FabSwingers.com forum: What's your way of knowing a profile is legit

By *ames-77 OP Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

So many fake profiles on here.. what's your method of checking they are legit

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Combination of decent selection of public pics, good bio but mainly several in person non circular verifications.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Reverse image searches. Checking verifications and the people those verifications came from.

LvM

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By *ames-77 OP Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Reverse image searches. Checking verifications and the people those verifications came from.

LvM"

What's the best reverse image app?

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By *ames-77 OP Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

The genuine people I've met off here have always used kik and you send live pics .. then you've for the ones who will say no they don't use it and ask only for WhatsApp haha classic

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Reverse image searches. Checking verifications and the people those verifications came from.

LvM

What's the best reverse image app? "

The TinEye website is pretty handy.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reverse image searches. Checking verifications and the people those verifications came from.

LvM

What's the best reverse image app? "

If I hold down on a photo, my phone has a pop up that gives me the option to reverse image search using Google Lens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we personally don’t use kik or whatsapp, whenever we deny either we get told we’re fake lol, we are genuine and we prefer to just do our verifying over snapchat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we personally don’t use kik or whatsapp, whenever we deny either we get told we’re fake lol, we are genuine and we prefer to just do our verifying over snapchat

personally feel like too much pic collecting goes on when we’ve ever moved to kik so it’s put us off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tineye, phone call, veris….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The genuine people I've met off here have always used kik and you send live pics .. then you've for the ones who will say no they don't use it and ask only for WhatsApp haha classic "

I prefer going to WhatsApp rather than Kik. I will already have seen the face photo they sent through messaging on here and then I often ask for a specific photo like blowing a kiss. If the faces match up, we're all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The genuine people I've met off here have always used kik and you send live pics .. then you've for the ones who will say no they don't use it and ask only for WhatsApp haha classic "

I don’t use kik and won’t install it either! It’s buggy and annoying! If a guy wants to see I’m genuine they can watch me on cam

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't do any checks. We go on gut feeling and a social

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By *erverse_licentiousCouple
over a year ago

Seen you on cam. And, it is a spectacular sight!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"The genuine people I've met off here have always used kik and you send live pics .. then you've for the ones who will say no they don't use it and ask only for WhatsApp haha classic "

We're fake then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seen you on cam. And, it is a spectacular sight!

I’m guessing that was directed at me lol

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By *erverse_licentiousCouple
over a year ago

"Seen you on cam. And, it is a spectacular sight!

I’m guessing that was directed at me lol

*Forum amateurs* ha

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By *ames-77 OP Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

The only good thing about kik it's not about pic collecting it's that it's a live pic taken there and then.. level of fake profiles on here is high recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seen you on cam. And, it is a spectacular sight!

I’m guessing that was directed at me lol

*Forum amateurs* ha"

Haha! Thank you, I like camming, it’s fun and a better way of showing my personality than my bio. Glad you liked it

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By *ames-77 OP Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Seen you on cam. And, it is a spectacular sight!

I’m guessing that was directed at me lol

*Forum amateurs* ha

Haha! Thank you, I like camming, it’s fun and a better way of showing my personality than my bio. Glad you liked it

When you next on live cam

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Visiting Scotland

For me it’s verification trail (who verified them and then who verified those people - caught out an almost very believable fake couple with circular verifications that way), and gut instinct.

I’m not remotely a grammar or spelling pedant, but when both halves of a supposed couple make the exact same grammar errors in messages, or misuse/misspell the same word, its a real giveaway.

Everyone uses different methods. I got called fake the other day as I will only use kik or Skype to chat away from here until I’ve met someone.

The whole argument of “well you can block” when it comes to numbers on WhatsApp doesn’t take into account that people still have your number so can call from another number of message from one of the online platforms. They can also, as happened to my friend a few years ago, stock your number on a status and you get deluged with calls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seen you on cam. And, it is a spectacular sight!

I’m guessing that was directed at me lol

*Forum amateurs* ha

Haha! Thank you, I like camming, it’s fun and a better way of showing my personality than my bio. Glad you liked it

When you next on live cam "

Tomorrow night probably! I go on most nights lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use kik/whatsapp/SC/telegram. But to be fair I'm heavy handed on the block function if the conversation seems geared towards only wanting more pics/camming. I have no issues with face time though. Kik is beyond glitchy, and I don't like that you can delete pics either...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*can't

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By *irmbutfairMan
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

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By *irmbutfairMan
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

Always watch for plug sockets! So many fakes I have rumbled over the years due to European or American plug sockets

There are quite a few really good fake profiles on here these days, as well as lots of girls who just want to make OF content, at least they are honest about it.

All of the above will help (I don’t think which messaging app they use really tells you anything though).

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Always watch for plug sockets! So many fakes I have rumbled over the years due to European or American plug sockets

There are quite a few really good fake profiles on here these days, as well as lots of girls who just want to make OF content, at least they are honest about it.

All of the above will help (I don’t think which messaging app they use really tells you anything though)."

But what if we're on holiday?! I've taken a few pics on continental Europe, but we definitely live in dreary NW England....

Fucking hell, we don't Kik, we don't Snapchat or Skype and we might have pics with European 2 pin plugs. I'm starting to feel fake now. Am I just a mirage? Is the man snoring next to me real?!

