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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me or is anyone else seen one of the hot pics is a photoshop edit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t look much there so wouldn’t know. But probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you reported it Op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re referring to that one of my Mrs inserting the watermelon then you’re wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No photoshop here my ass real is that peachy

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Is it the woman in the mens toilets?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Is it just me or is anyone else seen one of the hot pics is a photoshop edit."

There’s loads. Look for blurred background as a good hint they are touching things up.

If you don’t think that loads of women are using the old smudge tool to warp their curves into a more desirable shape, your just naive

And the admins don’t care either

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"Is it just me or is anyone else seen one of the hot pics is a photoshop edit.

There’s loads. Look for blurred background as a good hint they are touching things up.

If you don’t think that loads of women are using the old smudge tool to warp their curves into a more desirable shape, your just naive

And the admins don’t care either "

. I’m old school - I just breathe in hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One doesn't look quite right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is anyone else seen one of the hot pics is a photoshop edit.

There’s loads. Look for blurred background as a good hint they are touching things up.

If you don’t think that loads of women are using the old smudge tool to warp their curves into a more desirable shape, your just naive

And the admins don’t care either

. I’m old school - I just breathe in hard "

Bend over barbell rows they a god sent to the ass I sware by them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All images on here should be taken with a once of salt and the understanding that alot of us (myself included) will put up what we feel are our most complimentary pics.

Some people are careful with their lighting and angles, some chose a subtle filter and some go all out in the editing suite.

I've found long ago to pick meets based off more than just their public gallery.

If edited photos annoy you though I suggest the internet is not the best place to find people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see nothing someone care to share what I'm supposed to be looking out for?

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


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. I’m old school - I just breathe in hard "

Your pics have the same effect on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too I can’t see

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Dont think ive seen many of those vehicles on the road

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is anyone else seen one of the hot pics is a photoshop edit.

There’s loads. Look for blurred background as a good hint they are touching things up.

If you don’t think that loads of women are using the old smudge tool to warp their curves into a more desirable shape, your just naive

And the admins don’t care either "

Blurring background doesn’t mean anything, I blur mine but I don’t use other tools to change how I look. As anyone who’s seen me on cam knows! Just don’t think everyone needs to see the photos on my wall or the contents of my room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be the girl unzipping her top, I’ve never met a girl with a pixelated face like that, definitely edited

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Is it just me or is anyone else seen one of the hot pics is a photoshop edit.

There’s loads. Look for blurred background as a good hint they are touching things up.

If you don’t think that loads of women are using the old smudge tool to warp their curves into a more desirable shape, your just naive

And the admins don’t care either

Blurring background doesn’t mean anything, I blur mine but I don’t use other tools to change how I look. As anyone who’s seen me on cam knows! Just don’t think everyone needs to see the photos on my wall or the contents of my room."

I dudnt say it’s a definite. I said it’s common trick to hide warped backgrounds

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"Is it just me or is anyone else seen one of the hot pics is a photoshop edit.

There’s loads. Look for blurred background as a good hint they are touching things up.

If you don’t think that loads of women are using the old smudge tool to warp their curves into a more desirable shape, your just naive

And the admins don’t care either

. I’m old school - I just breathe in hard

Bend over barbell rows they a god sent to the ass I sware by them "

Thanks hun xx. My ass is good. The mum tum is the only thing I’m conscious of .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is anyone else seen one of the hot pics is a photoshop edit.

There’s loads. Look for blurred background as a good hint they are touching things up.

If you don’t think that loads of women are using the old smudge tool to warp their curves into a more desirable shape, your just naive

And the admins don’t care either "

The admins can't even spot pics lifted straight off porn sites ffs they are hardly gonna spot a visual nip and tuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is anyone else seen one of the hot pics is a photoshop edit.

There’s loads. Look for blurred background as a good hint they are touching things up.

If you don’t think that loads of women are using the old smudge tool to warp their curves into a more desirable shape, your just naive

And the admins don’t care either

. I’m old school - I just breathe in hard "

Don't a soft full round body is always appreciated

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Is it just me or is anyone else seen one of the hot pics is a photoshop edit.

There’s loads. Look for blurred background as a good hint they are touching things up.

