FabSwingers.com forum: True Story

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I was at home this morning napping on my sofa and there’s a knock at the door. I wrap myself in my duvet and answer it just showing my face.

My neighbour is at the door and he tells me how much he’s always fancied me and how he’s still a bit d*unk and this is crazy but he really wants to fuck me. I was shocked to my core tbh. Kept trying to close the door and he kept going on about how he wants to fuck me. So I politely said I’m going to close the door now and went back inside.

It was so odd! I am quite shy in person too! I’m still thinking about how weird that was!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think it is more scary than weird

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

That must have been a bit scary too.

Are you ok?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Lucky you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D*unken is as d*unken does.

*i send d*unk texts now and then… I prefer to be rejected from a distance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He’ll probably be full of remorse when he sees you next time & sober

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He’s clearly got excellent taste, but that’s just fuckin creepy. And worse is that you’re stuck seeing him around too.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Here's hoping you get some flowers, a card, and some sheepish looks for a little while

LvM

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Oops...do you have this effect on all blokes that get near you?

I mean..I would...but I'd ask nicely first

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Honestly! In what universe did he think that was a good idea?

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

"So I was at home this morning napping on my sofa and there’s a knock at the door. I wrap myself in my duvet and answer it just showing my face.

It was so odd! I am quite shy in person too! I’m still thinking about how weird that was!"

WTF.

Weird isn't the word I'd have used.

Hope you're not too disturbed by this.

Winston

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

Sorry to hear that.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Well that’s not going to be awkward going forward.

Hope he apologises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly! In what universe did he think that was a good idea? "

There’s this website called Fab……

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Honestly! In what universe did he think that was a good idea?

There’s this website called Fab……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And that’s why I’m tee total.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you feel able (and I'd absolutely understand if you don't)next time you see him tell him on no uncertain terms that if he EVER does anything like that again you'll call the police. If you don't feel able to I'll go round and tell him. Jesus Christ the more I think about this the more angry I become.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all! Found it more awkward than scary tbh! I move out beginning of next month so won’t be near him for long!

It was just so odd, neighbours for 2 years and we’ve said hi in passing a few times but that’s it!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I would be scared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks all! Found it more awkward than scary tbh! I move out beginning of next month so won’t be near him for long!

It was just so odd, neighbours for 2 years and we’ve said hi in passing a few times but that’s it! "

Maybe realises you’ll be gone soon, and is taking a punt

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Thanks all! Found it more awkward than scary tbh! I move out beginning of next month so won’t be near him for long!

It was just so odd, neighbours for 2 years and we’ve said hi in passing a few times but that’s it! "

Maybe because he knows you are leaving he decided it was now or never - last chance saloon

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

This is so not cool. Aside from being horrendously awkward, surely this is harassment and you would be within your rights to get the police involved. I feel for you, what an unnecessary thing to have to deal with

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Thanks all! Found it more awkward than scary tbh! I move out beginning of next month so won’t be near him for long!

It was just so odd, neighbours for 2 years and we’ve said hi in passing a few times but that’s it! "

Your names not Alice by any chance

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Honestly! In what universe did he think that was a good idea?

There’s this website called Fab……

I see examples of this kind of behaviour on here all the time and other men encouraging it as'just a bit of harmless fun'.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thanks all! Found it more awkward than scary tbh! I move out beginning of next month so won’t be near him for long!

It was just so odd, neighbours for 2 years and we’ve said hi in passing a few times but that’s it! "

What time was it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks all! Found it more awkward than scary tbh! I move out beginning of next month so won’t be near him for long!

It was just so odd, neighbours for 2 years and we’ve said hi in passing a few times but that’s it! "

Maybe he saw you on fab!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thanks all! Found it more awkward than scary tbh! I move out beginning of next month so won’t be near him for long!

It was just so odd, neighbours for 2 years and we’ve said hi in passing a few times but that’s it!

Maybe he saw you on fab!!! "

What difference would that make?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks all! Found it more awkward than scary tbh! I move out beginning of next month so won’t be near him for long!

It was just so odd, neighbours for 2 years and we’ve said hi in passing a few times but that’s it!

What time was it?"

Happened about half an hour ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly that is really horrible. I would feel really shaken up after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks all! Found it more awkward than scary tbh! I move out beginning of next month so won’t be near him for long!

