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By *ucy78 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

Why do married women seem to be far more excepted for cheating or playing with partners permission compared to men cheating or playing with permission.

Im married with wife’s full permission to enjoy sex with others go to clubs. But women message back saying I don’t do cheating men. Im technically not cheating. Women do it and get inundated with messages top of fabbed pics etc.

so hard getting my head around it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they generally don’t come into forums seeking validation, or brag about it by shout it out here.

They tend to go about it under the radar.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Man cheating = man's fault

Woman cheating = man's fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Man cheating = man's fault

Woman cheating = man's fault

Men are [redacted]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Man cheating = man's fault

Woman cheating = man's fault

Men are [redacted]"

Mine sure is

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Man cheating = man's fault

Woman cheating = man's fault

Men are [redacted]"

According to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men on here will fuck anything with a pulse. Women on here have options and will usually pick the drama free one.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Women care, men just want to get their dick wet.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Newport (just for today/tonight)

Because there are way way more men on here and most single guys don't care whether someone is married or not if it's there's a chance they'll get their dick wet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men on here will fuck anything with a pulse. Women on here have options and will usually pick the drama free one."

Oi!

I resemb………I mean resent that remark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because a lot of men will say or do anything to get a shag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Man cheating = man's fault

Woman cheating = man's fault

Men are [redacted]

Mine sure is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Man cheating = man's fault

Woman cheating = man's fault

Men are [redacted]

According to fab"

If you like men so much maybe you should marry them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because Women are the minority and so some will accept that as they're hard to find.

Where as Men are the majority and therefore a more suitable one is easier to find. I imagine.

Plus, it's always the man's fault, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men on here will fuck anything with a pulse. Women on here have options and will usually pick the drama free one.

Oi!

I resemb………I mean resent that remark.

Sorry I forgot you don’t require the pulse

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"... ...so hard getting my head around it."

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Don't overtly concern yourself about getting your head around it.

Just enjoy your Fab journey.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Man cheating = man's fault

Woman cheating = man's fault

Men are [redacted]

According to fab

If you like men so much maybe you should marry them

I did.

I don't like the way men are demonised for things in a way that women aren't.

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By *ucy78 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

That’s the problem though women think men are all the same. I don’t want sex with loads. Prefer a regular. And I won’t shag just anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Man cheating = man's fault

Woman cheating = man's fault

That’s correct, men to the left because women are always right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Man cheating = man's fault

Woman cheating = man's fault

Men are [redacted]

According to fab

If you like men so much maybe you should marry them

I did.

I don't like the way men are demonised for things in a way that women aren't. "

You did?!

*faints*

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Why do married women seem to be far more excepted for cheating or playing with partners permission compared to men cheating or playing with permission.

so hard getting my head around it. "

Not all women think like that. I’d meet a man whose wife didn’t know, if I liked him. I wouldn’t meet a man whose wife did know. That’s not really my thing. Everyone is different. I don’t understand how people think it’s cheating though if you have permission. That’s an odd one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same. I just want a regular female married or not with or without permission for fun now and then

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"Man cheating = man's fault

Woman cheating = man's fault

Men are [redacted]

According to fab

If you like men so much maybe you should marry them

I did.

I don't like the way men are demonised for things in a way that women aren't. "

I've always liked you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Man cheating = man's fault

Woman cheating = man's fault

Men are [redacted]

According to fab

If you like men so much maybe you should marry them

I did.

I don't like the way men are demonised for things in a way that women aren't.

You did?!

*faints*"

I know I don't get a lot of your references Steve. I'm bold, what can I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Man cheating = man's fault

Woman cheating = man's fault

Men are [redacted]

According to fab

If you like men so much maybe you should marry them

I did.

I don't like the way men are demonised for things in a way that women aren't.

You did?!

*faints*

I know I don't get a lot of your references Steve. I'm bold, what can I say

You’re alright for a non 25 year old. You’re alright.

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Northwich (just visiting)

"Why do married women seem to be far more excepted for cheating or playing with partners permission compared to men cheating or playing with permission.

so hard getting my head around it. "

They aren't by us!

Cheating is cheating, we aren't looking to get tangled up in other people's drama, we stick to singles or people making ENM work.

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Man cheating = man's fault

Woman cheating = man's fault

Men are [redacted]

According to fab

If you like men so much maybe you should marry them

I did.

I don't like the way men are demonised for things in a way that women aren't. "

It’s true! When a guy cheats it’s the guys fault and when a woman cheats, it’s the guys fault. I have spoken out before about this but I’ve been in the minority. Even other women seem to speak up for women cheating while vilifying men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... ...so hard getting my head around it.

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Don't overtly concern yourself about getting your head around it.

Just enjoy your Fab journey."

I see what you did there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do married women seem to be far more excepted for cheating or playing with partners permission compared to men cheating or playing with permission.

so hard getting my head around it.

Not all women think like that. **I’d meet a man whose wife didn’t know, if I liked him. I wouldn’t meet a man whose wife did know. That’s not really my thing.**

Everyone is different. I don’t understand how people think it’s cheating though if you have permission. That’s an odd one! "

** Me same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Man cheating = man's fault

Woman cheating = man's fault

Men are [redacted]

According to fab

If you like men so much maybe you should marry them

I did.

