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"Some folk just can't help themselves, OP. I hope you're ok? " Yeah, I'm ok. Some guy sent me a negative message after seeing my post on my social anxiety so I blocked him. | |||
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"I haven't seen this. Do you have an example? " A guy messaged me saying something like I'm only looking for sympathy and I should accept that I'll never get NSA sex. I chose to ignore it even if it was a kind of hurtful. | |||
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"Some folk just can't help themselves, OP. I hope you're ok? Yeah, I'm ok. Some guy sent me a negative message after seeing my post on my social anxiety so I blocked him." That's shitty. If they had a valid comment that was reasonable they could have popped it on the thread. Obv haven't seen it but I'd guess the only reason they hid it on a dm is because it was likely pure bs or nasty. Delete and ignore | |||
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"Some folk just can't help themselves, OP. I hope you're ok? Yeah, I'm ok. Some guy sent me a negative message after seeing my post on my social anxiety so I blocked him." Some people really are dicks! But yes, block is the answer & then forget. There are more lovely folk on here than tossers like him. Take care of you and never suffer in silence | |||
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"I am just a generaly nice person " A funny little example off this Was in a shop the other week a older and when I say older I mean 70-80ish Asked if I could help her find a birthday card for her grandson I stopped what I was doing in the shop put back what I had in my hands And then spent the next 20 minutes picking up birthday cards Afterwards she thanked me and sed I should get employee off the month for my help To her surprise I turned and sed I don’t work here I am only a customer she was gob smacked that someone took 20 minutes to help her out the goodness off they hart | |||
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"Some folk just can't help themselves, OP. I hope you're ok? Yeah, I'm ok. Some guy sent me a negative message after seeing my post on my social anxiety so I blocked him. Some people really are dicks! But yes, block is the answer & then forget. There are more lovely folk on here than tossers like him. Take care of you and never suffer in silence " I'll make sure of that as I'm not letting some egotistical idiot get me down. | |||
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"I am just a generaly nice person A funny little example off this Was in a shop the other week a older and when I say older I mean 70-80ish Asked if I could help her find a birthday card for her grandson I stopped what I was doing in the shop put back what I had in my hands And then spent the next 20 minutes picking up birthday cards Afterwards she thanked me and sed I should get employee off the month for my help To her surprise I turned and sed I don’t work here I am only a customer she was gob smacked that someone took 20 minutes to help her out the goodness off they hart " Aw, that's lovely Little old ladies on their own always make me so sad x | |||
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"I've not seen you posting before OP so if you've genuinely been feeling bad and got negative responses then this is crap. Hope you're doing better now. I've been guilty of posting "get a fucking grip" when I've seen someone post or ask advice for the same thing over and over again. " Yeah, I'm doing ok. I'm taking a break from clubs at the moment as my social anxiety got bad last week. | |||
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"I am just a generaly nice person A funny little example off this Was in a shop the other week a older and when I say older I mean 70-80ish Asked if I could help her find a birthday card for her grandson I stopped what I was doing in the shop put back what I had in my hands And then spent the next 20 minutes picking up birthday cards Afterwards she thanked me and sed I should get employee off the month for my help To her surprise I turned and sed I don’t work here I am only a customer she was gob smacked that someone took 20 minutes to help her out the goodness off they hart Aw, that's lovely Little old ladies on their own always make me so sad x" Me as well will always stop to help one my thoughts are hopeing if it was my gran someone would stop to help her | |||
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"OP: Never let anyone get you down. People that purposely insult others hurtfully is a reflection of themselves. It's their character flaw not yours . Delete, block and move on " Already doing so | |||
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"I haven't seen this. Do you have an example? A guy messaged me saying something like I'm only looking for sympathy and I should accept that I'll never get NSA sex. I chose to ignore it even if it was a kind of hurtful." I’m sorry to hear this, that’s terrible . It’s perfectly valid to ask for help on here | |||
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"What you see as negative might be 'tough love', which sometimes is the best advice. " I disagree. Pulling someone down when they are trying to pull themselves up could have the opposite effect, if you don't know the person you're talking to. | |||
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"I haven't seen this. Do you have an example? A guy messaged me saying something like I'm only looking for sympathy and I should accept that I'll never get NSA sex. I chose to ignore it even if it was a kind of hurtful. I’m sorry to hear this, that’s terrible . It’s perfectly valid to ask for help on here " I agree. It's better to ask for help than to suffer in silence. | |||
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"Why is it when someone posts a thread whenever they're feeling down and just want some help and someone to talk to, someone negative butts in and starts calling the OP an attention seeker that's just looking for sympathy and says negative things that would be hurtful towards the OP? I don't get why negative people have to do things like this." Karens | |||
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"Because they lack empathy. Some folk think everyone should deal with things how they deal with things, so lack patience for others who maybe don’t handle things so well. " ^^^^ | |||
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"Why is it when someone posts a thread whenever they're feeling down and just want some help and someone to talk to, someone negative butts in and starts calling the OP an attention seeker that's just looking for sympathy and says negative things that would be hurtful towards the OP? I don't get why negative people have to do things like this." Because people are cunts, pure and simple. | |||
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"What you see as negative might be 'tough love', which sometimes is the best advice. I disagree. Pulling someone down when they are trying to pull themselves up could have the opposite effect, if you don't know the person you're talking to. " | |||
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"Sending private pms to someone to completely out of order. I've got more time for someone who will post something cheeky or rude to me in the forum than be a total coward, pm, then run." Jotted down for future reference | |||
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"It’s called projection OP Marc" Projection in what way? | |||
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"It’s called projection OP Marc Projection in what way?" People project their own insecurities and fears on to other people so they don’t have to face them themselves Marc | |||
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"It’s called projection OP Marc Projection in what way? People project their own insecurities and fears on to other people so they don’t have to face them themselves Marc" I thought so. | |||
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"It’s called projection OP Marc Projection in what way? People project their own insecurities and fears on to other people so they don’t have to face them themselves Marc" As the saying goes ...... Hurt people, hurt people. | |||
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