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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you have people you like on your hotlist, do you ever message them and see where it goes??

Or are you happy just admiring from afar?

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’m glad to say that there’s a few on my friends list who’ve made that transition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

admiring from afar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing ventured, nothing gained! Do you need some dutch courage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing ventured, nothing gained! Do you need some dutch courage? "

A bottle of white wine and she's anybody's apparently..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I add as a friend once I have met them facetoface

Hotlist is for new friends but also my perv list and gets edited often.... bit of a fab goldfish, I get bored perving them, or turned off, or things stall in chat and I move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back on topic...People I chat to are on my hotlist, just because it's a shortcut to them. Only one of them is actually also on my friends list..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admire from afar, unless I find a connection. I am guessing all of you ladies get lots of messages, so don’t want to add to the avalanche of hi, your sexy messages that must arrive daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing ventured, nothing gained! Do you need some dutch courage?

A bottle of white wine and she's anybody's apparently.. "

She sounds like my idea of a great night

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Admire from afar, not sire what the response would be if we messaged

Tg x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly admire from afar as I'm not looking to meet. If we ever meet then they upgrade to the friends list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually admire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have people you like on your hotlist, do you ever message them and see where it goes??

Or are you happy just admiring from afar?

"

I tend to have people on my hot list that I have spotted that I like the look of but haven't gotten the time to message there and then, I will then go over it when I do get the time and message them, if I get a no or don't get a response after a day or so I will just remove them off it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just admire from afar. They have great pics but just feel there's no way they'd ever meet me or even engage in a conversation. I have been bold once or twice and let them know but it's never really come to much.

I have been lucky enough through the forums though where people from my hotlist have made to my friends list but it's always been them initiating it.

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

co. antrim

I like to creep on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have people you like on your hotlist, do you ever message them and see where it goes??

Or are you happy just admiring from afar?

"

For the most part, I hotlist people with the intention of making friends.

Buuut there are some that I don't fit the bill for, but they are just so damn hot that a perve from afar will have to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pop people on my hotlist because I like them and can keep up watching there updates easily. So yes, maybe I’m admitting from afar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most of my the ladies on hotlist are on there because I'm unable to message them . so I admire them from afar and hole one day they notice me

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

A bit of both. There's some on my hotlist that state in their bios that they're not looking for single males, so I just creep quietly. Like a gentleman.

Others, I let my attraction be known.

Then there's the odd one who repels all forms of contact and interaction, which only add to the want.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

It's a wish list, if we meet them they get promoted to our friends list, if they're any good

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"If you have people you like on your hotlist, do you ever message them and see where it goes??

Or are you happy just admiring from afar?

"

Occasionally. A number of friends have ended up there via that route.

There are a number of people on our hot list we can see would not be into us and we respect that. Some are too far away to make it likely we'd ever meet so only exceptional people end up on our friends list that way.

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

Bit of a mixture. .. Some hotlist members are now friends and some we just like to have pop up as a surprise delight on our updates

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

I only do it cos I don't want to have to set up an Excel pivot table!

If you know, you know? Right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing ventured, nothing gained! Do you need some dutch courage? "

Ah no, I usually message them.

Then when they reject me I just admire from afar!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I add as a friend once I have met them facetoface

Hotlist is for new friends but also my perv list and gets edited often.... bit of a fab goldfish, I get bored perving them, or turned off, or things stall in chat and I move on"

I may adopt this approach

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I only do it cos I don't want to have to set up an Excel pivot table!

If you know, you know? Right? "

I don't know..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A bit of both. There's some on my hotlist that state in their bios that they're not looking for single males, so I just creep quietly. Like a gentleman.

Others, I let my attraction be known.

Then there's the odd one who repels all forms of contact and interaction, which only add to the want. "

Ah the old treat em mean!!

This actually works very well on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends really, if we're talking shit on the forum and we seem to be on that wavelength then sure, why not.

Trouble is I'm probably more than happy to talk shit, for days, that people probably think I'm borderline disinterested in everything else that goes on here, because I think hummus is important, and frittatas, also pancakes, definitely TV shows, good bands, cakey cakes and automotive repairs.

Oh sartorial elegance as well.

Yeah, probably just need to go to catering college tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they’re on my hotlist I probably like them but filters. Probably will never happen.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe


"If you have people you like on your hotlist, do you ever message them and see where it goes??

