FabSwingers.com forum: Do you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you fuck on the first meet we do what about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes"
not many no's here lol are we all sluts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes otherwise its a waste of time.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I have done occasionally but majority of the time I dont

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Depends on the meet lol but wouldnt say no if the sparks there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's one on one meet then no. If I go to a club then I rarely even know names.

Cali

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I have played on the first meet but then again Ive had a social and never met again or played on the next meet.

It all depends on the meet and circumstances or desires

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends who I'm meeting, I usually take time to get to know the person first, by the time we meet I know if I want sex or a social to find out more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never ! Like to workout potential fucks ! Far too many nutters and boilers about lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats what we`re here for

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By *arkchestCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Have done but not often. Prefer to see if there is a spark there first so usually social....although saying that if the spark was there and the offer was there we probably wouldnt say no!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we are all up for it..then yes it's back to our place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actualy can not see the point in meeting just for a social, if i just wanted a coffee i have friends for that

this is a swingers site and i use it to find people for sex

i know that sounds harsh and thats not to say i will just shag anyone as its only sex

i like to meet for a drink and a chat but if we like each other i see no point in going home and arranging for another time, after a couple of hours of drinking and flirting with someone i fancy i want to fuck them now not in 2 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a "no". On a couple of occasions I have but the majority of the time I meet for coffee first... Meets later....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I actualy can not see the point in meeting just for a social, if i just wanted a coffee i have friends for that

this is a swingers site and i use it to find people for sex

i know that sounds harsh and thats not to say i will just shag anyone as its only sex

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Exactly spot on babes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually spend time chatting to someone and thus getting to know them a bit. So by the time a social meet is arranged it's more to confirm that we're fine with each other.

So.............YES!!

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

I don't meet people until I have decided that I want to fuck them so I always have sex on the first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES - much prefer to fuck on a first meet.

But then I usually only agree to a meet after I've decided that it's what I want to do.

I will sometimes meet socially first, but usually find that if I don't play on the first meet then it is't going to happen later either...

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By *iker BullMan
over a year ago

leeds

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has been known, especially when they're on their knees begging

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

[Removed by poster at 01/12/12 16:46:21]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what else is there to do? talk???? sakes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has been known, especially when they're on their knees begging

and they only asked for spare change ffs

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes and I am not even bothered if words are exchanged

lob it out,get a stiffie, ram it in, I'll suck, you shoot

fuck off and get on with the rest of your life.....

and they say romance is dead

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Only done a social meet on one occasion and that's turned out to be a very good thing indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but meet somewhere neutral first

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

usually but not always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not usually, prefer to meet socially first to see if the spark is there, only so much can be found out via cam and phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not usually, prefer to meet socially first to see if the spark is there, only so much can be found out via cam and phone."

Phew!! Thought I was going to get banned for being the only one that doesn't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you fuck on the first meet we do what about you

Absolutely not! What kind of a dirty man do you take me for!!

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

yes if the guy or cpl are nice

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

"yes otherwise its a waste of time."

agreed, and as we have so little time between schedules and whatnot...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we do, but we always meet in a local pub first for a getting to know you drink! If all is ok, then we play!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the lady I'm meeting. Once arranged a social meet in a pub and I'm slightly ashamed to say we used the facilities to get to know each other a tad better! Only slightly ashamed as we used the disabled toilet.... More roomy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wots a meet? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we do, but we always meet in a local pub first for a getting to know you drink! If all is ok, then we play! "

Jim just said "fuck that...spitroast asap!"- and I agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we do, but we always meet in a local pub first for a getting to know you drink! If all is ok, then we play!

Jim just said "fuck that...spitroast asap!"- and I agreed"

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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago

The Dungeon

Yes but only meet verified people who also say they play on the first date.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It depends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99.99% of the time yes,i'm a man slut!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"99.99% of the time yes,i'm a man slut!

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we are just sluts lol

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Only if they bring cookies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need a meet first before i can answer lol.

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By *ral.steveMan
over a year ago

LEEDS

Not had a meet to comment he says commenting

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Sometimes yes.... and sometimes no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

mostly i meet people in clubs, once I've selected my victim its up to a private room & well the rest you'll have to use your imagination for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"yes

mostly i meet people in clubs, once I've selected my victim its up to a private room & well the rest you'll have to use your imagination for

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Do clubs have private rooms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes

mostly i meet people in clubs, once I've selected my victim its up to a private room & well the rest you'll have to use your imagination for

Do clubs have private rooms?

Some do and some don't

Sometimes it's fun to play in a big room, but often the best is kept to private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes

mostly i meet people in clubs, once I've selected my victim its up to a private room & well the rest you'll have to use your imagination for

Do clubs have private rooms?

Lol The clubs I go to do

I dont do 'shows' 'free for all's' or anything along that line, a good club (imo) is one with a good mix of rooms, and a lot of private rooms

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

we always play on the first night, we meet for drinks if everyone is happy we all go back to the hotel.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

nope!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Yes,we like to meet for a drink first,if it feels right,we shag.

The drink first has worked for us,as we have met people we just didnt fancy.it's easier to make your excuses and leave.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes,we like to meet for a drink first,if it feels right,we shag.

The drink first has worked for us,as we have met people we just didnt fancy.it's easier to make your excuses and leave.

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A drink and a chat is always cool then if you click fuck each others brains out mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we click and are all game why the hell not is what we say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Changed my mind......yes I do haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I do, depends where we've met up, if it's in town after work then probably not but if it's been more local then yes I have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a disastrous first meet without a social, I swore I'd never do it again without checking that there was some chemistry to make it work. Relented though and subsequently had one of the best shags ever. Generally find that a social meet adds to the thrill and the anticipation is delicious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In most cases I always do on the first meet. If two people find each other attractive and develop things enough before and during the first meet I don't see any reason not to.

Some people see it as a sign of standards that they won't sleep with anyone on a first meet which seems to serve no other purpose than to see whether the guy is a once-then-disappear kind of guy or whether he wants to come back and actually enjoys the company as well.

Though a couple of times I have slept with someone on a first meet who were adamant that they don't do that. It's just how comfortable you make someone feel when you're with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"After a disastrous first meet without a social, I swore I'd never do it again without checking that there was some chemistry to make it work. Relented though and subsequently had one of the best shags ever. Generally find that a social meet adds to the thrill and the anticipation is delicious.

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The delicious shag was worth the time then

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By *hattyman80Man
over a year ago

stockport

Oh yes

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