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"Have you tried the butchers? " God dam it. I was going to say that | |||
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"‘Genuine guys’ Stick that in your bio for a start. " Haha …….. "Third, have you considered that maybe you just have to be a certain level of attractive to get lots of meets? I accepted that and fab became a lot better. " This right here …. and I remember a guy (from real life) and this might sound mean, but he wasn’t what you’d say was good looking or a ‘hottie!’ He just oozed something the women were into. His confidence and the way he was was enough to turn a lot of stunners his way. Most guys thought he was a lucky guy. But this is fab, and it’s a catalogue. They look at the pictures first op. | |||
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"I must admit fab has gone down hill in the last year or so it’s changed a lot " House! | |||
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"I must admit fab has gone down hill in the last year or so it’s changed a lot " I’m not in anyway trying to defend the website. It’ll still survive after you and I leave. But what do you mean ‘down hill? | |||
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"Why do people always suggest clubs and socials? They’re not even a better way to get meets? Especially if you have anxiety? They can be cliquey. Some people use online websites and apps to meet people because it’s easier to talk to people on there and then 1-1. I went to my first social and if it wasn’t for meeting a lovely forum person who knew a few people then I would’ve left pretty soon and not spoken to many people because it was way too overwhelming. It just seems like too much of an obvious suggestion- if someone could do them surely they’d already have done them? This isn’t an attacking comment by the way, just genuinely get confused at how many people this is the solution to finding a fwb or getting more meets. " For some clubs and socials work (obviously not for all) I've only attended small socials where it has been easy for everyone to chat and meet. The hosts have been fantastic at getting everyone involved and making sure no-one is left feeling like a spare part. | |||
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"Why do people always suggest clubs and socials? They’re not even a better way to get meets? Especially if you have anxiety? They can be cliquey. Some people use online websites and apps to meet people because it’s easier to talk to people on there and then 1-1. I went to my first social and if it wasn’t for meeting a lovely forum person who knew a few people then I would’ve left pretty soon and not spoken to many people because it was way too overwhelming. It just seems like too much of an obvious suggestion- if someone could do them surely they’d already have done them? This isn’t an attacking comment by the way, just genuinely get confused at how many people this is the solution to finding a fwb or getting more meets. " I think it's because... generally men are pretty crap at taking photos of themselves. I'm sorry. I'm generalising I know. But in real life a man comes alive, you can see their smile, the way their body moves under their clothes. The way they interact with people. Even if they're not the most classically attractive, in person some people just have this animal magnetism. Like a sexual energy that's hard to resist. So I guess it's an easy go to that's well meant but not considering how another feels about them. Op, look at your profile. Make that the best it can be. If you don't want to go to clubs or socials, don't. But you'll have to be proactive in getting attention in other ways, whether that's via marketing through the fora, your profile or chat rooms. | |||
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"Be taller + better looking + tattoos Failing that, go to social + clubs where your personality can do the talking " ha ha. I work on it every day. absolutely socials and clubs to allow your personality to shine through | |||
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"I must admit fab has gone down hill in the last year or so it’s changed a lot " I have said the same myself. The forums used to be a great place to come and have a laugh, these days they are worse than a school playground..people get jumped on and ridiculed for the slightest thing which is quite sad to see x | |||
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"I must admit fab has gone down hill in the last year or so it’s changed a lot I have said the same myself. The forums used to be a great place to come and have a laugh, these days they are worse than a school playground..people get jumped on and ridiculed for the slightest thing which is quite sad to see x" I’d like to jump on you … | |||
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"I must admit fab has gone down hill in the last year or so it’s changed a lot " Definitely !, the slippy slope began before covid. Almost no genuine and well mannered 'local' folk on here anymore, even for a couple ! | |||
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"Your profile is your way to stand out. Is it the best it can be? If many are like me they look at profiles before opening messages and if the profile doesn’t entice the message gets deleted without reading! " I do exactly the same, but then I’ll get another message asking why I never read… I never respond to a blank profile | |||
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"Offer cake It works - true fact!" ^This is true | |||
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"I must admit fab has gone down hill in the last year or so it’s changed a lot " Turning up to things that used to be better is the story of my life! "Oh it used to be great here, we went on work do's all paid for by the company...... Not any more!" | |||
