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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many of you get disappointed after you see a picture of someone online and you see them in real life totally different reaction. Or the other way around.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

99.99% of the time dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've experienced both sides of that coin. Same when you hear someones voice, that can be a shock!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hence why I always putting up pics

Yes they maybe the same positions and stuff but that’s not what it’s about

Mines is more about the clothes them selfs the look

Also they fresh meaning people can see what I look like at this current time

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm generally impressed when I see the real life person, after the photo. Posing is worse than a natural look too

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm monochrome in reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate taking pictures of myself and am very awkward infront of the camera, so I look better in person. Thankfully, everyone I've met looks the same as their pictures but men don't really alter them so it's not surprising.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate taking pictures of myself and am very awkward infront of the camera, so I look better in person. Thankfully, everyone I've met looks the same as their pictures but men don't really alter them so it's not surprising."

Yes very true but in general a picture can look a lot better then real life or a lot worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had people send me photos that are over 10 years old and certainly don't portray them as they are currently in the flesh as it were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate taking pictures of myself and am very awkward infront of the camera, so I look better in person. Thankfully, everyone I've met looks the same as their pictures but men don't really alter them so it's not surprising."

I share the same awkwardness and discomfort in front of a camera. Sometimes I strike it lucky, but it’s not often

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

im a silver fox, but my body exactly same as my pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past, when I was looking to meet someone...if their photos were more than a year old, I just used to automatically bypass them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've experienced both sides of that coin. Same when you hear someones voice, that can be a shock!! "

Yes especially when it's a David Beckham voice.

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Recently met a business customer face to face for the first time in ten years she didn’t look anything like her online pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get disapointed by meeting someone im normally 10000% sure i want to meet them anyway its rarely based on a few photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look a lot better in pictures than real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look a lot better in pictures than real life "
your neck looks well fuckable

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I dislike us T girls using filters, as it can give a totally misleading idea. With filters, I almost pass for human

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so surprised when, typically, women aren't sprouting dog ears or missing the hearts or whatever they have in their pics

I can forgive the halos they are terrible, I can never keep mine in place...

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By *rCandPrincessCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I am very careful not to misrepresent my wife when posting her pictures on our account.

However, I am guilty of adding filters.

The filter is more to create mood and mystique. Those who have met and played with her have not been disappointed.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Yeah even if you've seen a facepic and then you imagine this person before meeting them...then disappointed when you itially meet them!

This is why I don't understand folk who have online relationships with anyone if they haven't even met the person...

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Rarely... Usually men look better in real life than internet pictures... I have found this, anyway

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm way better and nicer than my pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prettier in real life- as my profile states and as is the case with most people on here I think.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Because not everyone is photogenic it's more often than not been the case that people's photos haven't done them justice, and they have looked even more fabulous, in the flesh, so to speak.

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By *arcosaMan
over a year ago

London

What you see is what you get with me. Unfiltered reality.

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD

From our experience men usually look better than thier pics (if they are recent) women tend to use the filters, smoothers, light enhancers so generally they dont look like thier pic.

Thats the pressure and ridiculous expectations people think they have to achieve and adhere to these days

We appreciate real pics and e everyone should embrace thier beauty,we only have one body, learn to love it

Shaz xx

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By *awsdeepMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / Cambuslang

I’m a mixed bag. I don’t get a lot of good pics of myself so arguably I’d fall into this bracket. That said, the few people who I have met from online usually look quite similar to their pics. I mean it’s 2022, as long as the photo isn’t riddled with filters and it’s somewhat recent you should get a good idea of what’s what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t think it ever happened actually. But at the same time I ask for more than one photos and a few facial videos too !

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Mostly people are same as their pics I find ! And think I'm same as do add pics weekly! No filter or makeup x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I'm way better and nicer than my pics "

Tis true x

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I like to think I am exactly the same both in pics and real life. If I was to say if there is a difference I would say it would be in my demeanor.. I'm quite shy to begin with, especially with people I haven't met in person before or in a crowd so I'm more reserved until I get comfortable then I slowly come out of my shell lol

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By *OCONO5Couple
over a year ago

Sensual Center

Lucky enough when meeting people that their photo were perfect match ...some we didn't recognize and passed by them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks don't matter to me but

I've had it both ways,

Someone who had sent pics that must have been taken 10 years previous, not a problem as I like older anyway

And another handsome chap who was just no good at choosing a good photo to send as wow! in person ,

There are members using filters that completely distort the face, handy if you don't want to be recognised!!

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