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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies, I just had a message offering me the joy of a rather large cock. Large enough for me to think "woah, I think I will pass on that offer"

So my question is, what size is your ideal? I much prefer girth to length myself.

Am I odd for thinking a huge cock looks scary?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s probably a pic they stole off a porn site

(I’m only saying that cos I’m jealous tbf)

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Girth to length is my target market

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m jealous too although I have seen some fucking monsters on here and whilst their owner is probably very proud of it all I’m thinking is she won’t be able to fit that in her mouth and what so size queens do about anal other than not walk properly for days afterwards

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney

Mine wouldn't scare anyone.

Form an orderly queue ladies.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Nope... Had a guy really confused when I said he was too big so it was a no... Told me all kindsa things to change my mind... Nobody only wants half of it... Or constantly careful, surely that would ruin it for him too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average size but girthy is ideal for me. Don't like my cervix being used as a punch bag from a big cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone sent me one today. Having to take my time to consider it

How the hell will it fit in my arse!!

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby


"Someone sent me one today. Having to take my time to consider it

How the hell will it fit in my arse!! "

I promise to go slow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone sent me one today. Having to take my time to consider it

How the hell will it fit in my arse!! "

Fold it in half

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not a fan of huge, 8 inch max for me, I'd prefer girth over length.

I'm only small I've no where for any more to fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone sent me one today. Having to take my time to consider it

How the hell will it fit in my arse!! "

Arse is easier, since technically there's no end to it

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By *ottom4topxMan
over a year ago

Derry

My username says it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me yay! She nay!

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

Its a clichè, but its true, its not the size that matters, its what you do with it that counts!

Yes, there is such a thing as too big for me. I want to be able to get it in my mouth too ideally!

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

cc hotel

as a bi male I prefer average not in to big ball sacks either. Love a guy with big nipples though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a message from a guy the other day with what can only be described as a trunk!

Not our thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, I just had a message offering me the joy of a rather large cock. Large enough for me to think "woah, I think I will pass on that offer"

So my question is, what size is your ideal? I much prefer girth to length myself.

Am I odd for thinking a huge cock looks scary? "

100% agree with you...

it’s all relevant length and girth matters

my ideal would be 8-9” length and 5-7” girth

biggest had is 10-10.5” length and 6-8” girth, making it fit balls deep and hard; which did make me cry mascara tears and was a very messy affair making him cum...

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Always interested in hearing from gents with very large cocks….

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By *arebitUKWoman
over a year ago

Gwent

From a lady's point of view, I'm not a fan of really long ones. In certain sex positions, they can feel quite uncomfortable on your insides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no

Once in a blue moon yes I do love a rather big one but it dose put me out off communication for a week or 2 afterwards

So good for that once in a blue moon wow factor but for a regular thing no god no

My normal key is

3 and below not going to work sorry

4-6 grate for a full weekend off bang away on me

7-8 grate for a night and the next morning

8+ good for a couple off hours sorry if I get sore I still have my mouth if staying over

In the morning I will try but will probably only last a minute or 2 and then finsh with my mouth

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By *ohn heaneyMan
over a year ago

kildare

Have some you time on it before ya meet him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is not like big cocked guys have feelings

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

8 inches by 5.5 inches

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Don't like huge myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ta

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Yes and no

Once in a blue moon yes I do love a rather big one but it dose put me out off communication for a week or 2 afterwards

So good for that once in a blue moon wow factor but for a regular thing no god no

My normal key is

3 and below not going to work sorry

4-6 grate for a full weekend off bang away on me

7-8 grate for a night and the next morning

8+ good for a couple off hours sorry if I get sore I still have my mouth if staying over

In the morning I will try but will probably only last a minute or 2 and then finsh with my mouth

"

Yes sounds about right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend who I can’t even close my hand around his cock. No way that thing is going in me

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"It is not like big cocked guys have feelings "

Poor poor big cock guys.

#prayforthebigcocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8 inches by 5.5 inches "
I love the precision... it's like you've done science on this

And by a coincidence....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is not like big cocked guys have feelings

Poor poor big cock guys.

#prayforthebigcocks"

#youknowwhoyouare

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

I prefer smaller cocks in my ass but it's nice to play with a big one sometimes

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By *pstanding CitizenMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

So would (some) ladies be happy with a 7inch one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So would (some) ladies be happy with a 7inch one? "
yes it's all about the motion in the ocean anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines a nice 8 inches and always hard, I be had nothing but compliments hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and no

Once in a blue moon yes I do love a rather big one but it dose put me out off communication for a week or 2 afterwards

So good for that once in a blue moon wow factor but for a regular thing no god no

My normal key is

3 and below not going to work sorry

4-6 grate for a full weekend off bang away on me

7-8 grate for a night and the next morning

8+ good for a couple off hours sorry if I get sore I still have my mouth if staying over

In the morning I will try but will probably only last a minute or 2 and then finsh with my mouth

Yes sounds about right "

Awww thank you x

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Guys seem obsessed with the size of their cocks on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as a bi male I prefer average not in to big ball sacks either. Love a guy with big nipples though. "

Why big nipples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys seem obsessed with the size of their cocks on here "

We’re not obsessed by size at all, but I’m bguess we like to show it off

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Its a clichè, but its true, its not the size that matters, its what you do with it that counts!