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"Stop making excuses. Sell yourself better online. If you can’t do that then go to socials/clubs and sell yourself. On here you are a product…either sell yourself or pray that the perfect woman loves FAB bingo lingo and one pic profiles… Or change your ways so you stand out more and appeal to more K" Oooo savage | |||
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"Stop making excuses. Sell yourself better online. If you can’t do that then go to socials/clubs and sell yourself. On here you are a product…either sell yourself or pray that the perfect woman loves FAB bingo lingo and one pic profiles… Or change your ways so you stand out more and appeal to more K" K! That's so direct. Fuck. You're so hot right now. | |||
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"Hi everyone been on and off fab for a little while and had a few fantastic meets but it’s seems so hard for genuine guys to get anywhere as there seems to be a very large ratio of men to ladies on here so how can you stand out of the crowd ?? " Make sure you read profiles and match their requirements before messaging. | |||
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"I’ll just add, read profiles and make sure you fit what they’re looking for. The amount of messages I get from short men, or meet today or how filthy can you get messages is insane when a read of my profile would show that I’m not interested in any of these." By the way, meet tomorrow? How clean can you really get? Like is the smell of bleach, sexy? | |||
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"Hi everyone been on and off fab for a little while and had a few fantastic meets but it’s seems so hard for genuine guys to get anywhere as there seems to be a very large ratio of men to ladies on here so how can you stand out of the crowd ?? " Well you’ve had a 4 meets in 10 months so not bad. A good start might be to display your veris and perhaps have some other pics. Failing that keep starting forum threads | |||
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"I must admit fab has gone down hill in the last year or so it’s changed a lot I have said the same myself. The forums used to be a great place to come and have a laugh, these days they are worse than a school playground..people get jumped on and ridiculed for the slightest thing which is quite sad to see x" When has this honestly not been the case.... It's always been a bit cutthroat on the forums | |||
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"Hi everyone been on and off fab for a little while and had a few fantastic meets but it’s seems so hard for genuine guys to get anywhere as there seems to be a very large ratio of men to ladies on here so how can you stand out of the crowd ?? " You're first two paragraphs are very off putting. Your photo is meh. We're always very very suspicious of people who are verified and don't show verifications. We presume they say "met this guy and he was an absolute twat, do not meet him" | |||
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"Hi everyone been on and off fab for a little while and had a few fantastic meets but it’s seems so hard for genuine guys to get anywhere as there seems to be a very large ratio of men to ladies on here so how can you stand out of the crowd ?? You're first two paragraphs are very off putting. Your photo is meh. We're always very very suspicious of people who are verified and don't show verifications. We presume they say "met this guy and he was an absolute twat, do not meet him" " Nobody writes that in a veri ffs | |||
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"I must admit fab has gone down hill in the last year or so it’s changed a lot I have said the same myself. The forums used to be a great place to come and have a laugh, these days they are worse than a school playground..people get jumped on and ridiculed for the slightest thing which is quite sad to see x When has this honestly not been the case.... It's always been a bit cutthroat on the forums" Not as bad as it is now. The amount of people who seem to take joy in belittling others is paramount these days. | |||
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"I must admit fab has gone down hill in the last year or so it’s changed a lot I have said the same myself. The forums used to be a great place to come and have a laugh, these days they are worse than a school playground..people get jumped on and ridiculed for the slightest thing which is quite sad to see x When has this honestly not been the case.... It's always been a bit cutthroat on the forums Not as bad as it is now. The amount of people who seem to take joy in belittling others is paramount these days." I don't know I honestly rambert comments like this 3 years ago and 3 years before that and 3 years.... you get the point. I think at times we all just suffer fatigue of Internet forums. Or maybe I've been desensitised to it instead | |||
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" Nobody writes that in a veri ffs" Obviously. But it may say something like "fucked me bareback" or "was really rough and dominant" but they are presenting themselves to us as a sub. | |||
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"What do you consider your ideal level of meets? " 1 | |||
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"Or just copy someone else's bio word for word, lol" And their pictures. I know the perfect guy. | |||
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" Nobody writes that in a veri ffs Obviously. But it may say something like "fucked me bareback" or "was really rough and dominant" but they are presenting themselves to us as a sub. " Yep if all veris hidden first assumption is something not right. Maybe unfair in some cases but given the number of men here easy to stick to those who have good veris on display. | |||
