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Personally I find when people become friends with me, the convo seems to stop lol | |||
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First chat to fab friends 30 minutes after that one’s he left
Was just a quick hello down to it finsh on my face zip and out the door meet | |||
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"1. Minutes 2. Around 3 weeks we think But yes, it does seem that once you add friends the conversation falters." Omg really!! 
Wow.. I must be super cautious! | |||
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"Personally I find when people become friends with me, the convo seems to stop lol" Come on now who else gives you clips of their nights out on the neck oil, down town  | |||
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"1. A few minutes 2. About a week Neither are a common event" I am realising this is the norm and i am the abnormal outlier! | |||
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"1. I don't have any friends. 2. About an hour (but on a couple's profile, not this one obviously )"An hour! christ.. I'd still be debating their username  | |||
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"First chat to Fab Meet Emmm 10-20 minutes flying the meet now flag and exchange details and then his travel time yes yes I know “I was a 4 letter bad word that day ”
First chat to fab friends 30 minutes after that one’s he left
Was just a quick hello down to it finsh on my face zip and out the door meet "Oh i think a 'meet now' is a bit different... Even i might under those circumstances... But then again, oh my gosh... I'm wondering if I should even be on fab haha | |||
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"1. I don't have any friends. 2. About an hour (but on a couple's profile, not this one obviously )
An hour! christ.. I'd still be debating their username "We ended up having to block his number from our phone so yeah maybe a little hasty. But it was a good night. | |||
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"1. A few minutes 2. About a week Neither are a common event I am realising this is the norm and i am the abnormal outlier! " Not being normal here isn’t necessarily a bad thing | |||
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"1. Within minutes 2. 5 days I’ve also found once you take the conversation off fab elsewhere, more than often the chat slows or stops…" Oh you defo mean business
I rarely take it outside of fab.. I think it creates expectations i can't fulfil | |||
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"Friends: A couple of days, we would've chatted a bit first Meet: about 8 hours chatting through the day and then meeting in the evening because I'm easy "Yeah this is more my speed! | |||
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"Less than five minutes..she sent me a friend's request..woohoo " he shoots, she scores | |||
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"Personally I find when people become friends with me, the convo seems to stop lol Come on now who else gives you clips of their nights out on the neck oil, down town "Someone hasto keep you company as you stagger the dark streets | |||
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"1. no friends 2. a couple of days (social, but onthing further came of it)." Hmm why do you skip the friends stage? | |||
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"First chat to Fab Meet Emmm 10-20 minutes flying the meet now flag and exchange details and then his travel time yes yes I know “I was a 4 letter bad word that day ”
First chat to fab friends 30 minutes after that one’s he left
Was just a quick hello down to it finsh on my face zip and out the door meet
Oh i think a 'meet now' is a bit different... Even i might under those circumstances... But then again, oh my gosh... I'm wondering if I should even be on fab haha"Ha ha yes meets now can be a bit different and awww there’s always room for you here on fab beautiful x | |||
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"Chat to friends: A few weeks maybe? Chat to meet: (for me) was a couple of hours
LvM"Oh i like 'a few weeks' | |||
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"1. I don't have any friends. 2. About an hour (but on a couple's profile, not this one obviously )
An hour! christ.. I'd still be debating their username
We ended up having to block his number from our phone so yeah maybe a little hasty. But it was a good night."ROFL!! Omg | |||
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"Personally I find when people become friends with me, the convo seems to stop lol Come on now who else gives you clips of their nights out on the neck oil, down town
Someone hasto keep you company as you stagger the dark streets "I’m so bad  You’re a good friend  | |||
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"1. no friends 2. a couple of days (social, but onthing further came of it). Hmm why do you skip the friends stage? " I’d be skipping if I was your friend lol | |||
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"1. A few minutes 2. About a week Neither are a common event I am realising this is the norm and i am the abnormal outlier! Not being normal here isn’t necessarily a bad thing " not sure i want to shout I'm abnormal | |||
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"Friends was about a week Meet was about 2 months. Seems conservative going off the other replies I must be a prude "Yeah get your socks on slow coach! MNB | |||
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"First chat to Fab Meet Emmm 10-20 minutes flying the meet now flag and exchange details and then his travel time yes yes I know “I was a 4 letter bad word that day ”
First chat to fab friends 30 minutes after that one’s he left