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Basic one to one chat shoud be enough however verifications is key

If not shown don't judge do homework and be wise

If shown click on the profiles listed and read there's

If they have none or username no longer on site then that's an alarm bell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always watch for plug sockets! So many fakes I have rumbled over the years due to European or American plug sockets

There are quite a few really good fake profiles on here these days, as well as lots of girls who just want to make OF content, at least they are honest about it.

All of the above will help (I don’t think which messaging app they use really tells you anything though)."

On my list of red flags on Fab. I can honestly state checking out plug sockets has never been one

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By *nked and Ms InkedCouple
over a year ago

nr wrexham

"The genuine people I've met off here have always used kik and you send live pics .. then you've for the ones who will say no they don't use it and ask only for WhatsApp haha classic

I don’t use kik and won’t install it either! It’s buggy and annoying! If a guy wants to see I’m genuine they can watch me on cam "

I don’t use kik anymore, and I’m very genuine! I deleted it as a stalker kept setting up fake profiles when I blocked him. He’s tried using fake female ones or getting his FB’s to message too, gives it away when they mention having a Fb and his kink- it is very specific to me and an old outfit/pic from when I first joined fab. Now I don’t let newbies message me first. I also insist on a face pic, and after chatting if they seem genuine will give my whatsapp for a voice call. Also use reverse image search a lot now, and the block button goes into overdrive at times xx

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By *nked and Ms InkedCouple
over a year ago

nr wrexham

"Basic one to one chat shoud be enough however verifications is key

If not shown don't judge do homework and be wise

If shown click on the profiles listed and read there's

If they have none or username no longer on site then that's an alarm bell

But people leave all the time, so sometimes someone is genuine but they can’t show the veri as it disappears, along with the username, when that person leaves. But I agree that veri’s can help show who’s genuine, unless it’s just one name and you’re already suspicious that it’s a guy pretending to be a woman, and set up and veri’d his fake profile himself, then reverse image search comes in handy. But again, like everything, that’s not always foolproof either xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think veris can be a tough one? I mean I have a smattering of them from cpls, single men, a lone fem. But I keep them hidden as some were from when I held a cpls account myself. Some from what I've been seeking at that point in time as a lone fem... Mostly because it's not really anyone else's business who I've had a social/played with

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

On my old profile,use to just ask to pop on cam here.

Or pop on SC.

But have never had a issue with single women profiles.

only had issues with couples,always the line only the man can go on cam or do the face to face social etc

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

"Basic one to one chat shoud be enough however verifications is key

If not shown don't judge do homework and be wise

If shown click on the profiles listed and read there's

If they have none or username no longer on site then that's an alarm bell

Yes your right inked and it's not fool proof , but what I mean by one to one chat is other platforms of proof of identity and there are literally hundreds

For example the sleazy one kik

Takes 2 minutes to download

Takes 1 minutes to create username

Takes 30 seconds to swap username

Takes 15 seconds yo ask for a live face picture holding an object of your choice

If this is not possible

Takes 5 seconds to delete app

And two seconds to block them on fab xx

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By *nked and Ms InkedCouple
over a year ago

nr wrexham

"Basic one to one chat shoud be enough however verifications is key

If not shown don't judge do homework and be wise

If shown click on the profiles listed and read there's

If they have none or username no longer on site then that's an alarm bell

Yes your right inked and it's not fool proof , but what I mean by one to one chat is other platforms of proof of identity and there are literally hundreds

For example the sleazy one kik

Takes 2 minutes to download

Takes 1 minutes to create username

Takes 30 seconds to swap username

Takes 15 seconds yo ask for a live face picture holding an object of your choice

If this is not possible

Takes 5 seconds to delete app

And two seconds to block them on fab xx "

I can’t use kik for reasons stated above, so if I don’t feel comfortable on fab I just block now. If I do then I use WhatsApp, once face pics swapped etc. lost count of the amount of people who send body shots or the bottom half of their face, that tells me nothing xx

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Most of my encounters these days come from recommendations, but on the odd occasion that someone contacts, I go by their verifications, and cross reference them with other members. That invariably s out the fakes, who are generally single guys posing as couples trying to gate crash a get together, or bi and curious guys posing as couples to get me to meet them.

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By *ames-77 OP Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"I use kik/whatsapp/SC/telegram. But to be fair I'm heavy handed on the block function if the conversation seems geared towards only wanting more pics/camming. I have no issues with face time though. Kik is beyond glitchy, and I don't like that you can delete pics either... "

Pretty sure you can just hold down on the pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure you can just hold down on the pic "

Only deletes it on the senders side

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By *afksedMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Always watch for plug sockets! So many fakes I have rumbled over the years due to European or American plug sockets

There are quite a few really good fake profiles on here these days, as well as lots of girls who just want to make OF content, at least they are honest about it.

All of the above will help (I don’t think which messaging app they use really tells you anything though)."

Shit I thought this was just me!

It’s such an obvious thing and yes such a common mistake! Skirtingboards too… but the old two pin socket…

As for KIK, really? Is it any better than here?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"On my old profile,use to just ask to pop on cam here."

