up and drop back a lover .

So many others 100% will be …

Can’t accomodate + can’t travel is not a reason to don’t try go further .

U may find someone who u like and he likes u be up front up for it x x never know

I would . I done it before, I will do it again x x

Is not easy , maybe the regular be a bit less regular/ occasional … but when is worth it is worth it .

Worth a try I would say x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I drove 3 hours yesterday and done a 140 mile round trip to meet a woman at a pub of her choice.

Arrived bang on time. Messaged her to say I arrived. She read the message, didn't reply and I left after 20 minutes.

That my friends is why you should never MUG yourselves off and drive too far for some pussy. Stick to the local areas.

To say I was pissed off is an understatement (Angry Emoji) "

I hate Stood ups mates , I gone from Luton to Bedford , to hit with my nose in front door too .

It hurts the heart so much . I could never do that to anyone … and hurts the wallet to …

Think I had 4 stood ups in last 4 weeks

Wow , 140 miles , I would go if is a lady I really like yeah . 100% not just for pussy no .

that is a triple kick in the triangle , blind me and she knowing you putting so much effort …

This is what I ment about the rudes and the ignorants in the other thread . Ouch .

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon

"Does your 20 mile range seem quiet or lame sometimes ?

How far do you go in your search ?

Do ladies search and say the first hello too ?

Or ladies have more then enough in inbox to deal with ? "

Very. I have saved searches set at 20 , 40, 50, 70 & 100.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Does your 20 mile range seem quiet or lame sometimes ?

How far do you go in your search ?

Do ladies search and say the first hello too ?

Or ladies have more then enough in inbox to deal with ? "

Sir 5 miles due to the ridiculous amount of people in London. I search and I get messages from flipping Newcastle upon Tyne. I prefer people from my local area/borough as at least we can talk about the area if we have nothing else in common.

Yes I do search and say hello to a select few.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Generally stick to the 10miles range myself, chatted to a few people. who knows they might become meets."

Hey hey , sounding good … good luck

Hope u not taking over my 10 range territory

You Cheecky rascal

( only joking )

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"I drove 3 hours yesterday and done a 140 mile round trip to meet a woman at a pub of her choice.

Arrived bang on time. Messaged her to say I arrived. She read the message, didn't reply and I left after 20 minutes.

That my friends is why you should never MUG yourselves off and drive too far for some pussy. Stick to the local areas.

To say I was pissed off is an understatement (Angry Emoji) "

I'm so sorry. How rude of her!! I also don't want to disappoint men who commute really far and then we don't click!! If they are working in the area/London ok but I think people's and my time is precious.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

As far as the range of my magic flying carpet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does your 20 mile range seem quiet or lame sometimes ?

How far do you go in your search ?

Do ladies search and say the first hello too ?

Or ladies have more then enough in inbox to deal with ?

Yes I do search and say hello to a select few."

Cool . Yes in London must be mental …

I think we all gonna have to move back to London … is only 40,000 of us . Will make no much difference …

And beautiful ladies like you there text men as well ?

What area You live again ?

Only joking , I lived in London for 10 years xx

Mainly Tottenham n Hackney , but been everywhere .

If was driving me mad 6 years ago , now I don’t think would be any easier x x

X x

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"As far as Manchester

Any further and it’s got to be something special

Ie a couple or a woman that a really wanted to meet

But Manchester is only a 3 hour train ride away

And Newcastle is only 1 hour and hafe away on the train

And be down and back the next day in time for Sunday dinner with parents not a problem

I too planned my sex life on holiday around my elderly parents. Lol! Sadly more time spend with said elderly parents and less time in the sex life with beach escapes in between.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does your 20 mile range seem quiet or lame sometimes ?

How far do you go in your search ?

Do ladies search and say the first hello too ?

Or ladies have more then enough in inbox to deal with ?

Very. I have saved searches set at 20 , 40, 50, 70 & 100.

Wow … 100 …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really search well not very often and it's usually within 30 miles

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As far as Manchester

Any further and it’s got to be something special

Ie a couple or a woman that a really wanted to meet

But Manchester is only a 3 hour train ride away

And Newcastle is only 1 hour and hafe away on the train

And be down and back the next day in time for Sunday dinner with parents not a problem

I too planned my sex life on holiday around my elderly parents. Lol! Sadly more time spend with said elderly parents and less time in the sex life with beach escapes in between."

