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"It did, for a long time. And then it provided something that I didn't even realise I was looking for. " Thanks for such an honest answer. Nice to hear some positive new (I think!) | |||
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"It did, and something totally unexpected too x Tg x" You should see the doctor about that... Joke! | |||
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"It did, and something totally unexpected too x Tg x You should see the doctor about that... Joke! " Tg x | |||
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"It did, for a long time. And then it provided something that I didn't even realise I was looking for. " | |||
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"Theres still a few people I want to beat, but I’ve had some good fun so far. " Are we here for beatings?! ...thought that was a whole other site | |||
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"I came here seeking nothing. I've found nothing. So yeah, I guess it has. " Same hahaha | |||
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"Theres still a few people I want to beat, but I’ve had some good fun so far. Are we here for beatings?! ...thought that was a whole other site " Beatings sex | |||
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"Theres still a few people I want to beat, but I’ve had some good fun so far. Are we here for beatings?! ...thought that was a whole other site Beatings sex " I guess either meaning it can involve some pommeling... | |||
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"I’m curious as to how many people feel that they have found what they were seeking via Fab: Be that a long term playmate, one off fantasies, a third person for a couple, information about parties and clubs - and everything in between. Do you feel satisfied by this site or are you still searching?" I think fab has opened my eyes a lot and educated me no end in many things. Originally I joined at 19 because I wanted sex. I was a virgin and wanted to loose the stigma. In the end it wasn’t from Fab that I met the girl. Since then I have tried all sorts. Had some good conversations with lots of different types of people. Been to parties, clubs, socials and seen things oh my how I have seen things. My approach has changed. I learned about respect and boundaries I became much more of a gentleman. Changed my username and now find the quality in the conversations. | |||
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"I’m curious as to how many people feel that they have found what they were seeking via Fab: Be that a long term playmate, one off fantasies, a third person for a couple, information about parties and clubs - and everything in between. Do you feel satisfied by this site or are you still searching?" Nope, not satisfied at all. Definitely still searching! | |||
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"I’m curious as to how many people feel that they have found what they were seeking via Fab: Be that a long term playmate, one off fantasies, a third person for a couple, information about parties and clubs - and everything in between. Do you feel satisfied by this site or are you still searching?" When I first joined yes. Now I'm not so sure. But I am emjoying the forum aspect. | |||
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"I guess. I’m poly, I want meaningful connections. I have made lots of friends over the years and I’ve had some amazing sex but nothing has stuck. Nobody has become a serious partner. But I’m hopeful. Just hope that people are open to the same things I am in terms of relationships. " *** | |||
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"I met my partner here almost 7 years ago & that's not what I was looking for. I mainly use the forums now and we go to some socials too together. It's v rare I find someone id want to meet now if I'm honest ." Damn | |||
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"I came here seeking nothing. I've found nothing. So yeah, I guess it has. " Sorry but this tickled me lol | |||
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"I’m curious as to how many people feel that they have found what they were seeking via Fab: Be that a long term playmate, one off fantasies, a third person for a couple, information about parties and clubs - and everything in between. Do you feel satisfied by this site or are you still searching?" Not quite found what I'm looking for just yet. However that's not to complain about what I have found; I've thoroughly enjoyed the time I've spent here so far as well as everything I've learned about myself. Still looking, but enjoying the journey. | |||
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"I’m curious as to how many people feel that they have found what they were seeking via Fab: Be that a long term playmate, one off fantasies, a third person for a couple, information about parties and clubs - and everything in between. Do you feel satisfied by this site or are you still searching?" Yes it has. We've both had lots of fun over many years as singles here and we met eachother here. Also been great to meet many others, get party info and lots of great chat during Covid to keep us going. It's infuriating at times but it does work. Oh and we are off to our first Fab wedding next weekend Two singles who met here who are getting married. | |||
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"I’ve made temporary friendships, I’ve also made mistakes. If I ended up in a relationship I would leave. It kills a bit of time. " Same! I only really use Fab in between relationships! | |||
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"I’ve made temporary friendships, I’ve also made mistakes. If I ended up in a relationship I would leave. It kills a bit of time. Same! I only really use Fab in between relationships! " I use fab to help improve my spelling and grammar. It’s amazing how many English teachers there are in here. | |||