Yes, there is such a thing as too big for me. I want to be able to get it in my mouth too ideally!"

This^^^

If a cock is too big it's just not enjoyable and I am speaking from experience. I prefer my cervix intact. I also enjoy deep throating which is impossible with a huge cock!

The ideal size is one that fits comfortably

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I'll only take tiddlers. The "barely even notice me" sized ones

LvM

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Girth is very tough for me. I used to have vaginismus so this is likely part of the problem - Mr Fox has the thickest cock I've ever seen and it took us a while to use it in either hole! So thinner is practical for meets I reckon

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

It's a yes from us.

If you're used to a certain size at home then why would you proactively seek signigicantly smaller elsewhere (unless for a specific purpose of course).

We've been in situations where there's been an obvious element of 'performance anxiety' due to extra males present comparing cock sizes and that doesn't work during group play. So seeking those happy and confident in their size helps things run smoothly.

We always take any size claims with a pinch of salt though. Experience over the years has taught us that photos can be very deceptive and numbers aren't every guys strong point.

So if someone messages claiming to be huge we'll maintain an open mind until we're sure the numbers aren't being fudged.

Not every guy sending a message that scares you will actually have something that frightening dangling between his thighs.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s reading threads like this that make me feel much more comfortable and confident about what I have.

Ultimately, no one should feel pressured into having more than they want… or expected to have more than they’ve got!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So are we saying that all vaginas are the same size?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess the grass isn't always greener on either size necessarily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess the grass isn't always greener on either size necessarily "

Exactly

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"It's a yes from us.

If you're used to a certain size at home then why would you proactively seek signigicantly smaller elsewhere (unless for a specific purpose of course).

We've been in situations where there's been an obvious element of 'performance anxiety' due to extra males present comparing cock sizes and that doesn't work during group play. So seeking those happy and confident in their size helps things run smoothly.

We always take any size claims with a pinch of salt though. Experience over the years has taught us that photos can be very deceptive and numbers aren't every guys strong point.

So if someone messages claiming to be huge we'll maintain an open mind until we're sure the numbers aren't being fudged.

Not every guy sending a message that scares you will actually have something that frightening dangling between his thighs.

A"

This is very true

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm up for any challenge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the structure lol.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

If it goes neigh ...avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it goes neigh ...avoid "
if it bent in certain ways umm nope for me lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, I just had a message offering me the joy of a rather large cock. Large enough for me to think "woah, I think I will pass on that offer"

So my question is, what size is your ideal? I much prefer girth to length myself.

Am I odd for thinking a huge cock looks scary? "

Alot of people say it's scary but using all of it, all of the time isn't a necessity. It's like a bottle of wine. A few glasses is good. If you get overly excited and realise you need the whole bottle it's there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it goes neigh ...avoid if it bent in certain ways umm nope for me lol."

I would think many people would bend themselves out of shape for you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, I just had a message offering me the joy of a rather large cock. Large enough for me to think "woah, I think I will pass on that offer"

So my question is, what size is your ideal? I much prefer girth to length myself.

Am I odd for thinking a huge cock looks scary?

Alot of people say it's scary but using all of it, all of the time isn't a necessity. It's like a bottle of wine. A few glasses is good. If you get overly excited and realise you need the whole bottle it's there."

Until it is bent a certain way and it wrecks your uterus

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London


"Someone sent me one today. Having to take my time to consider it

How the hell will it fit in my arse!! "

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, I just had a message offering me the joy of a rather large cock. Large enough for me to think "woah, I think I will pass on that offer"

So my question is, what size is your ideal? I much prefer girth to length myself.

Am I odd for thinking a huge cock looks scary?

Alot of people say it's scary but using all of it, all of the time isn't a necessity. It's like a bottle of wine. A few glasses is good. If you get overly excited and realise you need the whole bottle it's there.

Until it is bent a certain way and it wrecks your uterus "

Is that a thing? I don't think i've never wrecked a uterus. Not until now anyway .. lol

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

How many inches is “big”?

It’s the one thing I’ve never done, measure my cock lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, I just had a message offering me the joy of a rather large cock. Large enough for me to think "woah, I think I will pass on that offer"

So my question is, what size is your ideal? I much prefer girth to length myself.