Uh uh beach ? I love beach … I’m a beach boy , west coast of Portugal … where you from ?

Take me …. I miss the beach … think everyone does now after pandemic x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't really search well not very often and it's usually within 30 miles "

I have been 20 , 30, 20 , 30 ….

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Does your 20 mile range seem quiet or lame sometimes ?

How far do you go in your search ?

Do ladies search and say the first hello too ?

Or ladies have more then enough in inbox to deal with ?

Yes I do search and say hello to a select few.

Cool . Yes in London must be mental …

I think we all gonna have to move back to London … is only 40,000 of us . Will make no much difference …

And beautiful ladies like you there text men as well ?

What area You live again ?

Only joking , I lived in London for 10 years xx

Mainly Tottenham n Hackney , but been everywhere .

If was driving me mad 6 years ago , now I don’t think would be any easier x x

X x

I swear there is a shag around every corner in London. I went to the A & E on a Saturday and this guy wanted to shag me when we were both ill. Lol!

London is not for the faint of heart. My little pocket area is very green and full of us outdoorsy types. cycling, dog walking, joggers, rowers, five a side footie and tennis. There's a few bowls for the elderly also.

Yes I do message men usually the ones that live nearby due to commonality of area.

I live in SW south of the river. Tottenham and Hackney and North Lond was never my style. I lived in North Harrow for a few months and I like it there also..again very green. Allotments and the like.

You have to be determined not to let London drive you mad. I live in a small flat with a decent landlord and I cycle to work. I work part time and use the rest of my time to slink around lidls and Aldis looking for bargains. I actually work weekends so I get an extra time and a half and I'm not drinking my life away in bars. My local pub is cheap drinking as half the neighbourhood is on benefits with kids. I treat the pub garden like my garden and the landlady has my spare key. Salt of the eart people.

I probably go down to Zone 1 once a week usually for some special item. I had to take my bike to Covent Garden to be fixed pre-summer.

So I feel less in the rat race of it all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I drove 3 hours yesterday and done a 140 mile round trip to meet a woman at a pub of her choice.

Arrived bang on time. Messaged her to say I arrived. She read the message, didn't reply and I left after 20 minutes.

That my friends is why you should never MUG yourselves off and drive too far for some pussy. Stick to the local areas.

To say I was pissed off is an understatement (Angry Emoji)

Chat more and video calls ?

I’m very shy at video calls … hate it , but love it cause u can see that lady n talk ^^

I think is a good way to brake the ice and find out if things go further when is a bit far just for a quick social x x

May help x x

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"As far as Manchester

Any further and it’s got to be something special

Ie a couple or a woman that a really wanted to meet

But Manchester is only a 3 hour train ride away

And Newcastle is only 1 hour and hafe away on the train

And be down and back the next day in time for Sunday dinner with parents not a problem

I too planned my sex life on holiday around my elderly parents. Lol! Sadly more time spend with said elderly parents and less time in the sex life with beach escapes in between.

Uh uh beach ? I love beach … I’m a beach boy , west coast of Portugal … where you from ?

Take me …. I miss the beach … think everyone does now after pandemic x x

The Caribbean is where I am. But I've been to Brighton for the day and a lot of my friends have just gotten out of London/Nottingham for the more off-the-beaten-track beaches. I went to some wonderful beaches in Cornwall which are not accessible to many people so they are rarely overcrowded. Apparently, Wales has the best beaches. The water is too cold in Scarborough, Northumberland.

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down

20 mile radius is ok. Any further and that’s pushing it. We prefer to accommodate so if people are willing to make the trip then let us know.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"I drove 3 hours yesterday and done a 140 mile round trip to meet a woman at a pub of her choice.

Arrived bang on time. Messaged her to say I arrived. She read the message, didn't reply and I left after 20 minutes.

That my friends is why you should never MUG yourselves off and drive too far for some pussy. Stick to the local areas.

To say I was pissed off is an understatement (Angry Emoji)

Chat more and video calls ?

I’m very shy at video calls … hate it , but love it cause u can see that lady n talk ^^

I think is a good way to brake the ice and find out if things go further when is a bit far just for a quick social x x

May help x x "

I've got everyone beat. I'm 4000 miles away and finally got some cock last Saturday. Lol! an hour to Heathrow and over 8 hours on a plane.