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"How to get more meets ??" Be what people are looking for? No amount of profile updates or cool new photos will get you meets if you are not what people are looking for. | |||
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"Hi everyone been on and off fab for a little while and had a few fantastic meets but it’s seems so hard for genuine guys to get anywhere as there seems to be a very large ratio of men to ladies on here so how can you stand out of the crowd ?? " • A 'quick win' and a starter-for-ten would be to add some parenthesis. | |||
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"And probably not best to copy and paste someone’s profile…. Especially mine *I’m calling you out on that one fella. " Oh gosh; he has | |||
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"And probably not best to copy and paste someone’s profile…. Especially mine *I’m calling you out on that one fella. " Stand out of the crowd…by copying someone verbatim? Novel approach. | |||
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"Or just copy someone else's bio word for word, lol" • He took you quite literally!!!.... | |||
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"Or just copy someone else's bio word for word, lol • He took you quite literally!!!...." I forgot he’d said that lol guessing OP doesn’t get sarcasm! | |||
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"Or just copy someone else's bio word for word, lol • He took you quite literally!!!.... I forgot he’d said that lol guessing OP doesn’t get sarcasm! " Haha. That’s funny. He should have picked someone who’s got women dripping from their cock rather than mine. | |||
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"Or just copy someone else's bio word for word, lol • He took you quite literally!!!.... I forgot he’d said that lol guessing OP doesn’t get sarcasm! Haha. That’s funny. He should have picked someone who’s got women dripping from their cock rather than mine. " Yours is a good bio though! | |||
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"Or just copy someone else's bio word for word, lol • He took you quite literally!!!.... I forgot he’d said that lol guessing OP doesn’t get sarcasm! Haha. That’s funny. He should have picked someone who’s got women dripping from their cock rather than mine. Yours is a good bio though! " And yet …….? …… | |||
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"Or just copy someone else's bio word for word, lol • He took you quite literally!!!.... I forgot he’d said that lol guessing OP doesn’t get sarcasm! Haha. That’s funny. He should have picked someone who’s got women dripping from their cock rather than mine. Yours is a good bio though! And yet …….? …… " And yet what? Lol | |||
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"Or just copy someone else's bio word for word, lol • He took you quite literally!!!.... I forgot he’d said that lol guessing OP doesn’t get sarcasm! Haha. That’s funny. He should have picked someone who’s got women dripping from their cock rather than mine. Yours is a good bio though! And yet …….? …… And yet what? Lol" Ask the op how many woman he has chasing him. | |||
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"Or just copy someone else's bio word for word, lol • He took you quite literally!!!.... I forgot he’d said that lol guessing OP doesn’t get sarcasm! Haha. That’s funny. He should have picked someone who’s got women dripping from their cock rather than mine. Yours is a good bio though! And yet …….? …… " • ....and yet you're a Champion Lover Extraordinaire! | |||
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"Or just copy someone else's bio word for word, lol • He took you quite literally!!!.... I forgot he’d said that lol guessing OP doesn’t get sarcasm! Haha. That’s funny. He should have picked someone who’s got women dripping from their cock rather than mine. Yours is a good bio though! And yet …….? …… And yet what? Lol Ask the op how many woman he has chasing him. " A good bio is only half the battle though lol | |||
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"Or just copy someone else's bio word for word, lol • He took you quite literally!!!.... I forgot he’d said that lol guessing OP doesn’t get sarcasm! Haha. That’s funny. He should have picked someone who’s got women dripping from their cock rather than mine. Yours is a good bio though! And yet …….? …… And yet what? Lol Ask the op how many woman he has chasing him. A good bio is only half the battle though lol" And the other half? | |||
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"Or just copy someone else's bio word for word, lol • He took you quite literally!!!.... I forgot he’d said that lol guessing OP doesn’t get sarcasm! Haha. That’s funny. He should have picked someone who’s got women dripping from their cock rather than mine. Yours is a good bio though! And yet …….? …… And yet what? Lol Ask the op how many woman he has chasing him. A good bio is only half the battle though lol And the other half? " • You have to beg. | |||
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"Or just copy someone else's bio word for word, lol • He took you quite literally!!!.... I forgot he’d said that lol guessing OP doesn’t get sarcasm! Haha. That’s funny. He should have picked someone who’s got women dripping from their cock rather than mine. Yours is a good bio though! And yet …….? …… And yet what? Lol Ask the op how many woman he has chasing him. A good bio is only half the battle though lol And the other half? • You have to beg. " But only half begging | |||
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"Or just copy someone else's bio word for word, lol • He took you quite literally!!!.... I forgot he’d said that lol guessing OP doesn’t get sarcasm! Haha. That’s funny. He should have picked someone who’s got women dripping from their cock rather than mine. Yours is a good bio though! And yet …….? …… And yet what? Lol Ask the op how many woman he has chasing him. A good bio is only half the battle though lol And the other half? • You have to beg. " Nooooooo lol begging is not sexy | |||
