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Social butterfly or catapiller

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Hello ladies and gents

Hope you’re all well and in the best of health

Before covid I used to be the most social of butterflies but since the lockdowns and the year and a half of consciously keeping a distance from folk do you find you have become more or less social after the pandemic

I find I prefer my own space and less keen on big group gatherings

People seem to frustrate me

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"Hello ladies and gents

Hope you’re all well and in the best of health

Before covid I used to be the most social of butterflies but since the lockdowns and the year and a half of consciously keeping a distance from folk do you find you have become more or less social after the pandemic

I find I prefer my own space and less keen on big group gatherings

People seem to frustrate me "

Oh

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I adore being a social butterfly in a known social setting, but abhor crowds of unknown people and yes it is a trust/control thing.

In this day and age the risk of harm puts me right off, so the caterpillar for me then, I'm always found on the edge or at the back if a group of unknown people, which is another reason why I don't go to festivals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally take each day as it comes

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm a total social butterfly. No autographs, though

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I'm pretty shy but will chat if someone chats to me

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"I adore being a social butterfly in a known social setting, but abhor crowds of unknown people and yes it is a trust/control thing.

In this day and age the risk of harm puts me right off, so the caterpillar for me then, I'm always found on the edge or at the back if a group of unknown people, which is another reason why I don't go to festivals "

I’ve never been to a festival

I think I’d love it but only if it’s somewhere hot and sunny and I have my own tent

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"I personally take each day as it comes "

Oooo I try to come once a day

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"I'm a total social butterfly. No autographs, though "

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"I'm pretty shy but will chat if someone chats to me"

Nice to know

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m a bit like that. I’m a social butterfly but since Covid I just can’t be arsed! When I do go out I’m no different to before but it’s actually making myself do things at the moment. I’m actually starting to annoy myself with it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be out and about and mixing with people but I often find I get irritated by some people easily these days so probably better off in my own company most of the time

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Like a social event and all covid did really is just show some people in their true light and how utterly stupid some people are ?? but Mrs4 is a very sociable person and enjoys a good natter and Mr4 is fairly sociable but does seem tht a fair few people are avoiding the larger gatherings but then some who say they are/do ..then bugger off to clubs lol

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No shall allways prefer to b around people x

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I’m a bit like that. I’m a social butterfly but since Covid I just can’t be arsed! When I do go out I’m no different to before but it’s actually making myself do things at the moment. I’m actually starting to annoy myself with it too. "

Yes I agree .. It is annoying..

Get your arse out haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello ladies and gents

Hope you’re all well and in the best of health

Before covid I used to be the most social of butterflies but since the lockdowns and the year and a half of consciously keeping a distance from folk do you find you have become more or less social after the pandemic

I find I prefer my own space and less keen on big group gatherings

People seem to frustrate me

Oh "

I'm a little more of a caterpillar at present (a very hungry one, at that). I've been known to be a butterfly on occasion, just less so recently.

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"I’m a bit like that. I’m a social butterfly but since Covid I just can’t be arsed! When I do go out I’m no different to before but it’s actually making myself do things at the moment. I’m actually starting to annoy myself with it too. "

I annoy myself too

Such a dick

A handsome charming dick but still a dick

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm a little catapiller if I don't really know the group I'm in....if I do then watch me spread my wings and fly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just butter i sit in the coldest corner trying not to melt before im asked to spead someones legs

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"I'm a little catapiller if I don't really know the group I'm in....if I do then watch me spread my wings and fly x"

My mind finished that sentence before I’d read it

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"Im just butter i sit in the coldest corner trying not to melt before im asked to spead someones legs "

Ok

Ok

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I think I’m possibly less sociable. I don’t mind not go out and mixing and I’m happy in my own company.

I was never great in large groups but I just stand still and hope someone chats to me these days

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Definitely a caterpillar! I don't mind small groups of people I know well for socialising, other than that it's a no from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very sociable large crowds don’t phase me

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"I think I’m possibly less sociable. I don’t mind not go out and mixing and I’m happy in my own company.

I was never great in large groups but I just stand still and hope someone chats to me these days "

I used to thrive in large groups but these days

I’m happy in my own company or small nearest and dearest friends

The rest of the humans piss me off

Now put me in a pack of 12 dogs

Yes these are creatures I want to spend time with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely a caterpillar especially in large groups if I don't know many but with friends i know well then I'm fine.

I am fine in my own company to as I do not socialise much now.

I'm probably better with animals and children.

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Animals are much more my thing

Not cats though

Don’t trust those feline bastards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally take each day as it comes

Oooo I try to come once a day

"

I know you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just butter i sit in the coldest corner trying not to melt before im asked to spead someones legs

Ok

Ok "
lurpak spreadable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Caterpillar….I’m an introvert!