Too be fair, I was coming to see the parents( and paint the kitchen) and the beach anyway and I just segued in the FWB.

But I've known this person since we were both first formers and age 11/12. I'm older...lol!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"20 mile radius is ok. Any further and that’s pushing it. We prefer to accommodate so if people are willing to make the trip then let us know. "

If you are near a beach the OP will be in. They say Wales has the best beaches.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As far as Manchester

Any further and it’s got to be something special

Ie a couple or a woman that a really wanted to meet

But Manchester is only a 3 hour train ride away

And Newcastle is only 1 hour and hafe away on the train

And be down and back the next day in time for Sunday dinner with parents not a problem

I too planned my sex life on holiday around my elderly parents. Lol! Sadly more time spend with said elderly parents and less time in the sex life with beach escapes in between.

Uh uh beach ? I love beach … I’m a beach boy , west coast of Portugal … where you from ?

Take me …. I miss the beach … think everyone does now after pandemic x x

Can’t wait to visit Caribbean X I will one day xx

A friend of mine she has a secret beach in Santa Lusia . Would love go there x x

I like quiet beach away …

Denmark was like tropical , not as hot , was funny , Crystal quiet water ,could see every little fluff n little . Nearly no sand at all and right behind u , as u lay down on the sand , on other side of fences some cows … beach + farm thing going on …

Was so funny , fully naked and a few cows staring at you . Literally

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I drove 3 hours yesterday and done a 140 mile round trip to meet a woman at a pub of her choice.

Arrived bang on time. Messaged her to say I arrived. She read the message, didn't reply and I left after 20 minutes.

That my friends is why you should never MUG yourselves off and drive too far for some pussy. Stick to the local areas.

To say I was pissed off is an understatement (Angry Emoji)

Chat more and video calls ?

I’m very shy at video calls … hate it , but love it cause u can see that lady n talk ^^

I think is a good way to brake the ice and find out if things go further when is a bit far just for a quick social x x

May help x x

I've got everyone beat. I'm 4000 miles away and finally got some cock last Saturday. Lol! an hour to Heathrow and over 8 hours on a plane.

Too be fair, I was coming to see the parents( and paint the kitchen) and the beach anyway and I just segued in the FWB.

But I've known this person since we were both first formers and age 11/12. I'm older...lol!"

Naughty . Aww romantic .. nostalgic adventure

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"20 mile radius is ok. Any further and that’s pushing it. We prefer to accommodate so if people are willing to make the trip then let us know.

If you are near a beach the OP will be in. They say Wales has the best beaches."

Not necessarily Mon amie .

Moi Bouche c’est a la gash …

I don’t do Males I’m afraid …or MF couples so that is not a good start .

Very straight here , F , FF … pass the advert ^^

1o1, FFM that’s about it x x 102.47 FFM x x

“ Ring the alarm … need your loving .. cause I like big butts …. Oh oh oh-ho-ho here cames the Hammer “

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tried 200 miles once

. It just doubled my rejections after women saw how small I was. 5.5 inches is small on Fab, apparently. Really wish I knew that coming in

Please get some help bud. Take a break

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I was travelling from South Wales to Burnley for a meet. Only he backed out after I booked hotel and coach tickets.

So now, I'll keep it to no more than 1hr travel.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I tried 200 miles once

. It just doubled my rejections after women saw how small I was. 5.5 inches is small on Fab, apparently. Really wish I knew that coming in

I don’t believe that is the reason. not all of the ladies … u can’t judge all our ladies just cause u have a few 9+ lovers or a few “ BBC lovers”

Obviously them is a no , I don’t mind , leave it , cause some with the way they write things may not even be the right company for your vibe anyway …

Is not like u be missing much , talking for myself too …

I believe is about Chemistry , attraction of course … but is about getting on well .

But I very doubt many ladies , first question if they reply will be : is it less then 6 ? Oh fuck of then … I don’t believe that …

But if u keep moaning how short your nose is it may be a massive off putting … is unpleasant to read …

As well in those words you accusing the ladies to be Cock Mungie monsters … and you miss respecting them with your lyrics …

And I hate that . I don’t like a man who miss respects the woman .

Tho I understand your hanger of frustration .

But is not excuse to say woman all they want is a big knob …

You just make yourself a bigger knob then any 12+ you get the mathematic of it .

