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By *tb98 OP Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

What’s couples/women’s opinion on younger guys ages between 20-25?

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By *tb98 OP Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

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By *tb98 OP Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Do older women like the idea or does it just turn you off of the age gap is to big?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turns me off!

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Turns me off! "

There you gave it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turns me off.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Turns me off."

Not looking good OP

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Fine for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She prefers men older than herself, I think it might be the same for the majority of couples to be honest to prefer men of similar age or older. You got to remember, a lot of older women have kids your age, so don't take it personally.

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By *otwife Lilith and LeoCouple
over a year ago

West London

Turns me on, I only meet young men who are in their twenties / half my age. Lilith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't seek out younger guys but maturity is a big part of it. If someone is younger but carries theirselves like an adult, age isn't an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is going to turn into a reminder to delete my account I reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s couples/women’s opinion on younger guys ages between 20-25? "

Some will live it others will hate it.

My wife's limit is anyone her sons age or younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not about age it's about their maturity.

There's some very immature 40+ year olds on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best meet in recent years has been with a 25 year old. Attentive, unselfish, nice equipment, clean shaven.

The main putoff of that age is the comedy beards and tracksuits. I like someone who makes me laugh, but not because their facial hair tickles me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She prefers men older than herself, I think it might be the same for the majority of couples to be honest to prefer men of similar age or older. You got to remember, a lot of older women have kids your age, so don't take it personally. "

This! I don’t meet guys closer to my sons age than mine!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I have met some super sexy 18/21 year old gay / femboy type guys before , wouldn’t want to date one that age group but certainly we had enough physically connecting to enjoy fucking with no issues

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Age is but a number.

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Age is but a number.

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true x I love older women always have done x

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

I only meet men close to my own age

Age isn’t only a number to me, it’s my children age, an indicator of maturity and experience and last of all I’m probably too old to keep up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rosie prefers younger. From about mid twenties to early thirties. Hard to find guys that age who are mature enough for this though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The comments about maturity are really interesting.

Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve spoke to younger women that are mature enough to engage with me well enough to turn me on. I’ve also erm and spoke to very immature younger women who do nothing for my sexual craving. It’s not the number they carry but their personality that attracts me.

Big there is an bottom age where I’d say is in the back of my mind that won’t go away and is a definite no.

(sorry op, I know me replying is not what you wanted

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Not for me sorry

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Not for me, either.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Absolutely fine as long as I'm not a trophy to aquire. I'm not going to be anyone's, milf, cougar or experienced teacher, so as with any other man that I fancy to get into my pants, long conversations are inevitable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely fine as long as I'm not a trophy to aquire. I'm not going to be anyone's, milf, cougar or experienced teacher, so as with any other man that I fancy to get into my pants, long conversations are inevitable

I’m so in there when I see you next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The comments about maturity are really interesting.

Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.

When you're old enough you'll understand just how much of a compliment they really are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The comments about maturity are really interesting.

Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.

When you're old enough you'll understand just how much of a compliment they really are

Mr"

It’s something my mum, nan and teachers used to say to me when I was younger- ‘You’re such a mature young man’

Just grosses me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Under 25 is a definite no for us. Sorry OP.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Too young. 25+

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

They'd be far too young for me to be into .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Build some credit, get a mortgage etc etc

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I'm not into meeting people who are of a similar age to my oldest child, I will meet younger than myself but I have a limit just like I have a limited upper age for similar reasons of not wanting to meet people who are old enough to be my parents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not into meeting people who are of a similar age to my oldest child, I will meet younger than myself but I have a limit just like I have a limited upper age for similar reasons of not wanting to meet people who are old enough to be my parents "

Shame. I like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame. I like you

Our names go together like that Grease song

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too young. 25+ "

Darn it

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"I don't seek out younger guys but maturity is a big part of it. If someone is younger but carries theirselves like an adult, age isn't an issue."

Fuck!

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"The comments about maturity are really interesting.

Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.

Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The comments about maturity are really interesting.

Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.

Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee""

You would clearly be surprised by some of the stuff folk come out with then

It also gives me the instant ick if someone asks if they can call me 'Mummy'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The comments about maturity are really interesting.

Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.

Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee"

You would clearly be surprised by some of the stuff folk come out with then

It also gives me the instant ick if someone asks if they can call me 'Mummy'... "

THIS! When my filters were off I got called mummy a lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The comments about maturity are really interesting.

Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.

Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee""

I think they’re shocked when they find out we have jobs and pay bills.

Let alone hold a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The comments about maturity are really interesting.

Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.

Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee"

You would clearly be surprised by some of the stuff folk come out with then

It also gives me the instant ick if someone asks if they can call me 'Mummy'... "

What I say to you in private is private

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It also gives me the instant ick if someone asks if they can call me 'Mummy'... "

I've not had that... yet, but if they did, I'd have to reply,

'Luke, I am your father,'

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I don't meet anyone younger than my great grandchildren...

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"I don't meet anyone younger than my great grandchildren..."

And absolutely not if they are younger than my great great grandchildren....

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"The comments about maturity are really interesting.

Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.

Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee"

You would clearly be surprised by some of the stuff folk come out with then

It also gives me the instant ick if someone asks if they can call me 'Mummy'... "

I get that, but would you say it's in excess of older men saying those types of things if there was a comparison? I think maturity comes in all ages and it's mostly to do with personality.

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"The comments about maturity are really interesting.

Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.

Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee"

I think they’re shocked when they find out we have jobs and pay bills.

