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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Did you ever make a marriage pact? You know where you say if you're not married by a certain age, you'd marry each other?

Has anyone actually married their friends because of the pact?

I found one in my school leavers book that said if I'm not married before I'm 40, my friend Lucy would marry me. I've been married but I'm not now so does that still count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is your friend Lucy married?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is your friend Lucy married? "

Dunno. I had better find out. Only got two years to go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FF couples are hot af

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes I did. Even signed it with a bloodprint.

So I guess it's pretty much a done deal, hoping I'm married before then though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I did. Even signed it with a bloodprint.

So I guess it's pretty much a done deal, hoping I'm married before then though."

Oh yeah, that's serious. No getting out of that one.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Yes I did. Even signed it with a bloodprint.

So I guess it's pretty much a done deal, hoping I'm married before then though."

Ahh but its still not legally binding unless you pinkie promised

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

It still counts if you are not legally married at midnight on the day of your 40th birthday.

I'm an expert at birthday fine print. Hope Lucy has a nice penis!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I did with my male best mate. Neither of us have been married and when the date rolled around we both said ‘are you nuts, we don’t do marriage’ ….. the perfect answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age was 30, my mate and I were both unmarried but were kinda not into marriage so we just drink together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My age was 30, my mate and I were both unmarried but were kinda not into marriage so we just drink together."

Which is the bedrock of all good marriages anyway.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

We said if not married by 90. I don’t think we thought it through properly tbh.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"I did with my male best mate. Neither of us have been married and when the date rolled around we both said ‘are you nuts, we don’t do marriage’ ….. the perfect answer "

You could be "not married" together.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

No, I just married the dude I met at school without a pact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just made a pact with myself to NEVER get married.

I'm doing well.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A friend of mine made a pact to marry a guy when they were both 50 if they were still single. He married someone else at 49 and she was furious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did with my bestest bestest friend Rupert. The bastard reneged on the deal and has shacked up Rag Dolly Anna in the tree house

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Oh crap......

I'm not married but did make a pact with a friend in my early 20's....

Better look her up on FB and start packing to move to Aberystwyth.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I've never had a desire to be married. Even begrudgingly got married to make things easier when the kids came along. I'd have been quite happy unmarried for life. I just don't get the marriage/ wedding thing. *shrugs*

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Yes I made one with my ex that became my fwb, I moved away to Wales and 4 years later she asked me to get back with her. Seemed like a great idea but she then got cold feet and I had to move back to Wales. She then had the cheek to ask me to move back again a couple of weeks months later.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think that pacts have to adapt to changes in what's possible, including marriage equality and circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can recall (very vividly) being with 2 best friends (at the time, no largely estranged) on the last day of school, and agreeing to meet in that same place in 25 years, how we'd see who had the nicest house or the best car etc. Of course we never did it, and I often wonder if any of them ever recalled any of it at all ever again like I did. hashtag wistful melancholy

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I do have a friend like this, I said if we were still single by the time I’m 60 then we’d get married, just 4 more years to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no

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