If you don’t think that loads of women are using the old smudge tool to warp their curves into a more desirable shape, your just naive

And the admins don’t care either

Blurring background doesn’t mean anything, I blur mine but I don’t use other tools to change how I look. As anyone who’s seen me on cam knows! Just don’t think everyone needs to see the photos on my wall or the contents of my room."

My phone automatically does it sometimes when it focuses really well on something in the foreground. It's not happened on any of my photos of me because I usually use my front facing camera but I took a photo of someone else at the weekend and it has done it quite significantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is anyone else seen one of the hot pics is a photoshop edit.

There’s loads. Look for blurred background as a good hint they are touching things up.

If you don’t think that loads of women are using the old smudge tool to warp their curves into a more desirable shape, your just naive

And the admins don’t care either

. I’m old school - I just breathe in hard

Bend over barbell rows they a god sent to the ass I sware by them

Thanks hun xx. My ass is good. The mum tum is the only thing I’m conscious of . "

Your welcome anytime just thought I would share as I do get it quite frequently people saying it’s shopped in my inbox ha ha x

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Is it just me or is anyone else seen one of the hot pics is a photoshop edit.

There’s loads. Look for blurred background as a good hint they are touching things up.

If you don’t think that loads of women are using the old smudge tool to warp their curves into a more desirable shape, your just naive

And the admins don’t care either

The admins can't even spot pics lifted straight off porn sites ffs they are hardly gonna spot a visual nip and tuck"

Think your more likely to get in trouble pointing them out!

There’s one profile that’s been in hot photos a few times with clearly edited pics. Nothing gets done.

I just pray for the people that they meet. Not nice getting catfished like that

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


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Your welcome anytime just thought I would share as I do get it quite frequently people saying it’s shopped in my inbox ha ha x"

Much appreciated & you do have a lovely bum (and the same corset belt as me )

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"

. I’m old school - I just breathe in hard

Your pics have the same effect on me "

Thank you

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

That's why I never get on page one, anyone know how to Photoshop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Your welcome anytime just thought I would share as I do get it quite frequently people saying it’s shopped in my inbox ha ha x

Much appreciated & you do have a lovely bum (and the same corset belt as me )"

Awww thank you and yes I use a lot off belts unfortunately being 18 and stupid I got a very big unqeek tattoo right across my stumic not thinking later in life it could be a problem got to examine ever pic to make shour it can’t be seen if it can I use a corset belt to cover it without needing to edit the pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is anyone else seen one of the hot pics is a photoshop edit.

There’s loads. Look for blurred background as a good hint they are touching things up.

If you don’t think that loads of women are using the old smudge tool to warp their curves into a more desirable shape, your just naive

And the admins don’t care either

Blurring background doesn’t mean anything, I blur mine but I don’t use other tools to change how I look. As anyone who’s seen me on cam knows! Just don’t think everyone needs to see the photos on my wall or the contents of my room.

My phone automatically does it sometimes when it focuses really well on something in the foreground. It's not happened on any of my photos of me because I usually use my front facing camera but I took a photo of someone else at the weekend and it has done it quite significantly."

Yep blurry backgrounds can be achieved via depth of field settings! Both on phone and a dslr! Phones tend to automatically focus on the subject and blur the backgrounds

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"

Your welcome anytime just thought I would share as I do get it quite frequently people saying it’s shopped in my inbox ha ha x

Much appreciated & you do have a lovely bum (and the same corset belt as me )

Awww thank you and yes I use a lot off belts unfortunately being 18 and stupid I got a very big unqeek tattoo right across my stumic not thinking later in life it could be a problem got to examine ever pic to make shour it can’t be seen if it can I use a corset belt to cover it without needing to edit the pic "

Me too!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wings are like a shield of steel

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Thread high jacking aside.. apologies for that.

There is a lot of heavy filters used on here. It seems the equivalent of single men pretending to be a couple.

What is the point? It’s stupid and dishonest. And surely you’re going to get caught when you meet someone?