We get asked that, or for a videochat/phonecall, but we always refuse.

I go by verifications, unless they're all ancient.

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By *ames-77 OP Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"On my old profile,use to just ask to pop on cam here.

We get asked that, or for a videochat/phonecall, but we always refuse.

I go by verifications, unless they're all ancient. "

Let's be honest verifications don't mean much these days you get people on here messaging asking to verify them haven't even met the idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always watch for plug sockets! So many fakes I have rumbled over the years due to European or American plug sockets

There are quite a few really good fake profiles on here these days, as well as lots of girls who just want to make OF content, at least they are honest about it.

All of the above will help (I don’t think which messaging app they use really tells you anything though).

Shit I thought this was just me!

It’s such an obvious thing and yes such a common mistake! Skirtingboards too… but the old two pin socket…

As for KIK, really? Is it any better than here?"

What's the matter with skirting boards??...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm starting to feel like I need a hand written note from my mam

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By *uke-de-PleasureMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm old school. Probably cos I'm old (Hey! No giggling at the back) so you can read all the veri's you like or reverse image all the pics you like but I find that when you hear the word "HELLO" as someone answers the phone with a feminine tone it usually denotes that the female profile I am interested in is most likely genuinely a female. Or if you speak to both partners if they're a couple. Or even hear the other cutting in in the background.

Now granted this does not guarantee against no-shows or being stood up etc... But you're part of the way there at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm old school. Probably cos I'm old (Hey! No giggling at the back) so you can read all the veri's you like or reverse image all the pics you like but I find that when you hear the word "HELLO" as someone answers the phone with a feminine tone it usually denotes that the female profile I am interested in is most likely genuinely a female. Or if you speak to both partners if they're a couple. Or even hear the other cutting in in the background.

Now granted this does not guarantee against no-shows or being stood up etc... But you're part of the way there at least. "

So no checking the sockets & skirting boards beforehand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a feeling through the use of my third eye or crystal ball.

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By *uke-de-PleasureMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Now granted this does not guarantee against no-shows or being stood up etc... But you're part of the way there at least.

So no checking the sockets & skirting boards beforehand?

Well... I'm only really looking to have sex with them. Not planning on moving in or anything.

But nothing wrong with being thorough!

Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now granted this does not guarantee against no-shows or being stood up etc... But you're part of the way there at least.

So no checking the sockets & skirting boards beforehand?

Well... I'm only really looking to have sex with them. Not planning on moving in or anything.

But nothing wrong with being thorough!

Haha!"

Hehe! Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do Kik, I used to but I dislike it now. I don't care if it takes little time to set it up and delete it again.

I prefer to chat on here.

It would appear that members are deemed fake if they chat but don't meet. Sometimes chat can go in a direction that one party is not comfortable with, leading them to no longer want to meet the person. I have found this a lot lately. The conversation goes from having a social, to going to something completely different, like kinky stuff, MMF or once a party invite 73 miles away. Back out though and you get called a fake or time waster.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The plug socket thing is an old one and being on hols doesn't always cover it especially not on the repeat offenders with lots of pics uploaded over many months and all taken in different countries.

Don't rely on the live pic option on kik because anyone can bypass that easily using a secondary app that has been around for years.

It's always hilarious though when tips are given on how to avoid the fakes and yet so many are happy to comment on threads started by one of those repeat offenders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now granted this does not guarantee against no-shows or being stood up etc... But you're part of the way there at least.

So no checking the sockets & skirting boards beforehand?

Well... I'm only really looking to have sex with them. Not planning on moving in or anything.

But nothing wrong with being thorough!

Haha!

Hehe! Brilliant!

Aww, you & Duke-de-Pleasure seem a love match

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"The genuine people I've met off here have always used kik and you send live pics .. then you've for the ones who will say no they don't use it and ask only for WhatsApp haha classic "

We keep FAB communication within FAB. We don't see a need to move off-site for chat. We usually plan meets at a club, but if we are meeting at someone's house or a pub/Hotel then we will exchange mobile numbers to keep upto date on travel progress.

As for fakes/time wasters, the biggest indicator tends to be, a desire to engage in dirty talk and asking for extra photos.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now granted this does not guarantee against no-shows or being stood up etc... But you're part of the way there at least.

So no checking the sockets & skirting boards beforehand?

Well... I'm only really looking to have sex with them. Not planning on moving in or anything.

But nothing wrong with being thorough!

Haha!

Hehe! Brilliant!

Aww, you & Duke-de-Pleasure seem a love match

I would say he's a very useful wingman. I was merely amused at his subtly witty reply to what is a very succinct point you make. I get the felling the Duke has been round the block a few times and probably knows most 'tricks of the trade' on here. Likely learned the hard way. Like a lot of us.

But you're correct the different sockets are often a giveaway. Unless they were on hols or own property abroad of course.

I'm always dubious of sun tan 'white bits' posted in, say, January too.

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

"We don't do any checks. We go on gut feeling and a social"

?? our sentiments too.

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By *illxxMan
over a year ago

motherwell

I just usually go with my instinct and how they answer messages and there photos. Caught many out in my time on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now granted this does not guarantee against no-shows or being stood up etc... But you're part of the way there at least.