I don't like the way men are demonised for things in a way that women aren't.

I’ve even been called out for pointing out the double standard. Apparently pointing this out also makes the man a dickhead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I’m in a minority here but man hating is not that deep.

#NotAllMen amirite

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By *ucy78 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Why do married women seem to be far more excepted for cheating or playing with partners permission compared to men cheating or playing with permission.

so hard getting my head around it.

She doesn’t want to know as such. She likes the fact I could being naughty also. I don’t have to tell her all details. She says when I’m away the thought that I could be is a rousing

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Northwich (just visiting)

"I know I’m in a minority here but man hating is not that deep.

#NotAllMen amirite

You certainly are, my man is amazing!

I've been chatting to a very nice one on here recently too, though I'm not gonna lie, he was a rare find

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men on here will fuck anything with a pulse. Women on here have options and will usually pick the drama free one."

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

The way of the world I guess! Just been chating to a lovely local man! But asked "the" question and yes his married! So wished him all best and moved on! I don't judge but won't meet attatched x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know I’m in a minority here but man hating is not that deep.

#NotAllMen amirite

#Totally x

Just always seems to be a man that starts these threads

All that I've seen at least

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

Excuse me while I have a very long yawn....

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Because there's more married men looking and posting about it than there is women, we wouldn't meet anyone cheating man or woman. I don't care for reasons it's not my place.

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

"Women care, men just want to get their dick wet."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know I’m in a minority here but man hating is not that deep.

#NotAllMen amirite

#Totally x

Just always seems to be a man that starts these threads

All that I've seen at least

How funny is that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've already done this thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because there's more married men looking and posting about it than there is women, we wouldn't meet anyone cheating man or woman. I don't care for reasons it's not my place."

This for me too! This is also really clearly stated on my profile, still get some approaching me though

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

"Man cheating = man's fault

Woman cheating = man's fault

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Many men won't care if a woman is married if they get sex & won't spoil their chance slating a married woman in a thread.

I see your frustration though if you're allowed to play with others,my partner has my consent to meet alone & I happily verify this with anyone who wants me to.

Would your wife do that ?

I think the men who lie about being attached or say their Mrs knows when she doesn't, probably make it harder for those who aren't cheating .

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By *ooroo2019Woman
over a year ago

Chester

I think there are men and women who find it a turn on to meet with a married people and then there are people who wouldn’t meet with someone attached.

I wouldn’t knowingly meet someone who is attached - male or female, but I’m not going to take the moral high ground and get all judgemental about it.

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

The thing that puts me off the married guys on here that are playing without permission is that 99% of the time they either slag off their wife, which is disrespectful, or they bang on and on and on about how honest they are (with an air of “aren’t I great and unusual”) and, to be blunt, it’s really unattractive.

I don’t find that women (the ones I’ve chatted with) do that.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally I wouldn't meet anyone who was married even if they have "permission"

I'd hate to be the "other woman" and potentially play a part in destroying someone's life. I guess some people have morals...some don't x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I wouldn't meet anyone who was married even if they have "permission"

I'd hate to be the "other woman" and potentially play a part in destroying someone's life. I guess some people have morals...some don't x"

If they have “permission” then people that meet them still have ‘morals’ and are not ‘destroying someone’s life’

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Personally I wouldn't meet anyone who was married even if they have "permission"

I'd hate to be the "other woman" and potentially play a part in destroying someone's life. I guess some people have morals...some don't x

If they have “permission” then people that meet them still have ‘morals’ and are not ‘destroying someone’s life’

That second part was for those who don't have "permission"

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton

"Man cheating = man's fault

Woman cheating = man's fault

Men are [redacted]

According to fab"

According to a moderator, always right apparently.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

In my time on fab forums I have noticed noticed huge differences in the attitude towards married men according to how popular they are with other contributors.

It seems to me that a likable personality will allow a lot of leeway

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Man cheating = man's fault

Woman cheating = man's fault

Men are [redacted]

According to fab

According to a moderator, always right apparently."

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"In my time on fab forums I have noticed noticed huge differences in the attitude towards married men according to how popular they are with other contributors.

It seems to me that a likable personality will allow a lot of leeway"

I agree with this last bit

Many forum regulars over the years who are married or attached ,have been very popular.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

On here, I think it's sometimes the option with the least drama potential attached to it for men to meet married ladies...they're not likely to slag off their target audience, are they?

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Like seeing this in a profile op

Appreciate the honesty, saves time instant block

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Because there's more married men looking and posting about it than there is women, we wouldn't meet anyone cheating man or woman. I don't care for reasons it's not my place.

This for me too! This is also really clearly stated on my profile, still get some approaching me though

We've had a few approach us, actually mainly woman but I think that's probably because we're not looking for men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my time on fab forums I have noticed noticed huge differences in the attitude towards married men according to how popular they are with other contributors.

It seems to me that a likable personality will allow a lot of leeway"

Couldn't agree more.Same as a lot of things,the more attractive/popular you are the less unacceptable said thing is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing that puts me off the married guys on here that are playing without permission is that 99% of the time they either slag off their wife, which is disrespectful, or they bang on and on and on about how honest they are (with an air of “aren’t I great and unusual”) and, to be blunt, it’s really unattractive.

I don’t find that women (the ones I’ve chatted with) do that."

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