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By *leanandkeen OP   Man
over a year ago

jarrow

What’s everyone’s bad experiences on fab ?

Just had mine today new profile person definitely wasn’t the person in the pics the flat was something else stunk of green and dirt plaster and wall paper hanging off the wall no carpets cats and beer cans all over proper filthy and then a mattress with manky bedding on the floor. I told her it wasn’t for me and left. Her profile has now been deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess she wasn’t clean and keen on cleaning

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Someone recently spent a whole week chatting with me, planned to meet, and on the day of the meet, an hour before we were due to meet, she sent me her price list

She wanted me to pay just to meet her for a drink. Then “extras” cost more

A whole week chatting to draw me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't really had any bad experiences apart from a couple of no shows, there was one woman who (trying to think of a way to put it with out sounding horrible!)...was abit stinky downstairs so couldn't bring myself to give her oral lol

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Someone recently spent a whole week chatting with me, planned to meet, and on the day of the meet, an hour before we were due to meet, she sent me her price list

She wanted me to pay just to meet her for a drink. Then “extras” cost more

A whole week chatting to draw me in "

Did you report them?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Someone recently spent a whole week chatting with me, planned to meet, and on the day of the meet, an hour before we were due to meet, she sent me her price list

She wanted me to pay just to meet her for a drink. Then “extras” cost more

A whole week chatting to draw me in

Did you report them?"

Nah just stopped chatting. Report does nothing to these people

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Someone recently spent a whole week chatting with me, planned to meet, and on the day of the meet, an hour before we were due to meet, she sent me her price list

She wanted me to pay just to meet her for a drink. Then “extras” cost more

A whole week chatting to draw me in "

Bloody single male timewasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s everyone’s bad experiences on fab ?

Just had mine today new profile person definitely wasn’t the person in the pics the flat was something else stunk of green and dirt plaster and wall paper hanging off the wall no carpets cats and beer cans all over proper filthy and then a mattress with manky bedding on the floor. I told her it wasn’t for me and left. Her profile has now been deleted. "

Wow! It can only get better from here, I hope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone recently spent a whole week chatting with me, planned to meet, and on the day of the meet, an hour before we were due to meet, she sent me her price list

She wanted me to pay just to meet her for a drink. Then “extras” cost more

A whole week chatting to draw me in "

FFS!

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Someone recently spent a whole week chatting with me, planned to meet, and on the day of the meet, an hour before we were due to meet, she sent me her price list

She wanted me to pay just to meet her for a drink. Then “extras” cost more

A whole week chatting to draw me in

Did you report them?

Nah just stopped chatting. Report does nothing to these people"

Other people need to be aware of this scam.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Had someone on here who I counted as a good friend, start up a new account and chose to pretend that they were stalking me for months for their own amusement.

Some right fuckers on here, so I guess you have to be careful who you trust.

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

A few years ago now. Met a guy in a bar. He was at least 20 years older than his pics on his profile.

Had a lemonade (he was late so I already had a drink) and then said I was going to head home - it was a purely social meet and I’d been very clear on that multiple times - and he got furious. He’d booked a hotel round the corner and demanded we go there.

When I tried to leave the table he grabbed me so hard he left bruises in several places. Thankfully the guy from behind the bar clocked it and came over. He walked me to the train station and said they’d keep the cctv in case I wanted to report the guy.

I reported him here but it was pointless. He’s still here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven’t really had any bad experiences. Just the usual ghosters and time wasters. Luckily we haven’t had a no show yet.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Our 1st meet with a lady, we'd chatted a while, went to her place she opened the door and from pics I expected long blond hair, it was half staved off so that threw me slightly but no issue, anyways after the deed was done and we were chilling there was a noise, turned out there was a baby in another room I wasn't happy! Then it just got worse, we'd literally just got dressed when her brother walked in, turns out she wasn't allowed visitors and was in some emergency supported housing because of a violent ex, if he'd have barged his way in only 1 min earlier we'd have all been naked.

Safe to say it wasn't a return meet.

Mrs

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"A few years ago now. Met a guy in a bar. He was at least 20 years older than his pics on his profile.