It was just so odd, neighbours for 2 years and we’ve said hi in passing a few times but that’s it!

Maybe he saw you on fab!!! "

Just because somebody's on this site does not give the right to anybody to either in public or knock on their door and ask for sex.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thanks all! Found it more awkward than scary tbh! I move out beginning of next month so won’t be near him for long!

It was just so odd, neighbours for 2 years and we’ve said hi in passing a few times but that’s it!

What time was it?

Happened about half an hour ago "

Blimey how much had he had to drink if he was still a bit d*unk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks all! Found it more awkward than scary tbh! I move out beginning of next month so won’t be near him for long!

It was just so odd, neighbours for 2 years and we’ve said hi in passing a few times but that’s it! "

Sounds proper weird and he should give his head a shake about what he’s done.

So what are you going to do op? … what are his chances. ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks all! Found it more awkward than scary tbh! I move out beginning of next month so won’t be near him for long!

It was just so odd, neighbours for 2 years and we’ve said hi in passing a few times but that’s it!

What time was it?

Happened about half an hour ago

Blimey how much had he had to drink if he was still a bit d*unk!

That’s what I thought too!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Thanks all! Found it more awkward than scary tbh! I move out beginning of next month so won’t be near him for long!

It was just so odd, neighbours for 2 years and we’ve said hi in passing a few times but that’s it!

Maybe he saw you on fab!!! "

Then message on fab and don't ever just rock up at someone's house telling them you wanna fuck them, and when they're clearly trying to close the door on you and shut that shit down, ignore what they're saying, carry on telling them you wanna fuck them and make them feel awkward and very probably uncomfortable in their own home.

Doesn't matter where you may have seen someone it doesn't give anyone the free reign to behave like an ignorant intrusive cunt

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’d get some advice from the Police and call 101 the non emergency number.

It doesn’t matter he happens to be a neighbour or a complete stranger on the street, he obviously has a big problem with his drinking and behaviour.

Also ensure you keep a diary now, if anything else happens, times and dates.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Thanks all! Found it more awkward than scary tbh! I move out beginning of next month so won’t be near him for long!

It was just so odd, neighbours for 2 years and we’ve said hi in passing a few times but that’s it!

What time was it?

Happened about half an hour ago "

Hmm.. Hopefully that's the last of it... But he may feel emboldened.. Just be double mindful until you move out.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Maybe he saw the profile and got brave. Still being d*unk at thaf time, Dutch courage is weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d get some advice from the Police and call 101 the non emergency number.

It doesn’t matter he happens to be a neighbour or a complete stranger on the street, he obviously has a big problem with his drinking and behaviour.

Also ensure you keep a diary now, if anything else happens, times and dates. "

But if a wild assumption there. Could be the first time he’s ever done it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d get some advice from the Police and call 101 the non emergency number.

It doesn’t matter he happens to be a neighbour or a complete stranger on the street, he obviously has a big problem with his drinking and behaviour.

Also ensure you keep a diary now, if anything else happens, times and dates.

But if a wild assumption there. Could be the first time he’s ever done it too.

I don't think it's too far a stretch though that is not the behaviour of someone who is in their right mind.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I’d get some advice from the Police and call 101 the non emergency number.

It doesn’t matter he happens to be a neighbour or a complete stranger on the street, he obviously has a big problem with his drinking and behaviour.

Also ensure you keep a diary now, if anything else happens, times and dates.

But if a wild assumption there. Could be the first time he’s ever done it too.

Or the Police have a record of him doing it to other people. The number is for advice and they’d then be aware of it escalates. It will be down to the Op if she wants Officers to visit him or not.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Just keep an eye on your washing line and see if you lose any pants!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely and utterly inappropriate and creepy behaviour. And true to form harassing a woman for sex in her own home is joked about here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The important thing here is how the op feels

I feel bloody angry about it but that's irrelevant. If she feels ok to let it go then I respect that

I'm sti on my way up there on my moped to give him a mum style talking to though

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Completely and utterly inappropriate and creepy behaviour. And true to form harassing a woman for sex in her own home is joked about here.

Yes that's the thing that concerns me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah that's fucking creepy

Sending hugs OP

Pxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Whilst I appreciate all the concern, I wasn’t scared and didn’t feel like I was in any kind of danger. I think he d*unk too much and was feeling brave.

