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By *humper. OP   Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

not sure why my last post vanished, so ill try again.

im curious to know who on here is looking solely for sex and who is looking for more?

i like the idea of building up trust and a connection... spend the weekends together rather than just a few hours in a hotel etc. more a fiends with benefits/GF experience kinda thing

like, i live on the coast and can happily accomodate.... make a weekend of it. if its couples im happy to leave you to do your thing and explore etc, if its single female im happy to take you out.

not looking for "relationships" but, more than just getting laid. you know?

curious to see peoples opinions who have tried/play that way.

is swinging purely sex for you, or can it be more?

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By *tranger swings 69Couple
over a year ago

cheshire


"not sure why my last post vanished, so ill try again.

im curious to know who on here is looking solely for sex and who is looking for more?

i like the idea of building up trust and a connection... spend the weekends together rather than just a few hours in a hotel etc. more a fiends with benefits/GF experience kinda thing

like, i live on the coast and can happily accomodate.... make a weekend of it. if its couples im happy to leave you to do your thing and explore etc, if its single female im happy to take you out.

not looking for "relationships" but, more than just getting laid. you know?

curious to see peoples opinions who have tried/play that way.

is swinging purely sex for you, or can it be more?"

Just sex for us tbh, added bonus If we pick up new friends along the way

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

If I made that kind of connection with someone, I'd be happy to do the "more" side of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I googled the phrase swings n roundabouts and got lost finding the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not sure why my last post vanished, so ill try again.

im curious to know who on here is looking solely for sex and who is looking for more?

i like the idea of building up trust and a connection... spend the weekends together rather than just a few hours in a hotel etc. more a fiends with benefits/GF experience kinda thing

like, i live on the coast and can happily accomodate.... make a weekend of it. if its couples im happy to leave you to do your thing and explore etc, if its single female im happy to take you out.

not looking for "relationships" but, more than just getting laid. you know?

curious to see peoples opinions who have tried/play that way.

is swinging purely sex for you, or can it be more?"

So you want a girlfriend experience without the effort it takes to maintain a relationship.

Someone that you can park at will and roll out when you need a bit of attention and affection....

Nice

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

When I was active, I focused on full weekend meets with people I'd built up a good connection with. It was very satisfying

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We're here looking for varied guys for Char - we don't want to get in a rut with any one guy, but we're happy to meet people more than once.

We've found a few couples that we now class as friends and see more often, both for play and for "vanilla" social evenings too.

Now...a road trip stop off on the Scottish coast.....

(Bry)

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By *humper. OP   Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

its as much about giving affection as it is about recieving it. maybe i worded it poorly but... no, thats not what i was aiming at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just sex

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By *humper. OP   Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

pretty even split so far, interesting. ill jump back on in a bit to catch up. cheers people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really looking for anything specific. I don't enjoy just meeting strangers for sex so not that but as for anything else it's a case of what feels right with whoever I'm with. I've made vanilla friends, fwb and fuck buddies here and they all have their own merits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am looking for what you describe, a close friendship with trust and respect but not a full on relationship. Does it exist? who knows but only one way to find out. Inevitably you're going to care for that person and if it crosses the line into more... Maybe that's okay for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want nothing from nobody i am only here to check messages and pass the time until im inspired or take the loss on the chin

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There are people for who swinging is purely sex. You can't have a deep connection at a gang bang for instance. My personal opinion is that in the type of relationship you describe (it is a relationship it doesn't matter how you describe it) at least one person is giving more and feeling more than the other. The potential for hurt and misunderstanding is huge.

There must be some people who can compartmentalise their relationships in the way you describe but I don't think I could invest that much time in human interaction without dignifying it with the title relationship. Or am I completely misunderstanding what a relationship is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not sure why my last post vanished, so ill try again.

im curious to know who on here is looking solely for sex and who is looking for more?

i like the idea of building up trust and a connection... spend the weekends together rather than just a few hours in a hotel etc. more a fiends with benefits/GF experience kinda thing

like, i live on the coast and can happily accomodate.... make a weekend of it. if its couples im happy to leave you to do your thing and explore etc, if its single female im happy to take you out.

not looking for "relationships" but, more than just getting laid. you know?

curious to see peoples opinions who have tried/play that way.

is swinging purely sex for you, or can it be more?

