FabSwingers.com forum: The Dirty Slut vs Innocent slut

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So there seems to be some difference in what men like on here

1. The dirty slut. She loves cock and is the village bike. Everyone local has had a go a few times. She's known by word of mouth as the place to go for an empty and she will gladly take multiple cocks a day or week. She's sexually liberated and will chew you up and spit you out spent and if you haven't satisfied her she will jump onto one of your mates and keep going until she is.

2. The innocent slut. She's experienced from monogamous relationships but she doesn't get around much. She's just waiting for the right guy (you) to come liberate her and be exclusively yours to meet just for sex with no commitment other than that only you fuck her.

These are two variables (I know there are many more), but I find it interesting that on a swinging website there is slut shaming of type one and an expectation of type 2.

Any thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there slut shaming in here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience men only slut shame when the women says no to them.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

What's the male equivalent as you used exclusively she?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

1. Is for fun

2. Is for serious

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

Oh crumbs!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

1 ..out there knows what she wants ..gets it and is a great laugh

2 watch out for the _uiet ones ..they're more dangerous lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"What's the male equivalent as you used exclusively she?"

Male tart?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"In my experience men only slut shame when the women says no to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look, if they’re prepared to get nekkid with me, I’ll take any kind of slut. Bring on the sluts!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my experience men only slut shame when the women says no to them.

Probably this

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By *risky FoxesCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Emlyn

I’m learning that I am a bit of a slut

It’s very liberating and Mr Fox is getting off watching me graduate through the school of kinky fuckery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real slut v Hidden slut - But which would win in a mud wrestling competition? that’s what I want to know.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

But where are the men that just like the women who will just do the sex without all this stramash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But where are the men that just like the women who will just do the sex without all this stramash "

We don’t usually read these threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Real slut v Hidden slut - But which would win in a mud wrestling competition? that’s what I want to know. "

The audience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But where are the men that just like the women who will just do the sex without all this stramash "

Off googling what the word Stramash means?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Yikes

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"But where are the men that just like the women who will just do the sex without all this stramash

Off googling what the word Stramash means? "
word of the day

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Is there slut shaming in here? "

Not overtly. It's all very open minded and liberal

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

I wouldn't say number 2 was a slut in any sense of the word.

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

"In my experience men only slut shame when the women says no to them.

100%

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Slut and innocent just don't go together to me.

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By *Mids guyMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

My gf was innocent when we met, but now I’ve brought her down to my level she’s in to everything and considering meeting others

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Think I'm a tweenie! Neither one nor other! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the village bike reads this, please get in touch I need to go to Asda and to empty my balls x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I really don't like that word being used about a woman.

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By *erriman69Couple
over a year ago

highworth

What about an innocent who has her slutty side uncovered by a partner ... and then welcomes as much cock as possible?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Isn't it time we stopped using the word 'slut'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the male equivalent as you used exclusively she?"

Man whore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the male equivalent as you used exclusively she?

Man whore

That's the point though a whore is normally referred to as a woman just putting man on the front doesn't mean it's an equivalent.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

The only word I can think of to refer to "prolific" men, is stud. I've never heard that used in a negative context, but slut, whore etc are routinely used to denigrate women. Whore refers to a prostitute......

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

"What's the male equivalent as you used exclusively she?"

I used to call my mate a man-ho! Although he wasn’t always to happy with that reference

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isn't it time we stopped using the word 'slut'?"

No. I love it. I'm a type 1 filthy slut and part time man eater.

Instead of so using it, alter the meaning so its not so negative and more sex positive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My original reference is the denigration girls who shag loads of blokes get. You can be a horny slut without it having a negative context.

As for the comments about men being rejected saying that, I agree. Especially when I tell them I can't meet because I have plans or because I'm in the middle of shagging their best mate. Who knew they'd take it the wrong way?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Number 2 sounds like me……………

*tumble tumble tumble*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the male equivalent as you used exclusively she?

I used to call my mate a man-ho! Although he wasn’t always to happy with that reference

A he-whore

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Isn't it time we stopped using the word 'slut'?"

Fuck no, it's a great word!

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By *uiet onesCouple
over a year ago

Scarborough

"1 ..out there knows what she wants ..gets it and is a great laugh

2 watch out for the _uiet ones ..they're more dangerous lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So there seems to be some difference in what men like on here

These are two variables (I know there are many more), but I find it interesting that on a swinging website there is slut shaming of type one and an expectation of type 2.

Any thoughts? "

Haha the Mrs is definitely the second type, although given the right circumstances she can be the first tyeo too

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