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"I guess. I’m poly, I want meaningful connections. I have made lots of friends over the years and I’ve had some amazing sex but nothing has stuck. Nobody has become a serious partner. But I’m hopeful. Just hope that people are open to the same things I am in terms of relationships. ***" Poly relationships take a lot of work whether they are formed here or anywhere else. On here people will often say they are poly to be in a relationship with you but over time realise they aren’t. Plus nothing lasts forever; enjoy each adventure whether that’s one night, a month or a few years, enjoy the impact and change you have on each other and don’t hold on too tight . I think if you become a bit demisexual you will have more success here as a poly person. | |||
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"Everything I wanted and sooo much more" | |||
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"I’m curious as to how many people feel that they have found what they were seeking via Fab: Be that a long term playmate, one off fantasies, a third person for a couple, information about parties and clubs - and everything in between. Do you feel satisfied by this site or are you still searching?" Sometimes I think I have… then reality hits and I realize what o actually want doesn’t exist. So I stick around in the foolish hope it will turn up | |||
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"Not at all tbh...I seem to have more success on standard dating sites, meeting ladies who want a bit (or a lot) of fun. I find that to be a little odd, but I'm not complaining " It’s not that surprising. Conventional dating sites have a more equal gender ratio! | |||
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"Not at all tbh...I seem to have more success on standard dating sites, meeting ladies who want a bit (or a lot) of fun. I find that to be a little odd, but I'm not complaining It’s not that surprising. Conventional dating sites have a more equal gender ratio! " I guess that's the reason I still keep looking on here, but it's not what I expected. Thanks, Duchess...that's helped me to gain a little more perspective | |||
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"I’m curious as to how many people feel that they have found what they were seeking via Fab: Be that a long term playmate, one off fantasies, a third person for a couple, information about parties and clubs - and everything in between. Do you feel satisfied by this site or are you still searching?" Oh yes It's taken more than a decade but I found him Missy x | |||
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"Wasn't expecting miracles, so Fab has pretty much fulfilled what I expected. I am one in thousands of guys looking at a handful of women, with next to no chance... So far so good. " Haha you and me both, mate | |||
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"Absolutely not. I wasn't sure what I was expecting, but came here thinking it was gonna be sexual liberation, respect, trust etc. I'd done a bit of online research and that was pretty much the premise, openness and honesty the unwritten rules of harmony. That's the basis and basics of swinging and sexual freedom. And it was that for a while (had my rose tinted glasses on didn't I) But then reality hit, and boy did it hit hard. It's built on bullshit. Bullshit profiles that spout what others think people want to hear. Bullshit lines to draw others in. Bullshit personas. Bullshit excuses. Bullshit about marital statuses or bullshit stories to gain sympathy. Bullshit morals. But then, if you're incredibly fortunate you can make friends you never dreamed of in your life that you're so thankful for it humbles you. They're like a chosen family. That's what I've gained from this utterly devastating adventure. " | |||
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"I joined with no expectation what so ever but it has been an exciting, fulfilling and brilliant journey so far thanks to some endearing and handsome guys with a penchant for jiggery pokey fuckery!! Now some of my best friends. Just as I was about to hang up my fab profile a rabbit jumped out of the hat and … who knows where it will go! " This is exciting | |||
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"Yes! Met some lovely people and had a great time. The site itself is a cesspit and sometimes dangerous, but if you know what you’re doing you can have a marvellous time!" You're definitely a star. On my hotlist for some time x | |||
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"I’m curious as to how many people feel that they have found what they were seeking via Fab: Be that a long term playmate, one off fantasies, a third person for a couple, information about parties and clubs - and everything in between. Do you feel satisfied by this site or are you still searching?" Yes I’ve had my club experience and been a greedy girl, got a gangbang lined up this week. Met a couple of lovely guys who made it all possible for me and had fun conversations. Lots of dross too but I’ve had fun x | |||
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"I joined with no expectation what so ever but it has been an exciting, fulfilling and brilliant journey so far thanks to some endearing and handsome guys with a penchant for jiggery pokey fuckery!! Now some of my best friends. Just as I was about to hang up my fab profile a rabbit jumped out of the hat and … who knows where it will go! This is exciting " | |||
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"As a couple - exceeded expectations. As a new single - very much work in progress. " Bloody hell your body is incredible for 51 (presuming you’re not saying you’re older than you really are!) | |||
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