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By *imAndBarb OP   Couple
over a year ago

chester

I seem to a lot of intros seemingly quite angry “read the profile!!” “We aren’t here to get messages” ….thought this was a liberal, relaxed place…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also often wonder what warrants such level of unpleasantness? And if I’m to believe that your profile is your shop window to sell yourself, I walk past a lot of windows.

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By *imAndBarb OP   Couple
over a year ago

chester


"I also often wonder what warrants such level of unpleasantness? And if I’m to believe that your profile is your shop window to sell yourself, I walk past a lot of windows. "

Indeed. People make mistakes….just chill. Not “I’m too important to have wrong people”

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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People get a bit jaded, prickly. Their cynicism and general irritation at their experience comes through on their profile. It's kind of sad it happens to be honest, what's wrong with taking a break if needed? I can't imagine it attracts even the people they're hoping to as they'll read it and think no, too much effort. Too angry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People get a bit jaded, prickly. Their cynicism and general irritation at their experience comes through on their profile. It's kind of sad it happens to be honest, what's wrong with taking a break if needed? I can't imagine it attracts even the people they're hoping to as they'll read it and think no, too much effort. Too angry."

^ this.

I can understand why people get frustrated based on the kind of messages they get, but externalising that frustration in terms of a ranty aggressive profile is likely to turn away the kind of people they DO want to attract.

It’s kind of an unvirtous circle. The chancers and tinewasters whi haven’t read the profile will still message nevertheless!

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By *imAndBarb OP   Couple
over a year ago

chester


"People get a bit jaded, prickly. Their cynicism and general irritation at their experience comes through on their profile. It's kind of sad it happens to be honest, what's wrong with taking a break if needed? I can't imagine it attracts even the people they're hoping to as they'll read it and think no, too much effort. Too angry.

^ this.

I can understand why people get frustrated based on the kind of messages they get, but externalising that frustration in terms of a ranty aggressive profile is likely to turn away the kind of people they DO want to attract.

It’s kind of an unvirtous circle. The chancers and tinewasters whi haven’t read the profile will still message nevertheless! "

This!

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