We’ve been neighbours for 2 years and he’s been no trouble at all so I’m putting it down to bad judgement.

I won’t be escalating the matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on how you feel about it now it might be worth making a record with 101.

The chances are he will feel completely and unutterly embarrassed when he sobers up and hopefully ashamed of his behaviour but it might be worth just having the incident logged. How are you feeling now?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Whilst I appreciate all the concern, I wasn’t scared and didn’t feel like I was in any kind of danger. I think he d*unk too much and was feeling brave.

We’ve been neighbours for 2 years and he’s been no trouble at all so I’m putting it down to bad judgement.

I won’t be escalating the matter. "

I'll put the moped away.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I’d be calling the police for this if that’s the language he used. As others have said, even if you didn’t feel intimidated he may have / will do this to others. It’s not acceptable in any way, shape or form.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm sti "

Sorry to hear this. Hope it clears up quickly

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Think it’s worse he was d*unk

A sober mistake can go down to bad judgement, lesson learned, maybe

A d*unk mistake can be not being able to control himself. And I doubt it’s the last time he gets d*unk and loses control again

I’d make a deal out of it so he gets the message. Being d*unk isn’t an excuse.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"Thanks all! Found it more awkward than scary tbh! I move out beginning of next month so won’t be near him for long!

It was just so odd, neighbours for 2 years and we’ve said hi in passing a few times but that’s it!

Maybe he saw you on fab!!!

Doesn't matter where you may have seen someone it doesn't give anyone the free reign to behave like an ignorant intrusive cunt "

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whilst I appreciate all the concern, I wasn’t scared and didn’t feel like I was in any kind of danger. I think he d*unk too much and was feeling brave.

We’ve been neighbours for 2 years and he’s been no trouble at all so I’m putting it down to bad judgement.

I won’t be escalating the matter. "

I'm glad you're feeling ok about it but I hope he knows or will know that this isn't acceptable behaviour.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm sti

Sorry to hear this. Hope it clears up quickly

I keep doing that

. I think it says a lot about me that that's what my autocorrect does

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think it’s worse he was d*unk

A sober mistake can go down to bad judgement, lesson learned, maybe

A d*unk mistake can be not being able to control himself. And I doubt it’s the last time he gets d*unk and loses control again

I’d make a deal out of it so he gets the message. Being d*unk isn’t an excuse. "

I told him at the time that it’s inappropriate and he looked embarrassed when I said that so I’m happy to let it go! I’ll have another word with him once he’s sober, I won’t bring police into it though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he's on fab too and maybe he saw your lovely pics on your profile.... just wondering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he's on fab too and maybe he saw your lovely pics on your profile.... just wondering "

Does that make it ok then?

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Maybe he's on fab too and maybe he saw your lovely pics on your profile.... just wondering "

Even so, that would still be inappropriate behaviour but the op is handling it well and that's good.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Maybe he's on fab too and maybe he saw your lovely pics on your profile.... just wondering "

It's very concerning that this has been suggested more than once.

"It's alright mate she's on a swinging site and I've already seen her tits on there so what's the worst that can happen by invading her privacy and telling her to her face?"

So fucking wrong ... ESPECIALLY if the reason is "seen em on fab"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really not getting why there are so many comments suggesting maybe he has seen her on fab. That absolutely does not matter! Just because somebody is on fab does not mean they will automatically have sex with you or that you can approach them in person. I find this rather worrying to be honest.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Maybe he's on fab too and maybe he saw your lovely pics on your profile.... just wondering

It's very concerning that this has been suggested more than once.

"It's alright mate she's on a swinging site and I've already seen her tits on there so what's the worst that can happen by invading her privacy and telling her to her face?"

So fucking wrong ... ESPECIALLY if the reason is "seen em on fab" "

Is that what he was suggesting? Or was he just wondering?

Typical fab fashion, half the thread focuses on starting arguments over nothing comments instead of focusing on OP

Well done

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

That is horrible.

If it happens again he needs speaking to from someone in a black uniform.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's extremely creepy and anyone joking about it thinkin it's ok is as creepy as that dude. I hope ur ok I'd think about telling the police and have them visit him as that is dangerous. If he knows the police know he will stay away from union future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he's on fab too and maybe he saw your lovely pics on your profile.... just wondering

It's very concerning that this has been suggested more than once.