Or are you happy just admiring from afar?

"

I have done in the past, and I'm pretty sure I've always gotten precisely nowhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dora rarely scrolls Fab single guy profiles as she becomes weary of the cock pictures.

So it’s up to me to scroll and add guys she might be interested in to the hotlist.

Once she gives the nod I message if they haven’t already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A useful feature for keeping track of people you've not got round to saying hello to first

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

My hotlist is for people I think are really hot (but may be too far away to seriously consider meeting, or may just not be looking for guys like me).

My friends list is for people I consider friends, or new friends.

I’ll message people from my hotlist if there’s a reason to. Something to chat about. But probably not just out of the blue.

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I tried messaging a few and did get responses who then became on my friends list! But less so now

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

If we hotlist someone it’s because we have plans to meet or they are attending an event we’re going to and we’re interested in chatting to them.

Don’t hotlist otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I add as a friend once I have met them facetoface

Hotlist is for new friends but also my perv list and gets edited often.... bit of a fab goldfish, I get bored perving them, or turned off, or things stall in chat and I move on"

Same here, hotlist we chat, the chatting stops, out they go,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have people you like on your hotlist, do you ever message them and see where it goes??

Or are you happy just admiring from afar?

"

Just tryna fuck and maybe provide the boyfriend experience once in a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One guy on here went straight to my friends list lol I added him after a couple of forum interactions! Very unlike me, I should say!

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By *olourmeplayfulWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Mostly admiring from afar as they’re far away or out of my league. I’m a perve

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By *urga2076Woman
over a year ago

London

Perv list.

But also a way of seeing their updates- usually that puts me off getting in touch.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"My hotlist is for people I think are really hot (but may be too far away to seriously consider meeting, or may just not be looking for guys like me).

My friends list is for people I consider friends, or new friends.

I’ll message people from my hotlist if there’s a reason to. Something to chat about. But probably not just out of the blue."

This for me, too.

Though I currently only have one person on my hotlist x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, a few men from my hotlist have become friends. Usually via forum chats though. Been some times since I've had the nerve to message, even if they've looked at my profile and fabbed photos

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

I have 0 people in my hotlist...if I am in someone's hotlist, but they never messaged me (although at this moment in time it is only women that can message me) or at least winked at me and just want to "admire" from a far...well what ever brings you happiness, but for those that are in my friends list who have made an effort to speak to me and acknowledge me as a living breathing human and get to know me as a person and not just a profile with some pics/videos, to you my friends I have the utmost of respect and gratitude

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I've always just messaged if I liked the look of someone, and they've been added to my friends list when we've chatted more or met...shy bairns get nowt, as my grandma used to say.

I've never really used my hotlist to perv at people I fancy

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

My hotlist is not people I want to meet, more people I want to keep an eye on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread seems to lead nicely into another ‘message someone on your hotlist to tell them about it’ kind of thread…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have 0 people in my hotlist...if I am in someone's hotlist, but they never messaged me (although at this moment in time it is only women that can message me) or at least winked at me and just want to "admire" from a far...well what ever brings you happiness, but for those that are in my friends list who have made an effort to speak to me and acknowledge me as a living breathing human and get to know me as a person and not just a profile with some pics/videos, to you my friends I have the utmost of respect and gratitude "

Sorry I got distracted by your videos....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This thread seems to lead nicely into another ‘message someone on your hotlist to tell them about it’ kind of thread… "

Oh no, that's far too sociable for me.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I keep things simple

Hotlist - admiring from afar

Friends - i have as a friends in my friends list who i have met

Chat - i chat to anyone as long they have read my profile and respected the filters

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Many are age blocked , we are too old to contact but like how they look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotlist is mainly a visual thing for me, i like the pictures that the hotlist profile posts.

Many profiles have very specific criteria that they are looking for & I think,.."ok that's not me whatsoever." So I don't send a friend request...it's not really me being shy as such.I read what they're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just admiring from afar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you won't accept my friend request!!!!

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Will someone know you deleted them off your friend list on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will someone know you deleted them off your friend list on here?"

