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Can I bring him home to stay ?

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By *oodymonster OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Shrewsbury

Just been told by my sister thst my niece has asked if her boyfriend can stay at my sister's place in her room. What do we think is an acceptable age to allow this to happen?

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"Just been told by my sister thst my niece has asked if her boyfriend can stay at my sister's place in her room. What do we think is an acceptable age to allow this to happen?"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

There is no set age.

What there should be are boundaries, agreements and trust.

If it was a lad bringing a lad home would the same sexual fears be applied ?

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

My daughter is 15 and she's got at least another... 40-45 years I'd reckon before it's, over my dead body.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"My daughter is 15 and she's got at least another... 40-45 years I'd reckon before it's, over my dead body. "

Why ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once they are contributing to the household as if they were a tenant rather than a dependant. Hopefully by that point they would have moved out anyway

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We told both our daughter and son that when they were in a commited relationship we'd be ok with it.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Just been told by my sister thst my niece has asked if her boyfriend can stay at my sister's place in her room. What do we think is an acceptable age to allow this to happen?"

What age do you think is acceptable?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

How old is your niece?

Also he could stay in the room but she can sleep downstairs

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over a year ago

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Would rather they bring them home to a safe environment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We told both our daughter and son that when they were in a commited relationship we'd be ok with it. "

^this and legal consent would be my guide.

With the side note of "If you aren't in a position to be dealing with all the possible outcomes you really ought to reconsider taking that step"

Have to be okay with living with the consequences of your choices, the joys of adulting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would rather they bring them home to a safe environment x"

Well said

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We told both our daughter and son that when they were in a commited relationship we'd be ok with it.

^this and legal consent would be my guide.

With the side note of "If you aren't in a position to be dealing with all the possible outcomes you really ought to reconsider taking that step"

Have to be okay with living with the consequences of your choices, the joys of adulting.

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Yes. Also we all had to lived there. I didn't want to bump into young men or women I didn't know in the middle of the night.

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By *oodymonster OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Shrewsbury

16 and he is 18. Last time he stayed she managed to "sleep walk" to his room.

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

Bollocks, not putting up with some layabout bum and the noise of them doing it. It's not all shits and giggles, it's just shit. Just get him at the door and pound his face so he knows to fuck off. If he's big, crush his ankles first then his face and if you really hate him, break both his wrists so he can't feed himself or wipe his own ass.

If not welcome with open arms and tell him she's a cracking bit, all the lads have her and your replacing the front door with a revolving door because she is such a slut.

I can be too helpful sometimes but it's a good fault I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We told both our daughter and son that when they were in a commited relationship we'd be ok with it.

^this and legal consent would be my guide.

With the side note of "If you aren't in a position to be dealing with all the possible outcomes you really ought to reconsider taking that step"

Have to be okay with living with the consequences of your choices, the joys of adulting.

Yes. Also we all had to lived there. I didn't want to bump into young men or women I didn't know in the middle of the night. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"16 and he is 18. Last time he stayed she managed to "sleep walk" to his room."

Your sister knows her daughter and if she thinks she's old enough to handle a sexual relationship. Regardless of whether she allows them to sleep together openly under her roof they'll be having sex anyway.

I have noticed that parental approval of a relationship tends to imbue it with more seriousness and that can be a double edged sword

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By *oodymonster OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Shrewsbury


"16 and he is 18. Last time he stayed she managed to "sleep walk" to his room.

Your sister knows her daughter and if she thinks she's old enough to handle a sexual relationship. Regardless of whether she allows them to sleep together openly under her roof they'll be having sex anyway.

I have noticed that parental approval of a relationship tends to imbue it with more seriousness and that can be a double edged sword"

I have told her she is better off letting them use the house than a Bush or woods.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Depends on the parents, their choice really. I wouldn’t have allowed it at 16. I didn’t think I’d allow it at all to be honest as I was never allowed to. Think she was about 19 when I said it was ok. She’d been with him since 17 and are still together now at 25.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Let them, better to know where they are.

My son used to have his gf stay over, as long as it was ok with her parents, they were 16/17.

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