So no checking the sockets & skirting boards beforehand?

Well... I'm only really looking to have sex with them. Not planning on moving in or anything.

But nothing wrong with being thorough!

Haha!

Hehe! Brilliant!

Aww, you & Duke-de-Pleasure seem a love match

But you're correct the different sockets are often a giveaway. Unless they were on hols or own property abroad of course.

I'm always dubious of sun tan 'white bits' posted in, say, January too. "

Cool... I was actually taking the mic out of the afore mentioned 'sockets' comment if either of you had scrolled... But well done both you lads on being witty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now granted this does not guarantee against no-shows or being stood up etc... But you're part of the way there at least.

So no checking the sockets & skirting boards beforehand?

Well... I'm only really looking to have sex with them. Not planning on moving in or anything.

But nothing wrong with being thorough!

Haha!

Hehe! Brilliant!

Aww, you & Duke-de-Pleasure seem a love match

But you're correct the different sockets are often a giveaway. Unless they were on hols or own property abroad of course.

I'm always dubious of sun tan 'white bits' posted in, say, January too.

Cool... I was actually taking the mic out of the afore mentioned 'sockets' comment if either of you had scrolled... But well done both you lads on being witty

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By *afksedMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"The genuine people I've met off here have always used kik and you send live pics .. then you've for the ones who will say no they don't use it and ask only for WhatsApp haha classic

As for fakes/time wasters, the biggest indicator tends to be, a desire to engage in dirty talk and asking for extra photos.

Cal"

Bloody fakers ruin everything. They leave little room for a genuine person to be themselves and be genuinely different!!!

So much of this makes my tiny brain ache!

Maybe it’s that neurodivergent thing again.

I don’t understand dick pics or the reason for sending them unsolicited.

As for premature dirty talk, I find this crude and lacking in effort. There’s a place for it. To me it would be like a football chant in church…

And pic collectors? So you like collect as many pics of the same person as you can and then one day trade them in for the real thing? Like tokens? I just don’t get it.

Maybe I’m old fashioned, and egocentric in my perspective but surely a woman wants effort and personal attention - even if she just wants a fuck - rather than a manchild with Tourette’s who isn’t picky? I’m no stranger to using the language of the billiard hall (!) however context is everything!

As for WhatsApp, sadly for me it’s an essential because I cannot access Fab through my mobile provider, only through wifi.

So maybe I’m destined to remain in the query fake pile despite being the antithesis of fake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean it's not hard is it??

People complain all the time on here about time wasters and fakes, are they that or are they just not interested in you??

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

"The genuine people I've met off here have always used kik and you send live pics .. then you've for the ones who will say no they don't use it and ask only for WhatsApp haha classic

We're fake then

We must be fake too then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean it's not hard is it??

People complain all the time on here about time wasters and fakes, are they that or are they just not interested in you??

I agree to be honest! If it's looking likely that it's a good potential for a social/meet, then surely we all just move it forward that way? Nobody is exactly reinventing the wheel here?

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Gut feeling & veris

Spend a little time getting to know someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean it's not hard is it??

People complain all the time on here about time wasters and fakes, are they that or are they just not interested in you??

No. I would explain a fake is someone who never intended to ever be what they presented.

*does a high pitched girls voice -“Of course I’ll meet you…” - “Saturday ? Sure”

Someone who just changed there mind or doesn’t like you is legit. But they wasted both parties time.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

PS: We are not specifically interested in profiles to meet people as we go to clubs where we actually meet 'real' people.

We prefer that dynamic than searching on here to find anyone or trying to get something pre-arranged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean it's not hard is it??

People complain all the time on here about time wasters and fakes, are they that or are they just not interested in you??

No. I would explain a fake is someone who never intended to ever be what they presented.

*does a high pitched girls voice -“Of course I’ll meet you…” - “Saturday ? Sure”

Someone who just changed there mind or doesn’t like you is legit. But they wasted both parties time.

So everyone i talk to I should meet or I'm a time waster?

No, fuck off with that. If a guy thinks he's "wasted his time" in talking to me, he's a prick.

And a fake? Ooh look new profile, hot pics, wants to meet after a few messages? Trouble is guys think with their cock on here and not their head.

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over a year ago

"I …..

Someone who just changed there mind or doesn’t like you is legit. But they wasted both parties time.

So everyone i talk to I should meet or I'm a time waster?

No, fuck off with that. If a guy thinks he's "wasted his time" in talking to me, he's a prick.

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haha. That’s not what I meant

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over a year ago

"I mean it's not hard is it??

People complain all the time on here about time wasters and fakes, are they that or are they just not interested in you??

No. I would explain a fake is someone who never intended to ever be what they presented.

*does a high pitched girls voice -“Of course I’ll meet you…” - “Saturday ? Sure”

Someone who just changed there mind or doesn’t like you is legit. But they wasted both parties time.

Yeah someone changing their mind isn’t a time waster, just means they realised you aren’t for them.

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

Ask to see their Sydney University ID Card.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its simple

I dont care if its real or not

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Now granted this does not guarantee against no-shows or being stood up etc... But you're part of the way there at least.

So no checking the sockets & skirting boards beforehand?