Had a lemonade (he was late so I already had a drink) and then said I was going to head home - it was a purely social meet and I’d been very clear on that multiple times - and he got furious. He’d booked a hotel round the corner and demanded we go there.

When I tried to leave the table he grabbed me so hard he left bruises in several places. Thankfully the guy from behind the bar clocked it and came over. He walked me to the train station and said they’d keep the cctv in case I wanted to report the guy.

I reported him here but it was pointless. He’s still here. "

Wow what a dick. I've seen posters in pubs now about ask for angela for folks who feel in an unsafe situation.

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry


"

Wow what a dick. I've seen posters in pubs now about ask for angela for folks who feel in an unsafe situation. "

Yeah that’s a great thing to have.

I learned never to arrive for a solo meet first as the ‘ask for Angela’ wasn’t useable for me because when he arrived he managed to place his chair in a way that meant I couldn’t leave the table without passing him. So I couldn’t get to the bar.

I also never meet in busy places now as well, because if it had been busy the staff wouldn’t have noticed.

Learned quite a few lessons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy from here who had loads of verifications and was a stripper (so I was perhaps blinded from red flags by how gorgeous he was!)

Anyway I turned up and he was on a LOT of drugs. Sweating, dilated pupils, manic. Was angry that I didn’t join in and have some as well. I don’t judge others for drug usage, but then he couldn’t get his dick hard and blamed me. He was extremely angry/shouting at me as I was leaving and basically running away and pushed me down some stairs.

I sat in my car and cried for an hour or so. Reported him on here, his profile is still up.

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel

I had a meet arranged with a couple who I offered to accom. The arrived nearly 2hrs late, both had been drinking but the hubby was wrecked, I mean like eyes rolling head swaying.

I get nerves, but you can’t turn up at someone’s home like that. Anyway, to say it was brief and won’t be a repeat meet is an understatement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone recently spent a whole week chatting with me, planned to meet, and on the day of the meet, an hour before we were due to meet, she sent me her price list

She wanted me to pay just to meet her for a drink. Then “extras” cost more

A whole week chatting to draw me in

Did you report them?

Nah just stopped chatting. Report does nothing to these people"

You really should have. They do get looked at and especially if she’s giving you a price list.

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel


"Our 1st meet with a lady, we'd chatted a while, went to her place she opened the door and from pics I expected long blond hair, it was half staved off so that threw me slightly but no issue, anyways after the deed was done and we were chilling there was a noise, turned out there was a baby in another room I wasn't happy! Then it just got worse, we'd literally just got dressed when her brother walked in, turns out she wasn't allowed visitors and was in some emergency supported housing because of a violent ex, if he'd have barged his way in only 1 min earlier we'd have all been naked.

Safe to say it wasn't a return meet.

Mrs "

That’s bad, kids in the house without your knowledge is bad enough, nutty Ex’s potentially turning up…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a guy from here who had loads of verifications and was a stripper (so I was perhaps blinded from red flags by how gorgeous he was!)

Anyway I turned up and he was on a LOT of drugs. Sweating, dilated pupils, manic. Was angry that I didn’t join in and have some as well. I don’t judge others for drug usage, but then he couldn’t get his dick hard and blamed me. He was extremely angry/shouting at me as I was leaving and basically running away and pushed me down some stairs.

I sat in my car and cried for an hour or so. Reported him on here, his profile is still up."

Was he from the North East?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our 1st meet with a lady, we'd chatted a while, went to her place she opened the door and from pics I expected long blond hair, it was half staved off so that threw me slightly but no issue, anyways after the deed was done and we were chilling there was a noise, turned out there was a baby in another room I wasn't happy! Then it just got worse, we'd literally just got dressed when her brother walked in, turns out she wasn't allowed visitors and was in some emergency supported housing because of a violent ex, if he'd have barged his way in only 1 min earlier we'd have all been naked.

Safe to say it wasn't a return meet.

