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"I'm completely oblivious to "flirting" Much prefer the direct approach x" So you’d prefer something like - Sparkle, I’d love to be lucky enough for you to let me climb I’ll over you naked giving you all the orgasms you could handle! That type of thing? | |||
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"I'm completely oblivious to "flirting" Much prefer the direct approach x So you’d prefer something like - Sparkle, I’d love to be lucky enough for you to let me climb I’ll over you naked giving you all the orgasms you could handle! That type of thing? " That works x | |||
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"I love to flirt and find it really sexy. Sometimes it just eye contact but it does give me a lift. " Eye contact where you can feel the heat in your chest… oh yes. | |||
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"I’m a Gemini so flirting is in my blood….. some people can take it as more than flirting and some don’t it’s how you take it ( the flirting that is ) " Well at least I know I can blame it on my star sign too. Flirting is easy and a bit of fun, I genuinely just think it's a giggle and assume nothing more, which is why I'm basically oblivious if someone actually wants more | |||
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"I’m a Gemini so flirting is in my blood….. some people can take it as more than flirting and some don’t it’s how you take it ( the flirting that is ) " I still give them it even if they don’t want it (the flirting that is ) | |||
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"I’m a massive flirt but I can never tell if someone is flirting with me or if they’re just a nice person. So I never shoot my shot because how embarrassing is rejection " Playing it safe is just that Steve, we stay in the safe zone whilst the others are home soon I g fun on all the rides. | |||
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"The problem is differentiating between flirting with intention and friendly flirting with no intention. It’s mixed signals so some people just don’t take it further incase it’s not with intention. I’ve never had anyone say to me oh I used to like you. So not something I’ve experienced. I’ve definitely experienced the flirting without intent, probably more than the with intent. " Yup yup, I think nowadays it's even more rife with complexity from my position, so I'll always assume it means nothing than risk the potential fall out of getting it wrong. | |||
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"The problem is differentiating between flirting with intention and friendly flirting with no intention. It’s mixed signals so some people just don’t take it further incase it’s not with intention. I’ve never had anyone say to me oh I used to like you. So not something I’ve experienced. I’ve definitely experienced the flirting without intent, probably more than the with intent. " Sparkle above said about needing it a bit more direct, i can understand that. And maybe we all do, and sometimes the ‘mixed signals’ are when we think there’s something there, and it’s not. It’s just friendliness. I just expect everyone wants to shag me, so I'm good with that. | |||
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"I’m a massive flirt but I can never tell if someone is flirting with me or if they’re just a nice person. So I never shoot my shot because how embarrassing is rejection " You flirt? Noooo??!?! | |||
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"I admit I used to be the world's worst flirt on here but that stopped ages ago when the forum stopped being fun ." You broke it. | |||
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"I have no clue! I don't flirt with anyone myself until I know for sure I want to bang them because my previous attempts at lighthearted flirtation have been taken too seriously and it lead to much awkwardness. " I can also understand this. Awkward can either put a stop to a possible good friendship or stop an existing one. | |||
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"I need a written confirmation in clear language or I'll think they are just being friendly " ^^^ this too | |||
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"I am extremely playful with people, but it should all be taken lightheartedly. If I actually want to have sex with him I would tell him. I like clarity as friendships can be muddied far to easily by miscommunicated feelings" I know that’s right | |||
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"It seems that the majority of us, at least those posting in this thread, are bloody useless at this flirting thing......" • I was just about to say the same thing, Pølly! Can you imagine us all doing speed dating... we'd be as much use as tits on a fish. | |||
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"If she doesn't tell me straight to my face "hey ! I want you!" ...than any flirting attempt will be futile on me " How'd you do that online though... Asking for a friend | |||
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"If she doesn't tell me straight to my face "hey ! I want you!" ...than any flirting attempt will be futile on me How'd you do that online though... Asking for a friend " Message me I’ll Help you out | |||
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"Unless someone is sitting there with a big banner saying I fancy you I’m oblivious. " looking at you I'd say you should assume everyone fancies you unless they blatantly say otherwise | |||
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"The problem is differentiating between flirting with intention and friendly flirting with no intention. It’s mixed signals so some people just don’t take it further incase it’s not with intention. I’ve never had anyone say to me oh I used to like you. So not something I’ve experienced. I’ve definitely experienced the flirting without intent, probably more than the with intent. " 'differentiating between flirting with intention and friendly flirting with no intention.' That's exactly what I said to my HR manager | |||
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"Online yes In person no I am good at reading body language But always scared to act on it incase I have it wrong " I invariably tend to write off even overt incoming signals as likely innocent, for fear of misreading the displayed intent from another. (and then rebuke myself for my stupidity later!) | |||
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"It seems that the majority of us, at least those posting in this thread, are bloody useless at this flirting thing...... • I was just about to say the same thing, Pølly! Can you imagine us all doing speed dating... we'd be as much use as tits on a fish. " Do fish not have tits? If not, why does the little mermaid wear a bra? | |||
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"I just tell them I am interested in you x Me too x" Monotonous monologue | |||
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"If she doesn't tell me straight to my face "hey ! I want you!" ...than any flirting attempt will be futile on me How'd you do that online though... Asking for a friend " Send a friend request...than upload a video saying " hey, I want you..." | |||
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"If she doesn't tell me straight to my face "hey ! I want you!" ...than any flirting attempt will be futile on me How'd you do that online though... Asking for a friend Send a friend request...than upload a video saying " hey, I want you..." " *takes notes for 'friend' | |||
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"I had a colleague I worked with over 30 years ago I flirted like mad with her but never thought she felt the same Cut to five years ago she found me on LinkedIn and told me she had the hots for me all the time She was definitely the one that got away " that’s the sort of thing I was talking about. It’s crazy things like this are missed in life. | |||
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