So you want a girlfriend experience without the effort it takes to maintain a relationship.

Someone that you can park at will and roll out when you need a bit of attention and affection....

Nice

"

I think some women want the boyfriend experience without the commitment too though. I guess as long as everyone is on the same page, it is nice.

I'm not that bothered about sharing my week with someone. I'm busy with my job, training and family.

Just want some sexy sex with someone I enjoy spending time with at the weekends.

Also need to be my support crew when I run ultras.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are people for who swinging is purely sex. You can't have a deep connection at a gang bang for instance. My personal opinion is that in the type of relationship you describe (it is a relationship it doesn't matter how you describe it) at least one person is giving more and feeling more than the other. The potential for hurt and misunderstanding is huge.

There must be some people who can compartmentalise their relationships in the way you describe but I don't think I could invest that much time in human interaction without dignifying it with the title relationship. Or am I completely misunderstanding what a relationship is?"

Agreed

Frequency leads to familiarity which leads to affection and attachment

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"When I was active, I focused on full weekend meets with people I'd built up a good connection with. It was very satisfying "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not sure why my last post vanished, so ill try again.

im curious to know who on here is looking solely for sex and who is looking for more?

i like the idea of building up trust and a connection... spend the weekends together rather than just a few hours in a hotel etc. more a fiends with benefits/GF experience kinda thing

like, i live on the coast and can happily accomodate.... make a weekend of it. if its couples im happy to leave you to do your thing and explore etc, if its single female im happy to take you out.

not looking for "relationships" but, more than just getting laid. you know?

curious to see peoples opinions who have tried/play that way.

is swinging purely sex for you, or can it be more?

So you want a girlfriend experience without the effort it takes to maintain a relationship.

Someone that you can park at will and roll out when you need a bit of attention and affection....

Nice

I think some women want the boyfriend experience without the commitment too though. I guess as long as everyone is on the same page, it is nice.

I'm not that bothered about sharing my week with someone. I'm busy with my job, training and family.

Just want some sexy sex with someone I enjoy spending time with at the weekends.

Also need to be my support crew when I run ultras. "

Sounds fairly like a relationship to me tbh

Not all bf/gf live in eachother's pockets 24/7

It's entirely possible to lead reasonably freely within a relationship if, as you say, all have the same perspective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m looking for connections but everyone on here is just after a quick fuck so I’m pretty done with meeting people from here for sex.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

I have no idea or preconceptions - I'm a bit like driftwood and just wash up and see what happens

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Pen pals - I never did replace Pierre from the French Exchange after he moved address…

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I've asked myself what I want on here and I keep coming up with different answers so I've resigned myself to the fact I want it all

FB

FWB

Kink playmates

Boyfriend experiences

Club buddy

Weekend adventures

Great friends

Social parties

And they will all roll in and out of my life when the times are right

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Well we both have to find the other person/people attractive or have some kind of spark and to be mentally stimulated and so that's us both pretty much buggered on here then ??

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"its as much about giving affection as it is about recieving it. maybe i worded it poorly but... no, thats not what i was aiming at."

I got what you were saying. But you'd definitely have to have a conversation about boundaries.

I think it's possible to be affectionate, care for people without being exclusive/attached.

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By *humper. OP   Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

i completely understand your points of view. i guess in a sense it would be a "relationship" of sorts. surely its the same as anything else though... communication and honesty? besides, living in a rural setting theres not many people on here where theres mutual attraction so the distance alone would stop anything evolving into anything "serious". personally i think the sex is better when you have a connection with people. that doesnt need to be "love"... just desire, attraction, connection as opossed to one off meets.

i know what im trying to say, just making an arse of putting it into words haha.

i get that over a prolonged period it leaves you open to hurt etc but, again... communication and honesty.

If im honest, i did expect "just sex" to be the more popular opinion given the site we are on... its just nice to be able to have an open conversation about things with like minded people

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I want to find people to hurt

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London


"There are people for who swinging is purely sex. You can't have a deep connection at a gang bang for instance. My personal opinion is that in the type of relationship you describe (it is a relationship it doesn't matter how you describe it) at least one person is giving more and feeling more than the other. The potential for hurt and misunderstanding is huge.