Call it rocket science if u like …

I always treat a lady with respect . And always say thank you to a rejection , as in there is the kindness and respect towards you . It hurts ? I know it does .it hurts a lot . But is beautiful to see they are nice and kind and beautiful

And I’m fully aware , if u read profiles u learn a lot , the majority of ladies want find chemistry , respect . In whatever they r looking for .

I do see any respect toward them in your words at all . You calling them names . I hate it .

I don’t believe you will achieve much chemistry acting like that …

Me personally I hated what I just read ….

So … maybe your calculation is not the right result for your equation xx

Thank you for sharing . Best regards , A.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As far as Manchester

Any further and it’s got to be something special

Ie a couple or a woman that a really wanted to meet

But Manchester is only a 3 hour train ride away

And Newcastle is only 1 hour and hafe away on the train

And be down and back the next day in time for Sunday dinner with parents not a problem

I too planned my sex life on holiday around my elderly parents. Lol! Sadly more time spend with said elderly parents and less time in the sex life with beach escapes in between."

Hugs yes it can be a pain sometimes x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was travelling from South Wales to Burnley for a meet. Only he backed out after I booked hotel and coach tickets.

So now, I'll keep it to no more than 1hr travel."

Oh what ? That’s unbearable, could never do that to anyone . please guys don’t …

You are pretty , and sexy, u look lovely . why would he even do that . Why ? Married , messing about living the fantasy ?

Got scared your wond was to big in the end ?

Doesn’t matter . Wouldn’t let u book any of it .

What a heart breaker .

What an evil ignorant xxx hotels n 6 hours coaches Swansea to Manchester and what the fuck ?

Wich would be your 6 hours coach back again .

U pay for all … what is that ? £500 bill with all the meals etc ? Wow

If only a woman would put all that effort for me … I would worshiping u for a list a week non stop

no pegging tho

I’m so so sorry …. That is discusting do that to you …

You look lovely , sweetheart . No one deserves that .

Wow . I thought my stood ups were bad

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

The 20 mile is a bit close to home sometimes come across people you know haha

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"As far as Manchester

Any further and it’s got to be something special

Ie a couple or a woman that a really wanted to meet

But Manchester is only a 3 hour train ride away

And Newcastle is only 1 hour and hafe away on the train

And be down and back the next day in time for Sunday dinner with parents not a problem

I too planned my sex life on holiday around my elderly parents. Lol! Sadly more time spend with said elderly parents and less time in the sex life with beach escapes in between.

Hugs yes it can be a pain sometimes x"

But we love them really and I would feel very lost without them. Hence why I painted the kitchen with them today.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"I was travelling from South Wales to Burnley for a meet. Only he backed out after I booked hotel and coach tickets.

So now, I'll keep it to no more than 1hr travel."

So sorry that happened to you and he was completely disrespectful for backing out so late.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far 100miles doubt even a 1000mikes would bring me any joy

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By *avegaMan
over a year ago

Toronto

Try doing this in the USA! Less than 100 is close!

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By *onnyJohnMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

"76.2 miles

Love what you did there

could you let me in on it

Oh - ah - a coincidence and not a reference to the size of a man stopper then

My bad

whats a man stopper

i must have missed that lol"

Man stopper, 7.62

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

"I was travelling from South Wales to Burnley for a meet. Only he backed out after I booked hotel and coach tickets.

So now, I'll keep it to no more than 1hr travel.

So sorry that happened to you and he was completely disrespectful for backing out so late."

Thanks, but it happens. You just chalk it up to experience and move on.

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By *ust me 999Man
over a year ago

near you

My searches go between 10 and 30 miles

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Does your 20 mile range seem quiet or lame sometimes ?

How far do you go in your search ?

Do ladies search and say the first hello too ?

Or ladies have more then enough in inbox to deal with ? "

I prefer to search myself but I am limited in what I can find due to travel restrictions (mainly time, money is a hindrance. I get alot of people from the north, Scotland and Ireland sending me messages and I'm thinking when realistically I get to meet them)

But yes, we get tons of messages. 99% I ignore though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As far as Manchester

Any further and it’s got to be something special

Ie a couple or a woman that a really wanted to meet

But Manchester is only a 3 hour train ride away

And Newcastle is only 1 hour and hafe away on the train

And be down and back the next day in time for Sunday dinner with parents not a problem

I too planned my sex life on holiday around my elderly parents. Lol! Sadly more time spend with said elderly parents and less time in the sex life with beach escapes in between.