Was just a quick hello down to it finsh on my face zip and out the door meet
Oh i think a 'meet now' is a bit different... Even i might under those circumstances... But then again, oh my gosh... I'm wondering if I should even be on fab haha
Ha ha yes meets now can be a bit different and awww there’s always room for you here on fab beautiful x"I love the phrase 'zip and out of the door' | |||
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"1 Maybe an hour 2 See above. How long to delete "Haha. or block? | |||
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"Personally I find when people become friends with me, the convo seems to stop lol Come on now who else gives you clips of their nights out on the neck oil, down town
Someone hasto keep you company as you stagger the dark streets
I’m so bad You’re a good friend "I have to stay sober on the nights you go out in case you need midnight's taxi service | |||
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"1. no friends 2. a couple of days (social, but onthing further came of it). Hmm why do you skip the friends stage? I’d be skipping if I was your friend lol" | |||
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"chat to friends? Oh weeks. Friends to meet? Bloody months. " Oooooo I'm seeing a gender split.. That is more my speed.. After running police +dbs checks | |||
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"1 Maybe an hour 2 See above. How long to delete
Haha. or block? " | |||
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"Friends: A couple of days, we would've chatted a bit first Meet: about 8 hours chatting through the day and then meeting in the evening because I'm easy
Yeah this is more my speed! "See you at around 5:30am tomorrow morning | |||
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"First chat to Fab Meet Emmm 10-20 minutes flying the meet now flag and exchange details and then his travel time yes yes I know “I was a 4 letter bad word that day ”
First chat to fab friends 30 minutes after that one’s he left
Was just a quick hello down to it finsh on my face zip and out the door meet
Oh i think a 'meet now' is a bit different... Even i might under those circumstances... But then again, oh my gosh... I'm wondering if I should even be on fab haha
Ha ha yes meets now can be a bit different and awww there’s always room for you here on fab beautiful x
I love the phrase 'zip and out of the door' "Ha ha depending on the sex off the person depends on what I am looking for at what it in tales When it’s comes to guys it’s just pure sexual for me So ones the deeds done and there are no more rounds to go it’s time for them to go Not in to them hang around afterwards for a cuddle or anything or spend time with May seem harsh off me but yip one’s they had they way with me I just want them gone ha ha so zip up and out the door on the way out thank them for they time and I see them next time ha ha | |||
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"Friends: A couple of days, we would've chatted a bit first Meet: about 8 hours chatting through the day and then meeting in the evening because I'm easy
Yeah this is more my speed!
See you at around 5:30am tomorrow morning " | |||
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"1. About an hour 2. 2 days. They were both the same person and it was because we were looking for a meet." Yeah i think 'looking for a meet' typically moves faster than just a casual message | |||
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"I was on the road half an hour after the lady first contacted me and in her arms, and other body parts, about 2 hours later, it was a long way!. Usually a bloody site harder than that!" Bloody hell! | |||
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"chat to friends? Oh weeks. Friends to meet? Bloody months. Oooooo I'm seeing a gender split.. That is more my speed.. After running police +dbs checks "I'm awesome at doing Google/insta/Facebook searches on people | |||
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"First chat to Fab Meet Emmm 10-20 minutes flying the meet now flag and exchange details and then his travel time yes yes I know “I was a 4 letter bad word that day ”
First chat to fab friends 30 minutes after that one’s he left
Was just a quick hello down to it finsh on my face zip and out the door meet
Oh i think a 'meet now' is a bit different... Even i might under those circumstances... But then again, oh my gosh... I'm wondering if I should even be on fab haha
Ha ha yes meets now can be a bit different and awww there’s always room for you here on fab beautiful x
I love the phrase 'zip and out of the door'
Ha ha depending on the sex off the person depends on what I am looking for at what it in tales
When it’s comes to guys it’s just pure sexual for me
So ones the deeds done and there are no more rounds to go it’s time for them to go
Not in to them hang around afterwards for a cuddle or anything or spend time with
May seem harsh off me but yip one’s they had they way with me I just want them gone ha ha so zip up and out the door on the way out thank them for they time and I see them next time ha ha "Do you sing 'don't let the door bang you on the ass' as you go | |||
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"chat to friends? Oh weeks. Friends to meet? Bloody months. Oooooo I'm seeing a gender split.. That is more my speed.. After running police +dbs checks
I'm awesome at doing Google/insta/Facebook searches on people " | |||
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"1. First chat to Fab Friends years. 2. First chat to Fab Meet half an hour " Oh interesting! So you meet faster than you become friends! | |||
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"1 Maybe an hour 2 See above. How long to delete
Haha. or block?