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"I think where Woody went wrong was that he failed to put a Sydney University legal dicklaimer at bottom of his profile. That usually has the plagiarists running for the hills!" | |||
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"I think where Woody went wrong was that he failed to put a Sydney University legal dicklaimer at bottom of his profile. That usually has the plagiarists running for the hills!" Haha. | |||
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"Get out more? Network? Be present? If I wanted a KFC, I'd go to KFC, not just look at an online menu." Now I want corn on the cob | |||
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"Get out more? Network? Be present? If I wanted a KFC, I'd go to KFC, not just look at an online menu. Now I want corn on the cob" I'm fucking famished. Should have got some food on the way home from work but didn't realise how hungry I was gonna be. Boooooo | |||
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"Get out more? Network? Be present? If I wanted a KFC, I'd go to KFC, not just look at an online menu." deliveroo init | |||
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"Get out more? Network? Be present? If I wanted a KFC, I'd go to KFC, not just look at an online menu. deliveroo init" DeliverWho? | |||
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"Get out more? Network? Be present? If I wanted a KFC, I'd go to KFC, not just look at an online menu. deliveroo init DeliverWho? " I actually encourage him. I’m interested to see if he has better luck than I do with his profile. … or my profile??!?! I’m confused who has intellectual rights to it now. | |||
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".... Second, try the forums. We’re all sleeping together on here... " Are we??!! ... I didn't get that memo | |||
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".... Second, try the forums. We’re all sleeping together on here... Are we??!! ... I didn't get that memo " It was on the Teams meeting. Did you not get the link? | |||
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"Hi everyone been on and off fab for a little while and had a few fantastic meets but it’s seems so hard for genuine guys to get anywhere as there seems to be a very large ratio of men to ladies on here so how can you stand out of the crowd ?? " you need to be good looking mate lol. My profile stands out but as I'm not good looking no one wants to meet me unless I was gay/bi then I'd be inundated | |||
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"Get out more? Network? Be present? If I wanted a KFC, I'd go to KFC, not just look at an online menu. deliveroo init DeliverWho? I actually encourage him. I’m interested to see if he has better luck than I do with his profile. … or my profile??!?! I’m confused who has intellectual rights to it now. " • He does. Unfortunately, you didn't ™ and © and ® in time. It's a long protracted affair to get it back. He's already had a meet. He's got a new verification, the insolent little pup. | |||
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".... Second, try the forums. We’re all sleeping together on here... Are we??!! ... I didn't get that memo It was on the Teams meeting. Did you not get the link?" Damn it ... think I was on annual leave for that meeting ...I always miss out on the fun stuff | |||
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"I must admit fab has gone down hill in the last year or so it’s changed a lot I have said the same myself. The forums used to be a great place to come and have a laugh, these days they are worse than a school playground..people get jumped on and ridiculed for the slightest thing which is quite sad to see x" Unfortunately, a few of the more recent joiners have decided to form a little gang and collectively shout down anyone they don’t agree with- it’s pretty much becoming unbearable some days | |||
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"He’s gone UNLOS lol " That won’t get you more meets from fab | |||
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"He’s gone UNLOS lol That won’t get you more meets from fab " Can't hurt for some tbh | |||
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"Set up a market stall Roll up roll up Come get my winky up your pooper if ur really lucky il mot you out too Come get your annual rodding ladies " I haven't heard that word for years winky | |||
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"He’s gone UNLOS lol That won’t get you more meets from fab " • At least you can now reclaim your intellectual property! | |||
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"He’s gone UNLOS lol That won’t get you more meets from fab " One less ... so more meets to go round now?! | |||
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"He’s gone UNLOS lol " A victory for all the other genuine single men | |||
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"He’s gone UNLOS lol That won’t get you more meets from fab " He'll be back! Just wait for the "Was on here before but lost all veris...how do I get veris to get meets" thread... | |||
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"Set up a market stall Roll up roll up Come get my winky up your pooper if ur really lucky il mot you out too Come get your annual rodding ladies I haven't heard that word for years winky " i say it quite a lot | |||
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"Set up a market stall Roll up roll up Come get my winky up your pooper if ur really lucky il mot you out too Come get your annual rodding ladies I haven't heard that word for years winky i say it quite a lot " | |||
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