FabSwingers.com forum: Introvert or extrovert

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Which one are youu!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Introvert!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Introvert who covers it with extrovert behaviour...particularly humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fully paid up introvert

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

Vert. ..ical..

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By *aturefun63Man
over a year ago

Belper

Introvert

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Introvert here

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Introvert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think of myself as introvert but others perceive me as extrovert. I think code for arsey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Introvert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

extrovert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"extrovert"

But I can spend time alone quite happily too

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Introvert

Mrs

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

I'm an introvert but I can mask at times as it causes a hangover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolute extrovert but as I get older more an introverted extrovert now ...

My kids are all extroverted introverts!

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Predominantly introvert with rare flashes of extrovert

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Introverted extrovert

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow! I had a feeling there would be much more extroverts. Makes me feel a little better haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ambivert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Depends on the circumstances.

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

Mr Introvert

Mrs Extrovert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extraportion

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Hello fellow introverts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Introvert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extrovert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ambivert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Introvert by nature.. Extrovert for work purposes

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ambivert - I swing between the 2 some days I need lots of social interaction others I need solo me time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm with my 'family by choice' (male/female/friend/family/+more), just those I'm familiar with and totally comfortable with, I am outgoing and happy to let my real self out

...get a little crazy... throw my shoes in a corner and dance my little ass off... be a little silly and fool around.... all that good stuff

If I'm in the company of almost strangers or those people I just don't choose to be open with, I'd be very careful what I show, and be fairly introverted.

I definitely police my real self

No free tickets to this party

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"Mr Introvert

Mrs Extrovert"

Opposites attract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not often people actually know what they mean! True extroverts are actually rare .. and contrary to popular belief usually aren't and definitely don't have to be the loudest people in the room!

Another thing people get confused about is introverts don't have going out/people or social situations!

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By *ames5169Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

A bit of both depending on the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not often people actually know what they mean! True extroverts are actually rare .. and contrary to popular belief usually aren't and definitely don't have to be the loudest people in the room!

Another thing people get confused about is introverts don't have going out/people or social situations! "

Don't hate* tbh they can actually love social situations! It's all about how it effects you as a person

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Bumps the door to the thread open with her boobs, says hello to everyone, offers around some jelly babies, mentions extrovert and then teleports sideways to another thread

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Very much an introvert hence my dislike of clubs and organised socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not often people actually know what they mean! True extroverts are actually rare .. and contrary to popular belief usually aren't and definitely don't have to be the loudest people in the room!

Another thing people get confused about is introverts don't have going out/people or social situations! "

I’m an introvert who likes to socialise but in a small circle of people and only for so long as it drains me

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Not often people actually know what they mean! True extroverts are actually rare .. and contrary to popular belief usually aren't and definitely don't have to be the loudest people in the room!

Another thing people get confused about is introverts don't have going out/people or social situations! "

My understanding, and I might be wrong, is it’s whether the situation drains you or charges you

Introverts find social stuff draining. Not that they don’t enjoy it, but it drains energy

Extroverts actually recharge with social stuff.

So after a hard day work an introvert might turn down a trip to the pub because they need to recharge at home. The extrovert would agree and feel better after going out

I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not often people actually know what they mean! True extroverts are actually rare .. and contrary to popular belief usually aren't and definitely don't have to be the loudest people in the room!

Another thing people get confused about is introverts don't have going out/people or social situations!

My understanding, and I might be wrong, is it’s whether the situation drains you or charges you

Introverts find social stuff draining. Not that they don’t enjoy it, but it drains energy

Extroverts actually recharge with social stuff.

So after a hard day work an introvert might turn down a trip to the pub because they need to recharge at home. The extrovert would agree and feel better after going out

I think "

That’s my understanding of it too!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m just odd

I’m sort of an introverted extrovert….if that makes any sense…?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omnivert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not often people actually know what they mean! True extroverts are actually rare .. and contrary to popular belief usually aren't and definitely don't have to be the loudest people in the room!

Another thing people get confused about is introverts don't have going out/people or social situations!

My understanding, and I might be wrong, is it’s whether the situation drains you or charges you

Introverts find social stuff draining. Not that they don’t enjoy it, but it drains energy

Extroverts actually recharge with social stuff.

So after a hard day work an introvert might turn down a trip to the pub because they need to recharge at home. The extrovert would agree and feel better after going out

I think "

That's exactly what it is!

I'm an extrovert and you can literally drop me in any social situation absolutely anywhere and I love it and thrive! And can do it all again the next day ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just odd

I’m sort of an introverted extrovert….if that makes any sense…? "

It's an actual thing!

