FabSwingers.com forum: How many vanilla dates before

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sex is on the cards?

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

3 maximum then onto the next

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"69"

Very good

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

When we were in the game first date usually

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By *ambertMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Once the local priest has given you permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1st date or it fizzles out. Get it over with and then your more comfortable sucking the spaghetti from the bolognaise

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Sex is on the cards?"
Not had a vanilla date ... so no idea. I'd not want to date someone I didn't know sexually though if I was ever to date ( unlikely )

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

One first social meet should be enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't date.

If I'm meeting you, I already like you.

We're having sex!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"69"

Can we just *pretend* we’ve already had 68?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To anyone that said “1” fancy a date?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

1 or 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

"I don't date.

If I'm meeting you, I already like you.

We're having sex!!!"

What if he has his mouth closed in all his pictures and videos...and when you meet him the first time and he smiles you realise he has a significant amount of teeth missing... Still having sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't date.

If I'm meeting you, I already like you.

We're having sex!!!

What if he has his mouth closed in all his pictures and videos...and when you meet him the first time and he smiles you realise he has a significant amount of teeth missing... Still having sex?"

THIS HAS HAPPENED TO ME

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends if the chemistry is there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't date.

If I'm meeting you, I already like you.

We're having sex!!!

What if he has his mouth closed in all his pictures and videos...and when you meet him the first time and he smiles you realise he has a significant amount of teeth missing... Still having sex?"

We video call beforehand.

I'm hilarious, he's gonna smile then.

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By *haggydogMan
over a year ago

Brooklands/London

1 is normal. 2 and is okay. 3 and we're probably mates not dates.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

2 or 3 I’d say

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Tarka trail

I have been on a vanilla dating site now for quite a few years.

I have been on here on and off getting on for about 10 years. Trying to find that elusive sexually liberated woman. Who would like to be in a committed relationship. To have a fab lifestyle.

But have never found one.

I have just recently been in contact with. and have had 3 dates with a woman. The 3rd was last night. Sunday. Who I contacted on a vanilla site.

All three dates went well.

But I am unwilling to try and get inside her knickers, if she is not the type of woman, Who is not willing to be shared with others.

I do have a dilemma don't I.

Other wise I would have eaten her pussy last night.

So far after 3 dates probe-ing her thoughts. Of doo's and dont's. All she has had is a kiss on the cheek.

I want a woman that is totally sexually liberated.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

"69

Can we just *pretend* we’ve already had 68?

As its you..... of course why not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 or 2

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over a year ago

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

None... If It feels right we are fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with the flow. I have had sex on first dates and taken as long as a month or so and half a dozen dates. Depends how you both feel about it..

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Sex is on the cards?"

According to the updated dating and sex act (2021)...3

More can be considered unnecessary and harmful to the environment.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Surely the answer is...it depends!

Surely there is no set number?

It has been a looooong time since either of us were single but I (Mr) seem to recall just going with the flow and seeing how it pans out. Also remember sometimes the chase/anticipation was worth it and other times it certainly wasn’t.

Also remember being surprised by which women turned out to be really hot in bed and which turned out to be rubbish. Despite cliches there really didn’t seem to be a pattern.

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