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By *un couple 2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

Just wondering if there are many out there, who like us, prefer a long term thing with a guy. Rather than one offs ? One offs can be fun too of course. But we prefer long term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs with fiat drivers

Long terms with Ford Fiesta drivers

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

Yeah we have one guy we meet regularly with. Not into meeting lots of random guys for one offs.

We find it makes it better and you can push the boundaries more and more.

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By *un couple 2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

Totally agree, build up a trust and friendship , and of course get to know each others likes etc. Sam has been seeing one guy for quite some time now. And they can get quite passionate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes you different from others wanting the same?

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral


"Totally agree, build up a trust and friendship , and of course get to know each others likes etc. Sam has been seeing one guy for quite some time now. And they can get quite passionate."

Yeah I agree with you.

I even have toys and outfits just for use with the bull now as the trust and confidence has grown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d really like to be a long term friend to a couple.

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By *o scandalousWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I prefer to have a long term playmate. Would ideally like a regular long term, but that is proving to be a bit more difficult.

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By *un couple 2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

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By *un couple 2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

Its a lot more relaxing when you have been meeting the same guy for years, sam and her man always greet and say goodnight with a passionate and also part of the foreplay.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Personally prefer long term repeat meets with someone to one offs ,been fortunate to have had a few over the years

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'd prefer a long term regular friend, but everything starts with a one-off (if I can get one).

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By *ersuasion22Couple
over a year ago

Herts

Like a bit of both , but would really like to find long term play partner (s)...

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Would love to find a long term bull to evolve our cuck relationship, take it to the next step.

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By *un couple 2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

its been just over eleven years for us now, sam doesn't think things could get any better. she really enjoys her guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like someone, I prefer long term. And o expect others do the same. It’s a shame some people don’t seem to like me….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long term prefered..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to have a long term playmate. Would ideally like a regular long term, but that is proving to be a bit more difficult. "

Unicorn comes to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to have a long term playmate. Would ideally like a regular long term, but that is proving to be a bit more difficult. "

Same. It's hard to crack here X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m here to make long term friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No long term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long term would be my preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No long term.

"

How does 30 mins sound?

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Do prefer regular / long term fun. Can build a rapport and try new and exciting things together over time. Ones off or one nighters feels too rushed and impersonal doesn't really appeal or interest me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No long term.

How does 30 mins sound? "

Too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long term makes it sound like whatever you have together must come to an end some how.

I don’t like that idea, unless it was all just about the sex.

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

I prefer long term, but that is not so easy to achieve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long term is better for me, but given that I’ll soon be travelling the breadth of the UK it’ll prove more difficult.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Long term please

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

We want some long term partners for me but its as rare as rocking horse shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah definitely. The sex get hotter and hotter with every meet up

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By *un couple 2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

never give up, when it comes and you find the right guy, you will have years of friendship, fun, intimacy and pleasure.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We're not looking for guys, but with couples and ladies yes we we'd much rather see select people again and again than keep finding new people. The sex is much better when we know people well and finding new people all the time sounds exhausting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any couples or females in the north west looking for regular?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a playmate too, the more I trust someone, the more kinkier side comes out and the better fun you have exploring!

Just from personal experience though.

People have a habit of saying they want that and doing the complete opposite

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry


"One offs with fiat drivers

Long terms with Ford Fiesta drivers "

Just what is the meaning of all this Ford Fiesta talk..? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would love to find a couple or single lady we could be friends with and make it a regular thing. x

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I think it's pretty unrealistic for a couple to meet the same person/people on an on going long term basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's pretty unrealistic for a couple to meet the same person/people on an on going long term basis "
why is that? Due to maybe someone developing feelings etc? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long term 100% winner .

and be with your sexy legs u love all the time ^^

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

Would prefer a long term thing

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I think it's pretty unrealistic for a couple to meet the same person/people on an on going long term basis why is that? Due to maybe someone developing feelings etc? X"

No, quite simply, I think negotiating the needs/wants of 1 other person is enough for single folks to contend with

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

It's all we look for now. Just 1 couple. Not polyamory.

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By *upiterqueenWoman
over a year ago

Cornwall

Definitely prefer long term meets with someone you have built up a connection with although sometimes one offs can just hit the right spot

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By *anuel ducatiMan
over a year ago

leyburn

Long term with a couple would be a dream come true!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

That would be getting into relationship territory.

Not for us.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"I think it's pretty unrealistic for a couple to meet the same person/people on an on going long term basis "

Not unrealistic but very real, me and some couples my friends we been meeting for a year now. Meetings don't hapen in a dayly or every week basis , due work commitments family, distance, etc, but we meet twice a month minimum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you don't want long term but it can happen without you wanting it, ye both just " click " in everyway and you have no choice , sometimes.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

Yes we like regular guys for long terms we had few before and we have one now just over a year we been meeting and playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any north west couples or single ladies looking for regular fun?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Definitely. It’s the only way I’ve ever done things. I’ve never met anyone just once. No interest at all in one offs.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"I think it's pretty unrealistic for a couple to meet the same person/people on an on going long term basis "

Is it ? That's not our experience. The couple we were with previously were very good friends and had known them for something like 15 or so years. Alas, due to circumstance it drew to a close. We'd be very happy to continue a similar arrangement again. Friends first and foremost. The other side of things just came naturally and organically. 'Twas a beautiful thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular just leads to trouble.

Plus 2 months is probably the maximum of my attention you're getting before I get bored.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I prefer regular. I’m too shy to do one offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer long term I'm not into one offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think based on what we actually do we prefer one offs.

We have enjoyed a couple of repeats but we’d be concerned about having someone else becoming more involved in our relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular. Prefer to build and explore with each subsequent meet

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I like both tbh. Happily nearly 4 years now with fwbs's, and I like the social meets, which can be one offs during to time and distance, they are no less special to me

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Been with our current play partner now for almost 2 years. So yeah, long term is preferable!

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

A reasonable number of 'one offs' would be ideal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One offs with fiat drivers

Long terms with Ford Fiesta drivers "

Glad I have a bike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if there are many out there, who like us, prefer a long term thing with a guy. Rather than one offs ? One offs can be fun too of course. But we prefer long term."

Yes longterm.

Gets better with time,trust longevity etc many pluses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree, build up a trust and friendship , and of course get to know each others likes etc. Sam has been seeing one guy for quite some time now. And they can get quite passionate.

Yeah I agree with you.

I even have toys and outfits just for use with the bull now as the trust and confidence has grown."

Spot on! Many dont understand the deeper Dynamic.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Difficult to find, I think it depends what you are looking for within that. People are too flaky and hard to trust these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Difficult to find, I think it depends what you are looking for within that. People are too flaky and hard to trust these days."

Yes fully agree. Diff cut nowadays tbh

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