Well... I'm only really looking to have sex with them. Not planning on moving in or anything.

But nothing wrong with being thorough!

Haha!

Hehe! Brilliant!

Aww, you & Duke-de-Pleasure seem a love match

But you're correct the different sockets are often a giveaway. Unless they were on hols or own property abroad of course.

I'm always dubious of sun tan 'white bits' posted in, say, January too. "

We posted holiday pics in December/January because we went to Tenerife for Christmas and New Year! Fuck sake, I didn't realise going away in the winter (with 2 pin plugs visible) and declining to use crappy chat apps meant one was in fact fake. I'm getting an identity complex here

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"So many fake profiles on here.. what's your method of checking they are legit "

Push for a social quickly.

Those that want to will come out for a drink/coffee

Fakes/time wasters/only kinda interested will suddenly go quiet.

Quickly sorts them out

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Swimsuit pic from 27 December 2021 shamelessly set as profile pic, 2 pin plugs not visible because they were on the same wall as the mirror!

Location of photo: the northern edge of Tenerife

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

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over a year ago

"So many fake profiles on here.. what's your method of checking they are legit

Push for a social quickly.

Those that want to will come out for a drink/coffee

Fakes/time wasters/only kinda interested will suddenly go quiet.

Quickly sorts them out "

A guy that pushes and pesters to meet is an instant turn off for me. Just comes across as desperate.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"So many fake profiles on here.. what's your method of checking they are legit

Push for a social quickly.

Those that want to will come out for a drink/coffee

Fakes/time wasters/only kinda interested will suddenly go quiet.

Quickly sorts them out

A guy that pushes and pesters to meet is an instant turn off for me. Just comes across as desperate."

A woman that is so hesitant to meet for a quick coffee or drink just comes off as uninterested to me. There’s a say, if she wanted to, she would.

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over a year ago

"So many fake profiles on here.. what's your method of checking they are legit

Push for a social quickly.

Those that want to will come out for a drink/coffee

Fakes/time wasters/only kinda interested will suddenly go quiet.

Quickly sorts them out

A guy that pushes and pesters to meet is an instant turn off for me. Just comes across as desperate.

A woman that is so hesitant to meet for a quick coffee or drink just comes off as uninterested to me. There’s a say, if she wanted to, she would. "

I actually wouldn't have the time to meet every guy I had a interest in for a quick coffee or drink on a whim.

If a guy can't wait until I'm free, then that just comes off as just needing to get his cock wet.

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By *hropshireGentMan
over a year ago

Shropshire

I always look at verifications and if they are photo verified. If I’m not convinced I always ask for WhatsApp and do a video call

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By *anddXXXCouple
over a year ago

London

"The genuine people I've met off here have always used kik and you send live pics .. then you've for the ones who will say no they don't use it and ask only for WhatsApp haha classic "

We're genuine and use neither. So prob not the best yardstick to measure a genuine profile by.

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over a year ago

"The genuine people I've met off here have always used kik and you send live pics .. then you've for the ones who will say no they don't use it and ask only for WhatsApp haha classic

We're genuine and use neither. So prob not the best yardstick to measure a genuine profile by."

Kik is shit.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"So many fake profiles on here.. what's your method of checking they are legit

Push for a social quickly.

Those that want to will come out for a drink/coffee

Fakes/time wasters/only kinda interested will suddenly go quiet.

Quickly sorts them out

A guy that pushes and pesters to meet is an instant turn off for me. Just comes across as desperate.

A woman that is so hesitant to meet for a quick coffee or drink just comes off as uninterested to me. There’s a say, if she wanted to, she would.

I actually wouldn't have the time to meet every guy I had a interest in for a quick coffee or drink on a whim.

If a guy can't wait until I'm free, then that just comes off as just needing to get his cock wet.

You assume every guy that wants a coffee/drink instantly wants his cock wet with you?

Dunno what kinda coffee dates your doing if that’s where you think it’s going

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Swimsuit pic from 27 December 2021 shamelessly set as profile pic, 2 pin plugs not visible because they were on the same wall as the mirror!

Location of photo: the northern edge of Tenerife

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I think it's the reflection in the mirror of the Gideon's Bible in Micronesian script on your left nightstand that gave you away as being fake, KC².

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over a year ago

"So many fake profiles on here.. what's your method of checking they are legit

Push for a social quickly.

Those that want to will come out for a drink/coffee

Fakes/time wasters/only kinda interested will suddenly go quiet.

Quickly sorts them out

A guy that pushes and pesters to meet is an instant turn off for me. Just comes across as desperate.

A woman that is so hesitant to meet for a quick coffee or drink just comes off as uninterested to me. There’s a say, if she wanted to, she would.

I actually wouldn't have the time to meet every guy I had a interest in for a quick coffee or drink on a whim.

If a guy can't wait until I'm free, then that just comes off as just needing to get his cock wet.

You assume every guy that wants a coffee/drink instantly wants his cock wet with you?

Dunno what kinda coffee dates your doing if that’s where you think it’s going "

The kind of coffee dates where guys don't argue for the sake of arguing and trying to come across as clever.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Swimsuit pic from 27 December 2021 shamelessly set as profile pic, 2 pin plugs not visible because they were on the same wall as the mirror!

