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By *nitforfun69999 OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester

Bellow fellow Fabbers.!

Anyone have concerns about sharing face pics with potential meets?

Any tips?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We send face pictures if a social meet is a definite possibility. How are they going to recognise us otherwise? I don't turn up in the clothes in our photos .

Don't send a face picture you use elsewhere, always make it fully clothed and one you'd be happy for your old granny to see are my tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't send just because they demand one. Don't send unless you're happy with the possibility that anything could potentially happen to that picture once it's off your phone - people do collect pics and use them/swap them/sell them even. Make sure there's nothing identifiable in your pic if you're cautious, car plates, house numbers. Maybe keep your face pic and your dick pic separate, if they get sent to your workplace/wife/Facebook contacts it would be good if there's plausible deniability that it's *your* dick...

Basically just general caution, don't be too thirsty, or too trusting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bellow fellow Fabbers.!

Anyone have concerns about sharing face pics with potential meets?

Any tips?"

not really. We all have different tastes, I'd want someone to know what I look like beforehand and decide whether they find me attractive and not waste time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very careful that my face is shown separate to my body. Even with guys I meet.

Set photos to remove after sent

Be very careful who you accept friends requests from

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By *appy nakedMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Will send a face pic once chatting, got to know who your talking to

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I'm pretty slutty with my face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I photoshop my face so it doesn't resemble me and it hasn't been a problem so far it's great because nobody knows who you are or what you look like I hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm pretty slutty with my face. "

Haha me too!

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"I'm pretty slutty with my face.

Haha me too! "

We need a better name for this club!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"I'm pretty slutty with my face. "

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There's nothing wrong with that. It's an admirable trait.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"I'm pretty slutty with my face.

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There's nothing wrong with that. It's an admirable trait. "

I'd trade my face for your lovely shoes, though.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Not at all I have them on my profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go by the rule whoever sends the opening message sends the first face pic. As we rarely send the first message it means we get to see who we’re talking to before sending one back. It’s not foolproof but it’s worked so far.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Yes, I’ll send one. Obviously not of my own face

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"I am very careful that my face is shown separate to my body. Even with guys I meet.

Set photos to remove after sent

Be very careful who you accept friends requests from "

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*Sigh* I suppose I better accept your friend request. It's been languishing in my inbox like an orphan since you returned from Høbårt.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"We send face pictures if a social meet is a definite possibility. How are they going to recognise us otherwise? I don't turn up in the clothes in our photos .

Don't send a face picture you use elsewhere, always make it fully clothed and one you'd be happy for your old granny to see are my tips"

This!

Keep nude/graphic shots completely separate and don't ever send one you've already posted on vanilla social media.

Just take a new face pic, neck up or full body but clothed, in a neutral location with no identifiable background.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With all the deception that occurs on such sites, even a face photo doesn't prove undoubtedly a person is real, or still looks the same. Could be an old pic or a pilfered one. Social every time for me, safe and public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they haven’t seen it then how can they decide whether or not they want to sit on it?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I can see that being attached will make you wary , however that's a chance you're going to have to take if you want to meet people.

We all value privacy ,as others have said don't have your face & body pic together & take a face pic especially for here.

If you use ones on any social media people can find you.

If you're a site supporter there's a box you can tick for the pic to be deleted after a while when you send it .

I'd say don't send a face pic untill your comfortable & don't give it to everyone .

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"With all the deception that occurs on such sites, even a face photo doesn't prove undoubtedly a person is real, or still looks the same. Could be an old pic or a pilfered one. Social every time for me, safe and public. "

U could ask for a instant one on pm? Say holding a household object of your choice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope if anyone wants to see my face they just ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With all the deception that occurs on such sites, even a face photo doesn't prove undoubtedly a person is real, or still looks the same. Could be an old pic or a pilfered one. Social every time for me, safe and public. "

Most women wouldn’t even do a social without a face pic though!

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

No problem for me. I have private face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes me chuckle when someone asks for our face pic before sending their own. The only thing I worry about is offending people with my fugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With all the deception that occurs on such sites, even a face photo doesn't prove undoubtedly a person is real, or still looks the same. Could be an old pic or a pilfered one. Social every time for me, safe and public.

U could ask for a instant one on pm? Say holding a household object of your choice x"

Yeah, I guess if they refuse to one can err on the side of caution and disengage. (Do you plan on adding any more pictures to your gallery, only it's a bit stingy?)

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Well it's not blind date... I'm not going to agree to a social, let alone a meet without seeing a face first.

I have had guys arrange a social before they've seen mine though!

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I have no issues sharing my face picture with someone I’m chatting to. I don’t share it with everyone that asks, only those I chat a lot to or that I am going to meet up with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this issue today with someone. Got so defensive when asked if I could see her face even though she messaged me first. I lost interest in the conversation very quickly tbh after that. I don't want to be messaging someone to find out I'm not attracted to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had this issue today with someone. Got so defensive when asked if I could see her face even though she messaged me first. I lost interest in the conversation very quickly tbh after that. I don't want to be messaging someone to find out I'm not attracted to them. "

Very much so. Once it's clear following a few messages that you're keen, why exchange xyz further exchanges only to realise mutual physical chemistry ain't there. A man could have spent that time chatting up another lady he's never getting sex from.

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