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If age is just a number....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why set limits on who you would meet?

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By *lean_CutMan
over a year ago

Rasen area

Because age isn’t just a number..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cock has a number too x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Coz age isn't just a number for those it ain't just a number for?

I've tend to find that "age is just a number" is spouted by those who are trying to convince others it shouldn't matter to them, regardless of their own thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why set limits on who you would meet?"

If a cock is just flesh, etc etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because age isn’t just a number..?"

i've seen it in several profiles now so just wondered why bother writing it when they truly feel it is important afterall.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"My cock has a number too x "

My cock has a postcode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not me setting the limits.. it's their hips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not me setting the limits.. it's their hips."

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Age is just a number until it isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cock has a number too x

My cock has a postcode "

Smooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny init.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

But it's not just a number x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All those that write in their profile ' age is just a number' but then set age limits, clearly it isnt just a number for you!! Thats all I'm saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cock has a number too x

My cock has a postcode "

LN0 3IN?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was worried about age limits when I first joined but since I've come on here I'm more worried about weight limits ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no

Online yes it matters

In the real world no it dose not matter

People normally don’t ask age first in the real world

Attraction sets in first and then age comes second by that time age dose not matter to some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All those that write in their profile ' age is just a number' but then set age limits, clearly it isnt just a number for you!! Thats all I'm saying"

Correct

It's NEVER just a number

It speaks to a lot of different things as far as life stage, personality and likes and attitude and sexuality

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Age is a filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All those that write in their profile ' age is just a number' but then set age limits, clearly it isnt just a number for you!! Thats all I'm saying

Correct

It's NEVER just a number

It speaks to a lot of different things as far as life stage, personality and likes and attitude and sexuality"

Some old folks as if they were selfish teenagers and some teenagers are more mature than French cheeses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

745

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It's not just a number, it's preference, i don't want to sleep with anyone older than my mother or young enough to be my child.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"My cock has a number too x

My cock has a postcode

LN0 3IN?"

FAB 9IN

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

you can still look great when your older...

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By *andi19Couple
over a year ago

somewhere

50 max if they are in great shape!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cock has a number too x

My cock has a postcode "

Mine has a personalised plate.

BJ69KFC

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

I’m going to have to start lying about mine now, you wouldn’t believe the amount of profiles who set upper limit to below my age!

It’s more than just a number alright!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Age is not just a number, it's an undeniable fact. You may not act your age and try to disguise it but you can't escape it.

Age filters are important to many on here. I won't meet or even engage with anyone within 10 years of my eldest child.

Despite how some on here like to mock people's age preferences or dissect them it's nobody else's business how or why people choose their filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why set limits on who you would meet?"

Some don’t. Occasionally they turn out to be wrong ‘uns

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By *hicDragon08Man
over a year ago

Woodbridge

The head says yes, my knees say no!!!

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Because I could never meet anyone close to the age of my parents, or far off my kids ages.....

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Age is important to some, less to it herself and not at all to some.

Some place much importance in it, despite never being able to be 100% sure that someone is actually providing the right info - has anyone ever been asked for photo ID on a meet, because if you say yes I'll simply laugh.

Online it's a semi-useful filter if used as a rough guide. I doubt many could pin point a 41 Yr old from a 39 year old at twenty paces so if your cut off point ends in a zero then you've probably already met people outside of your alleged preferences.

Likewise if you visit clubs I doubt any opening conversation starter is "so how old are you?".

People will always be more swayed by looks and photos than a number. If Jennifer Aniston offered to get jiggy with a guy who had 50 as his upper limit I reckon he'd change his tune, likewise if Brad Pitt made the same offer to a woman.

But hey. There will be those who say their age preference is cast in stone, immovable and will never be deviated from.

Yeah. Of course...........

A

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

*less to others, not 'herself'.....

A

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Age is just a number. That’s a fact

Whether you place and importance on that number or not is what matters

And everyone does to a degree. That’s how age of consent works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I previously come to learn from previous experience and previous profile that fab age is just a number.

Usually 10yrs younger than they actually are

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"My cock had a number two x "

You should probably see a doctor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because for some the number might be close to their kids age or parents age which they might feel uncomfortable with.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe


"Age is just a number. That’s a fact

Whether you place and importance on that number or not is what matters

And everyone does to a degree. That’s how age of consent works "

So you're saying age is more than just a number. Got it.

Also whenever anyone says "age is just a number", my mind immediately goes to R. Kelly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because I could never meet anyone close to the age of my parents, or far off my kids ages....."

and that I don't have a problem with. You don't mention in your profiles that 'age doesn't matter' then put age limits, as others have done. You just set the age limits from the start.

Its the double standards of some I'm referring to..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Age is a filter"

and I don't think anyone would argue with that. Its your personal preference afterall.

The problem is with members who write ' age doesn't matter' but then set age limits.

double standards isn't it?

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By *ickeyblueeyes7Man
over a year ago

newport

Usually from 18 to 99

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire


"why set limits on who you would meet?"

Age is just a number,but everyone has preferences.....

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

It bloody isn't! Who told you that??

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

[Removed by poster at 15/09/22 21:22:29]

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"[Age matters by poster at 15/09/22 21:22:29]"

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By *isterE ManMan
over a year ago

Taunton

In my opinion and experiance, you are attracted to a person, regardless of their age.

The Groups you look for/into simply reflect a wider group, of higher number of potential people you will be attracted too.

I am more likely to find someone 25-50 attractive than 50-75 etc.

That is not to say that I do not find some 25-50 unattractive. And some 50-75 very attractive.

I set the limit to the highest likelyhood.

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