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By *ustlooking3189 OP   Man
over a year ago

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Was dating a girl we hit it of the out of blue she stopped meeting turns out her friend made a move on her she told me she didn approve and wanted me then we met she said she was going to give it a go with her friend…

We talk every day she says she picked the wornf guy she regerted the day she said no to me..she texts about how crazy he is even got me to ring Garda on him then I open up again she says she is in love with him emotional what does this mean any help will be a help

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By *ustlooking3189 OP   Man
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a bunch of drama.

Walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re her backup. When her relationship fails she’ll run back to you. Don’t be second best and walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was dating a girl we hit it of the out of blue she stopped meeting turns out her friend made a move on her she told me she didn approve and wanted me then we met she said she was going to give it a go with her friend…

We talk every day she says she picked the wornf guy she regerted the day she said no to me..she texts about how crazy he is even got me to ring Garda on him then I open up again she says she is in love with him emotional what does this mean any help will be a help "

Sorry if this maybe sounds harsh but seems like you’re better off leaving them to their own dramas

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Leave her to it op

She doesn't know what she wants and is keeping her options open with you.

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By *ustlooking3189 OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Sounds like a bunch of drama.

Walk away. "

Cheers thank you for advice has my head done in

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By *ustlooking3189 OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Leave her to it op

She doesn't know what she wants and is keeping her options open with you."

Thanks for the advice my head is done in with it

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By *ustlooking3189 OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Was dating a girl we hit it of the out of blue she stopped meeting turns out her friend made a move on her she told me she didn approve and wanted me then we met she said she was going to give it a go with her friend…

We talk every day she says she picked the wornf guy she regerted the day she said no to me..she texts about how crazy he is even got me to ring Garda on him then I open up again she says she is in love with him emotional what does this mean any help will be a help

Sorry if this maybe sounds harsh but seems like you’re better off leaving them to their own dramas "

Thanks for the help I just didn no what way to process it

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By *ustlooking3189 OP   Man
over a year ago

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"You’re her backup. When her relationship fails she’ll run back to you. Don’t be second best and walk away."

Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make friends with the gardai and fit him up. Get him a long stretch and love in bliss with her ril he gets out. Then live in fear of his retribution.

Run away to America and in twenty years time he will find you and chase you down the Mississippi where a gripping fight to the death will occur.

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By *ustlooking3189 OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Make friends with the gardai and fit him up. Get him a long stretch and love in bliss with her ril he gets out. Then live in fear of his retribution.

Run away to America and in twenty years time he will find you and chase you down the Mississippi where a gripping fight to the death will occur."

Make a good movie that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk away,and believe you're worth more than thag

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Was dating a girl we hit it of the out of blue she stopped meeting turns out her friend made a move on her she told me she didn approve and wanted me then we met she said she was going to give it a go with her friend…

We talk every day she says she picked the wornf guy she regerted the day she said no to me..she texts about how crazy he is even got me to ring Garda on him then I open up again she says she is in love with him emotional what does this mean any help will be a help "

It means she's got you wrapped around her little finger and you're letting it happen. Tell her you won't be responding to her texts any more, that if she needs the Garda she must call them herself and give her the number of an organisation that can help women in abusive relationships. Then start to concentrate on finding someone who's available.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria


"Make friends with the gardai and fit him up. Get him a long stretch and love in bliss with her ril he gets out. Then live in fear of his retribution.

Run away to America and in twenty years time he will find you and chase you down the Mississippi where a gripping fight to the death will occur."

Fukin brill!!

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By *ustlooking3189 OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Walk away,and believe you're worth more than thag "

Do u think that’s the only way thanks for the advise

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By *ustlooking3189 OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Was dating a girl we hit it of the out of blue she stopped meeting turns out her friend made a move on her she told me she didn approve and wanted me then we met she said she was going to give it a go with her friend…

We talk every day she says she picked the wornf guy she regerted the day she said no to me..she texts about how crazy he is even got me to ring Garda on him then I open up again she says she is in love with him emotional what does this mean any help will be a help

It means she's got you wrapped around her little finger and you're letting it happen. Tell her you won't be responding to her texts any more, that if she needs the Garda she must call them herself and give her the number of an organisation that can help women in abusive relationships. Then start to concentrate on finding someone who's available."

Thanks for the advice much appreciated

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

^ they're all correct. Walk away. It's not worth the brain drain on your sanity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is using you, get rid!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Was dating a girl we hit it of the out of blue she stopped meeting turns out her friend made a move on her she told me she didn approve and wanted me then we met she said she was going to give it a go with her friend…

We talk every day she says she picked the wornf guy she regerted the day she said no to me..she texts about how crazy he is even got me to ring Garda on him then I open up again she says she is in love with him emotional what does this mean any help will be a help

It means she's got you wrapped around her little finger and you're letting it happen. Tell her you won't be responding to her texts any more, that if she needs the Garda she must call them herself and give her the number of an organisation that can help women in abusive relationships. Then start to concentrate on finding someone who's available.

Thanks for the advice much appreciated "

You're the same age as our kids,it's what I'd tell them.

You will do what you want to do though and I suspect she will keep giving you tiny bits of hope that will keep you interested while making you feel sorry for her because her boyfriend treats her badly.

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma

@_ustlooking3189

You are a nice person and deserve to be treated as a nice person. Settle for nothing less.

That is the advice I would give

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