There must be some people who can compartmentalise their relationships in the way you describe but I don't think I could invest that much time in human interaction without dignifying it with the title relationship. Or am I completely misunderstanding what a relationship is?"

You make an interesting point. At the heart of the matter is the boundary between 'friendship' and 'relationship'. Many people here, of both sexes, are independent for a variety of reasons. That doesn't mean that they do not want good friends, just that they value their independence.

In my case I have recently left an unhealthy relationship that went on for far too long. I don't want to rush into another relationship before I have fully reflected on what went wrong and what part was my fault and how I may need to change.

Making good friends is part of a better life. That you can share intimacies so much the better.

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

I think I'm looking for something similar, something in the middle of a full relationship but more than fuck buddies,

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London


"I want to find people to hurt "

In all my time on Fab with this profile and my previous one, I have never blocked anyone. Congratulations you are the first.

With all the pain and misery in the world, just crass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds fairly like a relationship to me tbh

Not all bf/gf live in eachother's pockets 24/7

It's entirely possible to live reasonably freely within a relationship if, as you say, all have the same perspective "

Tbh this is exactly what I would want for myself. My life is madly busy already and I have lots of commitments but I want a corner just for myself, to leave the rest at the door and enjoy all the sexcapades and adventure I can dream up, but with a committed partner, there's a lot I'd just never do casually

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville


"I've asked myself what I want on here and I keep coming up with different answers so I've resigned myself to the fact I want it all

FB

FWB

Kink playmates

Boyfriend experiences

Club buddy

Weekend adventures

Great friends

Social parties

And they will all roll in and out of my life when the times are right "

exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i completely understand your points of view. i guess in a sense it would be a "relationship" of sorts. surely its the same as anything else though... communication and honesty? besides, living in a rural setting theres not many people on here where theres mutual attraction so the distance alone would stop anything evolving into anything "serious". personally i think the sex is better when you have a connection with people. that doesnt need to be "love"... just desire, attraction, connection as opossed to one off meets.

i know what im trying to say, just making an arse of putting it into words haha.

i get that over a prolonged period it leaves you open to hurt etc but, again... communication and honesty.

If im honest, i did expect "just sex" to be the more popular opinion given the site we are on... its just nice to be able to have an open conversation about things with like minded people "

That's my favourite part of fab actually, the openness around these kinds of chats

Well the scenery isn't bad either

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Just sex. I have a long term partner for connection.

All I'm looking for here is an intense and passionate night with people and then we all move on with our lives. I enjoy the excitement and novelty of new encounters but after the first time that has worn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its as much about giving affection as it is about recieving it. maybe i worded it poorly but... no, thats not what i was aiming at.

I got what you were saying. But you'd definitely have to have a conversation about boundaries.

I think it's possible to be affectionate, care for people without being exclusive/attached. "

I think you've nailed it there..

Most people on here are quite a distance away from vanilla in the sexual department. Everybody dreams but doesn't believe they'll ever find the ideal partner with the best of both worlds so settle somewhere on the spectrum.

Some settle at the heavily sexual end and others in the purely social end, most somewhere in between.

When I was single and looking in SDC I ultimately wanted to meet someone that I could interact with more than just burying a bone and leaving. I didn't believe that I was "worthy" of any of the single women as my self esteem was somewhere at the bottom of a deep ocean. If I had of met someone that was on the same wavelength I'd have been ecstatic with that - but really, knowing how rare a connection like that is I didn't think that would happen and was content to accept less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m looking for connections but everyone on here is just after a quick fuck so I’m pretty done with meeting people from here for sex. "

^^ this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last meet which was a first meet btw lasted 16 hours! I’m not a quick fuck kinda girl! I like sensual and intense which is better with connection!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More like go on city breaks and explore different cultures?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"not sure why my last post vanished, so ill try again.

im curious to know who on here is looking solely for sex and who is looking for more?

i like the idea of building up trust and a connection... spend the weekends together rather than just a few hours in a hotel etc. more a fiends with benefits/GF experience kinda thing

like, i live on the coast and can happily accomodate.... make a weekend of it. if its couples im happy to leave you to do your thing and explore etc, if its single female im happy to take you out.

not looking for "relationships" but, more than just getting laid. you know?

curious to see peoples opinions who have tried/play that way.

is swinging purely sex for you, or can it be more?

