FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies, What’s the wrong approach?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve been thinking recently, maybe I am approaching women in the wrong way.

I like to be honest and upfront, especially with what I am looking for. I have a lot to offer and I don’t want to waste the energy I have on the wrong person.

I don’t seem to get much of a response.

Part of me believes I am coming across in the wrong way.

I know this is a sex site, but good conversation and a positive connection must count to right?

Anyways, what are your thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve only been on here 4 weeks. Give it time and find out what works for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are a single guys best friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m definitely up for going to a club. I would rather be introduced to one first, rather than being a stranger. Or is that the wrong way of thinking about it?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If you mean you're asking to meet quickly or getting straight into what you want to do etc,then that will probably put some off yes.

People are individuals,so you need to look at what they ask for want on their profiles.

Like others said if you don't like spending time chatting & getting to know others ,clubs might be your best bet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been thinking recently, maybe I am approaching women in the wrong way.

I like to be honest and upfront, especially with what I am looking for. I have a lot to offer and I don’t want to waste the energy I have on the wrong person.

I don’t seem to get much of a response.

Part of me believes I am coming across in the wrong way.

I know this is a sex site, but good conversation and a positive connection must count to right?

Anyways, what are your thoughts?

"I know this is a sex site" and been as you're referring to only single women would imply you might be taking the wrong approach like meny other single guys do

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"I’ve been thinking recently, maybe I am approaching women in the wrong way.

I like to be honest and upfront, especially with what I am looking for. I have a lot to offer and I don’t want to waste the energy I have on the wrong person.

I don’t seem to get much of a response.

Part of me believes I am coming across in the wrong way.

I know this is a sex site, but good conversation and a positive connection must count to right?

Anyways, what are your thoughts?

So your wondering if being dishonest and disingenuous is the way forward?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

If you have written all your interests within your bio it saves you time writing in messages people read the bio to find a connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From one single guy to another - Don’t worry about it too much OP.

Maybe put that energy into something else you do enjoy and find rewarding.

There is a lot more to life than swinging/FAB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't approach women.

Let the pussy come to you.

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

One to think about - if you looked at your profile as a woman then would you want to engage further with you?

I, and many others, click on a profile before opening a message.

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