"I was kidding!!!!! | |||
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"chat to friends? Oh weeks. Friends to meet? Bloody months. Oooooo I'm seeing a gender split.. That is more my speed.. After running police +dbs checks
I'm awesome at doing Google/insta/Facebook searches on people "Snap!! Tin eye all those pics, snoop about on their linked-in | |||
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"1/ Within minutes 2/ Travelling time….15 minutes? Sometimes 2 comes before 1, sometimes the other way round….more often than not…neither "Good lord... So men are way faster than us ladies | |||
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"Fastest way 5 messages over an hour or so and a play meet an hour or so after that" That is very fast | |||
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"1. A day or so 2. Half a dozen messages and im at the front door holding the milk from the doorstep " is your name Ernie?! | |||
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"1 Maybe an hour 2 See above. How long to delete
Haha. or block?
I was kidding!!!!!
"I had to check | |||
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"Personally I find when people become friends with me, the convo seems to stop lol Come on now who else gives you clips of their nights out on the neck oil, down town
Someone hasto keep you company as you stagger the dark streets
I’m so bad You’re a good friend
I have to stay sober on the nights you go out in case you need midnight's taxi service "That made me laugh | |||
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"First chat to Fab Meet Emmm 10-20 minutes flying the meet now flag and exchange details and then his travel time yes yes I know “I was a 4 letter bad word that day ”
First chat to fab friends 30 minutes after that one’s he left
Was just a quick hello down to it finsh on my face zip and out the door meet
Oh i think a 'meet now' is a bit different... Even i might under those circumstances... But then again, oh my gosh... I'm wondering if I should even be on fab haha
Ha ha yes meets now can be a bit different and awww there’s always room for you here on fab beautiful x
I love the phrase 'zip and out of the door'
Ha ha depending on the sex off the person depends on what I am looking for at what it in tales
When it’s comes to guys it’s just pure sexual for me
So ones the deeds done and there are no more rounds to go it’s time for them to go
Not in to them hang around afterwards for a cuddle or anything or spend time with
May seem harsh off me but yip one’s they had they way with me I just want them gone ha ha so zip up and out the door on the way out thank them for they time and I see them next time ha ha
Do you sing 'don't let the door bang you on the ass' as you go"No not at all I am very nice in my Manner mostly explained before hand that it’s is what it is | |||
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"Personally I find when people become friends with me, the convo seems to stop lol Come on now who else gives you clips of their nights out on the neck oil, down town
Someone hasto keep you company as you stagger the dark streets
I’m so bad You’re a good friend
I have to stay sober on the nights you go out in case you need midnight's taxi service
That made me laugh "Don't call me, I'll call you | |||
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"First chat to Fab Meet Emmm 10-20 minutes flying the meet now flag and exchange details and then his travel time yes yes I know “I was a 4 letter bad word that day ”
First chat to fab friends 30 minutes after that one’s he left
Was just a quick hello down to it finsh on my face zip and out the door meet
Oh i think a 'meet now' is a bit different... Even i might under those circumstances... But then again, oh my gosh... I'm wondering if I should even be on fab haha
Ha ha yes meets now can be a bit different and awww there’s always room for you here on fab beautiful x
I love the phrase 'zip and out of the door'
Ha ha depending on the sex off the person depends on what I am looking for at what it in tales
When it’s comes to guys it’s just pure sexual for me
So ones the deeds done and there are no more rounds to go it’s time for them to go
Not in to them hang around afterwards for a cuddle or anything or spend time with
May seem harsh off me but yip one’s they had they way with me I just want them gone ha ha so zip up and out the door on the way out thank them for they time and I see them next time ha ha
Do you sing 'don't let the door bang you on the ass' as you go
No not at all I am very nice in my Manner mostly explained before hand that it’s is what it is
"Totally the key.. Clear communication and expectations so both parties come away feeling great  | |||
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"1. Few days 2. Few weeks "The girls are mostly similar | |||
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"-90 minutes. We've had sex with people at clubs and only chatted afterwards. Cal" Yeah clubs are different... I'd probably put out before telling them my name haha | |||
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"First chat to Fab Meet Emmm 10-20 minutes flying the meet now flag and exchange details and then his travel time yes yes I know “I was a 4 letter bad word that day ”
First chat to fab friends 30 minutes after that one’s he left
Was just a quick hello down to it finsh on my face zip and out the door meet