Am I odd for thinking a huge cock looks scary?

Alot of people say it's scary but using all of it, all of the time isn't a necessity. It's like a bottle of wine. A few glasses is good. If you get overly excited and realise you need the whole bottle it's there.

Until it is bent a certain way and it wrecks your uterus

Is that a thing? I don't think i've never wrecked a uterus. Not until now anyway .. lol "
. Lol be look up dented uterus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, because all vaginas are the exact same size, and if You find it scary, well, All women must feel the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many inches is “big”?

It’s the one thing I’ve never done, measure my cock lol"

I don't believe you!

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

Honestly I haven’t and I try not to look too closely at other guys cocks lol

So I’ve got no idea on what’s big or not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, I just had a message offering me the joy of a rather large cock. Large enough for me to think "woah, I think I will pass on that offer"

So my question is, what size is your ideal? I much prefer girth to length myself.

Am I odd for thinking a huge cock looks scary?

Alot of people say it's scary but using all of it, all of the time isn't a necessity. It's like a bottle of wine. A few glasses is good. If you get overly excited and realise you need the whole bottle it's there.

Until it is bent a certain way and it wrecks your uterus

Is that a thing? I don't think i've never wrecked a uterus. Not until now anyway .. lol . Lol be look up dented uterus."

Ooh that's not ideal.

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By *ig for your wifeMan
over a year ago

Bicester

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By *ig for your wifeMan
over a year ago

Bicester

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By *niformed professionalMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I do know how to use mine though

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"How many inches is “big”?

It’s the one thing I’ve never done, measure my cock lol

I don't believe you!"

I believe him as most men are scared of the truth. Us poor ladies have to measure our boobs to wear bras.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So delighted with my 7 inches now

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Depends what it looks and feels like. Some cocks, no matter the size, I would never put my mouth near

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City


"How many inches is “big”?

It’s the one thing I’ve never done, measure my cock lol"

Seriously, the metric system has been in place since the 70’s. What’s with all this imperial nonsense?

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

I find that large cocks never really get hard enough, and their owners are rarely the most attentive lovers. It’s like they don’t have to try.

Not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to say my cock is massive.

Other cock pics on here like to prove me wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d like to say my cock is massive.

Other cock pics on here like to prove me wrong

"

It ain’t much but at least it is honest work dude x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d like to say my cock is massive.

Other cock pics on here like to prove me wrong

It ain’t much ……… x"

…….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am only petite so I don’t like too big. 5” to 7” is perfect and not so wide that it feels like I am having another child. I think shape is underestimated too. A slight upward curve for me seems to hit “the spot”. Anything more than 7” is filling me with fear to be quite honest. Despite our profile saying all of this we still get the messages with huge dick pics but I do quite enjoy looking!!

Had one that said “This will tear you in half baby”

But I don’t want to be torn in half!! I want to enjoy sex not just get through it in one piece lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am only petite so I don’t like too big. 5” to 7” is perfect and not so wide that it feels like I am having another child. I think shape is underestimated too. A slight upward curve for me seems to hit “the spot”. Anything more than 7” is filling me with fear to be quite honest. Despite our profile saying all of this we still get the messages with huge dick pics but I do quite enjoy looking!!

Had one that said “This will tear you in half baby”

But I don’t want to be torn in half!! I want to enjoy sex not just get through it in one piece lol "

Two important lessons from this then… everyone’s needs are different and more is not always better or desired.

PS, not sure that’s a great way to appeal to someone. Sounds like a threat

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

It's a nay from me.

Not a fan of Vwe. Give me an average dick any day!!

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss


"It's a nay from me.

Not a fan of Vwe. Give me an average dick any day!!"

I prefer small cocks tbh. However, the key for me is connection and kink xx

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve never had a massive one in length. I have had a particularly girthy penis of pleasure and I won’t lie, the jaw got a bit achey during a blowjob and I was ready to stop sucking after 5 minutes when normally you have to prize me off.

But you know, I’m always happy to try something new so …..

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Someone sent me one today. Having to take my time to consider it

How the hell will it fit in my arse!!

Arse is easier, since technically there's no end to it "

Yep! I'll second that...

It's my shallow gag reflex that is letting me down... I can hear my mum now... "Your eye are bigger than your... gag reflex..."

Any professional sword swallowers on Fab? Tips warmly welcomed...

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I Blame porn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame genetics

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By *ig for your wifeMan
over a year ago

Bicester


"I’ve never had a massive one in length. I have had a particularly girthy penis of pleasure and I won’t lie, the jaw got a bit achey during a blowjob and I was ready to stop sucking after 5 minutes when normally you have to prize me off.

But you know, I’m always happy to try something new so ….. "

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