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Did I see you at *insert place here*?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me who thinks these types of messages are creepy as fuck, especially without face pics on your profile?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Deleted unread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not unless it mentions a police station, traffic warden school of Aldi. Staaaaandadz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes it's an instant block

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I find them intriguing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven't received one, although we did get a message asking us if we are so and so. We're not.

This thread prompts me to wonder how many times people are recognised without knowledge.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

‘Hey - didn’t I see you on the beach on my private island from my luxury yacht the other day…..?’

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Never had one but then I don't show my face nor go about topless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think : they actually think they did see you?...or it's just a bizarre way to start a convo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But was is actually you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could reply something like.it was the naked dance amoungst the cucumbers in Tesco that gave me away wasn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve only had it once from a club night so it wasn’t too bad. If it was in Asda or something I’d be creeped out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think : they actually think they did see you?...or it's just a bizarre way to start a convo "

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've had it from when I was at a club. No idea why they couldn't just say hello there, as everyone else did.

If they'd seen me in drab mode and worked out who it was, then I'd be worried

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you think : they actually think they did see you?...or it's just a bizarre way to start a convo "

Nah it's always a place I've never been lol

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I think they’re creepy and unnecessary. They must know it will unnerve a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Creepy none stop

I resentnly seen a another formite a not to long ago

They probably have no idear it was me

I was in normal me mode

And no I not message them I haven’t sed anything and will not say who or tell them

Fab and real world are different things

But I will say thank for hand me my phone back I was in a but off a rush as it went flying sorry if it came close to hitting you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuinely just got one of these … and yeah, it was me they saw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuinely just got one of these … and yeah, it was me they saw "

I was in the co-op…

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

There's not enough of me on show for anyone to recognise me in real life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you think : they actually think they did see you?...or it's just a bizarre way to start a convo

Nah it's always a place I've never been lol"

OH actually that's a lie, I did get it once where it was me but it was someone I'd been talking to on a dating app so it was a bit different haha. Led to a pretty good time too

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

Someone on another forum put out a thread. Asking if anyone had ever seen his wife.

I had, about 6 months earlier. They were both at a party, I was attending. I never said anything to either of them at the time.

When I replied on the forum, that I had seen them. He asked me a series of questions. Date, time venue, etc. Which I answered.

Then said I must have been mistaken. Er...nope. It was definitely them.

I think perhaps, I might have spooked him.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Yep, had one message me saying it was great sitting watching me walk around work, this was before I ever showed a face pic on here, his was a faceless profile so to this day I don't know who he is or if he's ever been back

Tg x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Do you think : they actually think they did see you?...or it's just a bizarre way to start a convo

Nah it's always a place I've never been lol"

They know full well they ain't seen ya. If you respond with "no, it wasn't me" they've got an in.

"Oh my mistake, anyway, how are you? Do you have any plans the weekend?"

It's the initial response they're after as a foot in the door. Nothing more than a manipulative way of getting a response, and I say manipulative because they're lying and know they are.

Yes, there will be occasions where people really may have seen someone, but other than in a club or somewhere else deemed appropriate to start a conversation over, it's bad form to use it as a convo starter.

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By *ure_heatMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Deleted unread."

Didn't I see you in my dreams?!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes... It's either in the pub or on the school run. Zero chance of either of those!

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