Hugs yes it can be a pain sometimes x

But we love them really and I would feel very lost without them. Hence why I painted the kitchen with them today."

Yes we do and yes we would

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

All over the country, but then I'm not a swinger, just a weekend adventurer so that helps

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Most of ours happens through the forums and then eventually seeing how far they are from there

LvM

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I've never sent a first message appart from forum games etc so don't really look who's around x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't tend to search, I chat to people in the forums or spot people in local updates, I think we've travelled around 50 miles for a social previously.

Mrs

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I usually search a 20 mile radius, but travelled 130 miles for my last meet. My spidey sense told me it would be worth it, and was totally right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I search through time and space.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve travelled an hour & half for a meet

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

We don't have to search.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

62.1371192237334 miles. I drive a 'grey import' vehicle. They make the best passion wagons.

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Generally what I think I can cover in an hour ...depends where.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m new to fabs . 2 years .on n off . I never gone out on “ meets “ before .

But dates ? Think the further I went was 190 miles from Lisbon to Porto . By train .

And in uk 90 miles from Hemel to Portsmouth .

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We live at Leeds and North Lincolnshire so we cast our net far as there’s 70 odd miles between them.

But locals in either would be perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I search within 3.142 miles. I’m looking for the perfect meet pi

*insired by Cornucopia above.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"I travel around for work anyway so I'm happy to hunt

Please do say hello, if you come down my way

Willing prey, I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50 miles is my range,(I'm thinking of lowering it,)I don't search though, it's on my profile,it's how far I'd let someone come to me, as I like a social first, I get messages from guy's in Scotland,!!!!!! Expensive cup of coffee

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Theres a search function?

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Theres a search function?"

Only for clique members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 to 40 miles, don't want to be traveling further due to time constraints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 miles is my default. It covers quite an area near me, while still being easily travelled without major planning.

Not that I ever get a meet but it does at least limit the 'local' updates

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By *WINGStars23Couple
over a year ago

Northwest

30-40 miles

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We never look for playmates we wait for messages.. .. happy to travel or accommodate for the right types

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"I pretty much stick to 20miles but have been tempted to go a bit further as the West Mids seems a good area to try my luck

You should do, there are some serious hotties around here

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t search and I’ve only once made first contact!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

5 miles and no.

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By *haggydogMan
over a year ago

Brooklands/London

My search radius changes frequently. I did once journey from London to York for a meet. It took about 6 hrs to get there.

Mainly localish though.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Does your 20 mile range seem quiet or lame sometimes ?

How far do you go in your search ?

Do ladies search and say the first hello too ?

Or ladies have more then enough in inbox to deal with ? "

We are bang in the middle of Cardiff and Swansea which are roughly 20 miles either way, so an ideal distance for us to travel, they are both busy city's with plenty of hotel's and club's we don't have to travel any further than this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less than 10 miles. I'm lazy lol

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I usually just search for 5 miles or so, as I dont really have time to travel

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By *ipppyMan
over a year ago

Poole

"I was travelling from South Wales to Burnley for a meet. Only he backed out after I booked hotel and coach tickets.

So now, I'll keep it to no more than 1hr travel."
wow that’s a long way for nothing. I would never do that to a friend or a prospective lover!

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

Less than 10 miles preferably and people come to me.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I don't really do much searching.

Probably why I don't get many meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I search up to 500 miles as it seems that’s where all the ones I strike up interesting conversations with live …. The good old why do you have to be so far away

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By *ipppyMan
over a year ago

Poole

"Less than 10 miles. I'm lazy lol"
wish I was still living in Wolverhampton!

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By *ighty DuckMan
over a year ago

andover

40 miles is usually the tops.

Anything under an hour in the car or public transport etc.

I’m willing to drive hours to see a band, play or event etc. Why not someone who’s time you really enjoy

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

We tend to keep our search within 40/50 miles when we are having a nose, them being within 5 miles would probably put us off to be honest.

We would and have in fact travelled further to meet people we really hit it off with, especially ones who catch our eye in the forums.

It boils down to the old "we travel for people, not for sex" line.

K x

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"I drove 3 hours yesterday and done a 140 mile round trip to meet a woman at a pub of her choice.

Arrived bang on time. Messaged her to say I arrived. She read the message, didn't reply and I left after 20 minutes.

