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By *parkyfire94 OP   Man
over a year ago

caterham

Is it me?

Seen lots of people request meets and such for this evening or weekend.

You go to the effort of sending messages pics and such and never hear back!

I get that you’re never going to be everyone’s cup of tea, but surely if you look at the sent message and it hasn’t been read. Then what’s going on? Are they just out to tease and boost there own egos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna say theybget alot of messages.

And a blank avatar next to one is an easy way to filter out some quicky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me?

Seen lots of people request meets and such for this evening or weekend.

You go to the effort of sending messages pics and such and never hear back!

I get that you’re never going to be everyone’s cup of tea, but surely if you look at the sent message and it hasn’t been read. Then what’s going on? Are they just out to tease and boost there own egos?"

They will probably get a lot of messages in response to a post like that and too many to read so will go to the profiles that stand out and meet their requirements or they could choose someone from their friends list or someone they’ve already met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Junk mail is all around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Junk mail is all around "

It's everywhere I go

Ooooh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people before reading the messages will look at the profile

It’s a shop window

The sad truth is when you indate with messages it can be like a candy shop take your pic

If a profile dose not stand out what’s going to make me pick that person over one that dose

There’s a saying on fab the effort you put in is the effort you get back

If you put no effort in you get none back

Put the effort in and the rewards will come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i put a meeting on, i look at the profiles that respond before i open the message. Then if not what i want, i dont open the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In short, most people will look at a profile before the message attached.

If the profile is tempting to them, they're likely to open the message.

If not, they're likely to leave be and look at another profile attached to another message and again and again until hopefully they find one that catches their attention.

If you're finding this to be the norm to you, maybe look at updating your profile.

That's the general advice in the FAQ's

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