FabSwingers.com forum: Common Misconceptions on Fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

“Single Men can’t get meets”

Yes they can, and it’s not even particularly difficult. Just don’t be a dick. Easy.

What other untruths are often told on Fab, Fabsters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being online means you want to meet.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

People meet to do the sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance is the only thing stopping that penis going in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That women can just have their pick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women don’t meet now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People don’t meet people from the forums

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By *ixiePoisonWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

Because we are on here, we will shag anything with a pulse

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"That women can just have their pick."

Can’t we Tess?

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"Distance is the only thing stopping that penis going in me."
definitely untrue, my penis is happy to travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People in this site are non monogamous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I can breathe through my ears. Honestly, someone's gonna kill me one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the women are just up their own arse.

Any man who cannot accommodate is actually married.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Tgirls aren't as discerning as girls as to who they meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your a girl messaging me saying you fancy me it doesnt mean il fuck you id need to fancy you too

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Single guys will fuck anything

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

Going to clubs is the only way to be successful on Fab

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Women and couples don't have to make an effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That a guy can only agree with something a women thinks cause he wants to fuck her.....

There was that one time I didnt

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Verifications guarantee meets

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

That because we are a couple - *he* runs the account

. And that can I fuck your misses is a compliment to either of us.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Everybody they are just looking for sex and nothing else like friendship or just a night out for drinks and dancing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being on Fab means you are a 'swinger'

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

"Women and couples don't have to make an effort. "

As part of a couple I actually agree. We have come across so many obnoxious couples. Obviously we are lovely

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Straight means Straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Distance is the only thing stopping that penis going in me. definitely untrue, my penis is happy to travel"

My penis can reach from here

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

That because we're on a swingers site we'll sleep with anyone

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"Distance is the only thing stopping that penis going in me."

And age, can't forget age!

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

All women and couples get hundreds of messages a day - and that's the reason they don't reply

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

Not wanting to meet means you're fake / time waster.

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

That you have to chat and message for weeks on end before meeting to build a connection before you have sex. It's fine to do that, but those people can be sneery towards 2 mutually consenting adults who just want to fuck

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

Google deep mind is active on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That you have to chat and message for weeks on end before meeting to build a connection before you have sex. It's fine to do that, but those people can be sneery towards 2 mutually consenting adults who just want to fuck

Or 3

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Women are sex mad and want it 24/7.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Distance is the only thing stopping that penis going in me.

And age, can't forget age!

There are exceptions to that rule hardly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All women and couples get hundreds of messages a day - and that's the reason they don't reply"

this one always made me chuckle

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

Or 3

Or even 4, 5 and 6. Everyone gets a fuck

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"Distance is the only thing stopping that penis going in me.

And age, can't forget age!

There are exceptions to that rule hardly

Very true, if only you weren't so far away though

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Your profile is your shop window!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Distance is the only thing stopping that penis going in me.

And age, can't forget age!

There are exceptions to that rule hardly

Very true, if only you weren't so far away though

Then you would have my mole hole forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women don’t want younger men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the women are just up their own arse.

Any man who cannot accommodate is actually married. "

I can accommodate but you have to be ok with pictures of me and my gf everywhere and her stuff being there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women don’t like dick pics.

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

People are friendly and welcoming

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

That, as a man, you can enjoy sucking cock (or being sucked) and still be straight.

People within an age range are the same. Some even mock those with very wide age windows.

As if Raquel Welch is the same as Barbara Woodhouse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s no forum clique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And on that bombshell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a forum clique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s no forum clique "

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

That guys who message with a blank avatar and basic profile are sexy AF and go top of our wish list…teasing us with their dark features and cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s no forum clique "

Can’t believe you dropped the C word.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Theres a forum clique

That there *isn’t* a forum clique

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

"That, as a man, you can enjoy sucking cock (or being sucked) and still be straight.

I don't believe that liking to suck cock makes you bi. But I do agree you're not what society would define as straight.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"“Single Men can’t get meets”

Yes they can, and it’s not even particularly difficult. Just don’t be a dick. Easy.

What other untruths are often told on Fab, Fabsters?