Oh i think a 'meet now' is a bit different... Even i might under those circumstances... But then again, oh my gosh... I'm wondering if I should even be on fab haha
Ha ha yes meets now can be a bit different and awww there’s always room for you here on fab beautiful x
I love the phrase 'zip and out of the door'
Ha ha depending on the sex off the person depends on what I am looking for at what it in tales
When it’s comes to guys it’s just pure sexual for me
So ones the deeds done and there are no more rounds to go it’s time for them to go
Not in to them hang around afterwards for a cuddle or anything or spend time with
May seem harsh off me but yip one’s they had they way with me I just want them gone ha ha so zip up and out the door on the way out thank them for they time and I see them next time ha ha
Do you sing 'don't let the door bang you on the ass' as you go
No not at all I am very nice in my Manner mostly explained before hand that it’s is what it is
Totally the key.. Clear communication and expectations so both parties come away feeling great "1000% exactly no bs just good times | |||
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"1. A day or so 2. Half a dozen messages and im at the front door holding the milk from the doorstep
is your name Ernie?! "Who the fuck is Ernie?? | |||
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"1. A day or so 2. Half a dozen messages and im at the front door holding the milk from the doorstep
is your name Ernie?!
Who the fuck is Ernie?? "The fastest milkman in the West! How can't you know Ernie!! | |||
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"Personally I find when people become friends with me, the convo seems to stop lol Come on now who else gives you clips of their nights out on the neck oil, down town
Someone hasto keep you company as you stagger the dark streets
I’m so bad You’re a good friend
I have to stay sober on the nights you go out in case you need midnight's taxi service
That made me laugh
Don't call me, I'll call you "Just come on a night out | |||
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"Personally I find when people become friends with me, the convo seems to stop lol Come on now who else gives you clips of their nights out on the neck oil, down town
Someone hasto keep you company as you stagger the dark streets
I’m so bad You’re a good friend
I have to stay sober on the nights you go out in case you need midnight's taxi service
That made me laugh
Don't call me, I'll call you
Just come on a night out "I don't wanna cramp your style | |||
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"1. A day or so 2. Half a dozen messages and im at the front door holding the milk from the doorstep
is your name Ernie?!
Who the fuck is Ernie??
The fastest milkman in the West! How can't you know Ernie!! " im South and Ernie wasn't invited | |||
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"1. A day or so 2. Half a dozen messages and im at the front door holding the milk from the doorstep
is your name Ernie?!
Who the fuck is Ernie?? "*slaps forehead. | |||
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"1. A day or so 2. Half a dozen messages and im at the front door holding the milk from the doorstep
is your name Ernie?!
Who the fuck is Ernie??
The fastest milkman in the West! How can't you know Ernie!!
im South and Ernie wasn't invited " | |||
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"1. A day or so 2. Half a dozen messages and im at the front door holding the milk from the doorstep
is your name Ernie?!
Who the fuck is Ernie??
*slaps forehead. "Even Woody knows innit | |||
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"1. several weeks 2. Several months Victor my man! " I've been here all along. You've just been busy.....  | |||
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"1. A day or so 2. Half a dozen messages and im at the front door holding the milk from the doorstep
is your name Ernie?!
Who the fuck is Ernie??
*slaps forehead.
Even Woody knows innit "Thanks Google...benny Hill! Thankfully im much too young | |||
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"1. A day or so 2. Half a dozen messages and im at the front door holding the milk from the doorstep
is your name Ernie?!
Who the fuck is Ernie??
*slaps forehead.
Even Woody knows innit "I could sing along to the lyrics right now. | |||
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"1. several weeks 2. Several months Victor my man! I've been here all along. You've just been busy..... " | |||
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"1. A day or so 2. Half a dozen messages and im at the front door holding the milk from the doorstep
is your name Ernie?!
Who the fuck is Ernie??
*slaps forehead.
Even Woody knows innit
Thanks Google...benny Hill! Thankfully im much too young "
Ahh who said fab can't be educational! | |||
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"1. Fastest a day, as I was learning how to use the site 2. Fastest a day and a half - my first meet "Oooo that's pertty darn quick for a female! | |||
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"1/ Within minutes 2/ Travelling time….15 minutes? Sometimes 2 comes before 1, sometimes the other way round….more often than not…neither
Good lord... So men are way faster than us ladies "You asked for fastest, not most common.