Mrs "

Loving the end. Would appreciate more of this in the Stories and Fantasies section of the forum

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"Someone recently spent a whole week chatting with me, planned to meet, and on the day of the meet, an hour before we were due to meet, she sent me her price list

She wanted me to pay just to meet her for a drink. Then “extras” cost more

A whole week chatting to draw me in "

Hopefully you reported her? As this is against Fab rules.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Very first meet 5 years ago. Had 2 social meets with a woman and we then agreed to meet in an hotel a few weeks later.

After exchanging pleasantries she punched me in the face without warning. It was a wtf moment and I told her so and made to leave.

She apologised and said she got as much vanilla sex at home as she needed and she wanted something much more extreme at the other end of the scale and hoped I would respond in kind.

I told her she had picked the wrong man for anything like that and that things like that should always be discussed in detail beforehand.

The meet continued for another hour until she drove her knee into my balls in an almost "how about now?" moment.

I got up and left at that point despite having paid for the room and left the site a few days later assuming that all meets would be the same.

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By *8v3nCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Apart from.kinky and funny stuff here are some worrying messages about abuse and profiles not being blocked. That is especially worrying with vulnerable women.

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry


"Our 1st meet with a lady, we'd chatted a while, went to her place she opened the door and from pics I expected long blond hair, it was half staved off so that threw me slightly but no issue, anyways after the deed was done and we were chilling there was a noise, turned out there was a baby in another room I wasn't happy! Then it just got worse, we'd literally just got dressed when her brother walked in, turns out she wasn't allowed visitors and was in some emergency supported housing because of a violent ex, if he'd have barged his way in only 1 min earlier we'd have all been naked.

Safe to say it wasn't a return meet.

Mrs

That’s bad, kids in the house without your knowledge is bad enough, nutty Ex’s potentially turning up… "

Also her letting random guys know where the emergency supported housing is is so bad - there are some folks on here that would massively take advantage of knowing where vulnerable women will be housed.

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By *leanandkeen OP   Man
over a year ago

jarrow

I thought my experience was bad but some of these are mental

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

A stalker years ago.

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Went to her place and her jealous friend attacked me with a bedside lamp.

Then she said I probably ought to go before her husband got back!

Had several no-shows.

The ones that upset me the most are when you read someone's profile carefully, check their requirements and try to compose a polite and friendly message with compliments...then you get 'fuck off sad man' or worse as a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some bloody awful experiences here and it's not good enough when people are reported and nothing is done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was on here first time, this one woman got obsessed with me. She called me 20 times when I was in a lecture. Told me she’d told her daughter about me and her friends. We had never even met irl. Then I downloaded telegram so no more giving it my mobile to people I hadn’t met.

And I mentioned this on another thread but there was also the woman that started telling me, after we’d had sex, about how she doesn’t usually meet Black guys and then reeling off her reasons for not meeting them or another race that she named. It was so awkward.

A few people have found me on fb which was weird but not that deep to me because they can’t see much and I just delete requests.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Another one, from years ago when I was brand new on here

Arrange a meet at mine with a woman. Knock at the door. Open it and it’s a guy. He thought me could tempt and convince me on my doorstep

We traded numbers too. So for the next few months we would ring me all the time. Say he was sitting outside mine if I wanted to meet. Kept trying it.

Blocked his number but he still calls, to this day, years later, on a blocked number. It’s much less now, 1 time a month or so. Still weird though

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

A couple started chatting and invited me to meet them...when I arrived at the address..it wasn't their home...but an older ex naval man who they had lined up ...they then got d*unk ..had weird stop start rules about what they wanted to do...she kept saying buzz buzz buzz to get our attention...I made my excuses and said I was leaving...they then tried to get a lift back to their house..which I declined to do ... a week later

They tried to arrange another meet ..I replied buzz buzz buzz ...I'm blocking and deleting you ..

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry


"Some bloody awful experiences here and it's not good enough when people are reported and nothing is done! "

What actually gets people banned on here baffles me sometimes.

I reported the guy from the message after I got home in which he apologised for getting “out of line” and made no denial of being physical. He’s still here.

The guy who I reported for calling me a disgusting fat cunt who only desperate homeless men would fuck? Still here.