"It's alright mate she's on a swinging site and I've already seen her tits on there so what's the worst that can happen by invading her privacy and telling her to her face?"

So fucking wrong ... ESPECIALLY if the reason is "seen em on fab"

Is that what he was suggesting? Or was he just wondering?

Typical fab fashion, half the thread focuses on starting arguments over nothing comments instead of focusing on OP

Well done

It's hardly an argument and because the suggestion has been made a few time it is very reasonable to believe that quite a few people think that way.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Maybe he's on fab too and maybe he saw your lovely pics on your profile.... just wondering

It's very concerning that this has been suggested more than once.

"It's alright mate she's on a swinging site and I've already seen her tits on there so what's the worst that can happen by invading her privacy and telling her to her face?"

So fucking wrong ... ESPECIALLY if the reason is "seen em on fab"

Is that what he was suggesting? Or was he just wondering?

Typical fab fashion, half the thread focuses on starting arguments over nothing comments instead of focusing on OP

Well done

It's hardly an argument and because the suggestion has been made a few time it is very reasonable to believe that quite a few people think that way. "

Is it? Not what I’m seeing. Especially since OP has mentioned being recognised before from here, I don’t think it’s suggesting anything to wonder if he’s seen her fan profile while d*unk and got brave while d*unk. I don’t think that’s suggesting it’s ok

But sure, either way, seems op is fine which is what matter, so crack on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he's on fab too and maybe he saw your lovely pics on your profile.... just wondering

It's very concerning that this has been suggested more than once.

"It's alright mate she's on a swinging site and I've already seen her tits on there so what's the worst that can happen by invading her privacy and telling her to her face?"

So fucking wrong ... ESPECIALLY if the reason is "seen em on fab" "

We already know that many guys here think it's acceptable to treat women differently because we're on here. Whether we show our tits/faces or not, we are deemed slags by some. So yeah it worries me if someone approaches me IRL thinking they know me from here. (Someone has and it did freak me).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he's on fab too and maybe he saw your lovely pics on your profile.... just wondering

It's very concerning that this has been suggested more than once.

"It's alright mate she's on a swinging site and I've already seen her tits on there so what's the worst that can happen by invading her privacy and telling her to her face?"

So fucking wrong ... ESPECIALLY if the reason is "seen em on fab"

Is that what he was suggesting? Or was he just wondering?

Typical fab fashion, half the thread focuses on starting arguments over nothing comments instead of focusing on OP

Well done

It's hardly an argument and because the suggestion has been made a few time it is very reasonable to believe that quite a few people think that way. "

Also are the people suggesting maybe the reason is because she is on fab focusing on the op?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Maybe he's on fab too and maybe he saw your lovely pics on your profile.... just wondering

It's very concerning that this has been suggested more than once.

"It's alright mate she's on a swinging site and I've already seen her tits on there so what's the worst that can happen by invading her privacy and telling her to her face?"

So fucking wrong ... ESPECIALLY if the reason is "seen em on fab"

Is that what he was suggesting? Or was he just wondering?

Typical fab fashion, half the thread focuses on starting arguments over nothing comments instead of focusing on OP

Well done

The issue I have is that shouldn't even be a wonder. The 2 shouldn't have any link whatsoever.

I don't know who's voice you read my text in, but it wasn't written in an argumentative tone, please don't try to blame me for starting arguments and detracting from the OP when that argument is in your head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he's on fab too and maybe he saw your lovely pics on your profile.... just wondering

It's very concerning that this has been suggested more than once.

"It's alright mate she's on a swinging site and I've already seen her tits on there so what's the worst that can happen by invading her privacy and telling her to her face?"

So fucking wrong ... ESPECIALLY if the reason is "seen em on fab"

Is that what he was suggesting? Or was he just wondering?

Typical fab fashion, half the thread focuses on starting arguments over nothing comments instead of focusing on OP

Well done

It's hardly an argument and because the suggestion has been made a few time it is very reasonable to believe that quite a few people think that way.

But sure, either way, seems op is fine which is what matter, so crack on

I will crack on thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might be off here but those saying get the police involved are striking me as lunatics.