I’m probably being naive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pics aren’t edited but I will always choose the best angles and the best of my pics to put on - why would I not? My phone blurs out the background on some settings, or if there’s a pile of washing in the background I may blur it myself ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Your welcome anytime just thought I would share as I do get it quite frequently people saying it’s shopped in my inbox ha ha x

Much appreciated & you do have a lovely bum (and the same corset belt as me )

Awww thank you and yes I use a lot off belts unfortunately being 18 and stupid I got a very big unqeek tattoo right across my stumic not thinking later in life it could be a problem got to examine ever pic to make shour it can’t be seen if it can I use a corset belt to cover it without needing to edit the pic

Me too!!!!"

Ha ha we like two peas in a pod

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Except you have two peas and she has a pod

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Thread high jacking aside.. apologies for that.

There is a lot of heavy filters used on here. It seems the equivalent of single men pretending to be a couple.

What is the point? It’s stupid and dishonest. And surely you’re going to get caught when you meet someone?

I’m probably being naive"

It’s the same as catfishing. You wouldn’t accept it if a guy turned up 15 years old then his pics, or he told you he had 8 inches when in reality he had 6

But we seem to draw a line at that and we’re ok with a little smudge here, little edit there. Make the hips bigger, waist small, as if that’s fine, no problem.

It’s all the same to me

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"Thread high jacking aside.. apologies for that.

There is a lot of heavy filters used on here. It seems the equivalent of single men pretending to be a couple.

What is the point? It’s stupid and dishonest. And surely you’re going to get caught when you meet someone?

I’m probably being naive

It’s the same as catfishing. You wouldn’t accept it if a guy turned up 15 years old then his pics, or he told you he had 8 inches when in reality he had 6

But we seem to draw a line at that and we’re ok with a little smudge here, little edit there. Make the hips bigger, waist small, as if that’s fine, no problem.

It’s all the same to me "

Just to clarify - I agree with you. Heavy editing & filtering isn’t on.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"Except you have two peas and she has a pod "

Don’t forget the peaches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly can’t see anyone on there that has a photoshop edit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thread high jacking aside.. apologies for that.

There is a lot of heavy filters used on here. It seems the equivalent of single men pretending to be a couple.

What is the point? It’s stupid and dishonest. And surely you’re going to get caught when you meet someone?

I’m probably being naive

It’s the same as catfishing. You wouldn’t accept it if a guy turned up 15 years old then his pics, or he told you he had 8 inches when in reality he had 6

But we seem to draw a line at that and we’re ok with a little smudge here, little edit there. Make the hips bigger, waist small, as if that’s fine, no problem.

It’s all the same to me "

I don’t think anyone disagrees with this, at least I’ve not seen anyone saying it’s okay!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

There's a model called Chloe Vevrier whose pics are that heavily airbrushed, she could go to one of her own events and the person at the door would charge her entry

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By *llaandGCouple
over a year ago

London

This is why Ella and I only connect with people whose profile pics are Daguerreotypes.

Now excuse me while I airbrush out my facial tattoos

G

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"There's a model called Chloe Vevrier whose pics are that heavily airbrushed, she could go to one of her own events and the person at the door would charge her entry "

lol

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Thread high jacking aside.. apologies for that.

There is a lot of heavy filters used on here. It seems the equivalent of single men pretending to be a couple.

What is the point? It’s stupid and dishonest. And surely you’re going to get caught when you meet someone?

I’m probably being naive

It’s the same as catfishing. You wouldn’t accept it if a guy turned up 15 years old then his pics, or he told you he had 8 inches when in reality he had 6

But we seem to draw a line at that and we’re ok with a little smudge here, little edit there. Make the hips bigger, waist small, as if that’s fine, no problem.

It’s all the same to me "

Those things actually happen though. I spotted someone on here listed as 38 or 39 but he told me he was in his 40s when I met him in a club when I was a University student so about 8-10 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Except you have two peas and she has a pod "

Think you mean two peas and a tripod

And yes it is a tripod and no it’s nothing to brag about in fact smaller would be better wouldn’t get turned away as much

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Thread high jacking aside.. apologies for that.

There is a lot of heavy filters used on here. It seems the equivalent of single men pretending to be a couple.

What is the point? It’s stupid and dishonest. And surely you’re going to get caught when you meet someone?

I’m probably being naive

It’s the same as catfishing. You wouldn’t accept it if a guy turned up 15 years old then his pics, or he told you he had 8 inches when in reality he had 6

But we seem to draw a line at that and we’re ok with a little smudge here, little edit there. Make the hips bigger, waist small, as if that’s fine, no problem.

