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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As most of you will know, there are members on here who are having a tough time, health wise, financially, emotionally etc.

Over the past months I have read posts about illness,deaths,financial difficulties,emotional stresses,some folks have had a good year,an average year,a bad year and some possibly the worst year ever.

The support and friendship even just the knowing there is someone there to listen or just to think of can be very important, there are best friends,great friends,good friends,friends and even just cyber friends on here, and some are just friends you haven't met yet.

As in the "real" world ( away from the scene/cyber world) not everyone will get on, not everyone will like everyone, thats OK no one expects it to be anything different.

There are many on here for many and varied reasons all are equally valid.

Its a free site, its a great site, there are things not everyone likes , but then others might love the things you dont like so I guess what I'm saying is, make the best of the best things for YOU, dont let the things you dont like get you down.

I'd like to thank everyone, the admin, (It's a really tough job, we appreciate the work and effort you guys put in, remember people if it wasn't for admin the whole site woudn't be here),I'd like to thank everyone who contributes, the ones we have met, the ones we have yet to meet, the ones we have only "virtually" met, the social organisers, the participants at the socials, the venue providers, the ones who help with transport everything.

I'd also like to thank the ones who make the forums enjoyable, the chatrooms fun ( even if they are a bit fast for me!! ), also the ones who aren't on the forums and chatrooms much, ty too, you are the ones who are here for meets and I guess at the end of the day thats what it's all really about, everyone that uses this site makes it what it is, so thank you all.

I know its a bit rambling, but the thoughts behind it are genuine, and if one PM, one message, one great meet, one comment in chat, one comment in the forums, new friends, old friends kept in touch, one thought from someone who is thinking of you, anything positive that can be taken fom this place makes one persons day better then thats a good thing.

I hope in the coming months and years then everyone will get something from the site, once more thank you all for your contributions whatever they may be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As most of you will know, there are members on here who are having a tough time, health wise, financially, emotionally etc.

Over the past months I have read posts about illness,deaths,financial difficulties,emotional stresses,some folks have had a good year,an average year,a bad year and some possibly the worst year ever.

The support and friendship even just the knowing there is someone there to listen or just to think of can be very important, there are best friends,great friends,good friends,friends and even just cyber friends on here, and some are just friends you haven't met yet.

As in the "real" world ( away from the scene/cyber world) not everyone will get on, not everyone will like everyone, thats OK no one expects it to be anything different.

There are many on here for many and varied reasons all are equally valid.

Its a free site, its a great site, there are things not everyone likes , but then others might love the things you dont like so I guess what I'm saying is, make the best of the best things for YOU, dont let the things you dont like get you down.

I'd like to thank everyone, the admin, (It's a really tough job, we appreciate the work and effort you guys put in, remember people if it wasn't for admin the whole site woudn't be here),I'd like to thank everyone who contributes, the ones we have met, the ones we have yet to meet, the ones we have only "virtually" met, the social organisers, the participants at the socials, the venue providers, the ones who help with transport everything.

I'd also like to thank the ones who make the forums enjoyable, the chatrooms fun ( even if they are a bit fast for me!! ), also the ones who aren't on the forums and chatrooms much, ty too, you are the ones who are here for meets and I guess at the end of the day thats what it's all really about, everyone that uses this site makes it what it is, so thank you all.

I know its a bit rambling, but the thoughts behind it are genuine, and if one PM, one message, one great meet, one comment in chat, one comment in the forums, new friends, old friends kept in touch, one thought from someone who is thinking of you, anything positive that can be taken fom this place makes one persons day better then thats a good thing.

I hope in the coming months and years then everyone will get something from the site, once more thank you all for your contributions whatever they may be."

AWWWW xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here here to what he says!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago

How lovely plums xxxx

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By *ettybo907Woman
over a year ago

derry

wooow, that was a very cool thing say...RESPECT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hehehehehehehe Plums id after a free upgrade again LOL

Dead right tho, if it wasnt for friends on here and people making me laugh I wouldnt have gotten thro this year. Cheers guys....still dont wanna fuck ya tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hehehehehehehe Plums id after a free upgrade again LOL

Dead right tho, if it wasnt for friends on here and people making me laugh I wouldnt have gotten thro this year. Cheers guys....still dont wanna fuck ya tho"

Damn, another cunning plan foiled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hehehehehehehe Plums id after a free upgrade again LOL

Dead right tho, if it wasnt for friends on here and people making me laugh I wouldnt have gotten thro this year. Cheers guys....still dont wanna fuck ya tho

Damn, another punning flan coiled "

Speak sense man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Speak sense man"

Oxymoron??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Speak sense man

Oxymoron?? "

lol you said it Pussy Posse Power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I applaud your thread plums.

Well thought out and well written.

And for a guy thats an acheivement in its self. (joke)

Things have been tough for a few of us and to some, even tougher and hard to deal with .

Im a happy bunny most of the time and will continue to be so as my troubles are little ones compared to some.

Christmas is fast approaching and it tends to bring home just how lucky some of us are.

Despite the trials and tribulations of life.

(need a drink now, have just said a big word)

share the love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You getting over excited Peaches? LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao

cant keep me fingers still......

needs summat nice in me hands

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lmao

cant keep me fingers still......

needs summat nice in me hands "

Are you taking suggestions???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't have said it better myself xxx

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

very nice and very true

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I would also like to thank the ones that do work behind the scenes when someone isnt well or needs a lift somewhere. Some wonderful people on herexxkarenx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thread iv read in a long time, everyword you said is very true.

thanks to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said.. well said indeed.

Those who do know me/us know what a year we have had.. and putting all the goings on on here aside its not all been roses but many and I do mean many have been more than supportive in more ways than just an ear to bend..

I would also like to think that those who have taken time to get to know, know I also give as much back.. offering what little support if and when its possible and I get a real feeling seeing those suffer start to smile again, start to be themselves again.. Its lovely it really is.

Why people sometimes feel the need to actually set out to hurt and upset is beyond reasoning.. whatever the reasons are the rest and the good amoungst always make it more than worthwhile..

well said that man.......

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By *lirty14uMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

A timely, well written and sensible thought. Amen!

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

What a fantastic post. Well said, totally agree with it all mwwwahh xx

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

me too ....i've been the very grateful recipient of help and friendship, and hope i've been able to repay that too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said, but I'm a believer in what goes around comes around..... and it's worked for me so far in my life!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for all the replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am glad that a member from FAB recommended this site to me back in Aug 09 when I started to come out of my shell to look for no string attached fun by joining a paid adult dating site, and have not looked back since.

The paid adult dating site has its purposes. However, it does not have forums like FAB, and I found it less sociable.

I like the friendly atmosphere on FAB.

OK, so there are some really strong characaters that can be intimidating to some. However, that much is true in real life.

All in all I have had some fantastic times on here since I joined in Aug 09, and have made some friends on here

Mind you, I have only played with one member from FAB. Perhaps that will change soon

Keep it up, Fabswingers, you guys and gals are great!

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