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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This has happened to me a couple of times, couple of "old friends" have come back to fab, they started chatting again and asked if I would verify them, which I was happy to do, but now they have ignored me, I wish there was a button to take the verifications away, had this happened to anyone else

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

If you really want them not to show you can block them and they won’t x

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Block them

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By *estrideyetMan
over a year ago

Aspatria

Can you not delete your vertification from there account

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Can you not delete your vertification from there account "

No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can you not delete your vertification from there account "

I don't want to block them, but I think there should be a button to delete it from their account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be handy if they said you were a shit shag after you already left them a glowing veri

Unfortunately it's just like first dates after one goes first and waxes lyrical for the other to go "nah mate - not interested"

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By *estrideyetMan
over a year ago

Aspatria

Just leave another vertification saying what they have do and do to people say its a false vertification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn’t a verification meant to be a statement that you’ve met them and they are who they say they are.

So if you did meet them, isn’t the verification still valid?

As others have said I think blocking them will possibly disable the viewing of the veri but it will still show on their ‘count’ of verifications.

I get it you’re disappointed at being ghosted, but why not just move on if the verification is genuine?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Isn’t a verification meant to be a statement that you’ve met them and they are who they say they are.

So if you did meet them, isn’t the verification still valid?

As others have said I think blocking them will possibly disable the viewing of the veri but it will still show on their ‘count’ of verifications.

I get it you’re disappointed at being ghosted, but why not just move on if the verification is genuine? "

This!

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Usually South, Currently North

That button would be ripe for misuse - can you imagine how many guys on here would get the arse, especially after a social that lead to a “thanks, but I don’t want to take it further”?

A verification is just that - a confirmation that they exist, they turned up and they look like their pics. It’s not a promise of more play or contact imo

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Usually South, Currently North

I don’t think blocking them removed the veri - isn’t that only if someone leaves that their veri disappears?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has happened to me a couple of times, couple of "old friends" have come back to fab, they started chatting again and asked if I would verify them, which I was happy to do, but now they have ignored me, I wish there was a button to take the verifications away, had this happened to anyone else"

How nasty of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn’t a verification meant to be a statement that you’ve met them and they are who they say they are.

So if you did meet them, isn’t the verification still valid?

As others have said I think blocking them will possibly disable the viewing of the veri but it will still show on their ‘count’ of verifications.

I get it you’re disappointed at being ghosted, but why not just move on if the verification is genuine? "

Agree with this too!

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Can you not delete your vertification from there account

I don't want to block them, but I think there should be a button to delete it from their account "

I think there's 5 possible options.

Leave as is

They delete their account

You delete your account

They block you

You block them

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"I don’t think blocking them removed the veri - isn’t that only if someone leaves that their veri disappears?"

Blocking does remove the wording and verification, but still shows as part of verification 'count'.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"I don’t think blocking them removed the veri - isn’t that only if someone leaves that their veri disappears?"

Blocking them removes the text and who it's from. But the summary will still be there.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Can you not delete your vertification from there account

I don't want to block them, but I think there should be a button to delete it from their account

I think there's 5 possible options.

Leave as is

They delete their account

You delete your account

They block you

You block them

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Or ask them not to show it. I’ve done that before when I stopped showing my own veris.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"This has happened to me a couple of times, couple of "old friends" have come back to fab, they started chatting again and asked if I would verify them, which I was happy to do, but now they have ignored me, I wish there was a button to take the verifications away, had this happened to anyone else"

Yes, I have had this and it's disappointing. I didn't give to receive though. A verification just confirms they are known and real.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This has happened to me a couple of times, couple of "old friends" have come back to fab, they started chatting again and asked if I would verify them, which I was happy to do, but now they have ignored me, I wish there was a button to take the verifications away, had this happened to anyone else

Yes, I have had this and it's disappointing. I didn't give to receive though. A verification just confirms they are known and real.

"

I didn't give to receive, I just don't like being used,

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