FabSwingers.com forum: Should you ???

By *hris55555 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Send a pic with the first message or wait until your asked ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the pic?

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Always send a pic - it’s polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always send a pic - it’s polite "

Depends on the pic?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Always send a pic - it’s polite "

I actually want a reply you know!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Send a pic with the first message or wait until your asked ?"

A face pic with your first message is always a good idea.... not a dick pic though.

Cal

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By *hris55555 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"Depends on the pic? "

Only a face pic on the first messege

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to you but if you send a face pic without being asked to, don't get shirty if you don't get one back x

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Depends on the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the pic?

Only a face pic on the first messege "

I generally send a face pic if I message first. It gives the person a chance to say yay/nay from the off

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I don't respond to faceless people, if I am looking to meet and mostly not, when I'm not too,so I would say, send a face pic, always as I won't ask for one.

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By *hris55555 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"Depends on the pic?

Only a face pic on the first messege

I generally send a face pic if I message first. It gives the person a chance to say yay/nay from the off "

Guess at least you k ow if you fancy someone x

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Send a pic with the first message or wait until your asked ?

A face pic with your first message is always a good idea.... not a dick pic though.

Cal"

This

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

I tend not too, but I do mention I've got fave pics in public gallery - hopefully leads them to read bio etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends on the reason for the message. If it's a reply to advice or a comment we've made on the forum then no, it's not necessary.

If it's for anything else, yes, we'd very much appreciate a recent face pic. No cocks or actions shots either. If we want those we'll ask for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t send a first message

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By *hris55555 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"It really depends on the reason for the message. If it's a reply to advice or a comment we've made on the forum then no, it's not necessary.

If it's for anything else, yes, we'd very much appreciate a recent face pic. No cocks or actions shots either. If we want those we'll ask for them."

You get a 50/50 spilt on this opinion

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I don't want to appear too pushy..all my pics are public anyway

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By *hris55555 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"I don't want to appear too pushy..all my pics are public anyway

Guess that’s one way

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes it saves embarrassment later.

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By *ighty DuckMan
over a year ago

andover

Always a few face and regular clothed pics as I don’t have any on my public profile.

I don’t get someone wanting to strike conversation without face pics unless there’s a genuine reason as to not sharing to begin with

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By *b72Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Face/body for the first pic. Just don't do cock until the ask. Some people like a surprise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you draw a life drawing of yourself on your dick? Would that work?

Have to be. Pretty small drawing in some folks cases though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if you seen a profile you like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends really, if we're talking shit on the forums and go to DM's not so much.

Doing the old cold call first message, yeah, just helps them get to the quick of it. Saves time from both our ends.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I don’t respond to faceless profiles so if you do want a response and are genuinely interested in me I’m sure you’ll send a face pic. If I’m not interested I may say no thanks or just delete. That way I’m not wasting your time. If I’m interested I always send a face pic back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send a pic with the first message or wait until your asked ?"

If you are just resending ones that are on your profile ! I dont see the point!

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

If you don't already have a face pic on your profile in your public photos, then yes please send one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to send a pic if anyone wants to see

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No I never send a pic in a first message. I will only exchange face pics after I have chatted for a while and I also don't expect anyone to send me a face pic in a first message either.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

First of all the only picture you should send first is a non explicit face picture. I think we all ideally would like to see the face of the person who's talking to us.

Secondly with regards to sending face pictures that also very much depends if your happy sending a face picture to a stranger.

I would say if your happy with both conditions above then yes.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

If i send a face pic with a first message i know im definitely NOT getting a reply

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Don't need a photo with a message unless we are thinking of meeting someone, then we exchange photos, its not a picture.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I send a face pic. If they don't like the look of you, then they ain't gonna want to go any further

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Wait until asked..

I attempt to dazzle them with my personality first, in the hope that when they finally see my face, it’s not so much of a shock

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

I don't expect or send a face pic on first message. I like to find out a bit about the person first through chatting. If I think a meet might be on the cards then I might ask for a face pic. But I'm reluctant to chat with black silhouettes as a profile pic, that's really annoying.

Looks like there is a difference of opinion on here. That's fab. You can't please everybody all of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send a picture of my feet with that message:

Fancy cutting my toe nails with your lovely mouth luv ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My serious view. Send a face pic and say hello with that!

Or send a cock pic, but I bet they’ve seen ones they think are nicer. (Maybe)

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

London & Europe

If you've read any woman's profile here you'll know the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message with face pic is nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you've read any woman's profile here you'll know the answer"

I’ve read lots that ask for a dick pic in the first message.

So I send them my face. Pisses them off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people ask specifically for a face pic with a first message. So I always comply with that. Otherwise, I just see how it goes and offer/ask if a person would like to swap pics (face pics that is)

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