The guy who, after being told no thanks on my couples profile, called me a stupid stupid girl and said he’d come find me at the Attic to put me back in my place (I had commented on our status that we were going)? Still here.

I don’t bother reporting any more. It’s pointless.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I can't say I've had a particularly bad experience.

This makes me worry that I'M the bad experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some bloody awful experiences here and it's not good enough when people are reported and nothing is done!

What actually gets people banned on here baffles me sometimes.

I reported the guy from the message after I got home in which he apologised for getting “out of line” and made no denial of being physical. He’s still here.

The guy who I reported for calling me a disgusting fat cunt who only desperate homeless men would fuck? Still here.

The guy who, after being told no thanks on my couples profile, called me a stupid stupid girl and said he’d come find me at the Attic to put me back in my place (I had commented on our status that we were going)? Still here.

I don’t bother reporting any more. It’s pointless."

One million percent this. On the flip side, I got a warning and temporary suspension because I tried to sell some boots on here (don’t want them + cost of living and all that).

I really dislike Fabs but it’s where all the good cock is hahahah so I’m still here

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Some bloody awful experiences here and it's not good enough when people are reported and nothing is done!

What actually gets people banned on here baffles me sometimes.

I reported the guy from the message after I got home in which he apologised for getting “out of line” and made no denial of being physical. He’s still here.

The guy who I reported for calling me a disgusting fat cunt who only desperate homeless men would fuck? Still here.

The guy who, after being told no thanks on my couples profile, called me a stupid stupid girl and said he’d come find me at the Attic to put me back in my place (I had commented on our status that we were going)? Still here.

I don’t bother reporting any more. It’s pointless.

One million percent this. On the flip side, I got a warning and temporary suspension because I tried to sell some boots on here (don’t want them + cost of living and all that).

I really dislike Fabs but it’s where all the good cock is hahahah so I’m still here"

Not talking second hand dildo’s or used undies a selling page on fab would be a good idea

Mr

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

Had a couple message me, at first saying that what they wanted was for me and the wife to have sex, while hubby watched.

After I'd said that I was interested, I then got a follow up message saying what she wanted to do and for how much.

When I said that what I wanted was to have sex without payment, basically FWB, they started sending abusive messages to me, telling me how awful I looked and how I would be lucky to meet anyone.

I blocked them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been dick fished before

Sent someone else's cock pictures and when we started to have sex I realised as he kept slipping out during missionary

He must of been about 3/4 inches

Other than that I haven't had any bad experiences in terms of turning up and finding the person isn't who they say they are or their house is dirty etc

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

Yes. But thankfully the kind/normal folks that frequented the particular social I was at when it happened REALLY looked after me.

GG x

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

There was a couple that I had played with and had pictures on their profile of us together. There weren't any faces, but you could see the bodies.

A couple of months after we'd met, they messaged me, inviting me to a social. I went along and there's them and a guy looking awkward.

Turns out, he'd stolen their pics and was trying to pass them off as himself, so they'd arranged for the three of us to meet.

He was surprised when he was invited back to theirs to join in the fun, though.....

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Nothing as bad as some of the stories above, but 2 instances come to mind.

First one, I got chatting to a guy, and ended up inviting him over on the same day (I was feeling very horny). He came, we kissed and there was a very bitter taste I got from him. I suspected he took some drugs for "courage". He managed to make me cum once (I cum quite easily, normally), kept asking to do anal which I kept declining, and eventually, when I declined anal for the third time, he got dressed and left. He texted me later that day asking to meet again, but also confirming he did drugs before out meet! Needless to say, it was one and only meet.

Second one- a wannabe Dom. Was saying all the right things when chatting online, and was willing to go by my rules, so I agreed to meet him. He came in, found my cane (even though I stated clearly I don't like impact play), smacked me twice, brought me to tears and got kicked out. No return visit.

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By *r_Mrs_FoxCouple
over a year ago

Wantage

Nothing as bad as posted before but my partner was send to the (intentionally) wrong address by a couple which was a bit embarrassing for him.