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’m an extroverted introvert.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Introvert but extrovert if with others who are chatty.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Ambivert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Introvert who covers it with extrovert behaviour...particularly humour."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Introvert who covers it with extrovert behaviour...particularly humour."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on:

Where I am

Who I'm with

What I'm doing

How much sleep I had

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

My customary mode of daily interaction is predisposed towards extroversion, but I am now considerably more thoughtful and respectful than I was in my youth.

Age and experience has knocked the rougher edges off my personality (flaws) but my usual stance is to bounce out towards people, especially dog owners; dogs are the greatest ice breaker available and most owners are often receptive to being approached, when they see my true, genuine interest in their pooch.

One meets the occasional grouch or crank, but they are not the norm.

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Introvert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like many are confusing introversion with shyness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Introvert here but can sometimes be an extrovert depending on my surroundings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely introvert here and extrovert off fab. Here I am more cautious.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

"I feel like many are confusing introversion with shyness! "

Maybe you would like to explain the difference, as you perceive it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel like many are confusing introversion with shyness!

Maybe you would like to explain the difference, as you perceive it?"

It’s already been explained in the thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many people think of introverts as shy, but the two aren’t linked. Introversion is a personality type, while shyness is an emotion.

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

Extroversion and introversion refer to where someone gets their energy from. The difference between an extrovert and an introvert is extroverts are energized through socialization and collaboration, whereas introverts receive energy from alone time or in social settings with much smaller groups.

Introvert here, in a fairly extroverted career.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Extroversion and introversion refer to where someone gets their energy from. The difference between an extrovert and an introvert is extroverts are energized through socialization and collaboration, whereas introverts receive energy from alone time or in social settings with much smaller groups.

Introvert here, in a fairly extroverted career. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit to being an extrovert.. meaning I get my strength from being with people..

or maybe I just don't like my own company.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Introvert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Introvert

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Introvert

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

We're both innies

LvM

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Introvert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an intreverted extrovert depending on my mood I sometimes close myself off but I'm very outgoing

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Mrs..introvert until I get to know you..

Mr..extrovert..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not often people actually know what they mean! True extroverts are actually rare .. and contrary to popular belief usually aren't and definitely don't have to be the loudest people in the room!

Another thing people get confused about is introverts don't have going out/people or social situations!

I’m an introvert who likes to socialise but in a small circle of people and only for so long as it drains me "

For me, I love socialising in the sense of getting to know people and asking questions and deep conversations (meaningful) and stuff. But small talk and chatting shit as they say I'm not good at. Being around crowds or groups for extended periods of time drains me too.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Introvert.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Ambivert - can be shy unless I know you reasonably and am comfortable in your company to be myself

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By *ryan...Man
over a year ago

1950's Original

Ectoplasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omnivert

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Actually both. It's very dependent on the environment and people I'm around. Just to add complication sometimes I'm an extrovert because I'm feeling that way. Sometimes I'm an introvert because I feel that way. But sometimes I'm an extrovert to mask introvert feelings and sometimes I act introverted when masking a desire to be extroverted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere in the middle, if I’m depressed I’m an introvert but a good mood and I’m an extrovert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extrovert.

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By *ryan...Man
over a year ago

1950's Original

What was the middle one again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What was the middle one again

Ambivert I believe?

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By *obinBuckleyMan
over a year ago

Buckley

"I’m an introvert who likes to socialise but in a small circle of people and only for so long as it drains me "

That's so me. Large groups drain the life out of me, too much noise, too many distractions but I love a good 1 on 1, maybe 2 on 1.

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By *litteasingManMan
over a year ago

Thereabouts

Ambivert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Introvert

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

Introvert until spoken with someone . This in a social settings. I have held managerial posts until retirement and never effected me in that position if at meetings etc .

Never worked why.?

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Mr. Introvert

Mrs. Extrovert

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Introvert

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By *haneleviMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

Definelty introvert here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Introverted extrovert. Saw a meme the other day saying something like 'I wonder how many Introverted extroverts got diagnosed with autism or ADHD later in life?' I was diagnosed with autism not too long ago. It definitely explains a lot of things.

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By *haneleviMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

"Introverted extrovert. Saw a meme the other day saying something like 'I wonder how many Introverted extroverts got diagnosed with autism or ADHD later in life?' I was diagnosed with autism not too long ago. It definitely explains a lot of things."

Makes sense recently had a mate in their late 20s diagnosed. Explained alot for her. Definelty better for knowing now !

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Introvert.

And I'm happy with that.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Which one are youu!?"

Ambivert: half the week at home hiding from the world and half the week I need to leave my home and go talk to people.

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By *urhamdebbiecdTV/TS
over a year ago

bishop auckland

Introvert in male mode

Extrovert when dressed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends what mood I am in. Probably a bit of both.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I think I'm currently an extroverted introverts,

And moving closer to introverted again

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Introvert

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