That my friends is why you should never MUG yourselves off and drive too far for some pussy. Stick to the local areas.

To say I was pissed off is an understatement (Angry Emoji)

I hate Stood ups mates , I gone from Luton to Bedford , to hit with my nose in front door too .

It hurts the heart so much . I could never do that to anyone … and hurts the wallet to …

Think I had 4 stood ups in last 4 weeks

Wow , 140 miles , I would go if is a lady I really like yeah . 100% not just for pussy no .

that is a triple kick in the triangle , blind me and she knowing you putting so much effort …

This is what I ment about the rudes and the ignorants in the other thread . Ouch .

Was absolutely gutted. Annoyed, pissed off. It Felt like a big Fuck You to me.

Some people have a seriously sick sense of humour

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By *arc jMan
over a year ago

Crick

I try to stick to 5 miles but also find site gets my location wrong. Happy to travel further but find women I speak to prefer to stay more local … ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I drove 3 hours yesterday and done a 140 mile round trip to meet a woman at a pub of her choice.

Arrived bang on time. Messaged her to say I arrived. She read the message, didn't reply and I left after 20 minutes.

That my friends is why you should never MUG yourselves off and drive too far for some pussy. Stick to the local areas.

To say I was pissed off is an understatement (Angry Emoji)

I hate Stood ups mates , I gone from Luton to Bedford , to hit with my nose in front door too .

It hurts the heart so much . I could never do that to anyone … and hurts the wallet to …

Think I had 4 stood ups in last 4 weeks

Wow , 140 miles , I would go if is a lady I really like yeah . 100% not just for pussy no .

that is a triple kick in the triangle , blind me and she knowing you putting so much effort …

This is what I ment about the rudes and the ignorants in the other thread . Ouch .

Was absolutely gutted. Annoyed, pissed off. It Felt like a big Fuck You to me.

Some people have a seriously sick sense of humour "

I feel you . That’s evil shit man . It really hurts …

Respect

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"I drove 3 hours yesterday and done a 140 mile round trip to meet a woman at a pub of her choice.

Arrived bang on time. Messaged her to say I arrived. She read the message, didn't reply and I left after 20 minutes.

That my friends is why you should never MUG yourselves off and drive too far for some pussy. Stick to the local areas.

To say I was pissed off is an understatement (Angry Emoji)

I hate Stood ups mates , I gone from Luton to Bedford , to hit with my nose in front door too .

It hurts the heart so much . I could never do that to anyone … and hurts the wallet to …

Think I had 4 stood ups in last 4 weeks

Wow , 140 miles , I would go if is a lady I really like yeah . 100% not just for pussy no .

that is a triple kick in the triangle , blind me and she knowing you putting so much effort …

This is what I ment about the rudes and the ignorants in the other thread . Ouch .

Was absolutely gutted. Annoyed, pissed off. It Felt like a big Fuck You to me.

Some people have a seriously sick sense of humour

I feel you . That’s evil shit man . It really hurts …

Respect

Appreciate it

Peace

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Usually upto about 30 miles, but that's not to say I wouldn't be willing to travel further if someone was to catch my eye and we had mutual interest

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Wish you could search by height

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

"Generally stick to the 10miles range myself, chatted to a few people. who knows they might become meets.

Hey hey , sounding good … good luck

Hope u not taking over my 10 range territory

You Cheecky rascal

( only joking ) "

Might have to take over your 10mile radius just for the laughs now..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oi oi …. I live in Essex , just south of New Castle , pass Newquay , turn left , pass Isbister just there …. Twatt turn left on top of A967 cause if u turn right is the A986

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"….

It boils down to the old "we travel for people, not for sex" line.

K x"

My thoughts too.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

These days far enough to avoid unexpected situations

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

" 62.1371192237334 miles. I drive a 'grey import' vehicle. They make the best passion wagons."

Realistically, I should be saying 16.09344 km. !0 miles. To travel 100km, as above, would need a very strong attraction.

Also, as I live on the border of London, I don't need the aggro of visiting most places within that area. Finding places to park and even getting to some of them is too much of an obstacle course nowadays. 3 or 4 decades ago it was possible to drive fairly effortlessly to central London after work in time to arrive there as parking restrictions lifted at 6.30pm. Those were the days (and some damned good nights)!

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

1500+ miles as we are currently only looking for phone sex

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