Let alone hold a conversation. "

I know right, not like it all came from mummy's bank account either

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I only go for older guys (up to 10-15years older than myself. I wouldn’t consider anyone younger. I like a more rugged bloke, the baby face does nothing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The comments about maturity are really interesting.

Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.

Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee"

You would clearly be surprised by some of the stuff folk come out with then

It also gives me the instant ick if someone asks if they can call me 'Mummy'...

I get that, but would you say it's in excess of older men saying those types of things if there was a comparison? I think maturity comes in all ages and it's mostly to do with personality."

Totally agree on the personality yes, but folk are always going to have their own natural preferences too. Hence the age range settings on here or we'd all just be using the 18-99 one

Of course that doesn't mean it's always set in stone though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as I probably babysat you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could go approx 10 years younger. Maybe. Anything younger it’s entering same age as my son territory and that is a turn off.

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

"The comments about maturity are really interesting.

Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.

Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee"

I think they’re shocked when they find out we have jobs and pay bills.

Let alone hold a conversation. "

That’s really not the case at all.

However when I was in my 20’s I was pretty mature. I had a house and bills to pay, I had my son when I was 24. So of course I’m aware that many of you have a job and pay bills.

When I look back now I realise that I have changed a lot, and my maturity level is different to what it was in my 20’s. I have experienced much more, both good and bad. That changes people, you can’t shortcut life experience to gain maturity.

So embrace your youth, it’s an amazing time.

Why go looking for personal slights where there was none intended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm young but I guess I act alot older than my age. Also I have great stamina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The comments about maturity are really interesting.

Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.

Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee"

I think they’re shocked when they find out we have jobs and pay bills.

Let alone hold a conversation.

That’s really not the case at all.

However when I was in my 20’s I was pretty mature. I had a house and bills to pay, I had my son when I was 24. So of course I’m aware that many of you have a job and pay bills.

So embrace your youth, it’s an amazing time.

Why go looking for personal slights where there was none intended "

I’m only joking. There’s enough older women into younger men to stop me crying myself to sleep at night.

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

I’m only joking. There’s enough older women into younger men to stop me crying myself to sleep at night.

That’s the joy of Fab isn’t it. Such a diverse group of people

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Think of them as kids my grandson is 23 x

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Same for me

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Way too young for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The comments about maturity are really interesting.

Probably why people think the ‘you’re really mature for your age’ or ‘you seem way older than your age’ comments are compliments and not condescending.

Yeah, it's interesting to see what defines maturity for them. Are they expecting everyone in their early twenties to be like "haha boobs teehee"

You would clearly be surprised by some of the stuff folk come out with then

It also gives me the instant ick if someone asks if they can call me 'Mummy'...

I get that, but would you say it's in excess of older men saying those types of things if there was a comparison? I think maturity comes in all ages and it's mostly to do with personality."

It’s exclusively younger guys that say it to me, I’ve also found negative reactions from younger men to be much more prevalent!

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

Bookmarking this one

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Occasionally... just occasionally the cougar role can be fun

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By *tb98 OP Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Any older women that like my profile please feel free to message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread really demonstrates that many women are still influenced by societal norms, attitudes, moral perceptions of a patriarchal, chauvinistic society. Older men seem to have no problem at all with this type of age gap, attracting younger women is seen as being successful

However, I suppose that if your interest is vanilla dating then I can understand the reluctance, if it is hedonistic nsa sex then age is irrelevant.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

OP it's looking good again haha

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Rachel finds younger guys rather immature and has always preferred sex with men of the same age - maybe slightly older.

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By *akequeen90Couple
over a year ago

Sydney

Immature. We had a hookup with a young 24 year old male. While he was so well endowed he was so erratic. Too much porn may also be a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Immature. We had a hookup with a young 24 year old male. While he was so well endowed he was so erratic. Too much porn may also be a problem"

paying him a compliment in order to belittle after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We sometimes get messages and though we’re not interested we try to help with profile or club advice if asked but we find there’s a lot of misunderstanding and a general lack of respect.

Can’t speak for them all of course but we never bother now.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Rachel finds younger guys rather immature and has always preferred sex with men of the same age - maybe slightly older."

Well Tom my man you better start searching for them older men for Rachel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread really demonstrates that many women are still influenced by societal norms, attitudes, moral perceptions of a patriarchal, chauvinistic society. Older men seem to have no problem at all with this type of age gap, attracting younger women is seen as being successful

However, I suppose that if your interest is vanilla dating then I can understand the reluctance, if it is hedonistic nsa sex then age is irrelevant.

I've always preferred younger men but has to be older than my children. Nothing to do with society or norms, just find it cringeworthy for me and incredibly unattractive ... doesn't work

Also, a lot of younger men under 30 are just looking for that older "notch" from messages I have received and I really don't find being objectified attractive nor appealing on any level so I'll stick to younger over 40s!!!

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

However, I suppose that if your interest is vanilla dating then I can understand the reluctance, if it is hedonistic nsa sex then age is irrelevant.

I've always preferred younger men but has to be older than my children. Nothing to do with society or norms, just find it cringeworthy for me and incredibly unattractive ... doesn't work

That's good you come to that conclusion it's all about finding what works for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met few nice young guys in age between 20-25

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"What’s couples/women’s opinion on younger guys ages between 20-25? "

We assume your question is actually what are peoples opinions on meeting with younger guys between 20-25?

As we only meet with young single men, our opinion is perfectly clear, we love it.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

My opinion is, they are all different so I don't like to judge them on others behaviour, if I can help if... I like younger men, just the sharp ones... Although it only matters if I fancy them, I suppose

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