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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

What is the one thing (if anything) will you tolerate from people?

I find my tolerance level is rather low in my advancing years....an example of mine is lying. I used to just let things slide, now I have a 3 strike rule x

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I'm quite tolerant in many things but i have 0% tolerance for lies, desonesty, fake people

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

On fab probably inconsistency and unreliability

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I tolerate anything from those with the inability to help themselves. We can't all be perfect and some of those who cannot help their ways have other highly admirable qualities.

e.g. I have a friend who is a moaning pain in the arse but he's intelligent, funny, sexy, generous, loyal, reliable, steadfast , good to look at , great cock ....

Long may he moan I say.

I wouldn't tolerate something that was harmful to me in any way.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"What is the one thing (if anything) will you tolerate from people?

I find my tolerance level is rather low in my advancing years....an example of mine is lying. I used to just let things slide, now I have a 3 strike rule x"

Ever think you get three lies cos you allowed the first ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I tolerate anything from those with the inability to help themselves. We can't all be perfect and some of those who cannot help their ways have other highly admirable qualities.

e.g. I have a friend who is a moaning pain in the arse but he's intelligent, funny, sexy, generous, loyal, reliable, steadfast , good to look at , great cock ....

Long may he moan I say.

I wouldn't tolerate something that was harmful to me in any way."

Thank you for your kind words, GC

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"What is the one thing (if anything) will you tolerate from people?

I find my tolerance level is rather low in my advancing years....an example of mine is lying. I used to just let things slide, now I have a 3 strike rule x

Ever think you get three lies cos you allowed the first ?"

Sometimes you don't know that the first time is a lie though.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"What is the one thing (if anything) will you tolerate from people?

I find my tolerance level is rather low in my advancing years....an example of mine is lying. I used to just let things slide, now I have a 3 strike rule x

Ever think you get three lies cos you allowed the first ?

Sometimes you don't know that the first time is a lie though."

How do you reach three then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends who it is and what the lie is. I'm more likely to forgive close family and friends than someone new in my life.

A new person in my life, one lie is enough for me to walk away.

Other things like, if I've noticed behaviour that makes me anxious, I've communicated that to them but they still do it, then I don't give a second chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think iv gone the opposite way as iv aged iv far mor patience i think its cos i dont much care about most things anymore tho

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"What is the one thing (if anything) will you tolerate from people?

I find my tolerance level is rather low in my advancing years....an example of mine is lying. I used to just let things slide, now I have a 3 strike rule x

Ever think you get three lies cos you allowed the first ?

Sometimes you don't know that the first time is a lie though.

How do you reach three then ?

"

I've usually found out the truth by the 3rd strike.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I think iv gone the opposite way as iv aged iv far mor patience i think its cos i dont much care about most things anymore tho"

You do care. You've just realised that there is very little in life to raise a sweat or worry over......

The chill years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think iv gone the opposite way as iv aged iv far mor patience i think its cos i dont much care about most things anymore tho

You do care. You've just realised that there is very little in life to raise a sweat or worry over......

The chill years

"
could be that too

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"What is the one thing (if anything) will you tolerate from people?

I find my tolerance level is rather low in my advancing years....an example of mine is lying. I used to just let things slide, now I have a 3 strike rule x

Ever think you get three lies cos you allowed the first ?

Sometimes you don't know that the first time is a lie though.

How do you reach three then ?

I've usually found out the truth by the 3rd strike.

"

okies ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Bigotry. It's really naff.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I'm pretty tolerant to most things regarding social friends as i don'thave a level of investment in them per se, if it causes me angst then I walk away and shut that door immediately.

Inner circle wise, I'll let anything slide in the moment, because we all have off days and we all know that there will be a family discussion about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the one thing (if anything) will you tolerate from people?

I find my tolerance level is rather low in my advancing years....an example of mine is lying. I used to just let things slide, now I have a 3 strike rule x

Ever think you get three lies cos you allowed the first ?

Sometimes you don't know that the first time is a lie though.

How do you reach three then ?

I've usually found out the truth by the 3rd strike.

"

So basically by the time you figure out there is one lie they have probably reached 3. So its a one strike rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'm all that tolerant but then I also can't be arsed dealing with certain things so I inactivity tolerate them.

So I'm a lazy intolerant mess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am amazingly pragmatic and resilient and can forgive almost all things with time and reflection.

I find i sometimes have unrealistic expectations and standards of people and when they fail those, it takes me a little while to get back to normal

But on the whole I'm tolerant of most things, except you know the standard racism, bullying etc

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"What is the one thing (if anything) will you tolerate from people?

I find my tolerance level is rather low in my advancing years....an example of mine is lying. I used to just let things slide, now I have a 3 strike rule x

Ever think you get three lies cos you allowed the first ?

Sometimes you don't know that the first time is a lie though.

How do you reach three then ?

I've usually found out the truth by the 3rd strike.

So basically by the time you figure out there is one lie they have probably reached 3. So its a one strike rule "

I give them 3 strikes to come clean if not then I am done with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends on where you allocate people relative to the tolerance you afford them. Nothing is quite as black and white as we'd like to think.

No one is perfect and sometimes their position or behaviour can be the result of surroundings rather than deep rooted malice. People can change and it's nice to afford people that flexibility to do so.

That being said, dishonesty and cruelty, those things really are lines in the sand that when seen, get logged and remembered. If you can treat them in such a way, I'm surely not far behind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People wouldn't get 3 strikes from me.

I'd be cordial but they would be very definitely on the other side of a wall after even 1 lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no tolerance for arrogance. If people don't talk/treat me the way in which they would like to themselves then they are told to 'go away' and try again later!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t tolerate dirty assholes x

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Rudeness to others and lies.

Manners cost nothing.

Also people that just go on about themselves a lot

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

I hate dishonesty, and cleanliness is a must.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

And if you tolerate this , then your children will be next .

Earworm for you all

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I don’t tolerate rudeness from people. I come up against it occasionally in my job and it’s a hard ‘no’ from me.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Not much... I'm pretty intolerant, the older I get, the less BS I put up with.

People are lucky to get a second chance, and even then I'll be guarded until their actions match their words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being boring.

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By *ent57Man
over a year ago

... where the streets have no name!

... I agree that advancing years have brought on decreasing tolerance.

One of my current gripes are those people that speak as if they are an expert on a topic - but basically they haven't got a clue. I used to just ignore them - now I feel more likely to challenge them

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"What is the one thing (if anything) will you tolerate from people?

I find my tolerance level is rather low in my advancing years....an example of mine is lying. I used to just let things slide, now I have a 3 strike rule x

Ever think you get three lies cos you allowed the first ?

Sometimes you don't know that the first time is a lie though.

How do you reach three then ?

I've usually found out the truth by the 3rd strike.

So basically by the time you figure out there is one lie they have probably reached 3. So its a one strike rule "

Ahem ...... I'd say so.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Depends on my mood. I’m very mood dependent!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Ignorance currently, too much of it around and one of the reasons this country is suffering so badly. Not just about Politics either.

To add another, narcissistic people as well.

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