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"I personally take each day as it comes

Oooo I try to come once a day

I know you do "

How the hell do you know pervert

You been spying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally take each day as it comes

Oooo I try to come once a day

I know you do

How the hell do you know pervert

You been spying "

I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere in between

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Hmm, I don’t have a problem with large groups if I’m not expected to have any interaction with them, so being in a crowd at a festival or whatever is fine, and I’m fine talking to a large group of people if I’m the one presenting or training people or whatever, and I’m ok be to one, but put me in a group that I’m expected to socialise with and I feel the need to leave quite soon, it’s my sons wedding in a few weeks and he already knows that I won’t stay late, that once the need to leave comes over me there’s not much I can do about it except get in more and more of a grumpy mood and be introverted so it’s far easier to just sneak out quietly saying goodbye to the absolute minimum amount of people possible.

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"I personally take each day as it comes

Oooo I try to come once a day

I know you do

How the hell do you know pervert

You been spying

I have "

How dare you

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"Somewhere in between "

I’m not sure I believe you

The Scottish are known for being the life and soul and make friends wherever

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"Hmm, I don’t have a problem with large groups if I’m not expected to have any interaction with them, so being in a crowd at a festival or whatever is fine, and I’m fine talking to a large group of people if I’m the one presenting or training people or whatever, and I’m ok be to one, but put me in a group that I’m expected to socialise with and I feel the need to leave quite soon, it’s my sons wedding in a few weeks and he already knows that I won’t stay late, that once the need to leave comes over me there’s not much I can do about it except get in more and more of a grumpy mood and be introverted so it’s far easier to just sneak out quietly saying goodbye to the absolute minimum amount of people possible."

The grumpy aspect is that not an age thing I’ve noticed as my old man gets older he gets grumpier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somewhere in between "
the brunch of the insect world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally take each day as it comes

Oooo I try to come once a day

I know you do

How the hell do you know pervert

You been spying

I have

How dare you "

You love it really

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"I personally take each day as it comes

Oooo I try to come once a day

I know you do

How the hell do you know pervert

You been spying

I have

How dare you

You love it really "

I think you’ll find you love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello ladies and gents

Hope you’re all well and in the best of health

Before covid I used to be the most social of butterflies but since the lockdowns and the year and a half of consciously keeping a distance from folk do you find you have become more or less social after the pandemic

I find I prefer my own space and less keen on big group gatherings

People seem to frustrate me "

I’ve done lots of things since things have gone pretty much back to normal. More than I did before. Spent so much time not being able to do stuff I think it’s made me think life is too short. I only have a small circle of friends and my social activities are nothing too crazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't see why it took a pandemic for people to stay 2 metres away from me.. continue please.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Natural extrovert and social butterfly. Covid hasn't changed that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally take each day as it comes

Oooo I try to come once a day

I know you do

How the hell do you know pervert

You been spying

I have

How dare you

You love it really

I think you’ll find you love it "

Nope you do and you know it

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"Natural extrovert and social butterfly. Covid hasn't changed that "

I’m more of an extrovert

But still

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"I personally take each day as it comes

Oooo I try to come once a day

I know you do

How the hell do you know pervert

You been spying

I have

How dare you

You love it really

I think you’ll find you love it

Nope you do and you know it "

Pipe down bab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still in my pupae

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

More like a social moth.

Only comes out at night to run into your lamps and then off out the window.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)


"Hmm, I don’t have a problem with large groups if I’m not expected to have any interaction with them, so being in a crowd at a festival or whatever is fine, and I’m fine talking to a large group of people if I’m the one presenting or training people or whatever, and I’m ok be to one, but put me in a group that I’m expected to socialise with and I feel the need to leave quite soon, it’s my sons wedding in a few weeks and he already knows that I won’t stay late, that once the need to leave comes over me there’s not much I can do about it except get in more and more of a grumpy mood and be introverted so it’s far easier to just sneak out quietly saying goodbye to the absolute minimum amount of people possible.

The grumpy aspect is that not an age thing I’ve noticed as my old man gets older he gets grumpier "

No, I think I’ve always been like this but just recognised it about myself more and accepted that it’s just how I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate people...

Miss S x

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"I hate people...

Miss S x"

Hate is a little strong but I’m not keen on a lot of them

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"Hmm, I don’t have a problem with large groups if I’m not expected to have any interaction with them, so being in a crowd at a festival or whatever is fine, and I’m fine talking to a large group of people if I’m the one presenting or training people or whatever, and I’m ok be to one, but put me in a group that I’m expected to socialise with and I feel the need to leave quite soon, it’s my sons wedding in a few weeks and he already knows that I won’t stay late, that once the need to leave comes over me there’s not much I can do about it except get in more and more of a grumpy mood and be introverted so it’s far easier to just sneak out quietly saying goodbye to the absolute minimum amount of people possible.

The grumpy aspect is that not an age thing I’ve noticed as my old man gets older he gets grumpier

No, I think I’ve always been like this but just recognised it about myself more and accepted that it’s just how I am"

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