FabSwingers.com forum: Meets question

By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

before I get started, this is just a general question, not trying to get any toxic feedback or drilled for being a single guy and moaning about this and that. This is a general curiosity question.

Now that's been said and done.

How many Single Females and Couples actually go onto the Meets, Events section of FAB to actually seek Males?

As a straight male, I don't go there looking for other males, but noticed today there are a lot that are on the meets list in my area. So begs the question..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really use it but only because you can't filter by preferences, the way you can on "who's near"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really use it but only because you can't filter by preferences, the way you can on "who's near" "

Saying that, I do put myself on there so men can find me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I maybe will once I've worked my way through my current list of males to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never use the meets section!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Didn’t even know there was one so I guess not

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Never

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We've never done this but might give it a go!

M and M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am looking for a meet then I am on there otherwise it’s planned meets only

and it should be used by all would cut down on loads off meet now message

As people who are looking to meet now are there

Have there been times I got up and ready and thought do you know what “4 latter bad word day” and fly the meet now flag yes

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

OP have you ever put a meet up?

I've never actually looked on there but, may put a request up for tea & biscuits sometime

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Never

Only look at social events

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nope.

Mainly for one reason.

Experience has shown that many profiles use it as pretty much their sole mechanism for lookingnfor meets. They post one every day they're free.

Every. Single. Day

It shows in your local updates feed and comes across as a combination of lazy and desperate. Almost a 'throw a huge net out and see what you catch' approach, rather than actually being more targeted and approaching individual profiles.

We only generally look if we're off to a club to see if anyone interesting is going.

We have used it ourselves many moons ago but wouldn't rely on it much as an effective tool these days because, as others have said, they're no filters attached to target a specific audience.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Never... I just look at the updates/local area.

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"I maybe will once I've worked my way through my current list of males to meet."

fair enough, you do seem quite popular in the forums from what I've seen

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"OP have you ever put a meet up?

I've never actually looked on there but, may put a request up for tea & biscuits sometime"

If im interested in a meet, I put one up. but i'm never sure if it's even seen to be honest.. lol

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"Nope.

Mainly for one reason.

Experience has shown that many profiles use it as pretty much their sole mechanism for lookingnfor meets. They post one every day they're free.

Every. Single. Day

We only generally look if we're off to a club to see if anyone interesting is going.

We have used it ourselves many moons ago but wouldn't rely on it much as an effective tool these days because, as others have said, they're no filters attached to target a specific audience.

fair point, I hadn't looked at it like that. I know I 'throw the net out' but I like to think (at least personally) that if i ever have requests from those i do put up, i'll be selective.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

In the past when I've used it, I've found that I get just as many can't meet you tonight, but can you do next Tuesday at 3AM messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I maybe will once I've worked my way through my current list of males to meet.

fair enough, you do seem quite popular in the forums from what I've seen"

I was only joking but please point me in the direction of who I'm popular with and I may start a list.

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By *rLothbrokMan
over a year ago

Lancs

"I maybe will once I've worked my way through my current list of males to meet.

fair enough, you do seem quite popular in the forums from what I've seen

I was only joking but please point me in the direction of who I'm popular with and I may start a list. "

I think you’re alright. You give beard strokes and enjoy a good roast.

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

I do when I’m looking. I’ll always add one in there if I’m looking for something specific as well.

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"I maybe will once I've worked my way through my current list of males to meet.

fair enough, you do seem quite popular in the forums from what I've seen

I was only joking but please point me in the direction of who I'm popular with and I may start a list. "

Oh. my bad, mistook that then.. there have been plenty of comments towards you on forum games.. lol

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"I do when I’m looking. I’ll always add one in there if I’m looking for something specific as well. "

fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I maybe will once I've worked my way through my current list of males to meet.

fair enough, you do seem quite popular in the forums from what I've seen

I was only joking but please point me in the direction of who I'm popular with and I may start a list.

I think you’re alright. You give beard strokes and enjoy a good roast.

I'm still waiting for my roast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to do a thread on deer meat but now i dont feel the need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at it occasionally and have listed a (social) meet myself

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"I maybe will once I've worked my way through my current list of males to meet.

fair enough, you do seem quite popular in the forums from what I've seen

I was only joking but please point me in the direction of who I'm popular with and I may start a list.

I think you’re alright. You give beard strokes and enjoy a good roast.

I'm still waiting for my roast. "

I'll cook you one.. prefer beef, pork, gammon? Might have to come here to eat it though LOL

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Never.

We are never going to “meet now” or in a day or two.

Any time we meet people its the product of lots of conversation.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Not really, but it's the same for us with couples and lone ladies. We don't tend to use fab for meets. We are very much club swingers and swingers of opportunity when we're out. We don't really do premeditated meets. Generally (as never say never) we'd either use the meets section to see who's going to a club we're attending or if we were out and really in the mood for some optimistic filth. However optimistic very rarely works so last minute and we tend find ourselves corrupting vanilla people first anyways

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By *rLothbrokMan
over a year ago

Lancs

"I maybe will once I've worked my way through my current list of males to meet.

fair enough, you do seem quite popular in the forums from what I've seen

I was only joking but please point me in the direction of who I'm popular with and I may start a list.

I think you’re alright. You give beard strokes and enjoy a good roast.

I'm still waiting for my roast. "

Did you not get the door? I sent it round, you must have been asleep.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Never used it or even looked at it but in my local area there are at least half a dozen status updates from women looking to meet at a specific time or location every day.

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"Never used it or even looked at it but in my local area there are at least half a dozen status updates from women looking to meet at a specific time or location every day. "

Lucky, mine are usually *new members* or ladies talking about their meets, or saying they aint meeting for a bit. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never.

We are never going to “meet now” or in a day or two.

Any time we meet people its the product of lots of conversation."

Ditto!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Never used it or even looked at it but in my local area there are at least half a dozen status updates from women looking to meet at a specific time or location every day.

Lucky, mine are usually *new members* or ladies talking about their meets, or saying they aint meeting for a bit. lol"

Not lucky for me because I'd never meet any of them. I don't use the search facility and don't send messages.

Any meets I have are the product of weeks and even months of chatting.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We've used it once, more for curiosity than anything. We never look at it otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I maybe will once I've worked my way through my current list of males to meet.

fair enough, you do seem quite popular in the forums from what I've seen

I was only joking but please point me in the direction of who I'm popular with and I may start a list. "

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I browse locally.

A man in Northumberland is no good to me in South Wales when I need a dicking now.

So yeah, I stay local.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look at it occasionally and have listed a (social) meet myself "

DO NOT FAB THIS

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

I might stop using the feature if i'm looking for meets then.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I've met 2 men via their meet request

Neither were looking to meet now

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"I've met 2 men via their meet request

Neither were looking to meet now "

lol, I dont mind the chatting etc. I was just seeing if anyone looked for us males to meet. lol

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I've met 2 men via their meet request

Neither were looking to meet now

lol, I dont mind the chatting etc. I was just seeing if anyone looked for us males to meet. lol"

I guess the answer is some do, some don't

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By *ussieChris OP Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"I've met 2 men via their meet request

Neither were looking to meet now

lol, I dont mind the chatting etc. I was just seeing if anyone looked for us males to meet. lol

I guess the answer is some do, some don't "

agreed, but it seems more don't really bother with it

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