So you want a girlfriend experience without the effort it takes to maintain a relationship.

Someone that you can park at will and roll out when you need a bit of attention and affection....

Nice

"

I'd like that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is what I'm looking for now, although it's made me question if I should be on here anymore. I've had a few NSA meets and they have scratched an itch but I'm ready for something with more connection now.

I don't want a bf though so I feel a bit of a floater... not serious enough for online dating, too serious for Fab.

I don't wanna meet their family and share daily lives or be exclusive.

I also don't want to be bombarded with messages daily because the other person thinks we are in relationship territory. I'm fairly happy with my own company most of the time, but would be nice to have someone to do things with sexually and romantically when we are both feeling that way inclined.

I've read a little about Solo Poly and I guess I feel that fits me the most.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I want to find people to hurt "

Seriously

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I want to find people to hurt

Seriously "

Maybe I imagined all the times I have spoken openly about being a sadist and looking for masochistic people.

But hey ho

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I want to find people to hurt

In all my time on Fab with this profile and my previous one, I have never blocked anyone. Congratulations you are the first.

With all the pain and misery in the world, just crass."

I am quite sure I will survive being blocked, however your comprehension may need some work. At least I am up front about my interests, I just hope you take this moral stance with all the cheaters on here who stand to cause real pain and suffering to their loved ones. However, given I am your “first block” I seriously doubt that !

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"not sure why my last post vanished, so ill try again.

im curious to know who on here is looking solely for sex and who is looking for more?

i like the idea of building up trust and a connection... spend the weekends together rather than just a few hours in a hotel etc. more a fiends with benefits/GF experience kinda thing

like, i live on the coast and can happily accomodate.... make a weekend of it. if its couples im happy to leave you to do your thing and explore etc, if its single female im happy to take you out.

not looking for "relationships" but, more than just getting laid. you know?

curious to see peoples opinions who have tried/play that way.

is swinging purely sex for you, or can it be more?

So you want a girlfriend experience without the effort it takes to maintain a relationship.

Someone that you can park at will and roll out when you need a bit of attention and affection....

Nice

"

Not sure where the problem is... You don't have to get into that... It's pretty much, exactly what I look for, although it can be hard to find... I want someone that will never want commitment, is ok with me living with someone (also not my bf) but do things together, other than sex... I just want someone that wants to make the most of our time together,however long or short that may be... It makes life much nicer

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"not sure why my last post vanished, so ill try again.

im curious to know who on here is looking solely for sex and who is looking for more?

i like the idea of building up trust and a connection... spend the weekends together rather than just a few hours in a hotel etc. more a fiends with benefits/GF experience kinda thing

like, i live on the coast and can happily accomodate.... make a weekend of it. if its couples im happy to leave you to do your thing and explore etc, if its single female im happy to take you out.

not looking for "relationships" but, more than just getting laid. you know?

curious to see peoples opinions who have tried/play that way.

is swinging purely sex for you, or can it be more?

So you want a girlfriend experience without the effort it takes to maintain a relationship.

Someone that you can park at will and roll out when you need a bit of attention and affection....

Nice

Not sure where the problem is... You don't have to get into that... It's pretty much, exactly what I look for, although it can be hard to find... I want someone that will never want commitment, is ok with me living with someone (also not my bf) but do things together, other than sex... I just want someone that wants to make the most of our time together,however long or short that may be... It makes life much nicer"

That should really say, aswell as sex... There needs to be lots of that!

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

During the week currently I don't have much free time to have socials/meets, so prefer weekends. Hopefully that will change in a few months.

Ideally connections and whole weekend meets for me, until I get there I'm happy with things.