Location of photo: the northern edge of Tenerife

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I think it's the reflection in the mirror of the Gideon's Bible in Micronesian script on your left nightstand that gave you away as being fake, KC²."

I think you'll find that's in Hawaiian, actually

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think in the first few moths of joining I got the wool pulled over my eyes a couple of times. But it’s not hard to spot - if unsure ask for a call or even exchange of voice note on WhatsApp to get around timing .

If they wont do either, it doesn’t really matter if they are real or fake, something is off and they will be hard work so they are best avoided.

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"The genuine people I've met off here have always used kik and you send live pics .. then you've for the ones who will say no they don't use it and ask only for WhatsApp haha classic "

We don't have kik, but are definitely genuine!

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By *anddXXXCouple
over a year ago

London

"Basic one to one chat shoud be enough however verifications is key

If not shown don't judge do homework and be wise

If shown click on the profiles listed and read there's

If they have none or username no longer on site then that's an alarm bell

Yes your right inked and it's not fool proof , but what I mean by one to one chat is other platforms of proof of identity and there are literally hundreds

For example the sleazy one kik

Takes 2 minutes to download

Takes 1 minutes to create username

Takes 30 seconds to swap username

Takes 15 seconds yo ask for a live face picture holding an object of your choice

If this is not possible

Takes 5 seconds to delete app

And two seconds to block them on fab xx "

This is a bit of fun, we also have a real life for 99% of the time and we try not to mix the two. For that reason we prefer to use a laptop not a phone for most contact. Primarily because we dont wish to be on call to everyone 24 hours a day but only when we choose to actually log on and into this part of our life. We have over 600 contacts, we have cammed with on Skype, if we had that App on our phones it would never stop chirping, instead we only show as online if we decide to actually open it on our laptap and log on each time. Kik is an App, it doesnt sit well on a PC based OS. It can only be run by also running an Emulator, which slows the computer down to a near unusable speed.

We deffo see a split in how the olders and youngers converse, phones seem to be the be all and end all for anyone under 40 and everything needs to get switched over to phones straightaway but not so much for the above 40's. As an aside, we are big cammers but never cam with someone who wants to use a phone as their cam, the angle of looking down the body at someones cock is uninspiring and a limited field of vision. Then there is the lack of being able to chat, type and cam at the same time whilst holding the phone in the optimum position means it's a no and a move on for us. Nothing wrong Gents with a laptop and a webcam, you don't need the latest Iphone to play with us dinosaurs. As for sorting out the whoppers, it becomes second nature over the years, everything from the pics, the time of day they tend to be on regularly (funny how these sites empty about 5 o'clock each day) to the all important verifications and more importantly the verifications, verifications, that's where most fakes fail.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

We are old school.

Step 1 decent non circular veris that are displayed (not foolproof but a start).

Step 2 check out the photos for consistency (amazing how many women’s boobs change size/shape/appearance). The power sockets thing is tricky though as we, for example, take a lot of our pics on holiday (tanned, feeling sexy).

Step 3 judge the message received. Can tell you a lot.

Step 4 a phone call. An actual chat to human beings. If they are a couple then a quick hi to both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many fake profiles on here.. what's your method of checking they are legit

Push for a social quickly.

Those that want to will come out for a drink/coffee

Fakes/time wasters/only kinda interested will suddenly go quiet.

Quickly sorts them out

A guy that pushes and pesters to meet is an instant turn off for me. Just comes across as desperate."

THIS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m honest I don’t see these fake profiles or many of them.

If it’s a couple that I suspect is just a single man, that’s fairly new and no verifications that wants me to travel to them (him) I’ll suggest a social near to me and the conversation soon starts changing. And stops when I say I have nothing to prove, and I have nothing to go by on your profile…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m more interested from a safety point of view than checking if they’re a time waster or fake profile. So I’ll go for someone well verified by profiles who are well verified themselves by meeting in person, not webcam. I’m only interested in, in person meets not camming. Not everyone who cams meets in person so I’m looking for in person Veris.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Verifications by meetings and check who verified them and if they are also verified. Photo verified and to a lesser extent silver site supporters.

Vibe check them in messages too, people will give themselves away if you pay attention. If I'm unsure I'll push some buttons and see how they react too.

Some people come across a bit weird because that's just who they are and that's fine, some people come across weird because they're trying to hide something.

So in short, verifications and pay attention to their behaviour and what they say. If they're fake it won't line up.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"We are old school.

Step 1 decent non circular veris that are displayed (not foolproof but a start).

Step 3 judge the message received. Can tell you a lot.

Step 4 a phone call. An actual chat to human beings. If they are a couple then a quick hi to both."

What do you mean by non circular? Are there groups of fakes out there that verify themselves?

Can’t say I’ve ran into many fake single women, but couples where it’s just a guy aren’t uncommon

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We won’t meet anyone who doesn’t have a certificate of authenticity from the Swingers Union of Great Britain and Northern Ireland.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will they send me asshole pics? If the answer is no they are fake.

I find they are usually easy to spot because they have large dicks and small nipples in no particular order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will they send me asshole pics? If the answer is no they are fake.

