FabSwingers.com forum: Who's better giving bjs? men or women?

By *ottom4topx OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

Title says it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d have to have a lot of blowjobs from a lot of different people to decide the outcome of such a question.

Wanna start off my study?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unable to say as I have incomplete data - only experienced half of the equation.

However from the subset I do have (vulva owners) the results vary - some are excellent at it, others are mediocre.

The ones that tend to vigorously wank you off with their hands more than actually suck tend to be worse than those that do the whole hands-free but plenty of eye-contact divas.

So if it’s the same for the penis owners then it’s less likely to be a split of gender / sex, more on technique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen many blow jobs given by men and women and I am possibly using a bias because of how sexy and horny its looked from my perspective but I will vote for men giving the best blow jobs.

NBVN x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Only men who have experienced both can answer this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have seen many blow jobs given by men and women and I am possibly using a bias because of how sexy and horny its looked from my perspective but I will vote for men giving the best blow jobs.

NBVN x"

Is this a bit like only a woman knows what will best please another woman?

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By *nnatwinkleCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Personally I think men do as they know what one is like & the best way to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d imagine men give better ones since they know how it feels!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bearded dark hair tattooed guy giving a blow job......hot!!!

What it feels like no clue but it looks good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d imagine men give better ones since they know how it feels! "

I'm prepared to give you the benefit of the doubt?.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been told many times that men give the best BJ's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d imagine men give better ones since they know how it feels!

I'm prepared to give you the benefit of the doubt?.....

Haha! I like to think I’m good at them, I’m an enthusiastic cock sucker

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By *ixi n DogCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I'd say men in general, but nothing comes close to a woman who genuinely enjoys what she's doing and gets really turned on by it..

I suppose as the 'suckee' a lot of it will come down to which you'd prefer to have sucking you off and all.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Those that are somewhere in between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd imagine men too, with all the vids I've seen they're dam good at deep throating over n over too

Miss S x

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

I’d say men 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d imagine men give better ones since they know how it feels! "

I've been told that's true.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

From my experiences, women give the best bj’s.

But then; I’ll never have a man suck me off

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I believe men do as they know more what a man wants plus they had better suction lol

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By *ure_heatMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Men! Speaking from... experience!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

But personally, I always get exes saying I give the best bj ever

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Men! Speaking from... experience!"

There ya go, thought that was the case. Especially the gay porn i seen.men definitely have the technique right lol

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Tbf it seems men enjoy giving deep throat than women do. I rarely do it but still get told I give the best bj. I'm more creative in my approach to sucking rather being mechanical with deep throating

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Its probably men.

Double blund trials, using gloryholes is the ideal way to research it effectively. Participants will be lined up in the labs I ysw and ill publish the results

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By *pidey68Man
over a year ago

St Helier

Had some bloody good ones from both.

Had some bloody bad ones from both.

Does that answer the question??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say women if they like to do it. Not all women like to give a BJ

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

"Only men who have experienced both can answer this x"

I was just thinking that myself, and for me if a guy put his laughing gear around me, my leaning tower is likely to collapse faster than Fred Dibnah could have collapsed a factory chimney. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men

Men

Men"

Yeah thanks, I’m now singing the theme to “Two and a half men”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men

Men

Yeah thanks, I’m now singing the theme to “Two and a half men”

So was I !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men

Men

Men"

5 men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leaf blowers f&b told me

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By *ammymacMan
over a year ago

darlington

Men 100%. Guys have me cumming inside a minute, women, my wife included rarely succeed without masturbating me at the same time.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Unable to say as I have incomplete data - only experienced half of the equation.

However from the subset I do have (vulva owners) the results vary - some are excellent at it, others are mediocre.

The ones that tend to vigorously wank you off with their hands more than actually suck tend to be worse than those that do the whole hands-free but plenty of eye-contact divas.

So if it’s the same for the penis owners then it’s less likely to be a split of gender / sex, more on technique

No... I love being wanked as they suck!

Shows everyone has their own preferences.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Men

Men

5 men? "

5 guys! Now I want a burger.

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"I’d have to have a lot of blowjobs from a lot of different people to decide the outcome of such a question.

Wanna start off my study? "

I don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men

Men

5 men?

5 guys! Now I want a burger. "

So do I now….

but not one of there’s…

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

Tgirls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had it off both and not sure really. Just love being sucked. It’s the same really lol x. Just get more horny by women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men

Men

5 men? "

That's an awesome video

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Well for me the answer will always be women I'd never let guy near my cock I hate to find out that men were better at it .I'm happy not knowing .I'll leave to those tgast enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been sucked by men and women, I really don’t think it’s a gender thing.

I have met few women who genuinely enjoy sucking cock, but many men who love giving head.

When you find somebody enthusiastic and skilled, it feels fantastic regardless of gender.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

From my experience, men.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"I have been told many times that men give the best BJ's. "

Loads of people say it but why would it be true?

They know what a man likes? I'd say they know what they like which, as everyone is different, is not the same thing.

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Women, by far.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

The only answers you'll see with any real experience of this will come from men, since its only them that can/may/will have experienced both men and women giving them a blow job.

And that excludes straight guys who haven't been sucked off by another guy. Everyone else is just guessing.

My answer (having given a fair few and also been on the receiving end) ?

It depends on the individual. It's an activity that like any - driving a car, riding a bike, playing the trombone - can be learnt through teaching and practice. Some practice more and become better at it through experience, trial and error and feedback. Others just do what they think works, never change technique or ask for tops, hints or feedback as to whether what they're doing actually feels good or not.

Of course men have the advantage over women (assuming they've ever had a blow job themselves) in that they know exactly how it feels, what stimulation provides the best sensations and what is irritating/painful. So in theory they should also be better at giving them too. But that knowledge can be accumulated by women through feedback too.

So it really does depend on the giver.

Enthusiasm and a desire to please can generally make up for any lack of technique and throw in some good eye contact and you have the makings of a perfectly good BJ. If you're not sure if what you're doing is good then ask or look for clues. If he's just lying/stood there then there's a good chance it's not great.

I've had good, great, mindblowing and shit BJ's from both men and women. There's no definitive answer.

You may as well as who's better at receiving anal...........

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I have been told many times that men give the best BJ's.

Loads of people say it but why would it be true?

They know what a man likes? I'd say they know what they like which, as everyone is different, is not the same thing."

I’ve never had my cock sucked by a man, and I have no plans to either. What I will say though is; as far as sucking cock is concerned, men appear to want to make a guy cum by sucking their cock, whereas women tend to only suck cock to make it hard for fucking, as in; women don’t actually want the guy to cum. This has been my experience overall, when playing with women; sucking my cock was a means to an end, not a sex act in itself

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By *tranger swings 69Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

I’ve had both and as with most thing in life it’s pretty even.

I’ve got amazing head of both guys and women but I’ve had some pretty shit head from both aswel

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