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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you send them?

Do you look at them when you get them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Lazy winkers

I delete them!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I never send them but yes i answer them

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Sometimes.

Usually if it's part of a forum post or, if my finger hits it instead of the send message button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t look at them much.

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london


"Nope. Lazy winkers

I delete them!"

Noted do not send a wink, just a smile

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I don’t send them and I don’t get any so I don’t look at them.

I much prefer a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually only as part of a forum thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope and nope

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By *red and daphneCouple
over a year ago

in the middle

Not much and yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t send them but I look at each profile who winks at me. I see nothing wrong with them but please have something worth looking at on your profile , nothing weirder than a wink from a blank or hidden profile

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Guilty sometimes , sometimes it kicks off a conversation sometimes it doesnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always forget to look

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I send them and I get them. I usually look and will send a mail if I like what I see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guilty sometimes , sometimes it kicks off a conversation sometimes it doesnt "

Same here. Lesson learnt now. Don't send winks haha

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

If it's a man we delete and rarely look at profile. If a lady or couple usually look and if interesting send a message along the lines of "Thanks for the wink. What can we do for you? " Most of them time they don't reply. I think saying something about their interest in us is a struggle for many. Maybe expecting us to say "Thanks for the wink. You are absolutely amazing and can we meet tomorrow?".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer receiving winks to messages. Currently don’t look at either though. I’ll send one if I like the look of someone’s profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at mine but don't often send.

If I like the look of the winker I may wink back, or message if I really like the look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send em when i think i should do

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I don’t send them and I don’t get any so I don’t look at them.

I much prefer a message "

Don't look now then...

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle


"I don’t send them and I don’t get any so I don’t look at them.

I much prefer a message

Don't look now then...

"

You rotter you

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I don’t send them and I don’t get any so I don’t look at them. I much prefer a message

Don't look now then...

You rotter you "

Nehneh you looked, you saw

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Never send them and never check them either.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"If it's a man we delete and rarely look at profile. If a lady or couple usually look and if interesting send a message along the lines of "Thanks for the wink. What can we do for you? " Most of them time they don't reply. I think saying something about their interest in us is a struggle for many. Maybe expecting us to say "Thanks for the wink. You are absolutely amazing and can we meet tomorrow?". "

It's the con for a Fab of their latest pic or that's my thoughts on the rare lady who sends a wink

We look at them but generally ignore them as the lazy approach. If someone's really interested, they'll pop a message to the inbox.

I don't send winks, himself has been known to though...if I see/hear that he did, I would possibly follow up with a message myself because as mentioned, I personally don't like the lazy approach

Mrs

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry

Only ever received one. I messaged back saying "Hey, thanks for the wink! My first one!!" and ... nothing. What was the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore them. I'd much prefer a message.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Never send or check them, I block delete friend requests and wink's a couple of times a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Also no.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

It's been so long I'll have to check the button still works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finally I’m allowed to have a wink! xx

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Finally I’m allowed to have a wink! xx "

(Take that)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks I think I sended like 3 or 4 after sending a message …

Lazy winks I never done it … no see the point .

I got 2 in to years and asked them . Why not say hello ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes we look and then scratch our heads at someone with no public pictures and a bio directed at Sydney university etc…

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

We occasionally send them as a measure of interest, if we get one back we'll send a message over

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u use the “Wink “

Does that make you a winker ?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I (Mrs) tend to wink as I'm pants at knowing if we're a match for some profiles, if they wink back then I'll message, I just see it as a way to guage interest or show I'm liking your profile.

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

I don't use the wink system.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Occasionally sent one or two. Have replied to a few winks. I like them over a FAF message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you send them?

Do you look at them when you get them?"

Occasionally and yes

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I always forget to look "

That doesn't surprise me one bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always forget to look as well

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Do you send them?

Do you look at them when you get them?"

Never get any.

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

I give a wink to register interest and if they wink back showing interest I'll message them rather than just jumping straight in the inbox!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Rarely send

I might look, but I think it's lazy.

Just send a msg

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I use them, but that doesn’t mean they work

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