We reported them but they are still here.

Does reporting help at all?

Also no shows from single guys which is annoying when you don’t have time for this all the time.

The worst ones are the guys that pledge they are no timewasters

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By *reedy JamesMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I think mine was a long time ago, and not as bad as some of yours on here!

I was persuaded to go round to meet a guy who had promised to tag team me with his mate. His mate didn't exist, his cock pics must have been shot at a very flattering angle, and he came within minutes of me kneeling for him and then ushered me out of the door.

But I once did drive down to Derbyshire to meet a black guy who simply switched his phone off at some point before I arrived.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two occasions spring to mind ... the guy who said he was single, met me a few streets away from where he lived and then asked me to get in the boot of his car so his neighbours didn't see me going in to the house !!

Then the guy i met for a social, i caught a train and met him at 10.30 am, we went to his home, all seemed ok although the place was a dump with heaven knows what spread everywhere. He was drinking cider at 10.30 am ! We went to a pub (got away from the filthy home), he was annoyed that i wouldn't have alcohol and then he saw some friends and we sat with them, he kept trying to hold my hand (i didn't want to), he also told them how he had met me via a swinging site, they were as embaressed as i was. I needed to catch a certain train back and it was getting close to that time so i asked him to point me in the right direction, he kept saying there was plenty of time, i asked his friends the way and they kindly told me which way, i then left, got a bit lost and asked a couple walking by, the Fab guy had ran after me and was pi**ed off and kept trying to hold my hand, i ran to the station, he followed and i got there just in time. I was petrified badly shaken by the experience and didn't meet anyone for a long time after that. I reported him to Fab, told in detail what had happened, however he is still on Fab, going to some organised socials and posting on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That lot gives me the heeby jeeby's

Some of that behaviour warrants reporting to the police let alone fabmins

Thankfully we've only ever had a couple disappear after we passed them on the way into the bar to meet them.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place


"Some bloody awful experiences here and it's not good enough when people are reported and nothing is done!

What actually gets people banned on here baffles me sometimes.

I reported the guy from the message after I got home in which he apologised for getting “out of line” and made no denial of being physical. He’s still here.

The guy who I reported for calling me a disgusting fat cunt who only desperate homeless men would fuck? Still here.

The guy who, after being told no thanks on my couples profile, called me a stupid stupid girl and said he’d come find me at the Attic to put me back in my place (I had commented on our status that we were going)? Still here.

I don’t bother reporting any more. It’s pointless.

One million percent this. On the flip side, I got a warning and temporary suspension because I tried to sell some boots on here (don’t want them + cost of living and all that).

I really dislike Fabs but it’s where all the good cock is hahahah so I’m still here"

Sell on vinted, buyer pays fees and postage

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Our 1st meet with a lady, we'd chatted a while, went to her place she opened the door and from pics I expected long blond hair, it was half staved off so that threw me slightly but no issue, anyways after the deed was done and we were chilling there was a noise, turned out there was a baby in another room I wasn't happy! Then it just got worse, we'd literally just got dressed when her brother walked in, turns out she wasn't allowed visitors and was in some emergency supported housing because of a violent ex, if he'd have barged his way in only 1 min earlier we'd have all been naked.

Safe to say it wasn't a return meet.

Mrs

That’s bad, kids in the house without your knowledge is bad enough, nutty Ex’s potentially turning up… "

It didn't stop them getting naked there though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a guy from here who had loads of verifications and was a stripper (so I was perhaps blinded from red flags by how gorgeous he was!)

Anyway I turned up and he was on a LOT of drugs. Sweating, dilated pupils, manic. Was angry that I didn’t join in and have some as well. I don’t judge others for drug usage, but then he couldn’t get his dick hard and blamed me. He was extremely angry/shouting at me as I was leaving and basically running away and pushed me down some stairs.

I sat in my car and cried for an hour or so. Reported him on here, his profile is still up."

Oh my god this is awful

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

At a small fab group social a few years back, one of the males was forcibly removing my clothes, much to my screams of No… others egged him on and even laughed about it!

