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"Secretly everyone who posts pics on here?" is that not just vanity? Or is that now out dated | |||
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"I knew someone it was painful and found out the hard way. " This x | |||
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"As I'm not a psychiatric this is purely conjecture, but there are probably three people I've met in my life who I genuinely believe to be at the deeper end of the narcissist spectrum - one seriously enough affected to warrant assessing for a personality disorder, but with this country's dire mental health provision, almost certainly never going to happen." Least you know and know what to do | |||
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"As I'm not a psychiatric this is purely conjecture, but there are probably three people I've met in my life who I genuinely believe to be at the deeper end of the narcissist spectrum - one seriously enough affected to warrant assessing for a personality disorder, but with this country's dire mental health provision, almost certainly never going to happen. Least you know and know what to do " Oh, I sure do - run!! | |||
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"As I'm not a psychiatric this is purely conjecture, but there are probably three people I've met in my life who I genuinely believe to be at the deeper end of the narcissist spectrum - one seriously enough affected to warrant assessing for a personality disorder, but with this country's dire mental health provision, almost certainly never going to happen. Least you know and know what to do Oh, I sure do - run!!" Oh I did but it did affect me | |||
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"Lex Luger What a reference! " i always thought he was called that cos he knocked people out with his metal elbow | |||
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"I don't think I've met a full blown narcissist. A few people who do seem to talk about themselves and bring conversations back to them. But I'm not sure if that's just narcissistic tendencies or them trying to understand the topics by providing their experiences. Either way, I'm definitely not qualified enough to call them a full blown narcissist." I do this, but I think it's a neurodivergent thing - I think many of us are more self-referential (not quite the same as self-absorbed) in how we perceive the world. And talking about our own experiences is our way of showing understanding and/or empathy. Fuck, I've done it again | |||
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"On Fab? None. There are NO narcissists on Fab. " Don't you believe it | |||
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"I'd never imagine that I could make a statement like that about someone " I can. My mother is one. | |||
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"On Fab? None. There are NO narcissists on Fab. Don't you believe it " | |||
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"I don't think I've met a full blown narcissist. A few people who do seem to talk about themselves and bring conversations back to them. But I'm not sure if that's just narcissistic tendencies or them trying to understand the topics by providing their experiences. Either way, I'm definitely not qualified enough to call them a full blown narcissist. I do this, but I think it's a neurodivergent thing - I think many of us are more self-referential (not quite the same as self-absorbed) in how we perceive the world. And talking about our own experiences is our way of showing understanding and/or empathy. Fuck, I've done it again " Haha I think you're right though, a lot of people do rely on their own experience to participate in conversations. I even worry about doing it in messages on here as I never want to make it seem like I'm only talking about myself so I try to ask them questions so they can talk about themselves too. See what I did there? | |||
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"I'd never imagine that I could make a statement like that about someone I can. My mother is one. " I don't have the experience or qualifications. My first husband exhibited various traits that I saw afterwards were not 'normal' no idea what name I'd give it. | |||
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"Need to remember there's a difference between the common idea of narcissism of being a little too in love with yourself, and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. NPD is the stuff of nightmares and Hitchcock-like torturous abuse. We all have a bit of the first, it's just human nature. The second I would not wish on anyone to anyone reading this who is living it or escaped it. I'm near my 1yr anniversary away from it and I actually think I'm going to have a party " | |||
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"My ex is a self serving narcissist. I realized when it was too late but I'm glad he's out of my life now. My mother's a narcissist too, that one's a long story " Well I've dug up some worms tonight. Feeling for you all x | |||
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"My ex is a self serving narcissist. I realized when it was too late but I'm glad he's out of my life now. My mother's a narcissist too, that one's a long story Well I've dug up some worms tonight. Feeling for you all x" How about you OP, do you know anyone who's one? x | |||
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"My ex husband . Glad I’m free from him but feel for my daughter putting up with him. At 12 years old she’s starting to see it. I’m not saying a word or getting involved , but says a lot when she didn’t see him for 2 weeks, and then called me to demand to be collected within an hour . I heard it when he called me when he brought her back , the attempt to make out he was perfect and she was imagining it . She was literally screaming ‘ stop lying and take me home ‘ " Sorry you're both going through thar. Same situation for me/my daughter (15). Sending ((hugs)) if you have use for them x | |||
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"Need to remember there's a difference between the common idea of narcissism of being a little too in love with yourself, and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. NPD is the stuff of nightmares and Hitchcock-like torturous abuse. We all have a bit of the first, it's just human nature. The second I would not wish on anyone to anyone reading this who is living it or escaped it. I'm near my 1yr anniversary away from it and I actually think I'm going to have a party " Thank you lovely. My excuse for a mother has NPD. I'm 10 years out from severing all ties from her. The single best decision I've ever made. You've earned your party! x | |||
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"Need to remember there's a difference between the common idea of narcissism of being a little too in love with yourself, and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. NPD is the stuff of nightmares and Hitchcock-like torturous abuse. We all have a bit of the first, it's just human nature. The second I would not wish on anyone to anyone reading this who is living it or escaped it. I'm near my 1yr anniversary away from it and I actually think I'm going to have a party " | |||
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"My ex is a self serving narcissist. I realized when it was too late but I'm glad he's out of my life now. My mother's a narcissist too, that one's a long story Well I've dug up some worms tonight. Feeling for you all x How about you OP, do you know anyone who's one? x" Yes I do was seeing him a long time and I'm glad I'm out of it now. | |||
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"The lines between loving yourself, being confident and narcissism are very very thin " The need for admiration is one big difference. You can be extremely confident , successful and not liked by everyone , but don’t really care that much about the views of people who don’t matter. That isn’t narcissistic, but the need for admiration often displayed here is | |||
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