It’s all the same to me

Those things actually happen though. I spotted someone on here listed as 38 or 39 but he told me he was in his 40s when I met him in a club when I was a University student so about 8-10 years ago. "

Sorry if I’ve understood, but who those things don’t happen?

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"I don’t look much there so wouldn’t know. But probably "

Happens!

Can't always believe everything you see or read here, that's for sure!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Thread high jacking aside.. apologies for that.

There is a lot of heavy filters used on here. It seems the equivalent of single men pretending to be a couple.

What is the point? It’s stupid and dishonest. And surely you’re going to get caught when you meet someone?

I’m probably being naive

It’s the same as catfishing. You wouldn’t accept it if a guy turned up 15 years old then his pics, or he told you he had 8 inches when in reality he had 6

But we seem to draw a line at that and we’re ok with a little smudge here, little edit there. Make the hips bigger, waist small, as if that’s fine, no problem.

It’s all the same to me

Those things actually happen though. I spotted someone on here listed as 38 or 39 but he told me he was in his 40s when I met him in a club when I was a University student so about 8-10 years ago.

Sorry if I’ve understood, but who those things don’t happen? "

I mean it's widely accepted. So much so that many people actually have a figure in their head for how old someone really is based on the fab age they use to account for it.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Thread high jacking aside.. apologies for that.

There is a lot of heavy filters used on here. It seems the equivalent of single men pretending to be a couple.

What is the point? It’s stupid and dishonest. And surely you’re going to get caught when you meet someone?

I’m probably being naive

It’s the same as catfishing. You wouldn’t accept it if a guy turned up 15 years old then his pics, or he told you he had 8 inches when in reality he had 6

But we seem to draw a line at that and we’re ok with a little smudge here, little edit there. Make the hips bigger, waist small, as if that’s fine, no problem.

It’s all the same to me

Those things actually happen though. I spotted someone on here listed as 38 or 39 but he told me he was in his 40s when I met him in a club when I was a University student so about 8-10 years ago.

Sorry if I’ve understood, but who those things don’t happen?

I mean it's widely accepted. So much so that many people actually have a figure in their head for how old someone really is based on the fab age they use to account for it. "

It’s widely accepted?

Or it’s widely done, despite not being accepted

Personally I don’t know anyone that’s ok with that stuff

There’s a difference, to me anyways, about something being widely accepted vs being done a lot

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I don't use filters only when I put a tic toc up lol! But if peeps want to use them think it's fine tbh if I knew how I might! x

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By *8v3nCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Don't know about Photoshop, but plenty of dic pics here taken with macro lens with a setup which would put McDonald's burger ads at shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't know about Photoshop, but plenty of dic pics here taken with macro lens with a setup which would put McDonald's burger ads at shame."

That made me laugh

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Don't know about Photoshop, but plenty of dic pics here taken with macro lens with a setup which would put McDonald's burger ads at shame."

And a tape measure that starts at their taint

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Thread high jacking aside.. apologies for that.

There is a lot of heavy filters used on here. It seems the equivalent of single men pretending to be a couple.

What is the point? It’s stupid and dishonest. And surely you’re going to get caught when you meet someone?

I’m probably being naive

It’s the same as catfishing. You wouldn’t accept it if a guy turned up 15 years old then his pics, or he told you he had 8 inches when in reality he had 6

But we seem to draw a line at that and we’re ok with a little smudge here, little edit there. Make the hips bigger, waist small, as if that’s fine, no problem.

It’s all the same to me

Those things actually happen though. I spotted someone on here listed as 38 or 39 but he told me he was in his 40s when I met him in a club when I was a University student so about 8-10 years ago.

Sorry if I’ve understood, but who those things don’t happen?

I mean it's widely accepted. So much so that many people actually have a figure in their head for how old someone really is based on the fab age they use to account for it.

It’s widely accepted?

Or it’s widely done, despite not being accepted

Personally I don’t know anyone that’s ok with that stuff

There’s a difference, to me anyways, about something being widely accepted vs being done a lot "

More people seem to fiddle their age than don't so I don't think they're going to judge others for something they do themselves. People justify it as "the age they look". Many people who openly admit to having altered their age, often significantly so still have plenty of verifications so plenty of people are clearly perfectly okay with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is anyone else seen one of the hot pics is a photoshop edit.