I noticed

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By *ylonattireTV/TS
over a year ago

BUXTON

Happy to admire from afar

Occasionally drop them a message of appreciation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always exciting when someone from your hotlist moves to friend list and even more when you get to meet them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happy to admire from afar

Occasionally drop them a message of appreciation "

This I always err on the side of caution, send the compliment and expect nothing back, I just hope I made them smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a few who have moved from our hotlist to friends. There’s some we haven’t messaged so they’re on there just to perv on from afar

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London


"Will someone know you deleted them off your friend list on here?

I noticed "
How did you noticed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a few who have moved from our hotlist to friends. There’s some we haven’t messaged so they’re on there just to perv on from afar "

This^

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Tend to put people who are further afield on the hotlist

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Because Raven doesn't want to be my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because Raven doesn't want to be my friend "

I'm ashamed of my pictures. Are you feeling brave?

But in question to the OP, there's a LOT of people I like perving on who are in the hotlist, but they are either utter dickheads so I don't want to actually communicate with them or I'm not what they're looking for so I just stalk them from afar.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Because Raven doesn't want to be my friend

I'm ashamed of my pictures. Are you feeling brave?

But in question to the OP, there's a LOT of people I like perving on who are in the hotlist, but they are either utter dickheads so I don't want to actually communicate with them or I'm not what they're looking for so I just stalk them from afar. "

You know I'm brave. And Jesus woman... my face is in mine... you'd have to be brave for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because Raven doesn't want to be my friend

I'm ashamed of my pictures. Are you feeling brave?

But in question to the OP, there's a LOT of people I like perving on who are in the hotlist, but they are either utter dickheads so I don't want to actually communicate with them or I'm not what they're looking for so I just stalk them from afar.

You know I'm brave. And Jesus woman... my face is in mine... you'd have to be brave for that "

It's not my face I'm bothered about

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Because Raven doesn't want to be my friend

I'm ashamed of my pictures. Are you feeling brave?

But in question to the OP, there's a LOT of people I like perving on who are in the hotlist, but they are either utter dickheads so I don't want to actually communicate with them or I'm not what they're looking for so I just stalk them from afar.

You know I'm brave. And Jesus woman... my face is in mine... you'd have to be brave for that

It's not my face I'm bothered about "

Intriguing...

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Because Raven doesn't want to be my friend

I'm ashamed of my pictures. Are you feeling brave?

But in question to the OP, there's a LOT of people I like perving on who are in the hotlist, but they are either utter dickheads so I don't want to actually communicate with them or I'm not what they're looking for so I just stalk them from afar. "

I fit that description!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Because Raven doesn't want to be my friend

I'm ashamed of my pictures. Are you feeling brave?

But in question to the OP, there's a LOT of people I like perving on who are in the hotlist, but they are either utter dickheads so I don't want to actually communicate with them or I'm not what they're looking for so I just stalk them from afar.

You know I'm brave. And Jesus woman... my face is in mine... you'd have to be brave for that "

I'm brave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because Raven doesn't want to be my friend

I'm ashamed of my pictures. Are you feeling brave?

But in question to the OP, there's a LOT of people I like perving on who are in the hotlist, but they are either utter dickheads so I don't want to actually communicate with them or I'm not what they're looking for so I just stalk them from afar.

You know I'm brave. And Jesus woman... my face is in mine... you'd have to be brave for that

It's not my face I'm bothered about

Intriguing... "

Just scroll quickly past those pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because Raven doesn't want to be my friend

I'm ashamed of my pictures. Are you feeling brave?

But in question to the OP, there's a LOT of people I like perving on who are in the hotlist, but they are either utter dickheads so I don't want to actually communicate with them or I'm not what they're looking for so I just stalk them from afar.

I fit that description! "

Which one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have people you like on your hotlist, do you ever message them and see where it goes??

Or are you happy just admiring from afar?

"

I have a couple of ladies and couples where I sit just outside their filters. I think they are all beautiful and should they choose to change filters id happily say hi

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Because Raven doesn't want to be my friend

I'm ashamed of my pictures. Are you feeling brave?

But in question to the OP, there's a LOT of people I like perving on who are in the hotlist, but they are either utter dickheads so I don't want to actually communicate with them or I'm not what they're looking for so I just stalk them from afar.

I fit that description!

Which one "

The dickhead part. Not quite utter though I guess. And you do sort of communicate with me but the dickhead part is true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It's not my face I'm bothered about "

If you have two vaginas, that’s nothing to worry about

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Because Raven doesn't want to be my friend

I'm ashamed of my pictures. Are you feeling brave?

