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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have any of you let a man come to your house for a meet after just receiving one message? If not then why do so many men think they can am I wrong for not letting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lowest was 5 as it met the peramiters of fab pulling rule 1 5 message flow rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But now you say that i may attempt the 1 just to prove myself awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not relevant but Nice anus on you jo Anna

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know you’re asking the ladies, but from my point of view you’re right not to invite them… anyone with that expectation is probably not worth meeting like that!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No you’re not wrong. Up to you who you let in your house. I could meet someone a hundred times and they still wouldn’t be coming to my house!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no…… just because I can accommodate doesn’t mean I will but most guys on here think it’s an invitation…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not relevant but Nice anus on you jo Anna "
nice as in the buscuit the place or the complement tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should NEVER invite strange men into your house, have you not seen the Lost Boys??

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No definitely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should NEVER invite strange men into your house, have you not seen the Lost Boys??"
but they werent men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should NEVER invite strange men into your house, have you not seen the Lost Boys??but they werent men "

The head vampire was a man. Well a vampire, but yeah a man.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes i have done on a few occasions x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes i have done on a few occasions x"

Did they get out alive though ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many years ago, yes. And not after 1 message, maybe about 5.

Reader, I never did it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as its your home and personal space. Not wanting to be inviting a total stranger after one message isn't wrong.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Yes i have done on a few occasions x

Did they get out alive though ? "

cheeky! Um actually they under the new patio x

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"You should NEVER invite strange men into your house, have you not seen the Lost Boys??"

I had to go to YouTube and watch the dinner scene again.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I invite the Deliveroo guys to my place after just one message. I wouldn’t let them in though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I invite the Deliveroo guys to my place after just one message. I wouldn’t let them in my front door but he did break my back one though. "

Naughty

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Have any of you let a man come to your house for a meet after just receiving one message? If not then why do so many men think they can am I wrong for not letting them "

Why would you be wrong for not letting a strange man from the internet into your home. You aren't wrong but they want You to feel as if you are. It's a classic manipulation technique, salespeople use it, people who want quick and easy sex use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not relevant but Nice anus on you jo Anna "

It looks blurred out to me. Are you recognised by your anus OP?..

Anyway, back on topic. My first fwb invited me to her home after our first social (it did get a bit steamy).

My second fwb invited me straight to her house for our first meet. She had either spoken to my first or was just keen to jump my bones I suppose? In both cases we had chatted for months before even a social was mentioned. I always suggest a social first, location of the lady's choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

X

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nope. I've only had someone come to mine after meeting a couple of times and even then I've regretted it.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Absolutely not & never would

I always meet socially first anyway.Then if there was attraction & a connection they may have been invited over at a later date ,when I was single.

I hate people asking to meet in a a first message when we've never spoken ot swapped pics etc ,screams desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course you're not wrong.

Your home is your refuge, your sanctuary, got to be careful who you invite in, in case they fuck up the feng shui.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I never come in their ass ..as mickey Flanagan says

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Nope, never ever. Some of the messages off guys trying to invite themselves to my home have been pretty laughable, and creepy!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Because they don't have to worry the same way we do! Men (some, not all) just don't take into consideration the safety aspect, let alone anything else.

I wouldn't have someone round who I hadn't at least been on a social with first.

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

I've never invited someone to my home after one message. And you're not wrong as it's up to you who you invite and when.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I used to do this all the time. It's the reason I'm dead and exist as a ghost who browses the forums in my spare time. I wouldn't recommend any of you do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I used to do this all the time. It's the reason I'm dead and exist as a ghost who browses the forums in my spare time. I wouldn't recommend any of you do it."

Rookie mistake. Should've made a Silence of the Lambs style well and then invited them over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I used to do this all the time. It's the reason I'm dead and exist as a ghost who browses the forums in my spare time. I wouldn't recommend any of you do it.

Rookie mistake. Should've made a Silence of the Lambs style well and then invited them over"

It's too late now.

But now you've made me want to rewatch. I can't remember the last time I saw the movie.

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By *ister CMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Not relevant but Nice anus on you jo Anna "

Here here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I used to do this all the time. It's the reason I'm dead and exist as a ghost who browses the forums in my spare time. I wouldn't recommend any of you do it.

Rookie mistake. Should've made a Silence of the Lambs style well and then invited them over

It's too late now.

But now you've made me want to rewatch. I can't remember the last time I saw the movie. "

It's still possible. Invite them round, skin them and walk around in their meat suit. No one will ever know you're a ghost

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By *ister CMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Not relevant but Nice anus on you jo Anna "

Here here...

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