Someone OP knew for 2 years a d lives next door to knocked on her door and rather awkwardly made a move. This is neither harrassment or a threat (as OP has pointed out several times.)

Yes it has created a certain awkwardness.

No there is no need to notify the police when someone one time propositions you.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

But do you want to fuck him?

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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago

winterfell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I might be off here but those saying get the police involved are striking me as lunatics.

Someone OP knew for 2 years a d lives next door to knocked on her door and rather awkwardly made a move. This is neither harrassment or a threat (as OP has pointed out several times.)

Yes it has created a certain awkwardness.

No there is no need to notify the police when someone one time propositions you."

I'm sorry but it's rather disturbing that you think people are lunatics for thinking somebody knocking on your door in a d*unk state asking for sex isn't something that could legitimately be reported to the police. The op has stated she doesn't want to do that however it is perfectly reasonable that people have suggested that particularly as the OP said she had to repeat herself.

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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago

winterfell

Proper weird that...

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Proper weird that... "

Good save

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he's on fab too and maybe he saw your lovely pics on your profile.... just wondering

It's very concerning that this has been suggested more than once.

"It's alright mate she's on a swinging site and I've already seen her tits on there so what's the worst that can happen by invading her privacy and telling her to her face?"

So fucking wrong ... ESPECIALLY if the reason is "seen em on fab"

Is that what he was suggesting? Or was he just wondering?

Typical fab fashion, half the thread focuses on starting arguments over nothing comments instead of focusing on OP

Well done

It's hardly an argument and because the suggestion has been made a few time it is very reasonable to believe that quite a few people think that way.

But sure, either way, seems op is fine which is what matter, so crack on

I find it ...telling..that the first response from some to the OP is asking the question about Fab.

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By *ussybagderMan
over a year ago

Salford

I mean you have your face n full dody naked pics displayed your location and you getting fucked by random people hes seen u on here

I don't blame him after a couple of pints who wounlnt fuck their slutty neighbour

U doing everything to get that kind of attention so yea

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I might be off here but those saying get the police involved are striking me as lunatics.

Someone OP knew for 2 years a d lives next door to knocked on her door and rather awkwardly made a move. This is neither harrassment or a threat (as OP has pointed out several times.)

Yes it has created a certain awkwardness.

No there is no need to notify the police when someone one time propositions you."

I advised 101 non emergency number. They record the incident so if anything escalates from this, it can be used in evidence.

They would also ask if the Op would want Officers to visit him. If she says no they’ll leave it. However the record is still filed, not just for the Op but for any other person he could do this too when he’s d*unk.

I respect the Ops decision, calling people ‘lunatics’ seems a bit harsh though ?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I find it ...telling..that the first response from some to the OP is asking the question about Fab. "

The first question OP was asked was "are you OK" no mention of Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean you have your face n full dody naked pics displayed your location and you getting fucked by random people hes seen u on here

I don't blame him after a couple of pints who wounlnt fuck their slutty neighbour

U doing everything to get that kind of attention so yea

You are not serious right?

You might as well have just said that she deserved that and that is out of order and not OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean you have your face n full dody naked pics displayed your location and you getting fucked by random people hes seen u on here

I don't blame him after a couple of pints who wounlnt fuck their slutty neighbour

U doing everything to get that kind of attention so yea

Off to get popcorn now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I mean you have your face n full dody naked pics displayed your location and you getting fucked by random people hes seen u on here

I don't blame him after a couple of pints who wounlnt fuck their slutty neighbour

U doing everything to get that kind of attention so yea

WOW!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I mean you have your face n full dody naked pics displayed your location and you getting fucked by random people hes seen u on here

I don't blame him after a couple of pints who wounlnt fuck their slutty neighbour

U doing everything to get that kind of attention so yea

To get that kind of attention?

I do hope this is a joke.

Uninvited d*unk guests knocking your door is fair game if you have a profile on here?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I mean you have your face n full dody naked pics displayed your location and you getting fucked by random people hes seen u on here

I don't blame him after a couple of pints who wounlnt fuck their slutty neighbour

U doing everything to get that kind of attention so yea

This is an incredibly offensive post which I will report immediately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it ...telling..that the first response from some to the OP is asking the question about Fab.