But in question to the OP, there's a LOT of people I like perving on who are in the hotlist, but they are either utter dickheads so I don't want to actually communicate with them or I'm not what they're looking for so I just stalk them from afar.

You know I'm brave. And Jesus woman... my face is in mine... you'd have to be brave for that

It's not my face I'm bothered about

Intriguing...

Just scroll quickly past those pictures. "

THOSE pictures...

You know it makes sense

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Because Raven doesn't want to be my friend

I'm ashamed of my pictures. Are you feeling brave?

But in question to the OP, there's a LOT of people I like perving on who are in the hotlist, but they are either utter dickheads so I don't want to actually communicate with them or I'm not what they're looking for so I just stalk them from afar.

You know I'm brave. And Jesus woman... my face is in mine... you'd have to be brave for that

I'm brave! "

You must be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the one feature I've never used if I'm honest.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I chat to a few on my hotlist. I add to my friends list the people I've met, hotlist could go either way.

I have people on my hotlist I dont message, either because of geography or relationship status or some other reason. I'm just wanting to perv on their photos when they post them. It's not because I want to meet them but stop myself approaching them though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It's not my face I'm bothered about

If you have two vaginas, that’s nothing to worry about"

Last time I send you any pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It's not my face I'm bothered about

If you have two vaginas, that’s nothing to worry about

Last time I send you any pictures. "

Hold on, did I assume correctly

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I hotlist because apparently it’s frowned upon to wank over your friends.

The mr

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Friends list is only for people who I have met except for one sexy lady in Wales who I chat with about diabetic stuff

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I hotlist because apparently it’s frowned upon to wank over your friends.

The mr "

Oh crap

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Hotlist is for those I find hot but probably way out of my league but I like their pics. Friends list is for anyone I may end up actually chatting with, that is usually a list of 2 or 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last time I messaged someone my hot list they blocked me. So I keep it secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because she refused to have me as a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hotlist because apparently it’s frowned upon to wank over your friends.

The mr

Oh crap "

I was never told this in my life so I'm pleading ignorance

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I hotlist because apparently it’s frowned upon to wank over your friends.

The mr

Oh crap

I was never told this in my life so I'm pleading ignorance"

Can we do that?

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"If you have people you like on your hotlist, do you ever message them and see where it goes??

Or are you happy just admiring from afar?

"

I do believe you're allowed to message people on your hotlist, regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hotlist because apparently it’s frowned upon to wank over your friends.

The mr

Oh crap

I was never told this in my life so I'm pleading ignorance

Can we do that? "

Absolutely.. we're friends aren't we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hotlist because apparently it’s frowned upon to wank over your friends.

The mr

Oh crap

I was never told this in my life so I'm pleading ignorance

Can we do that?

Absolutely.. we're friends aren't we "

Not anymore just in the hotlist

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I hotlist because apparently it’s frowned upon to wank over your friends.

The mr

Oh crap

I was never told this in my life so I'm pleading ignorance

Can we do that?

Absolutely.. we're friends aren't we "

Yes... yes we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hotlist because apparently it’s frowned upon to wank over your friends.

The mr

Oh crap

I was never told this in my life so I'm pleading ignorance

Can we do that?

Absolutely.. we're friends aren't we

Yes... yes we are "

Therefore you definitely can

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Question if you delete someone from your friend list, will they notice?

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

There is a waiting list for meets & friend invites lol

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

A good chunk of my hotlist is people I am outside the age range to message!

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

No I use it to perve. Then sometimes I meet them in person and get d*unk and reveal it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question if you delete someone from your friend list, will they notice?"

Depends on how many people they have on their list.

They don't get a notification but they would see you're not on the list anymore.

If they have 1,000's on their friend list they may not notice you're gone.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I recently because of a forum thread put as my update am I on your hotlist. It did embolden some to get in touch and generated some good conversations. The problem is some will block anyone who contacts them if they don't see a possible future. So if you are admiring from afar you may lose the chance to perv their profile.

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By *obwhateverMan
over a year ago

Stirling/ London/ Yorkshire

I messaged someone on my hotlist, and we’re going on a date in a couple of weeks.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"I’m glad to say that there’s a few on my friends list who’ve made that transition. "

Same here

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"I messaged someone on my hotlist, and we’re going on a date in a couple of weeks."

That's good news

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