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"Weeks on both counts x" Seems to be the female average.. Apart from Swing.. The hussie (don't tell her, no judgement here ) | |||
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"1. A day or so 2. Half a dozen messages and im at the front door holding the milk from the doorstep
is your name Ernie?!
Who the fuck is Ernie??
*slaps forehead.
Even Woody knows innit
Thanks Google...benny Hill! Thankfully im much too young
Ahh who said fab can't be educational! "I wonder what my brain had to kick out to store that useless bit of info tho! | |||
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"1. A day or so 2. Half a dozen messages and im at the front door holding the milk from the doorstep
is your name Ernie?!
Who the fuck is Ernie??
*slaps forehead.
Even Woody knows innit
I could sing along to the lyrics right now. "It's taken over from Kate Bush for me haha | |||
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"1/ Within minutes 2/ Travelling time….15 minutes? Sometimes 2 comes before 1, sometimes the other way round….more often than not…neither
Good lord... So men are way faster than us ladies
You asked for fastest, not most common.
"Hmm... That's true - its all in the interpretation of the Q isn't it! | |||
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"1. A day or so 2. Half a dozen messages and im at the front door holding the milk from the doorstep
is your name Ernie?!
Who the fuck is Ernie??
*slaps forehead.
Even Woody knows innit
I could sing along to the lyrics right now.
It's taken over from Kate Bush for me haha "Don't forget Trigger...! | |||
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"1. A day or so 2. Half a dozen messages and im at the front door holding the milk from the doorstep
is your name Ernie?!
Who the fuck is Ernie??
*slaps forehead.
Even Woody knows innit
Thanks Google...benny Hill! Thankfully im much too young
Ahh who said fab can't be educational!
I wonder what my brain had to kick out to store that useless bit of info tho!"God i hope it wasnt something important like your bank PIN | |||
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"1. A day or so 2. Half a dozen messages and im at the front door holding the milk from the doorstep
is your name Ernie?!
Who the fuck is Ernie??
*slaps forehead.
Even Woody knows innit
I could sing along to the lyrics right now.
It's taken over from Kate Bush for me haha "You know there a download chart. You reckon of the women of fab changed there status to afk everyone to download Ernie, all the guys who follow them could get it back into the charts? | |||
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"Several days to friends About a month to meet" Similar to me! | |||
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First meet in this account will be this coming Saturday which will be a few weeks after we first started chatting.
Same guy for both! | |||
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"1. A day or so 2. Half a dozen messages and im at the front door holding the milk from the doorstep
is your name Ernie?!
Who the fuck is Ernie??
*slaps forehead.
Even Woody knows innit
I could sing along to the lyrics right now.
It's taken over from Kate Bush for me haha
Don't forget Trigger...!" | |||
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"1. A day or so 2. Half a dozen messages and im at the front door holding the milk from the doorstep
is your name Ernie?!
Who the fuck is Ernie??
*slaps forehead.
Even Woody knows innit
I could sing along to the lyrics right now.
It's taken over from Kate Bush for me haha
You know there a download chart. You reckon of the women of fab changed there status to afk everyone to download Ernie, all the guys who follow them could get it back into the charts? "Oh we could get all the hot pic girls onto it!! | |||
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"1. A day or so 2. Half a dozen messages and im at the front door holding the milk from the doorstep
is your name Ernie?!
Who the fuck is Ernie??
*slaps forehead.
Even Woody knows innit
I could sing along to the lyrics right now.
It's taken over from Kate Bush for me haha
Don't forget Trigger...!"He pulled the fastest milk float in the west. ‘Ah ooooo | |||
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"I don't accept friend requests until we've met But I've gone from first message to meet in 2-3hrs infact most of my meets are that quick or I find they don't tend to happen, the guys were just here for some wank chat & I don't get involved in that " I think that's why my chats go quiet when they become friends.. They have access to new wank bank material | |||
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"1. A day or so 2. Half a dozen messages and im at the front door holding the milk from the doorstep
is your name Ernie?!
Who the fuck is Ernie??
*slaps forehead.
Even Woody knows innit
I could sing along to the lyrics right now.
It's taken over from Kate Bush for me haha
You know there a download chart. You reckon of the women of fab changed there status to afk everyone to download Ernie, all the guys who follow them could get it back into the charts?
