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By *ot chic OP   Woman
over a year ago

Beverley

You're on a 1st meet and something happens, you think, no, thats a deal breaker, please share your experiences that have prevented you from a 2nd meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happened to me. Not that I've had many meets. It has, however, happened to women I've met....

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Bad breath/odour...rudeness/bad manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having to be the one to ask for a condom to be worn

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By *ot chic OP   Woman
over a year ago

Beverley

How so? I'm curious x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they said they wanted to meet me again...obviously not all their hens are barking so must be bonkers!

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By *ot chic OP   Woman
over a year ago

Beverley


"Bad breath/odour...rudeness/bad manners"

Need not to be said, well you would hope not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Answer the phone to they wife mid stroke

Telling her he’s just around a friends borrowing a lawn mower

Put the phone down and sed I need to be quick I need to find a lawn mower to borrow

Told him he have plent off time now as the meet was done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanting exclusiveness

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By *ot chic OP   Woman
over a year ago

Beverley


"If they said they wanted to meet me again...obviously not all their hens are barking so must be bonkers!"

x

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Trying to invite a third party!!

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By *ot chic OP   Woman
over a year ago

Beverley


"Trying to invite a third party!!"

What wrong with a 3rd?

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff


"Trying to invite a third party!!

What wrong with a 3rd? "

It was supposed to be just me and him!!

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By *ot chic OP   Woman
over a year ago

Beverley

In that case that is bad xx

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff


"In that case that is bad xx"

Yep!

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

Illiteracy....a grunt and no decent conversation doesn't do it for me. Also, the voice can be make or break. And like some have already said, bad smell, poor cleanliness, scruffy clothes, bad manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dry lips.

Wearing lipstick.

These are my most shallow.

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By *ot chic OP   Woman
over a year ago

Beverley


"Illiteracy....a grunt and no decent conversation doesn't do it for me. Also, the voice can be make or break. And like some have already said, bad smell, poor cleanliness, scruffy clothes, bad manners. "

What voice tone do you prefer? Lol x

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By *ot chic OP   Woman
over a year ago

Beverley


"Dry lips.

Wearing lipstick.

These are my most shallow. "

So you like vasaline? Lol x

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

What meets?

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By *ot chic OP   Woman
over a year ago

Beverley


"What meets?"

Hahaha unlucky x

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley


"Illiteracy....a grunt and no decent conversation doesn't do it for me. Also, the voice can be make or break. And like some have already said, bad smell, poor cleanliness, scruffy clothes, bad manners.

What voice tone do you prefer? Lol x"

Sexy, interesting voice, not flat and dull. Sometimes a broad Yorkshire accent can put me off, and I'm from Yorkshire!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots.

The ones that come to mind - the guy who told me he was 49 and when I met him he was closer to 70

The guy who arrived at the hotel with his whole foot bandaged up and a canula in his arm. It turns out that he has discharged himself from hospital when I agreed to meet

The lady who told me she wanted wanted 'mummy play' within 5 mins of our social meet, having never mentioned it in the months we were chatting beforehand.

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By *ot chic OP   Woman
over a year ago

Beverley


"Illiteracy....a grunt and no decent conversation doesn't do it for me. Also, the voice can be make or break. And like some have already said, bad smell, poor cleanliness, scruffy clothes, bad manners.

What voice tone do you prefer? Lol x

Sexy, interesting voice, not flat and dull. Sometimes a broad Yorkshire accent can put me off, and I'm from Yorkshire!"

I unfortunately got resignation from the area I am from this week on the telephone and I've always taken pride in sounding like I'm not from that area haha x

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By *ot chic OP   Woman
over a year ago

Beverley


"Lots.

The ones that come to mind - the guy who told me he was 49 and when I met him he was closer to 70

The guy who arrived at the hotel with his whole foot bandaged up and a canula in his arm. It turns out that he has discharged himself from hospital when I agreed to meet

The lady who told me she wanted wanted 'mummy play' within 5 mins of our social meet, having never mentioned it in the months we were chatting beforehand. "

Haha sounds bad

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"What meets?

Hahaha unlucky x"

If I didnt laugh I'd be crying

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By *ot chic OP   Woman
over a year ago

Beverley


"What meets?

Hahaha unlucky x

If I didnt laugh I'd be crying"

Lucky you have the ability to laugh then haha x

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By *ust-a-GuyMan
over a year ago

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The guy who arrived at the hotel with his whole foot bandaged up and a canula in his arm. It turns out that he has discharged himself from hospital when I agreed to meet

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Shows he's keen

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Dry lips.

Wearing lipstick.

These are my most shallow. "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Launching into extreme politics.

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By *ot chic OP   Woman
over a year ago

Beverley


"Launching into extreme politics."

Whats politics??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Launching into extreme politics.

Whats politics??

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I've had more than one meet where I've sat there uncomfortably while they've railed about awful immigrants or other things.

Needless to say there wasn't a repeat meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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The guy who arrived at the hotel with his whole foot bandaged up and a canula in his arm. It turns out that he has discharged himself from hospital when I agreed to meet

Shows he's keen"

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Displaying bad manners/rudeness x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dry lips.

Wearing lipstick.

These are my most shallow.

So you like vasaline? Lol x"

Vaseline is good. I wear it. Or I wear better lip balms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Launching into extreme politics.

Whats politics??

I've had more than one meet where I've sat there uncomfortably while they've railed about awful immigrants or other things.

Needless to say there wasn't a repeat meet"

Met someone from that started talking about another minoritised group and spewing racist stereotypes. Also said she doesn’t usually meet Black guys. I couldn’t get out of there sooner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking to chat afterwards.. wtf?

Seriously, I can’t stand people who are unnecessarily rude to waiting staff. Total turn off to have no manners or respect for others. Left before dessert once….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're on a 1st meet and something happens, you think, no, thats a deal breaker, please share your experiences that have prevented you from a 2nd meet x"

dirty teeth !! and bad breath

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Launching into extreme politics.

Whats politics??

I've had more than one meet where I've sat there uncomfortably while they've railed about awful immigrants or other things.

Needless to say there wasn't a repeat meet

Met someone from that started talking about another minoritised group and spewing racist stereotypes. Also said she doesn’t usually meet Black guys. I couldn’t get out of there sooner. "

Yup. I hear this

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

His friend was driving hin and he assumed it would be fine to join in. They wasted all of our time

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