The first question OP was asked was "are you OK" no mention of Fab"

The point is many have not asked if she is OK simply asked if it was because they knew she was on fab. If you have a quick look at a post about 3 up you will see it is completely legitimate for people to be annoyed as some of the responses on this thread.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"I mean you have your face n full dody naked pics displayed your location and you getting fucked by random people hes seen u on here

I don't blame him after a couple of pints who wounlnt fuck their slutty neighbour

U doing everything to get that kind of attention so yea

Ok, now the fab police can set off on something that’s actually wrong. Release the hens!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean you have your face n full dody naked pics displayed your location and you getting fucked by random people hes seen u on here

I don't blame him after a couple of pints who wounlnt fuck their slutty neighbour

U doing everything to get that kind of attention so yea

Ok, now the fab police can set off on something that’s actually wrong. Release the hens! "

You seem to not understand that people can have a different opinion to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean you have your face n full dody naked pics displayed your location and you getting fucked by random people hes seen u on here

I don't blame him after a couple of pints who wounlnt fuck their slutty neighbour

U doing everything to get that kind of attention so yea

If he forced his way in, would that be ok? She was "asking for it"?

Reported

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"I mean you have your face n full dody naked pics displayed your location and you getting fucked by random people hes seen u on here

I don't blame him after a couple of pints who wounlnt fuck their slutty neighbour

U doing everything to get that kind of attention so yea

Ok, now the fab police can set off on something that’s actually wrong. Release the hens!

You seem to not understand that people can have a different opinion to you. "

You agree with him?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean you have your face n full dody naked pics displayed your location and you getting fucked by random people hes seen u on here

I don't blame him after a couple of pints who wounlnt fuck their slutty neighbour

U doing everything to get that kind of attention so yea

Ok, now the fab police can set off on something that’s actually wrong. Release the hens!

You seem to not understand that people can have a different opinion to you.

You agree with him?!?!"

I see it's gone over your head.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"I mean you have your face n full dody naked pics displayed your location and you getting fucked by random people hes seen u on here

I don't blame him after a couple of pints who wounlnt fuck their slutty neighbour

U doing everything to get that kind of attention so yea

Ok, now the fab police can set off on something that’s actually wrong. Release the hens!

You seem to not understand that people can have a different opinion to you.

You agree with him?!?!

I see it's gone over your head. "

No I just don’t agree with him. Very surprised you think like that

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Completely and utterly inappropriate and creepy behaviour. And true to form harassing a woman for sex in her own home is joked about here.

Yes that's the thing that concerns me. "

It also concerns me what might happen if he did it again (to the same person or others). Would he take no for an answer? Would he go away? Might he approach the OP again when she's going out or is already outside her house?

The whole thing is just

We had someone completely random come to our door on a Saturday evening, saying they'd heard "fun" could be had. He wouldn't leave. Mr KC went outside and shut the door (me and our child inside) and he had to physically push this man off our driveway. We've never given our address to anyone on Fab or had anyone to our house so we have no idea how he found our house. This man mentioned Fab, btw, but not our specific profile, BUT he knew a couple who used Fab lived at our house.

I was incredibly freaked out by it and am now unlikely to answer the door if I'm here without Mr KC or my son present.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean you have your face n full dody naked pics displayed your location and you getting fucked by random people hes seen u on here

I don't blame him after a couple of pints who wounlnt fuck their slutty neighbour

U doing everything to get that kind of attention so yea

This is the opinion of many people who aren't on sites like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think it’s worse he was d*unk

A sober mistake can go down to bad judgement, lesson learned, maybe

A d*unk mistake can be not being able to control himself. And I doubt it’s the last time he gets d*unk and loses control again

I’d make a deal out of it so he gets the message. Being d*unk isn’t an excuse.

What would you say if the next time he sees you, he mentions that he found your Fab profile and that's why he asked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean you have your face n full dody naked pics displayed your location and you getting fucked by random people hes seen u on here

I don't blame him after a couple of pints who wounlnt fuck their slutty neighbour

U doing everything to get that kind of attention so yea

Ok, now the fab police can set off on something that’s actually wrong. Release the hens!

You seem to not understand that people can have a different opinion to you.

You agree with him?!?!

I see it's gone over your head.

No I just don’t agree with him. Very surprised you think like that

I was referring to the fact you said people now had something to disagree with My point was people could use to disagree at anything.