I find they are usually easy to spot because they have large dicks and small nipples in no particular order. "

Check your inbox

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No idea! Not come across any fake accounts that I know of! All the peeps I've met are who they say they are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of fake women's profiles in here, mainly set up by dare I say it...gay or bi men that struggle to get any action and get off having sex chat with a guy.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"We are old school.

Step 1 decent non circular veris that are displayed (not foolproof but a start).

Step 3 judge the message received. Can tell you a lot.

Step 4 a phone call. An actual chat to human beings. If they are a couple then a quick hi to both.

What do you mean by non circular? Are there groups of fakes out there that verify themselves?

Can’t say I’ve ran into many fake single women, but couples where it’s just a guy aren’t uncommon "

People veri themselves through multiple fake fab accounts they’ve set up using different email and ip addresses

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Reverse image searches. Checking verifications and the people those verifications came from.

LvM

What's the best reverse image app? "

I use photo Sherlock

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"The genuine people I've met off here have always used kik and you send live pics .. then you've for the ones who will say no they don't use it and ask only for WhatsApp haha classic

We're fake then

Looks like I am too then, and I’ve successfully managed to fool 12 couples and individuals by not being me when I met them in person and subsequently receiving their veris.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We chat and chat to people and mainly about none sexual stuff.

So s out the picture collectors and the people who aren’t meeting.

Only the determined survive…if they get through the chatting part we meet for a social.

We’ve never (knowingly) encountered a fake profile though…

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Visiting Scotland

What do you mean by non circular? Are there groups of fakes out there that verify themselves?

Can’t say I’ve ran into many fake single women, but couples where it’s just a guy aren’t uncommon "

Where one guy gets a genuine (usually cam) veri then uses that to verify fake accounts.

We encountered one where the guy got a cam veri.

He then verified a couple. That couple verified another couple. There was also two single female accounts (who had a FB they could bring) in the mix of circular veris as well.

After chatting to both the single guy and one of the couples they all, somewhat peculiarly, made the exact same grammatical and spelling error on multiple occasions. In exactly the same way every time.

It was very clearly one person running all of the profiles.

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over a year ago

What do you mean by non circular? Are there groups of fakes out there that verify themselves?

Can’t say I’ve ran into many fake single women, but couples where it’s just a guy aren’t uncommon

Where one guy gets a genuine (usually cam) veri then uses that to verify fake accounts.

We encountered one where the guy got a cam veri.

He then verified a couple. That couple verified another couple. There was also two single female accounts (who had a FB they could bring) in the mix of circular veris as well.

It was very clearly one person running all of the profiles.

How on earth did they keep track? I struggle sometimes having a single's profile and also one with my partner.

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Visiting Scotland

What do you mean by non circular? Are there groups of fakes out there that verify themselves?

Can’t say I’ve ran into many fake single women, but couples where it’s just a guy aren’t uncommon

Where one guy gets a genuine (usually cam) veri then uses that to verify fake accounts.

We encountered one where the guy got a cam veri.

He then verified a couple. That couple verified another couple. There was also two single female accounts (who had a FB they could bring) in the mix of circular veris as well.

It was very clearly one person running all of the profiles.

How on earth did they keep track? I struggle sometimes having a single's profile and also one with my partner. "

Not a clue! I’m the same with the solo and joint profiles being more than enough!

Wouldn’t have twigged except he suggested something ridiculous (parking his car here and driving my other half’s car back from a meet so they could split the driving as it was far - we’d never even met him with a social). When we declined he sent a picture of another woman that could play instead, but only at ours, then a few days later sent a pic of yet another woman…

It struck us as so odd that we went properly digging around because every scenario he came up with involved him coming to ours at least briefly and clocked the veri circle.

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over a year ago

What do you mean by non circular? Are there groups of fakes out there that verify themselves?

Can’t say I’ve ran into many fake single women, but couples where it’s just a guy aren’t uncommon

Where one guy gets a genuine (usually cam) veri then uses that to verify fake accounts.

We encountered one where the guy got a cam veri.

He then verified a couple. That couple verified another couple. There was also two single female accounts (who had a FB they could bring) in the mix of circular veris as well.

It was very clearly one person running all of the profiles.

How on earth did they keep track? I struggle sometimes having a single's profile and also one with my partner.

Not a clue! I’m the same with the solo and joint profiles being more than enough!

It struck us as so odd that we went properly digging around because every scenario he came up with involved him coming to ours at least briefly and clocked the veri circle. "

Good grief!!! Sounds like he was getting himself in a right pickle. You dodged a bullet from the sound of it.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Can’t say I’ve ran into many fake single women, but couples where it’s just a guy aren’t uncommon

Where one guy gets a genuine (usually cam) veri then uses that to verify fake accounts."

I thought fab guarded against that? A guy tried to verify my (Jack) single account once, but because he was on the sofa next to me, it wouldn't go through.

Are you talking about one guy falsely verifying numerous accounts he set up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t say I’ve ran into many fake single women, but couples where it’s just a guy aren’t uncommon

Where one guy gets a genuine (usually cam) veri then uses that to verify fake accounts.

I thought fab guarded against that? A guy tried to verify my (Jack) single account once, but because he was on the sofa next to me, it wouldn't go through.