I managed to get out of the room but I shall never forget it.. or those that were part of it!

Pixie

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"At a small fab group social a few years back, one of the males was forcibly removing my clothes, much to my screams of No… others egged him on and even laughed about it!

I managed to get out of the room but I shall never forget it.. or those that were part of it!

Pixie "

Has he since apologised since finding out you really really didn't want it?

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

Met someone new to fab (who actually knew me off fab too), they completely freaked out, said that were overwhelmed and most women weren't normally confident in bed like I was. Made me feel like a right wrong'un for enjoying sex, then messaged me months later wanting to pimp me out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At a small fab group social a few years back, one of the males was forcibly removing my clothes, much to my screams of No… others egged him on and even laughed about it!

I managed to get out of the room but I shall never forget it.. or those that were part of it!

Pixie "

This is horrific

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester


"At a small fab group social a few years back, one of the males was forcibly removing my clothes, much to my screams of No… others egged him on and even laughed about it!

I managed to get out of the room but I shall never forget it.. or those that were part of it!

Pixie

Has he since apologised since finding out you really really didn't want it? "

Nope.. probably still feels like he did nothing wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meet arranged with a couple who I offered to accom. The arrived nearly 2hrs late, both had been drinking but the hubby was wrecked, I mean like eyes rolling head swaying.

I get nerves, but you can’t turn up at someone’s home like that. Anyway, to say it was brief and won’t be a repeat meet is an understatement "

I think I’ve told you all of mine…. But similarly, when a guy starts to hallucinate and chat to people at the end of your bed, who aren’t there…. It’s time to call an Uber!

Safe to say - club meets only now!

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel


"I had a meet arranged with a couple who I offered to accom. The arrived nearly 2hrs late, both had been drinking but the hubby was wrecked, I mean like eyes rolling head swaying.

I get nerves, but you can’t turn up at someone’s home like that. Anyway, to say it was brief and won’t be a repeat meet is an understatement

I think I’ve told you all of mine…. But similarly, when a guy starts to hallucinate and chat to people at the end of your bed, who aren’t there…. It’s time to call an Uber!

Safe to say - club meets only now! "

Can’t remember you telling me that one…

Don’t want that, was he on something or had you just blown his mind…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meet arranged with a couple who I offered to accom. The arrived nearly 2hrs late, both had been drinking but the hubby was wrecked, I mean like eyes rolling head swaying.

I get nerves, but you can’t turn up at someone’s home like that. Anyway, to say it was brief and won’t be a repeat meet is an understatement

I think I’ve told you all of mine…. But similarly, when a guy starts to hallucinate and chat to people at the end of your bed, who aren’t there…. It’s time to call an Uber!

Safe to say - club meets only now!

Can’t remember you telling me that one…

Don’t want that, was he on something or had you just blown his mind… "

Both mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone recently spent a whole week chatting with me, planned to meet, and on the day of the meet, an hour before we were due to meet, she sent me her price list

She wanted me to pay just to meet her for a drink. Then “extras” cost more

A whole week chatting to draw me in

Did you report them?

Nah just stopped chatting. Report does nothing to these people"

Certainly won’t if you don’t report them.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

Nothing scary as above.

We met a couple for a discreet social in a pub local to both parties.

The other hubby started to get d*unk and loud, proclaiming he didn't care who knew he was a swinger and that we only lived once etc. He was drawing alot of attention to our table and making us and his wife very uncomfortable.

We made our excuses and left. His wife did message and apologise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread goes a long way towards explaining why single women seem a little aloof and unapproachable in here then.

Literally it sounds like every one of them has a proper horror story to tell.

Sad indictment of our society that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread goes a long way towards explaining why single women seem a little aloof and unapproachable in here then.

Literally it sounds like every one of them has a proper horror story to tell.

Sad indictment of our society that is "

Basically

And people still don't understand why were always on the defensive

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry


"This thread goes a long way towards explaining why single women seem a little aloof and unapproachable in here then.

Literally it sounds like every one of them has a proper horror story to tell.

Sad indictment of our society that is "

Yep.

