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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, how can I get meet etc verified if no one is replying to messages or won't meet people not verified. I know I struggle with sending the first message but I am trying to make my messages stand out, I also always read a profile before messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much effort do you put in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think at this rate there needs to be a 'Get Verified' section, if there isn't already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake it

It's what women do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does being verified guarantee a reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does being verified guarantee a reply? "

Only if you buy the double platinum membership.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Hi, how can I get meet etc verified if no one is replying to messages or won't meet people not verified. I know I struggle with sending the first message but I am trying to make my messages stand out, I also always read a profile before messaging "

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Go to a Fab organised social. That's one impetus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does being verified guarantee a reply? "

Well duh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t rely solely on messaging people to arrange meets. Use all the tools of fab at your disposal.

It’s a brutal gig being a single fella here, embrace that and manage your expectations.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How much effort do you put in?"

i always try and pull something from a profile to use to help with messaging so a fair bit of effort

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi, how can I get meet etc verified if no one is replying to messages or won't meet people not verified. I know I struggle with sending the first message but I am trying to make my messages stand out, I also always read a profile before messaging

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Go to a Fab organised social. That's one impetus."

not always possible, socials tend to be on the weekend when I'm working or I can't get them if I am off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to an organised social, go to a club.

But just remember, being meet verified doesn't mean you're guaranteed meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, how can I get meet etc verified if no one is replying to messages or won't meet people not verified. I know I struggle with sending the first message but I am trying to make my messages stand out, I also always read a profile before messaging

•

Go to a Fab organised social. That's one impetus.

not always possible, socials tend to be on the weekend when I'm working or I can't get them if I am off"

You’ll need to plan further in advance then.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Get on cams and someone will verify you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How much effort do you put in?

i always try and pull something from a profile to use to help with messaging so a fair bit of effort "

My best advice would be to go to a club and ask the staff or other members to verify you. Some clubs are open in the daytime so should be easy enough to do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How much effort do you put in?

i always try and pull something from a profile to use to help with messaging so a fair bit of effort

My best advice would be to go to a club and ask the staff or other members to verify you. Some clubs are open in the daytime so should be easy enough to do."

good idea, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message F&B.

He will introduce you to a man named Ricky Machado.

Follow his advice TO THE LETTER.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message F&B.

He will introduce you to a man named Ricky Machado.

Follow his advice TO THE LETTER."

how do I message f&b?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like groundhog day on the forums sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See my earlier thread about why won’t women women meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been here over a year and now you ask? Think why you not been verified...

Maybe club meet or group social...

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"Hi, how can I get meet etc verified if no one is replying to messages or won't meet people not verified. I know I struggle with sending the first message but I am trying to make my messages stand out, I also always read a profile before messaging

•

Go to a Fab organised social. That's one impetus.

not always possible, socials tend to be on the weekend when I'm working or I can't get them if I am off

You’ll need to plan further in advance then. "

^ This, with bells on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does being verified guarantee a reply?

Only if you buy the double platinum membership."

*I’m the sucker that did that*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does being verified guarantee a reply?

Only if you buy the double platinum membership.

*I’m the sucker that did that*

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message F&B.

He will introduce you to a man named Ricky Machado.

Follow his advice TO THE LETTER.

how do I message f&b?"

I came back just in time

This is epic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message F&B.

He will introduce you to a man named Ricky Machado.

Follow his advice TO THE LETTER.

how do I message f&b?"

Either message him or start a thread titled "F&B - I need to speak to Ricky"

He'll reply eventually.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message F&B.

He will introduce you to a man named Ricky Machado.

Follow his advice TO THE LETTER.

how do I message f&b?

Either message him or start a thread titled "F&B - I need to speak to Ricky"

He'll reply eventually."

thanks

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Message F&B.

He will introduce you to a man named Ricky Machado.

Follow his advice TO THE LETTER.

how do I message f&b?

I came back just in time

This is epic

"

Isn't it just? Perhaps it's happy hour, who knows.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Go on cams. But having a meet veri doesn't guarantee to getting meets though, it's not the magic end to a dry spell

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


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Go to a Fab organised social. That's one impetus.

not always possible, socials tend to be on the weekend when I'm working or I can't get them if I am off"

That's really bad luck but as most socials, and I dare say a majority of meets, are arranged for weekends maybe you need to find a different hobby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How much effort do you put in?

i always try and pull something from a profile to use to help with messaging so a fair bit of effort

My best advice would be to go to a club and ask the staff or other members to verify you. Some clubs are open in the daytime so should be easy enough to do.

good idea, thanks "

Daytime clubs are probably a good idea. It's a different type of crowd to nights.

Socials are often very cliquey. They don't allow many single men or they only talk to existing friends. Much like Swingers clubs.

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