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry


"not sure why my last post vanished, so ill try again.

im curious to know who on here is looking solely for sex and who is looking for more?

i like the idea of building up trust and a connection... spend the weekends together rather than just a few hours in a hotel etc. more a fiends with benefits/GF experience kinda thing

like, i live on the coast and can happily accomodate.... make a weekend of it. if its couples im happy to leave you to do your thing and explore etc, if its single female im happy to take you out.

not looking for "relationships" but, more than just getting laid. you know?

curious to see peoples opinions who have tried/play that way.

is swinging purely sex for you, or can it be more?

So you want a girlfriend experience without the effort it takes to maintain a relationship.

Someone that you can park at will and roll out when you need a bit of attention and affection....

Nice

"

Bit harsh..? Dude just wants to have a nice weekend of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex with Ford Fiesta drivers if possible x

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry


"There are people for who swinging is purely sex. You can't have a deep connection at a gang bang for instance. My personal opinion is that in the type of relationship you describe (it is a relationship it doesn't matter how you describe it) at least one person is giving more and feeling more than the other. The potential for hurt and misunderstanding is huge.

There must be some people who can compartmentalise their relationships in the way you describe but I don't think I could invest that much time in human interaction without dignifying it with the title relationship. Or am I completely misunderstanding what a relationship is?"

Must one party be giving more than the other in the situation described? I don't see that, necessarily. And why should the potential for hurt be increased..? Don't understand. It sounds like a marvelous arrangement to me

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"not sure why my last post vanished, so ill try again.

im curious to know who on here is looking solely for sex and who is looking for more?

i like the idea of building up trust and a connection... spend the weekends together rather than just a few hours in a hotel etc. more a fiends with benefits/GF experience kinda thing

like, i live on the coast and can happily accomodate.... make a weekend of it. if its couples im happy to leave you to do your thing and explore etc, if its single female im happy to take you out.

not looking for "relationships" but, more than just getting laid. you know?

curious to see peoples opinions who have tried/play that way.

is swinging purely sex for you, or can it be more?"

This sounds the ideal scenario! But tbh not that easy to find x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not sure why my last post vanished, so ill try again.

im curious to know who on here is looking solely for sex and who is looking for more?

i like the idea of building up trust and a connection... spend the weekends together rather than just a few hours in a hotel etc. more a fiends with benefits/GF experience kinda thing

like, i live on the coast and can happily accomodate.... make a weekend of it. if its couples im happy to leave you to do your thing and explore etc, if its single female im happy to take you out.

not looking for "relationships" but, more than just getting laid. you know?

curious to see peoples opinions who have tried/play that way.

is swinging purely sex for you, or can it be more?"

I’d like this kind of thing too. I mean, I’d be open to more, but this would be fun too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not sure why my last post vanished, so ill try again.

im curious to know who on here is looking solely for sex and who is looking for more?

i like the idea of building up trust and a connection... spend the weekends together rather than just a few hours in a hotel etc. more a fiends with benefits/GF experience kinda thing

like, i live on the coast and can happily accomodate.... make a weekend of it. if its couples im happy to leave you to do your thing and explore etc, if its single female im happy to take you out.

not looking for "relationships" but, more than just getting laid. you know?

curious to see peoples opinions who have tried/play that way.

is swinging purely sex for you, or can it be more?

I’d like this kind of thing too. I mean, I’d be open to more, but this would be fun too"
wanna go to an exhibition together?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not sure why my last post vanished, so ill try again.

im curious to know who on here is looking solely for sex and who is looking for more?

i like the idea of building up trust and a connection... spend the weekends together rather than just a few hours in a hotel etc. more a fiends with benefits/GF experience kinda thing

like, i live on the coast and can happily accomodate.... make a weekend of it. if its couples im happy to leave you to do your thing and explore etc, if its single female im happy to take you out.

not looking for "relationships" but, more than just getting laid. you know?

curious to see peoples opinions who have tried/play that way.

is swinging purely sex for you, or can it be more?

