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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Is this seen as a problem? What tips do people have to keep the wolf from the door so to speak !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think about The nan of my friend Ricky Machado.

Mind you it could turn you on she is lovely and warm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t hold back. Blow ya beans and get in with round 2 when ready.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I visualise Ann Widdecombe

….actually, no….that makes me cum even quicker….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds odd but I sometimes do the 9 x table (in my head). Choice of which number to multiply is optional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds odd but I sometimes do the 9 x table (in my head). Choice of which number to multiply is optional "

9x7 ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds odd but I sometimes do the 9 x table (in my head). Choice of which number to multiply is optional

9x7 ? "

Ricky Machado would get this in seconds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds odd but I sometimes do the 9 x table (in my head). Choice of which number to multiply is optional

9x7 ? "

Don't usually get that far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds odd but I sometimes do the 9 x table (in my head). Choice of which number to multiply is optional

9x7 ?

Ricky Machado would get this in seconds."

he would !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds odd but I sometimes do the 9 x table (in my head). Choice of which number to multiply is optional

9x7 ?

Don't usually get that far! "

At least you have a great moustache

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Like a wizard I am never late, nor early. I arrive precisely when I mean to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will definitely try some of these techniques, I might need a calculator for one of them though

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Depends. If you cum on entry, perhaps that is a little too soon, so refer to the advice above regarding 9 times table or anne ... no don't even think of that!

But if you cum after perhaps a few minutes, my wife does not see that as an issue. In fact she sees it as a compliment. Sometimes she feels there is more of an issue when the guy takes hours. So long in fact that we have left before he is ready to cum. She will always ask "why didn't he cum. Is it me?"

Can also depend on the nature of the meet.

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray


"Depends. If you cum on entry, perhaps that is a little too soon, so refer to the advice above regarding 9 times table or anne ... no don't even think of that!

But if you cum after perhaps a few minutes, my wife does not see that as an issue. In fact she sees it as a compliment. Sometimes she feels there is more of an issue when the guy takes hours. So long in fact that we have left before he is ready to cum. She will always ask "why didn't he cum. Is it me?"

Can also depend on the nature of the meet. "

Quite agree with this, love guy cumming instead of just being pounded away at for ages, makes me wonder if guy likes me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends. If you cum on entry, perhaps that is a little too soon, so refer to the advice above regarding 9 times table or anne ... no don't even think of that!

But if you cum after perhaps a few minutes, my wife does not see that as an issue. In fact she sees it as a compliment. Sometimes she feels there is more of an issue when the guy takes hours. So long in fact that we have left before he is ready to cum. She will always ask "why didn't he cum. Is it me?"

Can also depend on the nature of the meet. "

All very true.

Neither is ideal for all involved obv but I'd rather a guy who cums faster but can stay hard or get hard again and cum several times, over one who can't cum at all or potentially turns a fun thing in to a chore.

I feel for anyone experiencing any of these

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"Depends. If you cum on entry, perhaps that is a little too soon, so refer to the advice above regarding 9 times table or anne ... no don't even think of that!

But if you cum after perhaps a few minutes, my wife does not see that as an issue. In fact she sees it as a compliment. Sometimes she feels there is more of an issue when the guy takes hours. So long in fact that we have left before he is ready to cum. She will always ask "why didn't he cum. Is it me?"

Can also depend on the nature of the meet.

All very true.

Neither is ideal for all involved obv but I'd rather a guy who cums faster but can stay hard or get hard again and cum several times, over one who can't cum at all or potentially turns a fun thing in to a chore.

I feel for anyone experiencing any of these "

Absolutely, especially if it is a group meet for an evening. Allows the guy to take a back seat, enjoy the show and recover as others get involved before he goes again, most likely for longer 2nd time round.

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)


"Like a wizard I am never late, nor early. I arrive precisely when I mean to. "

I suppose you think that was terribly clever!

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

It depends what all parties involved consider as too soon I guess.

It helps to stay relaxed and not focus on cumming, but if worrying about cumming too soon is an issue it can become a vicious cycle.

People say focusing on breathing slow and deep helps. I find if ever I can’t cum because my mind isn’t in the moment, deep breathing helps me relax and cum so I’m not sure about that one!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Depends. If you cum on entry, perhaps that is a little too soon, so refer to the advice above regarding 9 times table or anne ... no don't even think of that!

But if you cum after perhaps a few minutes, my wife does not see that as an issue. In fact she sees it as a compliment. Sometimes she feels there is more of an issue when the guy takes hours. So long in fact that we have left before he is ready to cum. She will always ask "why didn't he cum. Is it me?"

Can also depend on the nature of the meet. "

I'm the same I find it quite complimentary with a quick cum (not seconds obviously) but it can be nice.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think about my mother-in-law. Works every time,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the opposite problem and last forever much to the dismay of my past partners.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Think about my mother-in-law. Works every time,"

This

Or dead nuns.

Although if someone tries the former and it makes them cum quicker..........DANGER WILL ROBINSON!!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think about my mother-in-law. Works every time,

This

Or dead nuns.

Although if someone tries the former and it makes them cum quicker..........DANGER WILL ROBINSON!!

A"

A dead nun probably looks better than my mother-in-law

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I quite like it. Especially if he can go again

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By *um2me123Man
over a year ago

burin

For me personally, as a person that likes to please my lover, i always cum too quick....if its the first 10 minutes or after a coiple hours...its what you do both in between is important...for me its what you do after you cum and before you get hard again...active tongue helps lol

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Like a wizard I am never late, nor early. I arrive precisely when I mean to.

I suppose you think that was terribly clever! "

I did actually. How did you guess?

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