Yet when I'm cautious organising one-on-one meets and explain why I get a barrage "I'm not like that" or "Stop judging all men".

It's also quite telling that when women have bad experiences with messages on here it's often a barrage of "Sort your message filters" rather than actually any pressure on blokes. It's very telling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread goes a long way towards explaining why single women seem a little aloof and unapproachable in here then.

Literally it sounds like every one of them has a proper horror story to tell.

Sad indictment of our society that is

Yep.

Yet when I'm cautious organising one-on-one meets and explain why I get a barrage "I'm not like that" or "Stop judging all men".

It's also quite telling that when women have bad experiences with messages on here it's often a barrage of "Sort your message filters" rather than actually any pressure on blokes. It's very telling."

Clubs are soooo much better. Even just to socialise. Can see what people are really like before deciding to take things further. A year ago I’d never been to one and now I much prefer meeting that way xx

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry


"

Clubs are soooo much better. Even just to socialise. Can see what people are really like before deciding to take things further. A year ago I’d never been to one and now I much prefer meeting that way xx"

Yes, they are a lot of fun and they do feel safer.

I've only been 4 times, but they are a good way to get chatting to people in a safer environment.

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By *ola xWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry Shropshire

I had a meet that I had to threaten to call police because he got in my car and got his cock out in a busy car park wanted a bj and wouldn't take no for an answer.

It was a coffee social to see if we clicked.

We didn't.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

My worst experience was a woman from just outside Cardiff who sent a photo of me doing a stir fry in a guys thong into my company head office for the attention of the MD, and written on the back of it was, "This is what he is doing when he is supposed to be working." All because I refused to bale her out financially. As it happens my MD knows where to get hold of me 24/7 and the photo went straight in the bin. When that ploy didn't work, she then claimed she was pregnant, and would take me to the cleaners, unless I wanted to make a settlement now. Needless to say that too was water off a ducks back, but if I'd been married, and playing away fixtures I could have been in panic mode.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"What’s everyone’s bad experiences on fab ?

Just had mine today new profile person definitely wasn’t the person in the pics the flat was something else stunk of green and dirt plaster and wall paper hanging off the wall no carpets cats and beer cans all over proper filthy and then a mattress with manky bedding on the floor. I told her it wasn’t for me and left. Her profile has now been deleted. "

One of my lovers had something similar happen to him. Men please meet these women in public and do not get carried away!! Men get tied up and attacked and robbed and unalived too and these crooks use women as bait!!

Check you verifications too! please be careful and have a safety buddy!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Someone recently spent a whole week chatting with me, planned to meet, and on the day of the meet, an hour before we were due to meet, she sent me her price list

She wanted me to pay just to meet her for a drink. Then “extras” cost more

A whole week chatting to draw me in "

Have the social meet first. be more careful.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Our 1st meet with a lady, we'd chatted a while, went to her place she opened the door and from pics I expected long blond hair, it was half staved off so that threw me slightly but no issue, anyways after the deed was done and we were chilling there was a noise, turned out there was a baby in another room I wasn't happy! Then it just got worse, we'd literally just got dressed when her brother walked in, turns out she wasn't allowed visitors and was in some emergency supported housing because of a violent ex, if he'd have barged his way in only 1 min earlier we'd have all been naked.

Safe to say it wasn't a return meet.

Mrs

That’s bad, kids in the house without your knowledge is bad enough, nutty Ex’s potentially turning up…

It didn't stop them getting naked there though "

It would have if we'd known prior!

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"This thread goes a long way towards explaining why single women seem a little aloof and unapproachable in here then.

Literally it sounds like every one of them has a proper horror story to tell.

Sad indictment of our society that is "

Let's not get carried away and think it happens to everyone

It doesn't

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Someone recently spent a whole week chatting with me, planned to meet, and on the day of the meet, an hour before we were due to meet, she sent me her price list

She wanted me to pay just to meet her for a drink. Then “extras” cost more

A whole week chatting to draw me in

Have the social meet first. be more careful."