I’d like this kind of thing too. I mean, I’d be open to more, but this would be fun too wanna go to an exhibition together? "

Yes!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've had this with all my FWB's. We usually spend a weekend or more together at times depending on our schedules etc. We still have our separate lives without being in each others pocket so to speak x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t do friends with benefits, I’ve tried, it doesn’t work for me. It’s either just sex or exclusively dating, no in between or at least I’ve not found an in between that’s worked so far.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"not sure why my last post vanished, so ill try again.

im curious to know who on here is looking solely for sex and who is looking for more?

i like the idea of building up trust and a connection... spend the weekends together rather than just a few hours in a hotel etc. more a fiends with benefits/GF experience kinda thing

like, i live on the coast and can happily accomodate.... make a weekend of it. if its couples im happy to leave you to do your thing and explore etc, if its single female im happy to take you out.

not looking for "relationships" but, more than just getting laid. you know?

curious to see peoples opinions who have tried/play that way.

is swinging purely sex for you, or can it be more?"

Same for me. That’s all I’ve ever done on fab and all I’m ever looking for. Not into quick daytime meets/fuck n go etc. It’s never solely for sex for me. Does nothing at all for me

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"not sure why my last post vanished, so ill try again.

im curious to know who on here is looking solely for sex and who is looking for more?

i like the idea of building up trust and a connection... spend the weekends together rather than just a few hours in a hotel etc. more a fiends with benefits/GF experience kinda thing

like, i live on the coast and can happily accomodate.... make a weekend of it. if its couples im happy to leave you to do your thing and explore etc, if its single female im happy to take you out.

not looking for "relationships" but, more than just getting laid. you know?

curious to see peoples opinions who have tried/play that way.

is swinging purely sex for you, or can it be more?

So you want a girlfriend experience without the effort it takes to maintain a relationship.

Someone that you can park at will and roll out when you need a bit of attention and affection....

Nice

"

That’s what I want to. I don’t want a proper relationship. I don’t think it’s unusual!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex but there's got to be some kind of attraction and connection still, we'd quite like to meet a couple for more frequent meets, saves trying to sort it out all the time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not sure why my last post vanished, so ill try again.

im curious to know who on here is looking solely for sex and who is looking for more?

i like the idea of building up trust and a connection... spend the weekends together rather than just a few hours in a hotel etc. more a fiends with benefits/GF experience kinda thing

like, i live on the coast and can happily accomodate.... make a weekend of it. if its couples im happy to leave you to do your thing and explore etc, if its single female im happy to take you out.

not looking for "relationships" but, more than just getting laid. you know?

curious to see peoples opinions who have tried/play that way.

is swinging purely sex for you, or can it be more?

So you want a girlfriend experience without the effort it takes to maintain a relationship.

Someone that you can park at will and roll out when you need a bit of attention and affection....

Nice

Not sure where the problem is... You don't have to get into that... It's pretty much, exactly what I look for, although it can be hard to find... I want someone that will never want commitment, is ok with me living with someone (also not my bf) but do things together, other than sex... I just want someone that wants to make the most of our time together,however long or short that may be... It makes life much nicer

That should really say, aswell as sex... There needs to be lots of that! "

That just reads to me as an open bf/gf relationship

Not sure how people would get through that unscathed tbh

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By *humper. OP   Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

a lot of feedback here... thankyou. not got time to read and reply to it all just now but, its appreciated, cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not sure why my last post vanished, so ill try again.

im curious to know who on here is looking solely for sex and who is looking for more?

i like the idea of building up trust and a connection... spend the weekends together rather than just a few hours in a hotel etc. more a fiends with benefits/GF experience kinda thing

like, i live on the coast and can happily accomodate.... make a weekend of it. if its couples im happy to leave you to do your thing and explore etc, if its single female im happy to take you out.

not looking for "relationships" but, more than just getting laid. you know?

curious to see peoples opinions who have tried/play that way.

is swinging purely sex for you, or can it be more?"

Previously I’ve been in this position spending the weekends with those I’ve met on here . Made some amazing friendships that have spilled out into the ‘real world’

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By *humper. OP   Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

well.... anyone who likes the idea, is more than free to contact me. pretty mixed opinion but it seems theres a fair few on my level

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only closer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just sex for us. We have each other for everything else.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I am looking for hours and hours of hot steamy sex in various positions.

Failing that, a nice cup of tea and scone somewhere romantic.

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By *humper. OP   Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

you had me at scone!

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