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Completely and utterly inappropriate and creepy behaviour. And true to form harassing a woman for sex in her own home is joked about here.

Yes that's the thing that concerns me.

The whole thing is just

I was incredibly freaked out by it and am now unlikely to answer the door if I'm here without Mr KC or my son present. "

Wow, I am not surprised it has freaked you out. Nobody should feel unsafe in their home or have their privacy violated luke that. I am sorry and hope you get passed all that and feel better.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"I mean you have your face n full dody naked pics displayed your location and you getting fucked by random people hes seen u on here

I don't blame him after a couple of pints who wounlnt fuck their slutty neighbour

U doing everything to get that kind of attention so yea

Ok, now the fab police can set off on something that’s actually wrong. Release the hens!

You seem to not understand that people can have a different opinion to you.

You agree with him?!?!

I see it's gone over your head.

No I just don’t agree with him. Very surprised you think like that

I was referring to the fact you said people now had something to disagree with My point was people could use to disagree at anything. "

Well I think his and your opinion is wrong. Every cab have an opinion but being on fab isn’t an excuse for that behaviour. Just wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Completely and utterly inappropriate and creepy behaviour. And true to form harassing a woman for sex in her own home is joked about here.

Yes that's the thing that concerns me.

The whole thing is just

I was incredibly freaked out by it and am now unlikely to answer the door if I'm here without Mr KC or my son present. "

I immediately thought of what happened to you when I saw this thread. Unfortunately it is not an isolated incident and happens all too often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean you have your face n full dody naked pics displayed your location and you getting fucked by random people hes seen u on here

I don't blame him after a couple of pints who wounlnt fuck their slutty neighbour

U doing everything to get that kind of attention so yea

Ok, now the fab police can set off on something that’s actually wrong. Release the hens!

You seem to not understand that people can have a different opinion to you.

You agree with him?!?!

I see it's gone over your head.

No I just don’t agree with him. Very surprised you think like that

I was referring to the fact you said people now had something to disagree with My point was people could use to disagree at anything.

Well I think his and your opinion is wrong. Every cab have an opinion but being on fab isn’t an excuse for that behaviour. Just wrong "

Could you show me where I have said what he said wasn't wrong in fact I posted stating I thought it was very wrong. Ikea said I think my comment went straight over your head.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"I mean you have your face n full dody naked pics displayed your location and you getting fucked by random people hes seen u on here

I don't blame him after a couple of pints who wounlnt fuck their slutty neighbour

U doing everything to get that kind of attention so yea

Ok, now the fab police can set off on something that’s actually wrong. Release the hens!

You seem to not understand that people can have a different opinion to you.

You agree with him?!?!

I see it's gone over your head.

No I just don’t agree with him. Very surprised you think like that

I was referring to the fact you said people now had something to disagree with My point was people could use to disagree at anything.

Well I think his and your opinion is wrong. Every cab have an opinion but being on fab isn’t an excuse for that behaviour. Just wrong

Could you show me where I have said what he said wasn't wrong in fact I posted stating I thought it was very wrong. Ikea said I think my comment went straight over your head. "

We can just agree to disagree. I don’t think it’s an excuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean you have your face n full dody naked pics displayed your location and you getting fucked by random people hes seen u on here

I don't blame him after a couple of pints who wounlnt fuck their slutty neighbour

U doing everything to get that kind of attention so yea

Ok, now the fab police can set off on something that’s actually wrong. Release the hens!

You seem to not understand that people can have a different opinion to you.

You agree with him?!?!

I see it's gone over your head.

No I just don’t agree with him. Very surprised you think like that

I was referring to the fact you said people now had something to disagree with My point was people could use to disagree at anything.

Well I think his and your opinion is wrong. Every cab have an opinion but being on fab isn’t an excuse for that behaviour. Just wrong

Could you show me where I have said what he said wasn't wrong in fact I posted stating I thought it was very wrong. Ikea said I think my comment went straight over your head.

We can just agree to disagree. I don’t think it’s an excuse "

Excuse for what I really don't know what you were talking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it ...telling..that the first response from some to the OP is asking the question about Fab.

