FabSwingers.com forum: Straight Men. Why do?

By *enuine Mike OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

So many so called straight men reach out to other single straight mens profiles and offer blowjobs?

WTF..... that's not normal.

Straight Men don't suck off straight Men. Just admit that you're bi and be done with it.

It annoys me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they want to find out what all the other bi/woman/gay people are enjoying.

Did someone ask you op?

What did you say?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"So many so called straight men reach out to other single straight mens profiles and offer blowjobs?

WTF..... that's not normal.

Straight Men don't suck off straight Men. Just admit that you're bi and be done with it.

It annoys me "

We can all identify how we want, even if you disagree. Personally I think you can be straight and still want to suck a dick. Others will disagree. It’s our lives, our choice to identify in a way we want

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Why are you getting annoyed over random strangers you will never meet from online.

Good lord man. Priorities in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many so called straight men reach out to other single straight mens profiles and offer blowjobs?

WTF..... that's not normal.

Straight Men don't suck off straight Men. Just admit that you're bi and be done with it.

It annoys me "

I have seen it posted here that they don't want to put off potential connections with females who aren't attracted to bi

Or they are concerned by the possibility of their fab life and real life crossing over. And being bi perhaps not being received well.

There are a hundred reasons.

But it's just another label, outdated too, so not worth sweating over

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Why are you getting annoyed over random strangers you will never meet from online.

Good lord man. Priorities in life

Wise words

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By *enuine Mike OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

"Because they want to find out what all the other bi/woman/gay people are enjoying.

Did someone ask you op?

What did you say?

I told them to fuck off and blocked them

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Take is as a compliment

If it bothers you this much, block single men from messaging you

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"So many so called straight men reach out to other single straight mens profiles and offer blowjobs?

WTF..... that's not normal.

Straight Men don't suck off straight Men. Just admit that you're bi and be done with it.

It annoys me "

Does it help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they want to find out what all the other bi/woman/gay people are enjoying.

Did someone ask you op?

What did you say?

I told them to fuck off and blocked them "

Cute reply……..

. I usually just say no thanks, stops my angst.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And by 'outdated' I simply meant the word doesn't really cater to the wide variations in the reality of people's likes and preferences and how they would choose to identify or engage as far as sexual preferences go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man offers to suck your cock does it matter if their profile says they're bi or straight?

You're either interested or you're not?

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By *ammy_xMan
over a year ago

Reading

I've always considered myself straight, even when dressing in sexy lingerie and fucking my ass with a dildo. But have become a lot more curious recently.

Labels are maybe a bit too limiting to categorise desires

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By *enuine Mike OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

"Take is as a compliment

If it bothers you this much, block single men from messaging you "

I knew this would come up. The reason I don't block single men is simply because I've had my fair share of MFM threesomes from single male accounts.

I dont have a problem with men messaging me, it's when they overstep the mark that annoys me. That's all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can have sexual fantasies about the same sex or be sexually fluid and still identify as straight if you only have relationships with the opposite sex or have the stronger preference for the opposite sex but it’s a bit pointless messaging someone who says on their profile they’re looking for women and you’re a dude. Maybe just pot luck hoping you’ll play along into their fantasies. Who reads profiles anyways

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Take is as a compliment

If it bothers you this much, block single men from messaging you

I knew this would come up. The reason I don't block single men is simply because I've had my fair share of MFM threesomes from single male accounts.

I dont have a problem with men messaging me, it's when they overstep the mark that annoys me. That's all!"

Oh, right, it’s just your original post seemed more angry about straight guys messaging you and you saying they aren’t straight

Now it’s them overstepping their mark

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By *enuine Mike OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

"If a man offers to suck your cock does it matter if their profile says they're bi or straight?

You're either interested or you're not?"

In my opinion, yes it does.

If someone is straight, I wouldn't expect them to have any desire for another man to suck them off. That makes them Bi curious for thinking about it and Bi if they proceed with it.

Thats my logic but everyone sees the World and judges it through their own beliefs I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're profile says you appreciate the offers so probably giving mixed messages there.

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By *enuine Mike OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

"So many so called straight men reach out to other single straight mens profiles and offer blowjobs?

WTF..... that's not normal.

Straight Men don't suck off straight Men. Just admit that you're bi and be done with it.

It annoys me

I have seen it posted here that they don't want to put off potential connections with females who aren't attracted to bi

Or they are concerned by the possibility of their fab life and real life crossing over. And being bi perhaps not being received well.

There are a hundred reasons.

But it's just another label, outdated too, so not worth sweating over"

Best logical response I've read so far. Hadn't thought about it like that before

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"So many so called straight men reach out to other single straight mens profiles and offer blowjobs?

WTF..... that's not normal.

Straight Men don't suck off straight Men. Just admit that you're bi and be done with it.

It annoys me "

Does your ire extend to other inaccuracies in profiles... Height, single, body type, location, smoker etc or is it just the straight bit? Surely profiles are taken at a pinch... Its just a bit of fun isn't it.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you’re ‘turning’ them op?

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Take is as a compliment

If it bothers you this much, block single men from messaging you

I knew this would come up. The reason I don't block single men is simply because I've had my fair share of MFM threesomes from single male accounts.

I dont have a problem with men messaging me, it's when they overstep the mark that annoys me. That's all!"