Are you talking about one guy falsely verifying numerous accounts he set up?"

I had that problem with someone too. Both couldn't verify each other through the same network.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only good thing about kik it's not about pic collecting it's that it's a live pic taken there and then.. level of fake profiles on here is high recently "

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

When it doesn't get loads of verifications in a few hours, then gets deleted the next day

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Visiting Scotland

"Can’t say I’ve ran into many fake single women, but couples where it’s just a guy aren’t uncommon

Where one guy gets a genuine (usually cam) veri then uses that to verify fake accounts.

I thought fab guarded against that? A guy tried to verify my (Jack) single account once, but because he was on the sofa next to me, it wouldn't go through.

Are you talking about one guy falsely verifying numerous accounts he set up?"

Yes. Exactly that.

You can’t verify while you’re both on the same network, but there are ways round it.

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Visiting Scotland

What do you mean by non circular? Are there groups of fakes out there that verify themselves?

Can’t say I’ve ran into many fake single women, but couples where it’s just a guy aren’t uncommon

Where one guy gets a genuine (usually cam) veri then uses that to verify fake accounts.

We encountered one where the guy got a cam veri.

He then verified a couple. That couple verified another couple. There was also two single female accounts (who had a FB they could bring) in the mix of circular veris as well.

It was very clearly one person running all of the profiles.

How on earth did they keep track? I struggle sometimes having a single's profile and also one with my partner.

Not a clue! I’m the same with the solo and joint profiles being more than enough!

It struck us as so odd that we went properly digging around because every scenario he came up with involved him coming to ours at least briefly and clocked the veri circle.

Good grief!!! Sounds like he was getting himself in a right pickle. You dodged a bullet from the sound of it. "

We really did!

He’s still here though. And funnily enough one of his couple accounts has a couple “met the male half” veris. So it works for him

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

If they turn up you can pretty much guarantee they are legit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they turn up you can pretty much guarantee they are legit

You never really know until you know, you know.

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By *anddXXXCouple
over a year ago

London

Here's a typical example.

Received a wink from this account. Joined 6 days ago.

NorthLondonFun91

Reverse search the blowjob pic, it gives 5 pages on google of sites the pic is being used. In languages that range from English to what looks Russian and Arabic.

Either the poster is lying

or he is well travelled and his cock is famous the world over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have tits and answer your message.. not real.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"So many fake profiles on here.. what's your method of checking they are legit "

If they seem too keen or reply to any of my messages they are fake

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Gut instinct plus

Reverse image search, verifications, the way they communicate/promises they make.

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By *hechairman18Man
over a year ago

Salford Quays , Manchester

I Organise and Host GangBangs, in Manchester.

I sometimes get requests from guys, to organise one for his wife/girlfriend.

Usually she wants 6-8-10 guys.

When I ask to speak to the lady,to confirm, this is what she wants, she, has just gone to bed, at work, or very shy, and doesn't like speaking on the phone.

Then I check what time the msg was sent.

It's usually about 3am.

Just the time a guy working on nights, will be having his break.

Needless to say, that's the end for me.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"The genuine people I've met off here have always used kik and you send live pics .. then you've for the ones who will say no they don't use it and ask only for WhatsApp haha classic "

I hate kik and will rarely cam so you would reason that I'm fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ask them "

Bumping my own answer to feel good about myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we personally don’t use kik or whatsapp, whenever we deny either we get told we’re fake lol, we are genuine and we prefer to just do our verifying over snapchat

personally feel like too much pic collecting goes on when we’ve ever moved to kik so it’s put us off!"

We have had bad experiences on both what's app and Kik, so don't use them now. Plus what's app means they can see you number, sorry but I don't want a message popping through whole I'm in a meeting at work, or anyone having my number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry 'while'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reverse image searches. Checking verifications and the people those verifications came from.

LvM"

This if they're decent verifications from well established accounts it speaks for itself.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

They're all legit! Surely nobody would tell lies about themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's a typical example.

Received a wink from this account. Joined 6 days ago.

NorthLondonFun91

Reverse search the blowjob pic, it gives 5 pages on google of sites the pic is being used. In languages that range from English to what looks Russian and Arabic.

Either the poster is lying

or he is well travelled and his cock is famous the world over."

Lol, You Can just tell on some of the pics, I don't see the point for them doing this, were not stupid are we?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Reverse image searches. Checking verifications and the people those verifications came from.

LvM

This if they're decent verifications from well established accounts it speaks for itself."

One of the first people I met had (at the time) over 100 verifications. I figured less likely to be fake than one with less. Afterwards, it probably gave me some credibility - because someone with lots of verifications is probably less likely to compromise their account by lying about me. (It's all a matter of probabilities, though)

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

"So many fake profiles on here.. what's your method of checking they are legit "

If the profile says genuine , that’s good enough for me.

I’m a very trusting person

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I only have video call before meeting. Most fakes don’t bother with this I find. Or if they do and it’s a dude pulling his plonker. Just end it and block number / profile

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

They don't want to meet me

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By *urvy123babeWoman
over a year ago

cambridge

Ask for a pic of them holding a spoon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they email me first. Fake!!!

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We can easily spot a fake message …it’s in our inbox

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