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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning all

So I am attending my first club visit at no 3 club, Chorley North West next Wednesday which is a greedy girls event, starts at 1pm, I will be attending solo from opening, I am quietly confident of myself however with it being a completely new experience just wanted some guidance or advice that will help me integrate well with the other members.

Any advice appreciated

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

It was everyone's first time once ...I'm sure you'll have a great time..just be yourself and treat everyone with respect

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks mate, I am sure I can do this

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By *elightfulharmonyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

Yes always nerve wreaking on your first visit couldn’t really comment from a male point of view.

I remember on my first visit their were a number of guys just hanging around behind me and I just didn’t like it I felt uncomfortable as I was in a group chatting with others. So if I give you anything take that don’t be that guy standing their hanging behind mingle and chat Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes always nerve wreaking on your first visit couldn’t really comment from a male point of view.

I remember on my first visit their were a number of guys just hanging around behind me and I just didn’t like it I felt uncomfortable as I was in a group chatting with others. So if I give you anything take that don’t be that guy standing their hanging behind mingle and chat Good luck x"

Perfect, yeah can only imagine what some men are like I already thought about things like this, I do know how to show respect so will definitely be using this advice, thank you x

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By *nE98Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We are interested in going to a club for the first time, but unlike you we are not confident. We are both bigger people and I guess we are worried about 'fitting in'. Are we over thinking it, are there all shapes and sizes in these clubs? Any advice welcome x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are interested in going to a club for the first time, but unlike you we are not confident. We are both bigger people and I guess we are worried about 'fitting in'. Are we over thinking it, are there all shapes and sizes in these clubs? Any advice welcome x"

Yes there absolutely is. There isn't a particular type of person or body shape that goes to clubs. X

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"We are interested in going to a club for the first time, but unlike you we are not confident. We are both bigger people and I guess we are worried about 'fitting in'. Are we over thinking it, are there all shapes and sizes in these clubs? Any advice welcome x"

Don’t worry about it, everyone there is sex positive, we’ve been going to clubs for four/five years now. We’ve not encountered any problems with size/shape/age. Just as with here. You might not be someone’s type, just move on. People on the whole in clubs are friendly, and if they’re not, don’t chat to them!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"We are interested in going to a club for the first time, but unlike you we are not confident. We are both bigger people and I guess we are worried about 'fitting in'. Are we over thinking it, are there all shapes and sizes in these clubs? Any advice welcome x

Yes there absolutely is. There isn't a particular type of person or body shape that goes to clubs. X"

Very true ..all different shapes and sizes x

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