I’m with you OP on this, I do get tired on so called straight guys offering sex to me, when it is clear from my profile that I am straight. It would be like me randomly contacting a lesbian and saying “hey darling how about sucking this dick for me” ! It’s not acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's possible for someone to be into sucking cock while not having a physical attraction to their sex.

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By *enuine Mike OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

"Take is as a compliment

If it bothers you this much, block single men from messaging you

I knew this would come up. The reason I don't block single men is simply because I've had my fair share of MFM threesomes from single male accounts.

I dont have a problem with men messaging me, it's when they overstep the mark that annoys me. That's all!

Glad it's not just me. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid people don't read profiles generally. That's just Fab.

But a man who wants to give you a blow job isn't necessarily bi - and it's up to them to label their own sexuality isn't it?

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Surely filters are the answer? I generally ignore the "wanna blowjob" messages but take them as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iys just nice to wake up to a message now and then

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By *reedy JamesMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

"Why are you getting annoyed over random strangers you will never meet from online.

Good lord man. Priorities in life

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By *imAndBarbCouple
over a year ago

chester

"So many so called straight men reach out to other single straight mens profiles and offer blowjobs?

WTF..... that's not normal.

Straight Men don't suck off straight Men. Just admit that you're bi and be done with it.

Yep!!!

It annoys me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’ve been rejected by all the women so they might as well try the men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's highly likely that they are thinking along the lines of how they won't be the only bi/gay/etc guy to have straight on their profile so take a chance on getting a yes.

If you have veris from mfm that would increase the chances of hete

Enough yes'es will keep it worth their while

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Focus on yourself and how you identify. Anyone else, it's their thing.

Sexual activity can be very different to sexual attraction, as you'll see in the many forum posts. It can be hard for many who have led a restricted lifestyle and mindset, to grasp this. There's a whole, other big world out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's highly likely that they are thinking along the lines of how they won't be the only bi/gay/etc guy to have straight on their profile so take a chance on getting a yes.

If you have veris from mfm that would increase the chances of hete

Enough yes'es will keep it worth their while"

Lol fab editing my spelling

* hetero-flex

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By *astle321Man
over a year ago

pershore

Just close your eyes.......

Lie back....

There you go !

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By *ance1502Man
over a year ago

London

I think labelling your sexuality is stupid. We like what we like and that can change on a daily basis.

But what difference would it make if they said they were bi or gay? Would you have been interested then?

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By *ance1502Man
over a year ago

London

"Focus on yourself and how you identify. Anyone else, it's their thing.

This is exactly it. You hit the nail on the head.

My sexual activity doesn't exactly reflect my sexual attraction and explaining that to less experienced people or closed minded people is like talking to a brick wall. Not everyone gets it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DL.

Or concerned about Biphobia on here.

Plenty of valid concerns.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"DL.

Or concerned about Biphobia on here.

Plenty of valid concerns.

Just ignore the message, delete it, block them, whatever you gotta do.

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By *enuine Mike OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

"They’ve been rejected by all the women so they might as well try the men."

Lol! You're probably not wrong

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"I'm afraid people don't read profiles generally. That's just Fab.

But a man who wants to give you a blow job isn't necessarily bi - and it's up to them to label their own sexuality isn't it?"

Yes it is up to them and also up to me to have mine respected surely!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it as a form of flattery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are you getting annoyed over random strangers you will never meet from online.

Good lord man. Priorities in life

Getting annoyed over something on the internet is like choosing to step in dogshit rather than walk round it

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Straight guys message me all the time, my profile quite clearly states ‘no straight guys’ but they still message.

Conclusion, very few people read the text within a profile or will ignore it. C’est La Vie

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I have seen it posted here that they don't want to put off potential connections with females who aren't attracted to bi

But they are prepared to out themselves as liars?

I would think that would put more leoe off!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

* people

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"So many so called straight men reach out to other single straight mens profiles and offer blowjobs?

WTF..... that's not normal.

Straight Men don't suck off straight Men. Just admit that you're bi and be done with it.

It annoys me "

One word; desperation.

It was ‘Heads’ - give in to having a guy suck him off;

And ‘Tails’ - visit an escort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen it posted here that they don't want to put off potential connections with females who aren't attracted to bi

But they are prepared to out themselves as liars?

I would think that would put more leoe off!"

I suppose they imagine it wouldn't be discovered unless they themselves tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm afraid people don't read profiles generally. That's just Fab.

But a man who wants to give you a blow job isn't necessarily bi - and it's up to them to label their own sexuality isn't it?

Yes it is up to them and also up to me to have mine respected surely!!"

I don't see it as any different to men messaging me to ask me to fuck their

. Some people don't respect others' boundaries here and IRL.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I think a lot of not out gay/bi guys think straight guy are more discreet too. Feels like a safer meet.

Shoot your shot I guess. If their filters are open and as long as you are respectful in your messages I see no harm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are you getting annoyed over random strangers you will never meet from online.

Good lord man. Priorities in life

Miss S x

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I have seen it posted here that they don't want to put off potential connections with females who aren't attracted to bi

But they are prepared to out themselves as liars?

I would think that would put more leoe off!

I suppose they imagine it wouldn't be discovered unless they themselves tell"

Happens loads on the Forums.

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