Oh we could get all the hot pic girls onto it!! "Yes!!!!
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"I’ve only made initial contact once and I added him as a friend after only chatting in the forum for a few mins
First meet in this account will be this coming Saturday which will be a few weeks after we first started chatting.
Same guy for both! "Ooo I'm excited for you.. Everything is crossed | |||
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"Few days Few weeks/months or never, some just feed you with rubbish and know they’ll never meet you " I can't imagine why they would drag their heels if they had a chance of meeting you xxx | |||
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"I don’t do quick meets so it would always be weeks from initial message to meeting! "  | |||
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"I’ve only made initial contact once and I added him as a friend after only chatting in the forum for a few mins
First meet in this account will be this coming Saturday which will be a few weeks after we first started chatting.
Same guy for both!
Ooo I'm excited for you.. Everything is crossed "Thanks I’m excited | |||
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"To friends, erm, within a day. To meeting, a week?" That's pretty fast! How come all the men usually moan they can't even get a reply to a message! | |||
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"1. Not unusual to get friends invite after a few mins/messages. 2. Had one meet in less than 15/20 mins - we were basically next to each other so it made meeting easy "From a F or M?? | |||
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"Fastest way 5 messages over an hour or so and a play meet an hour or so after that That is very fast "surprised the hell out of me, she only wanted me for my paddle and floggers lol x | |||
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"To friends, erm, within a day. To meeting, a week? That's pretty fast! How come all the men usually moan they can't even get a reply to a message! " Well, I could be all modest about it but honestly, I'm just so fucking wonderful that I can't.
Was it fairly quick, kinda, but you can feel each other out in the forums first and from there, that informs the chat in DM's which in turn can "click" the friends box.
To be honest, we switched numbers before that because fuck the messenger system on here, awful awful thing. I think that's the thing though, when you recognise your wavelength or vibe, you just know? So be direct, take the shot etc. | |||
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"1. Not unusual to get friends invite after a few mins/messages. 2. Had one meet in less than 15/20 mins - we were basically next to each other so it made meeting easy
From a F or M?? "F. Never met an M - I am not bi. | |||
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"Don't generally add friends (or get added_ but have gone from first contact to meeting in less than 24 hours. Which reminds me of the title of Brian Griffin's novel, Faster than the Speed of Love." There must be a lot of horny people with time and opportunity on their hands | |||
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"1. Fastest a day, as I was learning how to use the site 2. Fastest a day and a half - my first meet
Oooo that's pertty darn quick for a female! "He's still a very close friend, too. | |||
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"Fastest way 5 messages over an hour or so and a play meet an hour or so after that That is very fast surprised the hell out of me, she only wanted me for my paddle and floggers lol x"Oh heartless | |||
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"1. Within minutes 2. 5 days I’ve also found once you take the conversation off fab elsewhere, more than often the chat slows or stops…" I found that too! It almost seems as if taking the chat away from fab it becomes more personal and less of a chase therefore less exciting…. | |||
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"To friends, erm, within a day. To meeting, a week? That's pretty fast! How come all the men usually moan they can't even get a reply to a message! Well, I could be all modest about it but honestly, I'm just so fucking wonderful that I can't.
Was it fairly quick, kinda, but you can feel each other out in the forums first and from there, that informs the chat in DM's which in turn can "click" the friends box.
To be honest, we switched numbers before that because fuck the messenger system on here, awful awful thing. I think that's the thing though, when you recognise your wavelength or vibe, you just know? So be direct, take the shot etc."That is true.. When you know you know | |||
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"1. Not unusual to get friends invite after a few mins/messages. 2. Had one meet in less than 15/20 mins - we were basically next to each other so it made meeting easy
From a F or M??
F. Never met an M - I am not bi."Oh i only asked because you said it was them who sent you the message and all the females so far seem slow off the mark (didn't mean to offend you) | |||
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"1. Fastest a day, as I was learning how to use the site 2. Fastest a day and a half - my first meet
Oooo that's pertty darn quick for a female!