There’s loads. Look for blurred background as a good hint they are touching things up.

If you don’t think that loads of women are using the old smudge tool to warp their curves into a more desirable shape, your just naive

And the admins don’t care either

Blurring background doesn’t mean anything, I blur mine but I don’t use other tools to change how I look. As anyone who’s seen me on cam knows! Just don’t think everyone needs to see the photos on my wall or the contents of my room."

Same here.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Thread high jacking aside.. apologies for that.

There is a lot of heavy filters used on here. It seems the equivalent of single men pretending to be a couple.

What is the point? It’s stupid and dishonest. And surely you’re going to get caught when you meet someone?

I’m probably being naive

It’s the same as catfishing. You wouldn’t accept it if a guy turned up 15 years old then his pics, or he told you he had 8 inches when in reality he had 6

But we seem to draw a line at that and we’re ok with a little smudge here, little edit there. Make the hips bigger, waist small, as if that’s fine, no problem.

It’s all the same to me

Those things actually happen though. I spotted someone on here listed as 38 or 39 but he told me he was in his 40s when I met him in a club when I was a University student so about 8-10 years ago.

Sorry if I’ve understood, but who those things don’t happen?

I mean it's widely accepted. So much so that many people actually have a figure in their head for how old someone really is based on the fab age they use to account for it.

It’s widely accepted?

Or it’s widely done, despite not being accepted

Personally I don’t know anyone that’s ok with that stuff

There’s a difference, to me anyways, about something being widely accepted vs being done a lot

More people seem to fiddle their age than don't so I don't think they're going to judge others for something they do themselves. People justify it as "the age they look". Many people who openly admit to having altered their age, often significantly so still have plenty of verifications so plenty of people are clearly perfectly okay with it."

Whike still a shitty thing to do, I’d still prefer to meet someone that took a few years off their profile than someone that took a bunch of inches off their waist and added them to their bust.

But that’s just me. Feels extra fake.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I'm guilty of this too OP. I'm constantly having to reduce the size of my dick in pictures so I'm not swarmed by size queens

LvM

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I only ever use light or monochrome filters.

I don't use them to fool anyone and don't manipulate my age.

I have a good eye for a pic and enjoy taking and editing them.

They aren't for fabs because they rarely if ever hit double figures initially.

If people enjoy them, great. If they don't that's great too because I'm not here to compete with anyone and how I choose to present myself at the age I am is my business and no-one elses.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Thread high jacking aside.. apologies for that.

There is a lot of heavy filters used on here. It seems the equivalent of single men pretending to be a couple.

What is the point? It’s stupid and dishonest. And surely you’re going to get caught when you meet someone?

I’m probably being naive

It’s the same as catfishing. You wouldn’t accept it if a guy turned up 15 years old then his pics, or he told you he had 8 inches when in reality he had 6

But we seem to draw a line at that and we’re ok with a little smudge here, little edit there. Make the hips bigger, waist small, as if that’s fine, no problem.

It’s all the same to me

Those things actually happen though. I spotted someone on here listed as 38 or 39 but he told me he was in his 40s when I met him in a club when I was a University student so about 8-10 years ago.

Sorry if I’ve understood, but who those things don’t happen?

I mean it's widely accepted. So much so that many people actually have a figure in their head for how old someone really is based on the fab age they use to account for it.

It’s widely accepted?

Or it’s widely done, despite not being accepted

Personally I don’t know anyone that’s ok with that stuff

There’s a difference, to me anyways, about something being widely accepted vs being done a lot

More people seem to fiddle their age than don't so I don't think they're going to judge others for something they do themselves. People justify it as "the age they look". Many people who openly admit to having altered their age, often significantly so still have plenty of verifications so plenty of people are clearly perfectly okay with it.

Whike still a shitty thing to do, I’d still prefer to meet someone that took a few years off their profile than someone that took a bunch of inches off their waist and added them to their bust.

But that’s just me. Feels extra fake."

I didn't say one was worse than the other. Dishonesty is just rampant on here to the point people don't even blink at much of it.

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