FabSwingers.com forum: Who still met during the pandemic?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We wasn't on on 2020

Who defied the rules and still met?

No judgement here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We couldn't see our kids or my parents we weren't going to meet a random internetter

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

2 nurses shamelessly offered to come meet me

I may or may not have taken them up on the offer.

They really didn’t seem to care. I wonder if the stress of it all blurred their judgement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fell in love during the pandemic so yep. I took the risk after discussing with my family. Very careful.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I wasn't able to have the comfort of human touch when I was in the hospital half dead from covid, no matter how scared I was.

I couldn't go into the house or hug my dad when I had to tell him his brother had died, and an hour later that his nephew had also died.

I didn't get to hug my nephews on their birthdays. I didn't get to see my family at Christmas.

So yeah, shagging it up with random strangers every other day. Obvs

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If we were locked down again I might react differently.

When we were first 'advised' to stay at home I walked down to the beach, my way was barred by a police car. I walked round it to see that they were telling people sitting in their beach huts to go home. That shocked and surprised me and made me think that the threat was far more serious than I realised, I also felt angry on behalf of the beach hut people who were harming nobody. I don't think I'd view it in the same way now.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Like above I would think very differently about a lockdown this time around.

I didn’t meet I worked right through the lock down physically at work.

I didn’t even go to the local pub which didn’t shut at all choosing to simply admit locals via a back door.

This time round I doubt many would stand another lockdown me included.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

During the pandemic I met one fab guy for social distanced walks. I was sheilding and he helped me stay sane on the couple of times I met him. We didn't get up to anything just walked.

I was in a social bubble with another later on towards the end of lockdown. He was equally careful due to vunerable relatives. We are still together!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bit of a mixed bag then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was the perfect excuse to not meet anyone!

But when you have family that died, kids that missed out on school and seeing friends, then yeah it did grind a bit knowing the dickheads were still going about fucking.

But it shows what people are actually like. Knobs!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I wasn't able to have the comfort of human touch when I was in the hospital half dead from covid, no matter how scared I was.

I couldn't go into the house or hug my dad when I had to tell him his brother had died, and an hour later that his nephew had also died.

I didn't get to hug my nephews on their birthdays. I didn't get to see my family at Christmas.

So yeah, shagging it up with random strangers every other day. Obvs

I think experience of lockdown very much depended on individual circumstances. I got the most angry when we were locked down overnight just before Christmas and it made our daughter cry because she couldn't come and see us but I got angry about a lot of stuff.

I wouldn't meet strangers but I would see my family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wasn't able to have the comfort of human touch when I was in the hospital half dead from covid, no matter how scared I was.

I couldn't go into the house or hug my dad when I had to tell him his brother had died, and an hour later that his nephew had also died.

I didn't get to hug my nephews on their birthdays. I didn't get to see my family at Christmas.

So yeah, shagging it up with random strangers every other day. Obvs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wasn't able to have the comfort of human touch when I was in the hospital half dead from covid, no matter how scared I was.

I couldn't go into the house or hug my dad when I had to tell him his brother had died, and an hour later that his nephew had also died.

I didn't get to hug my nephews on their birthdays. I didn't get to see my family at Christmas.

So yeah, shagging it up with random strangers every other day. Obvs

When did you start meeting again?

What was the acceptable amount of time before you did?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I don't see why if a different threat came along it should be treated less seriously?

Just because our government are a bunch of lying hypocrites that doesn't mean we shouldn't heed medical advice.

Like another poster I was too busy being seriously unwell and losing relatives to COVID to think about my cock and meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At some points in 2020 it was illegal to have sex with your partner if they didn't live with you. I never thought that was acceptable.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

If something similar ever happened again we wouldn’t meet people for sex but we definitely won’t be staying away from family …

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Towards the end I did. Feb '21. Not off here, someone I knew previously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew one couple did & she was a midwife talk about being irresponsible

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope ,I worked all through with very vulnerable people ,so I wouldn't have put anyone at-risk meeting from here.

Plus I guess I'm lucky as I'm already in a ltr .

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I wasn't able to have the comfort of human touch when I was in the hospital half dead from covid, no matter how scared I was.

I couldn't go into the house or hug my dad when I had to tell him his brother had died, and an hour later that his nephew had also died.

I didn't get to hug my nephews on their birthdays. I didn't get to see my family at Christmas.

So yeah, shagging it up with random strangers every other day. Obvs

When did you start meeting again?

What was the acceptable amount of time before you did?

I met someone in August, which was after lockdown had been lifted. We had both been completely isolated for 2 weeks beforehand and afterwards.

I did me. Others did them. And that was their choice. I wanted to protect myself, my family and the people I care about, and I'd do the same again. To the same extent, probably, yes.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No, I was in the high risk category and wouldn't risk it, I got cabin fever a few weeks in so the Mr took us for a drive a few times but never left the car and sat in my pjs (classy I know), that's as much as we got out.

When there's so much being missed especially for the kids and elderly, school, clubs, social interaction and general company, going out for a quick fuck was the last thing on my mind.

Mrs

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

God no. That would mean I’d have had to change from PJs to normal clothes

I did have 3 extra people move into my house for the duration of Covid. Not sure that was allowed but we stuck to all the rules.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"God no. That would mean I’d have had to change from PJs to normal clothes

I did have 3 extra people move into my house for the duration of Covid. Not sure that was allowed but we stuck to all the rules. "

In fact one is still here. I need to address this!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

During the initial lockdown no I didn't meet anyone and followed all the guidelines. As restrictions eased I met one close friend and it has remained that way ever since with no new meets in almost 3 years.

It bugged me though that people I knew on here were happy to let others break travel restrictions and come to them but would then publicly denounce in the forums anyone doing likewise.

Or party organisers admitting to having second thoughts about events they had arranged in the middle of a lockdown. This was after their third or fourth event and only when they were stupid enough to condemn others who had new group photos on their profiles. They were pulled on it and admitted they had run events but had seen the error of their ways.

They actually said they believed fabbers should understand because they had been here many years and had facilitated many frustrated members

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Spoke to close family on video chat every day. Had Christmas Boxing Day video chat/dinner!

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By *DGF20Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Oh yeah I did, not much on fab but in general socialise with few people, having few drinks, bbq...

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By *eavy-Metal-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We Didn't as my side of the family where at risk. Thanks to all of our friends playing games over discord and PSN we didn't go insane. I lost my Dad during the second lockdown due to complications due to Covid and Me and my gf think the stress of it all made us stronger. If we was forced to do it again i think it be uproar and riots as I think people now have seen through not just government but governments around the world bullshit. While we was sitting at home trying to cope with our thoughts and not seeing people, BoJo and chums was on the bloody lash, the tossers

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