He's still a very close friend, too."Even better | |||
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"Few days Few weeks/months or never, some just feed you with rubbish and know they’ll never meet you " Oh I can agree with this | |||
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"1. Within minutes 2. 5 days I’ve also found once you take the conversation off fab elsewhere, more than often the chat slows or stops… I found that too! It almost seems as if taking the chat away from fab it becomes more personal and less of a chase therefore less exciting…. " The chase can be the most exciting part sometimes! | |||
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"You've gone from: 1. First chat to Fab Friends 2. First chat to Fab Meet I need to know, because I'm nosy
Personally I find when people become friends with me, the convo seems to stop lol"1. A few days but for very few people. Most I decline anyway 2. Within a week if they’re holding my attention! I also agree with your comment re: they stop chatting once you add as friends. In which case I leave it a couple of weeks to see what happens and I delete. If they can’t be arsed to chat you’re not perving my pics!! | |||
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"You've gone from: 1. First chat to Fab Friends 2. First chat to Fab Meet I need to know, because I'm nosy
Personally I find when people become friends with me, the convo seems to stop lol
1. A few days but for very few people. Most I decline anyway
2. Within a week if they’re holding my attention!
I also agree with your comment re: they stop chatting once you add as friends. In which case I leave it a couple of weeks to see what happens and I delete. If they can’t be arsed to chat you’re not perving my pics!! "Oh ruthless.. I might add that as a disclaimer!! | |||
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"Don't generally add friends (or get added_ but have gone from first contact to meeting in less than 24 hours. Which reminds me of the title of Brian Griffin's novel, Faster than the Speed of Love. There must be a lot of horny people with time and opportunity on their hands Generally, a quick meet-up has only occurred in my experience through pure serendepity e.g. being on holiday and being the only two Fab users for miles around "
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"You've gone from: 1. First chat to Fab Friends 2. First chat to Fab Meet I need to know, because I'm nosy
Personally I find when people become friends with me, the convo seems to stop lol
1. A few days but for very few people. Most I decline anyway
2. Within a week if they’re holding my attention!
I also agree with your comment re: they stop chatting once you add as friends. In which case I leave it a couple of weeks to see what happens and I delete. If they can’t be arsed to chat you’re not perving my pics!!
Oh ruthless.. I might add that as a disclaimer!! " | |||
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"1.Maybe a few messages. 2.a few days. Like 2/3. " You guys are fast! | |||
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"My first fab meet was about an hour but the friend thing happened after the meet part Then a few after that who were within about 3 or 4 hours of all things you asked being ticked off I was kind of potent and very spontanious back in the day "Spontaneity can be very exciting if the planets are aligned | |||
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"Currently 7ish years an not met anyone yet " Wonko
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"I think from 1st message to meet was less than 10 mins l, he literally lived on the next street and I already knew him " Holy sh*t balls! | |||
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"1. Not unusual to get friends invite after a few mins/messages. 2. Had one meet in less than 15/20 mins - we were basically next to each other so it made meeting easy
From a F or M??
F. Never met an M - I am not bi.
Oh i only asked because you said it was them who sent you the message and all the females so far seem slow off the mark (didn't mean to offend you) "No offence taken. Two observations: 1. I was on her hotlist so I guess that made it easier for her to reach out. 2. I take what is said in the forums with a pinch of salt. What “happens” in the forums and what people really do on the site often tend not to be the same in my experience. | |||
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"Currently 7ish years an not met anyone yet Wonko
I feel it won't be much longer.. Another 5 years maybe? "Not going to happen | |||
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"1. Not unusual to get friends invite after a few mins/messages. 2. Had one meet in less than 15/20 mins - we were basically next to each other so it made meeting easy
From a F or M??
F. Never met an M - I am not bi.
Oh i only asked because you said it was them who sent you the message and all the females so far seem slow off the mark (didn't mean to offend you)
No offence taken. Two observations:
1. I was on her hotlist so I guess that made it easier for her to reach out.
2. I take what is said in the forums with a pinch of salt. What “happens” in the forums and what people really do on the site often tend not to be the same in my experience. "Oh interesting!! | |||
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"1. A few minutes 2. Maybe a week. But yes if the chat comes of fab to another platform it often fizzle’s out." It seems to be a common experience | |||
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"Jesus, someone posts 6 minutes ago then goes UNLOS. Wonderful stuff lol." Oh no.. Wonko?! | |||
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"Jesus, someone posts 6 minutes ago then goes UNLOS. Wonderful stuff lol. Oh no.. Wonko?! " Oh so it was them? Odds on their return within the week? | |||
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"1.Maybe a few messages. 2.a few days. Like 2/3. You guys are fast! " If someone finds me attractive my concentration is immense. | |||
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