Agreed , but sometimes you can be a bit of dick and still get meets okay

It’s a numbers game

This site is not as good as it used to be

Women have it much easier than men here , they really don’t

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"That, as a man, you can enjoy sucking cock (or being sucked) and still be straight.

I don't believe that liking to suck cock makes you bi. But I do agree you're not what society would define as straight.

If you enjoy sex, of any type, with the same sex, then your bi.

Its not "Bi-attracted".

As for "sex", I define it as anything you could go to jail for if done to a minor. Harsh but the law is the law.

Anyway...I am boring myself so carry on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That, as a man, you can enjoy sucking cock (or being sucked) and still be straight.

I don't believe that liking to suck cock makes you bi. But I do agree you're not what society would define as straight.

If you enjoy sex, of any type, with the same sex, then your bi.

Its not "Bi-attracted".

As for "sex", I define it as anything you could go to jail for if done to a minor. Harsh but the law is the law.

Anyway...I am boring myself so carry on.

That was not how I expected that to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women dont like cock pics peh in a pigs eye they dont

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"Distance is the only thing stopping that penis going in me.

And age, can't forget age!

There are exceptions to that rule hardly

Very true, if only you weren't so far away though

Then you would have my mole hole forever

Love it when you get all romantic

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"That, as a man, you can enjoy sucking cock (or being sucked) and still be straight.

I don't believe that liking to suck cock makes you bi. But I do agree you're not what society would define as straight.

If you enjoy sex, of any type, with the same sex, then your bi.

Its not "Bi-attracted".

As for "sex", I define it as anything you could go to jail for if done to a minor. Harsh but the law is the law.

Anyway...I am boring myself so carry on.

That was not how I expected that to go

Yes, sorry about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do lean towards a longer build up purely to get a feel for if it's a good match as opposed to any social judgement.

Quicker picks that I have made in the past have been less enjoyable.

That is all

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

All black guys are BBC

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"“Single Men can’t get meets”

Yes they can, and it’s not even particularly difficult. Just don’t be a dick. Easy.

What other untruths are often told on Fab, Fabsters?

I disagree. Most men, even the genuine ones find it very difficult to get a simple reply back from a message, let alone a meet.

What works for you doesn't necessarily work for the majority

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"“Single Men can’t get meets”

Yes they can, and it’s not even particularly difficult. Just don’t be a dick. Easy.

What other untruths are often told on Fab, Fabsters?

I disagree. Most men, even the genuine ones find it very difficult to get a simple reply back from a message, let alone a meet.

What works for you doesn't necessarily work for the majority "

I completely misunderstood the thread LOL! Doh!

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

That because I'm bi and like strap-on play, I want to peg you.

That anyone who says they are Dom/me have a moral obligation to dominate you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“Single Men can’t get meets”

Yes they can, and it’s not even particularly difficult. Just don’t be a dick. Easy.

What other untruths are often told on Fab, Fabsters?

I disagree. Most men, even the genuine ones find it very difficult to get a simple reply back from a message, let alone a meet.

What works for you doesn't necessarily work for the majority "

Just because the majority of single men can't or won't put in the effort required to get meets doesn't mean that it's not possible if they did.

Granted it is a little more than don't be a dick

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Sydney University gives a shit about your photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“Single Men can’t get meets”

Yes they can, and it’s not even particularly difficult. Just don’t be a dick. Easy.

What other untruths are often told on Fab, Fabsters?

I agree they can get them but I don’t agree it’s particularly easy….

An untruth has to be the ‘straight’ guy in some cases… but is slipping into DMs offering blow jobs.

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By *ommitted2funCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Sydney university owns your pictures

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

"Bi guys just want to shag your husband."

Just because we like dick sometimes doesn't mean we want it all the time. Sometimes we are happy to just watch it, just doing it's thing, all sexy and hard......

What was I saying? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Distance is the only thing stopping that penis going in me."

And now they a have gone far far away!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Men messaging you are probably wanking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man that states he doesn’t accommodate is married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A man that states he doesn’t accommodate is married."

oh yes. This.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"A man that states he doesn’t accommodate is married."

Atm I can't accom as I am renovating my house.

I must be married to my house if its stopping me from accommodating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely this one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man who acts without his centre is a leaf in the wind.