The first question OP was asked was "are you OK" no mention of Fab

Yes that was my point. Only asking about Fab. No concern for the OP.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

OP you need to call the police and report it. If he tried to force his way in with sexual suggestions then that needs to be nipped in the bud immediately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not read the thread, it's likely to have turned into an argument.

And so I don't know if this has been mentioned.

I don't know your relationship with you neighbour, if you're close in any way.

Maybe it's not so concerning, though from the initial post opening, it feels that way.

I hope I'm wrong, or at least he's soon full of remorse and apologetic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP you need to call the police and report it. If he tried to force his way in with sexual suggestions then that needs to be nipped in the bud immediately. "

He didn’t try to force his way in just kept banging on about how much he wanted to fuck me every time I said I was closing the door now (probably phrased the OP badly).

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Very weird indeed

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Must have been one hell of a hangover horn - had he put his best shirt on or was it crocs at dawn?

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By *riendly older leggy wifeCouple
over a year ago

london

Do people really believe what people say on here

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Maybe he's on fab too and maybe he saw your lovely pics on your profile.... just wondering

It's very concerning that this has been suggested more than once.

"It's alright mate she's on a swinging site and I've already seen her tits on there so what's the worst that can happen by invading her privacy and telling her to her face?"

So fucking wrong ... ESPECIALLY if the reason is "seen em on fab"

Is that what he was suggesting? Or was he just wondering?

Typical fab fashion, half the thread focuses on starting arguments over nothing comments instead of focusing on OP

Well done

The issue I have is that shouldn't even be a wonder. The 2 shouldn't have any link whatsoever.

If you think it's impossible and being on fab and that happening is no way connected you are living in dream land

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do people really believe what people say on here"

You actually calling me a liar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people really believe what people say on here"

I absolutely believe this because I have read too many things that have been similar. Why would someone make something like this up?

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By *riendly older leggy wifeCouple
over a year ago

london

"Do people really believe what people say on here

I absolutely believe this because I have read too many things that have been similar. Why would someone make something like this up? "
take a guess

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Do people really believe what people say on here

I absolutely believe this because I have read too many things that have been similar. Why would someone make something like this up? take a guess"

It happened to us with a complete stranger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people really believe what people say on here

I absolutely believe this because I have read too many things that have been similar. Why would someone make something like this up? take a guess"

Why don't you tell me? Why are you assuming that a woman would make something like this up and that it didn't actually happen? Seems very concerning that that would be your 1st thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people really believe what people say on here

I absolutely believe this because I have read too many things that have been similar. Why would someone make something like this up? take a guess"

No would rather hear your reasoning please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he's on fab too and maybe he saw your lovely pics on your profile.... just wondering

It's very concerning that this has been suggested more than once.

"It's alright mate she's on a swinging site and I've already seen her tits on there so what's the worst that can happen by invading her privacy and telling her to her face?"

So fucking wrong ... ESPECIALLY if the reason is "seen em on fab"

Is that what he was suggesting? Or was he just wondering?

Typical fab fashion, half the thread focuses on starting arguments over nothing comments instead of focusing on OP

Well done

The issue I have is that shouldn't even be a wonder. The 2 shouldn't have any link whatsoever.

If you think it's impossible and being on fab and that happening is no way connected you are living in dream land

So that makes it OK does it?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"OP you need to call the police and report it. If he tried to force his way in with sexual suggestions then that needs to be nipped in the bud immediately. "

This is my view too. Even if he didn't force his way in but wouldn't take "no thanks" and leave when asked to and kept on with the same thing about fucking the OP.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"OP you need to call the police and report it. If he tried to force his way in with sexual suggestions then that needs to be nipped in the bud immediately.

This is my view too. Even if he didn't force his way in but wouldn't take "no thanks" and leave when asked to and kept on with the same thing about fucking the OP."

My view too.. inappropriate at the highest level. Be careful.

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By *eptimiusMan
over a year ago

East

"So I was at home this morning napping on my sofa and there’s a knock at the door. I wrap myself in my duvet and answer it just showing my face.

It was so odd! I am quite shy in person too! I’m still thinking about how weird that was!"

Yeah thats crazy lol. Hes verbalising what most men would think after seeing you! He went about it in a totally bonkers way

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok this seems to be lots of people getting wound up on the OP's behalf while the OP is saying she is fine and doesn't want to make a complaint to anyone

We should leave it there

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