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By *asty tatsy OP   Man
over a year ago

london

So when you have a social meet for the first time how do you like to break the ice or start the convo off, are you someone that goes straight in with the chat or are you quite cautious. Do you offer to buy a drink or have them ready

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I keep a folded up dick pic in my wallet for such situations. Slide is across the table and let it do the talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the time I'm happy to meet for a social, I've spoken to that person a considerable amount, so there is no awkwardness

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By *asty tatsy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"By the time I'm happy to meet for a social, I've spoken to that person a considerable amount, so there is no awkwardness"

Yeah I get that, but do you still not get a little bit nervous?

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By *ambertMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Grab an ice cube from the bar, smash it on the floor in front of them and say "now I have broken the ice, fancy a drink?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing ground breaking for me, no tricks or pick up lines up my sleeve, just a simple “how was your journey?” or something similarly inane just to open the conversation and see where it goes from there

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I keep a folded up dick pic in my wallet for such situations. Slide is across the table and let it do the talking "

They always say if you can make them laugh you are most of the way there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, nice body on you, would you like to blow my cock behind Asda !

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By *asty tatsy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Hey, nice body on you, would you like to blow my cock behind Asda ! "

The outcome was???????

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Good question, it can be a little difficult, not for me though I could talk for Wales, but Mr finds it hard, we tend to chat to people online beforehand this can help a little before a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, nice body on you, would you like to blow my cock behind Asda !

The outcome was??????? "

I can’t talk with my mouth full

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By *asty tatsy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Good question, it can be a little difficult, not for me though I could talk for Wales, but Mr finds it hard, we tend to chat to people online beforehand this can help a little before a meet."

Sorry I should’ve explained I don’t mean a very spontaneous social even if you have been speaking a while. I also can talk a lot maybe too much at times haha

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By *asty tatsy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Hey, nice body on you, would you like to blow my cock behind Asda !

The outcome was???????

I can’t talk with my mouth full "

Hahahahahahaha side chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, nice body on you, would you like to blow my cock behind Asda ! "

Damn it I thought you said Aldi

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Nothing ground breaking for me, no tricks or pick up lines up my sleeve, just a simple “how was your journey?” or something similarly inane just to open the conversation and see where it goes from there "

This then.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"So when you have a social meet for the first time how do you like to break the ice or start the convo off, are you someone that goes straight in with the chat or are you quite cautious. Do you offer to buy a drink or have them ready "

I can talk the hind legs off a donkey, so breaking the ice is usually quite easy.

Ask them if they had a nice trip, if they need a wee before we set off that kind of thing.

I would never have drinks waiting for them due to the possibility of them being spiked.

Its always about making the person feel safe so they can relax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, nice body on you, would you like to blow my cock behind Asda !

The outcome was???????

I can’t talk with my mouth full

Hahahahahahaha side chat "

You should check out his middle aisle.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I usually ask them where the toilet is, in a panicky voice.

They’re usually so concerned about whether I’m going to shart that the ice is soon broken!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's hard work by that point I'd be worried.

I like to build that solid connection so that by the time you meet in the real, it's like catching up with a friend.

That you want to do unspeakable things with.

Perhaps.

Depending on the coffee they order.

Or how they eat cake.

That might ruin it.

Gins safer.

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

One lovely ice-breaker at a preliminary meet in a pub was the woman going off to the Ladies & on her return discreetly passing me her still warm knickers.....

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"One lovely ice-breaker at a preliminary meet in a pub was the woman going off to the Ladies & on her return discreetly passing me her still warm knickers....."

Had you even said hello at that point?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Straight in with the chat, I quite often meet up for morning cuppa socials when I have a spare hour

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

At my latest social the guy bought me a cactus. Got my attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's rare they are on time, so a quick crack about their watch being broken usually breaks the ice.. once they realise I'm joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By the time I'm happy to meet for a social, I've spoken to that person a considerable amount, so there is no awkwardness"

This totally. I spent months chatting to my fwb, pretty much daily, before we ever met. Come the social, it wasn't like meeting a stranger at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's rare they are on time, so a quick crack about their watch being broken usually breaks the ice.. once they realise I'm joking "

No, not funny. I was 15 minutes late once. Right chain, wrong hotel....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when you have a social meet for the first time how do you like to break the ice or start the convo off, are you someone that goes straight in with the chat or are you quite cautious. Do you offer to buy a drink or have them ready "

Ask her if she takes it in the bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What we need is a 10ft penguin

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I find a hammer very useful to break ice

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Yeah a social at a venue, I just chat naturally as suggested. When meeting as a couple with a couple, the men and women get on respective gender talks... The boys talk football and women outfits, shoes, handbag...

The other ice breaker is initiating sex. I've found asking if they'd like to see the new underwear I bought especially for the meet, normally gets things thawing out nicely...

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

does this smell like chloroform ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask if they know how much an elephant weighs

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