FabSwingers.com forum: Your Friend and your ex fucking

By *ottom4topx OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

What's your opinion on this? Would you care?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't like it i don't think

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By *ohn123456789999Man
over a year ago

hastings

They surely wasn't a friend to start with in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sloppy seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn’t like it just merely for the disrespect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually i think it depends why they are an ex.. If you grew apart and its sometime after i probably wouldn't be as bothered vs it being recent with conflict

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

It might sound old-fashioned, but I'd like my friend to ask.

That just feels respectful to me.

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By *ece_himCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

I've had a friend ask permission to see my last ex who I finished with. Told them I don't own them and they can do what they like. Was happily in my current relationship when they approached the subject and was never looking back.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Since my ex hated my friends, it's not something I have to worry about. I can't say I'd particularly care though apart from feeling concerned that he's being sucked into her web.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not my business who an ex or my friend fucks.

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By *amfro1992Man
over a year ago

ramsgate

Right, please don’t judge….

I was really good mates with then… gfs brother, and his gf…. Went away on holidays together and so forth…

So my gfs, brothers, misses left him completely out of the blue… couple of months later I left my ex… randomly she messaged me blah blah blah etc etc… one thing led to another as it does… ?????? like it was never intentional.. mad shit happens is what I’m trying to say haha

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

It’s a free world! If they wanna fuck, I’ll be right behind ‘em!

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

"What's your opinion on this? Would you care?"

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They have a right to fk who they want and if I wasn’t still dating the bloke it’s none of my business.

That said would I care? It’d hurt as fuck and I wouldn’t like it.

They’d both be cast out into the cold forever

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By *amfro1992Man
over a year ago

ramsgate

Yeah you know, at the end of the day it is what is, we was both single, In Hindsight it’s no different than just having an ex

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

If they're both happy and it wasn't going on at the time then fair f**ks to them.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Don't bother me the slightest.. to be fair I won't do it with her friends, that would just be weird

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Nope I'd be happy for them

Takes the heat off interest in my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t wish that or her on any of my friends. It wouldn’t upset me at least

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Wouldn't bother me as life goes on for all parties and I don't dwell on the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’d be no friend of mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd feel sorry for my friend knowing she was gonna have to fake it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be raging.

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By *immo1867Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"I'd feel sorry for my friend knowing she was gonna have to fake it. "

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I think if an ex is an ex then they are an ex for a reason. They are also a free person. It is not my place to tell them (or anyone else) what they can or cannot do. I don’t see why my feelings should come into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily, I have no friends. I barely recall the names of ex’s.

Win win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, they're my ex, you don't have rights or a hold over anyone just because they are your ex. They get to choose who they see, not you

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It depends on how close a friend they are. I'd like to say yeah sure, I'd be really happy for them but there's one ex and one very good friend where I'd not be as virtuous as I'd like to be

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By *andy2Man
over a year ago

Ealing

I would love it

He can have my current girlfriend too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno im volatile now birthday coming up tomorrow best to ask me in a week when im stable

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I did at the time as he was my husband and knew nothing of it till later! X

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I dunno im volatile now birthday coming up tomorrow best to ask me in a week when im stable"

That's an excellent plug

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Adults having consensual sex that I’m not a part of?

Why would I make myself a part of that?

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

There's a lot of variables, not least time. I mean a week after a breakup I can't imagine anyone being happy with that, but after several months or a couple of years it's not your business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend is also an ex so they can go fuck themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They did and they are and no I don’t care and I’m grateful to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dunno im volatile now birthday coming up tomorrow best to ask me in a week when im stable

That's an excellent plug

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not a plug like chrimbo its a very disapointing day

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I dunno im volatile now birthday coming up tomorrow best to ask me in a week when im stable

That's an excellent plug

not a plug like chrimbo its a very disapointing day "

Sorry to hear, hopefully not though

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Most recent ex. I'd tell his wife. He'd have clearly learned nothing from the situation.

Abusive ex. I'd steer clear of the friend if it was someone that knew it was him that put me through hell. If it was someone who didn't actually know who he was, I'd let them know he's a headfuck and gets handsy so they could make an informed decision.

Anyone else, I'd hope they were having a cracking time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dunno im volatile now birthday coming up tomorrow best to ask me in a week when im stable

That's an excellent plug

not a plug like chrimbo its a very disapointing day

Sorry to hear, hopefully not though"
it will be hope is for children

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Let them get on with it and stay out of it. It’s no longer your call if she is an ex

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

So there's a few levels for me.

If the friend knew I was still messed up over the ex then I would be annoyed.

But that's for me to deal with I suppose. Still think it would be poor form from the friend and I have been in the position before and haven't done it.

I was friendly with some ex's and would have had no issue with them being with my friends (this did happen occasionally).

The nasty ones (from my opinion) I wouldnt want my friends to get tangled in their webs, but then we are all grown ups now.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Feeling we're going to avoid this.. Our friends can't stand out ex's

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I wouldn’t care but he hated my friends and they just wouldn’t go there

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