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If you have a "secret word" on your profile...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is the significance behind it? One of the questions I get asked the most in my messages is why mine is "mango".

Well, if he can't read my profile, that man's gotta go...

Although tbh mine is mostly a pisstake, as my bio is so short I'm just poking fun. Still shocking how many people don't read it though

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Ha ha, ain’t that true that people don’t read profiles.

We have a secret word which is framed in “if you don’t put ******* in the title of your message, that’s okay”.

I’d say one in thee put the word in, acts as a bit of a filter actually.

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
over a year ago

Norwich this week, usually Dundee and around


"Ha ha, ain’t that true that people don’t read profiles.

We have a secret word which is framed in “if you don’t put ******* in the title of your message, that’s okay”.

I’d say one in thee put the word in, acts as a bit of a filter actually."

Ha ha,

So do you expect to see the word or not? Do you delete those that put it in the subject?

I don't respond or message folk with the "publicly traded" and "Sydney uni" text.

It's unlikely we'll get on if they have that guff on their profile!

And they obviously don't read the FAQs

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I don't have a secret word.

I wouldn't give a tuppeny fuck if someone I fancied hadn't read my profile.

I'm pretty old fashioned.

See it, hear it , want it , have it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

It’s ‘bastard’ although no longer secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have a secret word.

Our profile is already too long to read for many at less than twenty words long, don't want to be adding more to that

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Wait, there are words on profiles?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"What is the significance behind it? One of the questions I get asked the most in my messages is why mine is "mango".

Well, if he can't read my profile, that man's gotta go...

Although tbh mine is mostly a pisstake, as my bio is so short I'm just poking fun. Still shocking how many people don't read it though "
Nope..is send memes your secret word?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"We don't have a secret word.

Our profile is already too long to read for many at less than twenty words long, don't want to be adding more to that "

I read it. It really is too long .......

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"We don't have a secret word.

Our profile is already too long to read for many at less than twenty words long, don't want to be adding more to that "

I agree ..you had me at currently not available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do. If a woman is clever enough to guess it and whisper it in my ear, she gets a big surprise.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Yes I do. If a woman is clever enough to guess it and whisper it in my ear, she gets a big surprise. "
if a woman whispers anything in my ear I'd be the one with the surprise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have ™ next to my name to signify something very important

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I used to have ™ next to my name to signify something very important "
you had me at discombobulating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never send the password tbh.

Read my mail delete it whatever works I just can't bring myself to do it.

Then again I will usually avoid profiles that have it in there anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's actually pretty pointless, they just scroll to the bottom and find the word to put in the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I do. If a woman is clever enough to guess it and whisper it in my ear, she gets a big surprise. if a woman whispers anything in my ear I'd be the one with the surprise "

I hear you. Pull up a chair and cry with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a word that I say not to use when messaging me and say that I will not respond if it used.

As it's the first line of my profile it's amazing how many don't read it so acts as a good filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have olive as mine, it was because I was eating Olives at the time

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve never messaged anyone with a password if they’ve asked for it in their profile.

Jump through this hoop first…

If they like us they’ll respond - if they don’t they won’t.

I doubt a password will make us more attractive

K

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I don't think I've ever gotten a response from a message where I included the secret word. Do they actually work?

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I always send a mail with the secret word but deliberately spell it incorrectly - it’s my own little victory…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a secret word I just ask for their favourite song cos I'm always looking for new music and think it tells you something about the person

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I don't have a secret word I just ask for their favourite song cos I'm always looking for new music and think it tells you something about the person "
comfortably numb ..fancy a coffee?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"We’ve never messaged anyone with a password if they’ve asked for it in their profile.

Jump through this hoop first…

If they like us they’ll respond - if they don’t they won’t.

I doubt a password will make us more attractive

K"

Me neither.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I don't have a secret word.

I wouldn't give a tuppeny fuck if someone I fancied hadn't read my profile.

I'm pretty old fashioned.

See it, hear it , want it , have it."

Well said !

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I want to say ours is antidisestablishmentarionism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a secret word in our profile, however we don't say its a secret word.. because its a secret

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I want to say ours is antidisestablishmentarionism. "

I'd like to say Llanfairpwllgwyngogeryllantisiliogogogh

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I expect people to spend weeks performing mathematical analysis of word patterns with my profile, checking for acrostics, counting letter frequencies, reading backwards and upside down, in order to reveal the hidden keys to my knickers... Or alternatively just say "hi, are you busy tonight?"

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Mine is in a carefully constructed D/s poem, tailored for only a few.

It's a good filter for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a secret word.

Our profile is already too long to read for many at less than twenty words long, don't want to be adding more to that

I agree ..you had me at currently not available "

And yet so many ask if we're available now, and too often direct the message directly towards Mrs.

Less than twenty words offers all anyone needs to know at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have a secret word.

Our profile is already too long to read for many at less than twenty words long, don't want to be adding more to that "

tl;dr fancy a fuck

But seriously, why do folk waste other folks time by not reading, they would be saving themselves time by not messaging folk that would clearly be uninterested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always send a mail with the secret word but deliberately spell it incorrectly - it’s my own little victory…"

Ha ha - love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the significance behind it? One of the questions I get asked the most in my messages is why mine is "mango".

Well, if he can't read my profile, that man's gotta go...

Although tbh mine is mostly a pisstake, as my bio is so short I'm just poking fun. Still shocking how many people don't read it though "

No matter how long or short most never read them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got one, and a couple of other "things" as well, I know the ones that have read all the way through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our secret word is so secret no one can find it.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Do not have a secret word to find people generally have a hard enough time understanding plain English let alone finding and responding with a secret word.

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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I don’t…but I do have tell me something interesting about you…mainly so that someone has something other than ‘hey how are you’ as a message also it’s quite fun hearing what people think is interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I thought any woman was likely to message me, I'd pick something frivolous and invented, like Flobblobbleglibglob.

Let's see Autocorrect deal with that one!

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