Which is true. I heard that on a ninja movie once.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

A man that says he is single, is single

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Men don't know how to take pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posting a photo of a recent meet means i'm looking for a meet Right now. this instant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things [removed by poster] we’re interesting or ban hammer stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A man that states he doesn’t accommodate is married.

Atm I can't accom as I am renovating my house.

I must be married to my house if its stopping me from accommodating. "

I don’t know if you thought I actually meant that?

It’s not what I think but what most seem to think on here…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All black guys are BBC

So why do they use Black and BBC synonymously

?!?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

"“Single Men can’t get meets”

Yes they can, and it’s not even particularly difficult. Just don’t be a dick. Easy.

What other untruths are often told on Fab, Fabsters?

Straight male.

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London

Fabswingers is a publicly traded entity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabswingers is a publicly traded entity"

I thought that was just the site members

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"A man that states he doesn’t accommodate is married.

Atm I can't accom as I am renovating my house.

I must be married to my house if its stopping me from accommodating.

I don’t know if you thought I actually meant that?

It’s not what I think but what most seem to think on here…"

Yes, I got that. I was, clumsily apparently, using my example as a reinforcement of your point.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

That I’ve shagged everyone on my friends list - many are just that - friends

That larger and older women are desperate (not just on fab though) er…no!

On that note I seem miraculously able to transform from “gorgeous, stunning, curvy” to “old, fat and desperate” with the sending of just one word in a message - no -

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By *ximiaMan
over a year ago

Sutton

There are so many guys competing for women, if you can sell yourself in a message you win, I prefer to sell myself on person.

No I'm not a prostitute lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“Single Men can’t get meets”

Yes they can, and it’s not even particularly difficult. Just don’t be a dick. Easy.

What other untruths are often told on Fab, Fabsters?

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Yes they can I agree be more understanding twords the couples. I don't want to see "Hey you have a nice pussy". You wanna fuck ? Huge turn off. Idk maybe it's just me I love a cordial conversation.

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By *heSeductivePairCouple
over a year ago

London

"Sydney University gives a shit about your photos."

This cracked me up!

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By *milingeyesWoman
over a year ago

mickeymousetown

Most men will

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"“Single Men can’t get meets”

Yes they can, and it’s not even particularly difficult. Just don’t be a dick. Easy.

What other untruths are often told on Fab, Fabsters?

Yes they can I agree be more understanding twords the couples. I don't want to see "Hey you have a nice pussy". You wanna fuck ? Huge turn off. Idk maybe it's just me I love a cordial conversation."

Exactly

Easy! Guys.. listen!

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

"Because we are on here, we will shag anything with a pulse "

Exactly this. So boring

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Fog lights should be used in rain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fog lights should be used in rain"
Depends on on the fog lights

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Fog lights should be used in rain Depends on on the fog lights

Don’t you start as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That ‘viewed your profile’ means they liked what they saw and want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fog lights should be used in rain Depends on on the fog lights

Don’t you start as well!"
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fog lights should be used in rain"
i prefer to concentrate on the hooters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

That women like getting sent dick pics….

Why else would we get so many?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"That women like getting sent dick pics….

Why else would we get so many?

Understood

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Distance is the only thing stopping that penis going in me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well dick pics a totally different discussion.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Clubs are full of single women

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Being bi means I’ll say yes to sex with men. It really really doesn’t!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Women strut about in sexy undies and nothing else all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well dick pics a totally different discussion.

Should we discuss?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done several MFM and I’m absolutely genuine and will turn up even though I’ve been on Fab more than a year and have no verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(My own) misconception that this is a liberal, accepting site. Imagine my surprise to learn aggressive homophobia is alive and well on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(My own) misconception that this is a liberal, accepting site…. "

You nailed it right there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"(My own) misconception that this is a liberal, accepting site. Imagine my surprise to learn aggressive homophobia is alive and well on here. "

Sorry to hear that, and the abuse it sounds like you’ve received.

I kind of agree with Woody.. you could have stopped after the first sentence. I guess Fab is just a reflection of society

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

I can make you squirt/gush

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

That the female half of a couple can be acknowledged/addressed in a DM.

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By *arebitUKWoman
over a year ago

Gwent

Saying hello to someone should always be followed up with, "When can we fuck?"

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