We were meeting for a social when she sent me the price list

How am I meant to be more cardio than that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone recently spent a whole week chatting with me, planned to meet, and on the day of the meet, an hour before we were due to meet, she sent me her price list

She wanted me to pay just to meet her for a drink. Then “extras” cost more

A whole week chatting to draw me in

Have the social meet first. be more careful.

We were meeting for a social when she sent me the price list

How am I meant to be more careful than that? "

You did nothing wrong. Nobody here describing their experience did anything wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone recently spent a whole week chatting with me, planned to meet, and on the day of the meet, an hour before we were due to meet, she sent me her price list

She wanted me to pay just to meet her for a drink. Then “extras” cost more

A whole week chatting to draw me in

Have the social meet first. be more careful.

We were meeting for a social when she sent me the price list

How am I meant to be more cardio than that? "

Ooh price list.

There's an idea.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Someone recently spent a whole week chatting with me, planned to meet, and on the day of the meet, an hour before we were due to meet, she sent me her price list

She wanted me to pay just to meet her for a drink. Then “extras” cost more

A whole week chatting to draw me in

Have the social meet first. be more careful.

We were meeting for a social when she sent me the price list

How am I meant to be more careful than that?

You did nothing wrong. Nobody here describing their experience did anything wrong. "

More than anything, I appreciate you fixing my auto correct. I was as careful as possible, but my cardio was lacking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone recently spent a whole week chatting with me, planned to meet, and on the day of the meet, an hour before we were due to meet, she sent me her price list

She wanted me to pay just to meet her for a drink. Then “extras” cost more

A whole week chatting to draw me in

Have the social meet first. be more careful.

We were meeting for a social when she sent me the price list

How am I meant to be more careful than that?

You did nothing wrong. Nobody here describing their experience did anything wrong.

More than anything, I appreciate you fixing my auto correct. I was as careful as possible, but my cardio was lacking. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone recently spent a whole week chatting with me, planned to meet, and on the day of the meet, an hour before we were due to meet, she sent me her price list

She wanted me to pay just to meet her for a drink. Then “extras” cost more

A whole week chatting to draw me in

Have the social meet first. be more careful."

Let's not victim blame here

You don't know the circumstances which they were supposed to meet so you don't know if this situation could of been avoided or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread goes a long way towards explaining why single women seem a little aloof and unapproachable in here then.

Literally it sounds like every one of them has a proper horror story to tell.

Sad indictment of our society that is "

It really doesn't happen to everyone ... I've been on and off here for years and never been stood up once! Never met a weirdo etc met lots where there hasn't been the right connection but still had a good social! I know many men about where I am who have mostly good stories too!

The forum is a very small place when compared to the rest of Fab!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"A few years ago now. Met a guy in a bar. He was at least 20 years older than his pics on his profile.

Had a lemonade (he was late so I already had a drink) and then said I was going to head home - it was a purely social meet and I’d been very clear on that multiple times - and he got furious. He’d booked a hotel round the corner and demanded we go there.

When I tried to leave the table he grabbed me so hard he left bruises in several places. Thankfully the guy from behind the bar clocked it and came over. He walked me to the train station and said they’d keep the cctv in case I wanted to report the guy.

I reported him here but it was pointless. He’s still here. "

This is all too common unfortunately. I have had similar with a man physically try restrain me at a table from leaving. I smashed my bottle in his face then left Prick was probably some weird rapist type .

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"A few years ago now. Met a guy in a bar. He was at least 20 years older than his pics on his profile.

Had a lemonade (he was late so I already had a drink) and then said I was going to head home - it was a purely social meet and I’d been very clear on that multiple times - and he got furious. He’d booked a hotel round the corner and demanded we go there.

When I tried to leave the table he grabbed me so hard he left bruises in several places. Thankfully the guy from behind the bar clocked it and came over. He walked me to the train station and said they’d keep the cctv in case I wanted to report the guy.

I reported him here but it was pointless. He’s still here.

This is all too common unfortunately. I have had similar with a man physically try restrain me at a table from leaving. I smashed my bottle in his face then left Prick was probably some weird rapist type ."

Probably. He was a man.

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